i read many messages of so many jat people.well........i guess those people who feel proud to see mallika in a lead role haven't seen the promos of the movie.i have seen and MALLIKA is looking damn weird.wot i can say all is that......HEIGHTS.........the way she has dressed up and given weird shots one shudn't do it that way.as such i have nothing against her.
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malika sehrawat....shud we fell feel proud or embarassed?
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sanjaychhikara
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well if thats the case deepika we shoudnt be proud of her bec she is paying a big prize for her (maybe) short fame
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Hi
To begin with in any career there is lots of struggle.. I haven't seen promos of that movie but .. being in a profession , if we have accepted Mallika as an actress so we should be ready to accept her in all roles. Because , it is understood ... How the Hindi movies are becoming more and more open ... or what ever word you use for that.
Gone are those days when we used to hav Nutan and Nargis , .... We have to be positive about that. It may be that when I will see the promos I may not like but I have no right to discourage Malika. It is her decision and I wish she excell all the heights of Success and become number 01. Although it sounds ...... different that a girl from Jat family is doing this.
But Yes , she should be carefull about choosing the role and the kind of exposure......... Because talent doesn't mean ............... un necessary show up. If someone is talented , it will pay in future......
AnyWay .. BEST of LUCK to Malika
NEHRA AJAY
To begin with in any career there is lots of struggle.. I haven't seen promos of that movie but .. being in a profession , if we have accepted Mallika as an actress so we should be ready to accept her in all roles. Because , it is understood ... How the Hindi movies are becoming more and more open ... or what ever word you use for that.
Gone are those days when we used to hav Nutan and Nargis , .... We have to be positive about that. It may be that when I will see the promos I may not like but I have no right to discourage Malika. It is her decision and I wish she excell all the heights of Success and become number 01. Although it sounds ...... different that a girl from Jat family is doing this.
But Yes , she should be carefull about choosing the role and the kind of exposure......... Because talent doesn't mean ............... un necessary show up. If someone is talented , it will pay in future......
AnyWay .. BEST of LUCK to Malika
NEHRA AJAY
At one end (Indian End) .....It's not a matter of Pride as everyone knows what takes to be a heroine(abhinetri) NOW A DAYS in addtion to any talent required!
While at the other end (westernised end) this is being progressive........anyway....we are noone to criticise anyone's choosen career path!
While at the other end (westernised end) this is being progressive........anyway....we are noone to criticise anyone's choosen career path!
brainspeak
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hello all,
well i have seen the promos ...and as mandeep has said she is doing wht she is supposed to do.
well i have seen the promos ...and as mandeep has said she is doing wht she is supposed to do.
Hi All,
I think the question is, Should we feel proud or embarassed based on what kind of role she is doing in the film AND not that she is doing what she was asked to do.
I understand that we may need to struggle a lot to establish ourselves in any market but the question is... at what price ?
Her father stopped talking to her when she accepted this role. Is that good, not obeying your parents, espescially when u are from so reputed family ???
I think the question is, Should we feel proud or embarassed based on what kind of role she is doing in the film AND not that she is doing what she was asked to do.
I understand that we may need to struggle a lot to establish ourselves in any market but the question is... at what price ?
Her father stopped talking to her when she accepted this role. Is that good, not obeying your parents, espescially when u are from so reputed family ???
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deepika singhroha (May 06, 2003 10:00 a.m.):
i read many messages of so many jat people.well........i guess those people who feel proud to see mallika in a lead role haven't seen the promos of the movie.i have seen and MALLIKA is looking damn weird.wot i can say all is that......HEIGHTS.........the way she has dressed up and given weird shots one shudn't do it that way.as such i have nothing against her.
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Who are we to pass judgement on her? Who is anyone to pass judgement on anyone, especially when he or she or their representative is not there to defend?
If we were to discuss a certain profession it would have been okay to express views in favor or against, however, it doesn't give us any right to ridicule a person without their fair representation.
Shouldn't we be happy and share if someone has reached the pinacle of their life, be it an astronaut or a film actress? What is our business? And even if it were objectionable, she probably doesn't give a damn? These are very personal choices and people have the right to practice what makes them happy. She is not the first woman ever to go into this field, besides the Jat community has nothing to loose by a Jat girl venturing into a new horizon. I am sure as an adult she made a conscious discision and shall be able to live by it!
I don't feel proud or embarrassed. Its just a note of interest, just like the fact that Randeep Hooda, Pravin Dabas are also jats. Generally the film industry is very tough if you do not have connections, and compromises generally have to be made to the leeches that populate the industry in order to survive long term. Indian version of escort services are full of 'would be heroines'. For every one Preity Zintas, there are thousands of 'Mandakalini's'. Its an industry where even Miss worlds are chewed up and used. I seriously doubt that the girl 'with star in her eyes' made decision with cool and judicious judgement, but I wish her all the luck
Ritu Chaudhary or (Mahima) seems to be the first jat gal in the film industry, and the last one heard of her was that she was being 'ditched' by Leander Paes.
