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chhavi

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There are plenty of matrimonial sites available on the internet to search a life partner with whom you can spend rest of your life.

I hope some of the couples would be lucky to get into holy-matrimony through these websites but I wonder about the Trustworthiness and Authenticity of these internet matrimony and the information a person share in his / her profile.

I believe the words written above in bold plays an important role for the a health of matrimonial relationships.

I invite my friends on Jatland to have their say on this issue and may share their experience as well!
 
JatLand is the Best

I think if we have to find a life partner on internet (as common now a days) then we should search only JatLand

JATLAND matrimonial is Best of the Best , because we would have blessings of thousands of elder JATs on JatLand & trustworthiness of JatLand as it has already well proven.

So All the very best for all JATs who are looking for a life partner.
If I would have to find my life partner online I will not go anywhere else ouside our own JATLAND.

JATLAND is Home of JATs, Village of JATs... & ... Universe of JATs

:)
 
Mr. Nadarya! I feel happy to know that JL is the BEST website for matrimonial search. And yes of course any one from JL would be blessed to have plenty of good wishes to embark upon new life.

I wish you could have also contribute some more views abt some of the fake people who just want to destroy a sincere efforts made by such sites to bring a pair made for each other.

I believe not all the persons who put their profile on these sites can be categorized as genuine who really are willing to fall into sacred relation.

Cheers!
 
chhavi said:
I wish you could have also contribute some more views abt some of the fake people who just want to destroy a sincere efforts made by such sites to bring a pair made for each other.

I believe not all the persons who put their profile on these sites can be categorized as genuine who really are willing to fall into sacred relation.

Cheers!
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Yes, you are right at this point.

Last year i met a person who is an active Jatland member. When i met him he was jobless since last six months or so. Few days later i came across his profile at Jatland Matrimonials. Wud you believe that his designation was shown as CEO of a company in Gurgaon with a huge salary package.

On that day i removed my profile from Jatland Matrimonials. :)
 
vijay said:
Yes, you are right at this point.

Last year i met a person who is an active Jatland member. When i met him he was jobless since last six months or so. Few days later i came across his profile at Jatland Matrimonials. Wud you believe that his designation was shown as CEO of a company in Gurgaon with a huge salary package.

On that day i removed my profile from Jatland Matrimonials. :)
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bhai jab tum mile the tab jobless tha to baad maie job mil gai hogi.. jobless hone ka to kuch bi reason ho sakta hai, ho sakta ho usne khud ki company saru kar di ho, to khud ki company ka CEO to wehi hoga !!
aur rehi baat fake ki to thode bhoot fake to har koi hai yeha par.. koi na dhood ka dhula, koi character ko lekar jhoot bolta hai to koi job ko lekar…
 
Common Problem..!

This is very common to almost all SNS (Social Networking Sites).

But this is upto you to get complete information regarding your soulmate.
Marriage knot is not as such that comes to you so expeditiously. It takes some time to know someone.

So despite someone prevailed some false personna you will get the reality if you will try to see beyond profiles. Communication is the key.

So, better to deal with it & that's with hope of getting the right one.

All the best
:)
 
chhavi said:
There are plenty of matrimonial sites available on the internet to search a life partner with whom you can spend rest of your life.

I hope some of the couples would be lucky to get into holy-matrimony through these websites but I wonder about the Trustworthiness and Authenticity of these internet matrimony and the information a person share in his / her profile.

I believe the words written above in bold plays an important role for the a health of matrimonial relationships.

I invite my friends on Jatland to have their say on this issue and may share their experience as well!
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can you be sure of the information middleman as in traditional channels provide?

in my case i don't find any problem seeking one through matrimony channels, since all i am concerned is education and his profile...and that i can make out merely talking to the fella and calling him on his desk no. in the company
 
Hope this thread going to be very long....almost endless..!

Kabhi kabhi aisa hota hai...but paancho ungli ek si nahi hoti hain. Us bhai ki bhi job lag gayi hogi baad me. Aur nahi to kya pata koi astrologer raha hoga jo apne future ke baare me likh diya hoga.......bhai future me CEO ban bhi to sakta hai.....see the positive side...us bhai ne koi chhota motta profession nahi likh ...sidha hi CEO...wah..I like it..!:)


Humko to sidhe sidhe baat karne ki aadat hai...

It has been 4 years completion of my B-Tech.
Pahle Private Job me tha to ye lagta tha ki Govt Job se achchha kuchh bhi nahi. Meri mummy bhi pure din pichhe padi rahti thi ...Govt Job dekh ...Govt job dekh.

Ab Govt Job lag gayi to ab lagta hai yaar Private hi thik tha...salery to badhiya thi...
Private me to bhai PACKAGE milta hai naa :)
Govt (PSU) me milti hai bus salery, monthly salery.

Ab hua yu ki jo bhi ladki pasand aati hai ....kisi ka Package 6-7 Lac se kum hota hai nahi......kisi kisi ka to 8-10 se bhi jyada....:)

Pata nahi ye package kaha se beech me aa gaya.
Ab to MBA hi karna padega.....:)

Nahi to kaha 22000 Per Month Salery.........aur kaha......7 Lac ka Package.

Isiliye apne ko apna matrimonial profile start karne me bhi thoda dar lagat hai.

