Loves me Loves me not

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Thanks very much keshav for that I actually called the editior and he edited that for me.I got so terrified .anyway thanks for the support
 
poonam said:

But actually I agree with Kamal!

It’s a kind of ‘cruel’ triangle and very much situation specific. Its not only ‘love’ which is the decisive factor but many others in a real life situation which is much more intricate and dynamic than just a hypothetical clean situation with two clear options. It is simple to justify/debate either of the options on a tranquil paper but tough in the real fluid life. Both are important (Amit, spelling theek sae?..;) .:D LOL) though according to me..:)

P.S. mere bhi moddya ka asar ho liya...:D
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batiyee... aangrejii.. ke maaster Mr. Palekar... he he he... (na na.. choo me na aave...na to mooncchh deh padangi..):D :p

"cruel triangle" ----- dekhyaa... shynyaa ne ee samaj aaya karee.. isi isi baat... ;)
 
ritu said:
Thanks very much keshav for that I actually called the editior and he edited that for me.I got so terrified .anyway thanks for the support
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LOL ...ritu ji.. aap to nue biraan ho rhye so....... take it easy..:)
aade... kise ke bhi isa mind konya... mind karan ne... :D
 
desijat said:
1 . morals ache ho, family cultured ho, apne roots se attached dil se desi jats, respect here has nothing to do with financial status*.

2. Sunder: gori lambi, jo ghar mein chale to ronak aa jaye.

3. Padhi likhi, matlab well educated in whatever field it might be.

4. Homemaker matab jo ghar sambhalna janti ho, how to please everyone, respect my parents and every family member and for whom home is a priority than work. :)
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Dear Vikas,

I am happy to read your thoughts. What your mother said is no different than what all mothers want for their children, even mine said so. But let us take the discussion forward and I am not doing it to test or corner you but just to get to a logical conclusion.

After reading your answers, my next question is: Do you really believe that in todays world you will find 'A Girl' having ALL that you want? (Though I wish you find one with much more)

Next issue is morals & culture. Who defines what is right & wrong? And in any case what is RIGHT & WRONG?

Educated is understood. But education should also include tolerance, wisdom & respect. But may be that today's girl would also want to work. Why stop her from doing that? If one still enjoys living in a joint family, it becomes that much easier for a woman to work.

Regards,

JS Malik
 
People love US because we DESERVE that love....simple, so we must regard someone's feeling to some extent....ye nahin ke koi bhi aira gira nathu khaira aaye ki he/she loves us and we get carried away....but we must give a chance and if found suitable then why not love a person who loves you after finding some qualities in you?

ritu said:
The person whom I love will be definately more important to me because I might have seen some qualities in him or her which made me to love him or her.who knows about the person who loves you he or she might be some useless person without any values.we r talking about love not sympathy.Itdoes not make anysense to me just to love somebody because he or she loves u.
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Suneet bhai kade shah ruk khan ki film dekh kay ya thread gaad di aade ??? isi boli baat uski film mein hi paave hai .. saari choriya ka naas kar rakhya say ussss dum nay.... anyway as far as m concerned 'll go for one i luv coz its not bad to b selfish sometimes :rolleyes:
 
Dono ko rakh le bhai kyon dukhi ho raha sai

suneet_rana said:
If two persons are not same in your life. Who would be the more important for u:
- the one whom u love madly and
- second one that who loves u madly

Pleas reply with a strong reason.[/]
Bhai mein to donu e rakh loonga jiste mein payar kroon usne chod nahi sakta to kyon jaan doon are jo mere tein payar kare wah manne chod ke kade jaagi so apna to yo he man na sai ek dono haath ghee mein aur sir kadhai mein hona chaiye
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Rahul Bhai,

Have u seen Kuch-Kuch Hota Hai ? Usme Shahrukh Rani ko chhoose use karta hia kyo wo use pyaar karta hia Kajol ko nahi.

But this was the wordt part of movie that jab Rani Nahi To Kajol Hi Sahi.......

That's why i do not like that movie.

Or Mera manana to hai ki jo mujhe pyar nahi karta ya pasand nahi karta mai use kabhi pyar nahi kar sakta haa shuru me ek tarak ka attraction ho sakta hai but jab mujhe pata chalega ki wo mujhe pasand/pyar nahi karta then wo attraction bhi na rahega.....

One who does not care for me then why should I ??? Just go to hell... :)


Mera to Manana Yahi hia.......................
 
suneet_rana said:
Rahul Bhai,

Have u seen Kuch-Kuch Hota Hai ? Usme Shahrukh Rani ko chhoose use karta hia kyo wo use pyaar karta hia Kajol ko nahi.

But this was the wordt part of movie that jab Rani Nahi To Kajol Hi Sahi.......

That's why i do not like that movie.

Or Mera manana to hai ki jo mujhe pyar nahi karta ya pasand nahi karta mai use kabhi pyar nahi kar sakta haa shuru me ek tarak ka attraction ho sakta hai but jab mujhe pata chalega ki wo mujhe pasand/pyar nahi karta then wo attraction bhi na rahega.....