About 20 years ago (when I was 21), My father was very good friends in Bombay with a very well known film producer from his hometown in Bijnor and there was a suggestion once.....and my father said 'no' before the sentence could be completed, and back to studying chemical engineering for me..lol.
Ritu Chaudhary or (Mahima) seems to be the first jat gal in the film industry, and the last one heard of her was that she was being 'ditched' by Leander Paes.
About 20 years ago (when I was 21), My father was very good friends in Bombay with a very well known film producer from his hometown in Bijnor and there was a suggestion once.....and my father said 'no' before the sentence could be completed, and back to studying chemical engineering for me..lol.
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sonal
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everything is related to price and value. one has to make his or her balance. I personally, against it
I think as far as Malika is concerned , she has opted to go into films and you hav eit take it that way. I still feel she is doing good foehelf and doing wht her job demands. She must have taken her decsion before going into films.
I think We should be happy for her and her recgnition.
Rohit
I think We should be happy for her and her recgnition.
Rohit
gosh!!!!!!!!!!
i think its high time when one shud realize the difference between creative core of a person and struggle.she may b successfull at this point of time but till when...........her parents have broke up.....do u ppl think this price is right to b paid for that so called SUCCESS.its to easy to oppose someone but one shud have solid reason.those who r not agree wid me do they have sufficient reasons.
i think its high time when one shud realize the difference between creative core of a person and struggle.she may b successfull at this point of time but till when...........her parents have broke up.....do u ppl think this price is right to b paid for that so called SUCCESS.its to easy to oppose someone but one shud have solid reason.those who r not agree wid me do they have sufficient reasons.
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uday
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http://www.my-india.net/cgi-bin/n/viewnews.cgi?newsid1051261145,14321,
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artikundu
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we don't have any right to criticise other's people for what are they doing.
this is the biggest disadvantage that we are most interseted in what other's aredoing rather then what are we doing.
she is doing a great job and we shuld feel proud and afterall she is there with her own efforts so instead of letting her down we shuld make her more strong thro appreciation.it is ur freedom after all it is ur life and u shuld have full right what u wanna to do with that one.
this is the biggest disadvantage that we are most interseted in what other's aredoing rather then what are we doing.
she is doing a great job and we shuld feel proud and afterall she is there with her own efforts so instead of letting her down we shuld make her more strong thro appreciation.it is ur freedom after all it is ur life and u shuld have full right what u wanna to do with that one.
deepika singhroha (May 07, 2003 06:26 a.m.):
gosh!!!!!!!!!!
i think its high time when one shud realize the difference between creative core of a person and struggle.she may b successfull at this point of time but till when...........her parents have broke up.....do u ppl think this price is right to b paid for that so called SUCCESS.its to easy to oppose someone but one shud have solid reason.those who r not agree wid me do they have sufficient reasons.
It is really intersting reading comments of members on this subject. I agree with Sujata and Arti 100% that we have no business in passing judgements over what she is doing.Its unfortunate that Many talented Jat girls could not make it to the top in film industry just becasue of our prejudices. I am shocked to read commnets on her exposing or doing something which members feel is objectionable. Who says she got the role just because she is exposing ? There are thousands of good looking females in most big cities who will be more than happy to expose for film roles. It takes much more than exposing to act in a film. Even Nargis was paraded in swimming custume by Raj kapoor in one of his film in during the days when females were not willing to expose even their waiste..Still Nargis remained what she was..Filth is all in our attitude I suppose. How hypocratic we are when we clap for a hollywood heroine doing same thing and ridicule our own girl. Community should extend helping hand rather than ridiculing her. I fail to udersyand why we judge a person just by these trivial things? In a country where sex was never a taboo in olden days, people are trying to set their own moral codes these days. High time as a community we take broader outlook on such issues rather than just passing judgements. No one ever spoke of Rekha playing lesbian roles or Deepa mehta for all her juicy films....I am 100% sure, given the opportunity, our own Jat males will line up for nude roles..Then why so much of noise about Mallika?..I can smell islamic attidude among our people when it comes to treatinmg females...I am sorry if I hurt members' sentiments..
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abhishek
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It is her decision and let her face whatever comes.... as said none of our business to comment on what she does... there hundreds of them ...and what she is or gonna do is part of the business.
PS:and Mahima Chowdhury is NOT jat.. she is a bengali !!!!!!
PS:and Mahima Chowdhury is NOT jat.. she is a bengali !!!!!!
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