One who does not care for me then why should I ??? Just go to hell... :)


Mera to Manana Yahi hia.......................
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Kyonki Kajol wasnt half as hot as Kajol then I guess. Anyways I also think its the worst movie I ever saw.
 
suneet_rana said:
Rahul Bhai,

Have u seen Kuch-Kuch Hota Hai ? Usme Shahrukh Rani ko chhoose use karta hia kyo wo use pyaar karta hia Kajol ko nahi.

But this was the wordt part of movie that jab Rani Nahi To Kajol Hi Sahi.......

That's why i do not like that movie.

Or Mera manana to hai ki jo mujhe pyar nahi karta ya pasand nahi karta mai use kabhi pyar nahi kar sakta haa shuru me ek tarak ka attraction ho sakta hai but jab mujhe pata chalega ki wo mujhe pasand/pyar nahi karta then wo attraction bhi na rahega.....

One who does not care for me then why should I ??? Just go to hell... :)


Mera to Manana Yahi hia.......................
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yeah i have watched tht movie... didnt liked it a bit myslf not coz of wat u said but coz i cant watch a fully grown man cry for 3 hrs straight, he's a lil girl traped inside a man's body but thts not the point. wat i earlier said tht thrs no harm in being a bit selfish .... and the movie proves it :D mara bata pure sawad say lay gaya pitchkar mein :p
 
Bhai Sumit,
very gud question :)

But tecnically I wud say ur questions itself is wrong :p :rolleyes:

Either u luv someone badly or someone luvs u badly, is not true luv its all infatuation & attraction!

True luv is what in which emotional spectrum & frequency of mind matches & both luvers do luv each other truly, madly deeply!

Dhayal is also right, Real Pyaar hamesa takrar se suru hota hai & pyaar kiya nahi jaata ho jaata hai....so u never know when u fall in luv ;)

So all in all if both soulmates luv eachother deeply with equal commitment, respect, faithfully then only its true eternal luv!!

thats all I believe!

Rock on
Jit
 
ooooo JITTEeeee

nice to see u after a long break....
Don't have to say about this topic.As far as my view is concerned, Love is like a puzzle which will be more complicated whenever u will try to express it. Love is easy to feel but difficult to express .
cooljat said:
Bhai Sumit,
very gud question :)

But tecnically I wud say ur questions itself is wrong :p :rolleyes:

Either u luv someone badly or someone luvs u badly, is not true luv its all infatuation & attraction!

True luv is what in which emotional spectrum & frequency of mind matches & both luvers do luv each other truly, madly deeply!

Dhayal is also right, Real Pyaar hamesa takrar se suru hota hai & pyaar kiya nahi jaata ho jaata hai....so u never know when u fall in luv ;)

So all in all if both soulmates luv eachother deeply with equal commitment, respect, faithfully then only its true eternal luv!!

thats all I believe!

Rock on
Jit
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Actually jaruri nahi hia ke pyaar takrar se hi shuru ho..... Meri kafi girls se takraar hoti thi but koi pyar nahi hu na unhe or na mujhe....... or jisse meri takraan nahi hui mujhe usse pyaar ho gaya..:) :) .

mera to manana hai ki love me thoda bahut part to infactuation or attraction ka bhi hota hia.

Ye pyaar ki pahli siddi hi hoti hia.... Agsra ye only attraction or infactuation hai to kuch time tak hi rahta hia it is a natural process and if it is love it will be for ever for him/her to whom u love..........
 
suneet_rana said:
Actually jaruri nahi hia ke pyaar takrar se hi shuru ho..... Meri kafi girls se takraar hoti thi but koi pyar nahi hu na unhe or na mujhe....... or jisse meri takraan nahi hui mujhe usse pyaar ho gaya..:) :) .

mera to manana hai ki love me thoda bahut part to infactuation or attraction ka bhi hota hia...
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Aachya re.....;)...daiki kar gya aaj te baat purri...wah wah bhai RANA saab...dil khussh kar diya aapne to...

to yahan tha purri baat/thread ka nichood........;)..pehyan bata de har ya ittni janta tanne bawalli kar di aare kasaai....hahaha
 
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Suneet manne tere tai itni shyani baat ki umeed to na thi par rog sa kaat diya kati....arr ghana matt takraar karya kar....mai bhi kam karungi ibb tai takraar madi si...ibb tai takraar tai bi darr laagan laagya manne....mai tai kati darrgi....


suneet_rana said:
Actually jaruri nahi hia ke pyaar takrar se hi shuru ho..... Meri kafi girls se takraar hoti thi but koi pyar nahi hu na unhe or na mujhe....... or jisse meri takraan nahi hui mujhe usse pyaar ho gaya..:) :) .

mera to manana hai ki love me thoda bahut part to infactuation or attraction ka bhi hota hia.

Ye pyaar ki pahli siddi hi hoti hia.... Agsra ye only attraction or infactuation hai to kuch time tak hi rahta hia it is a natural process and if it is love it will be for ever for him/her to whom u love..........
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What would you all say,if you realize A Very True Love of someone...he/she never said you a single word even there is no coversation between both of you...but all of his/her friends...seniors...juniors...know about his/her love about you...
 
who loves me

i would prefer a person who loves me a lot.
the reason is coz u can learn how to love a person from the other but you cannot teach a person how to love.
so learn how to love
 
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