Chalo jo bhi hai...sabki hogi to apni bhi ho hi jaayegi kahi naa kahi...koi kum package waali
:)
Take it lightly yaar...lightly
 
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crsnadar said:
Kabhi kabhi aisa hota hai...but paancho ungli ek si nahi hoti hain. Us bhai ki bhi job lag gayi hogi baad me. Aur nahi to kya pata koi astrologer raha hoga jo apne future ke baare me likh diya hoga.......bhai future me CEO ban bhi to sakta hai.....see the positive side...us bhai ne koi chhota motta profession nahi likh ...sidha hi CEO...wah..I like it..!:)


Humko to sidhe sidhe baat karne ki aadat hai...

It has been 4 years completion of my B-Tech.
Pahle Private Job me tha to ye lagta tha ki Govt Job se achchha kuchh bhi nahi. Meri mummy bhi pure din pichhe padi rahti thi ...Govt Job dekh ...Govt job dekh.

Ab Govt Job lag gayi to ab lagta hai yaar Private hi thik tha...salery to badhiya thi...
Private me to bhai PACKAGE milta hai naa :)
Govt (PSU) me milti hai bus salery, monthly salery.

Ab hua yu ki jo bhi ladki pasand aati hai ....kisi ka Package 6-7 Lac se kum hota hai nahi......kisi kisi ka to 8-10 se bhi jyada....:)

Pata nahi ye package kaha se beech me aa gaya.
Ab to MBA hi karna padega.....:)

Nahi to kaha 22000 Per Month Salery.........aur kaha......7 Lac ka Package.

Isiliye apne ko apna matrimonial profile start karne me bhi thoda dar lagat hai.

Chalo jo bhi hai...sabki hogi to apni bhi ho hi jaayegi kahi naa kahi...koi kum package waali
:)
Take it lightly yaar...lightly
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hmmm tanne yo sab apni matrimony add haade e den tiya likh diya?....smajhe hai hum bhi tere bhavanaayo ne....koi na ibb hadde te tanne sab profile de hi maara...koi na koi proposal jaroor likdega...kilkiiiiiiiii
 
vijay said:
Yes, you are right at this point.

Last year i met a person who is an active Jatland member. When i met him he was jobless since last six months or so. Few days later i came across his profile at Jatland Matrimonials. Wud you believe that his designation was shown as CEO of a company in Gurgaon with a huge salary package.

On that day i removed my profile from Jatland Matrimonials. :)
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Vijay Ji! I am happy that you are contributing towards a real time problem! Yes there are people who hide the reality and does want to share the truth. I believe a relation should not be build over weak base made of information which is not true!

I respect the people who share the way they are!
 
Seema Ji! For marriage people quite often take help of middleman, news paper and matrimonial sites.

The point is in all the above cases we may meet the fake alliance OR we may be lucky enough to find our soulmate!

The matter in discussion is a diploma holder will pose as an Er. OR jobless will pose as CEO OR monthly a fresher with a package holder of 8-10 lacs p.a.

The question is hiding the reality which unfortunately I consider is not good for any relationship.

Indian society does not give enough space for the truth, trustworthiness and authenticity. Poeple want to have alliance who is rich and no matter during the course of life every thing turns into a complete mess!

Best wishes

Now a days
 
Mr. Nadarya!

Look for a soulmate who would be able walk with you and accompany you during odds. She should become an inspiration and support no matter even if you are a government employee!

Let us respect ourselves the way we are and our ultimate aim of life should be peace and harmony.

Instead! we are growing materialistic each day and apply the same making a foundation which is not real!
 
chhavi said:
Seema Ji! For marriage people quite often take help of middleman, news paper and matrimonial sites.

The point is in all the above cases we may meet the fake alliance OR we may be lucky enough to find our soulmate!

The matter in discussion is a diploma holder will pose as an Er. OR jobless will pose as CEO OR monthly a fresher with a package holder of 8-10 lacs p.a.

The question is hiding the reality which unfortunately I consider is not good for any relationship.

Indian society does not give enough space for the truth, trustworthiness and authenticity. Poeple want to have alliance who is rich and no matter during the course of life every thing turns into a complete mess!

Best wishes

Now a days
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i guess you didn't read precisely what i wrote...
 
Some misguiding informations are every where.

Poeple,s are showing something extra at every place wheather in materimony site or by some middlemen, most of the time something or other is hidden hence everybody must be little more careful at the time of fixing of the realstion.

I belive in luck for the good relation otherwise those who are extra cleaver are fasing problems specially in this subject.
 
can you be sure of the information middleman as in traditional channels provide?

I can not be sure of course even for the middleman OR any other source!

in my case i don't find any problem seeking one through matrimony channels, since all i am concerned is education and his profile...and that i can make out merely talking to the fella and calling him on his desk no. in the company

I must congratulate you for the capabilities of digging the truth out! On the other hand people are quite smart and clever in this world!

I hope I have read now, if incorrect than my apologies for not reading properly!

Cheers!
 
skarmveer said:
Poeple,s are showing something extra at every place wheather in materimony site or by some middlemen, most of the time something or other is hidden hence everybody must be little more careful at the time of fixing of the realstion.

I belive in luck for the good relation otherwise those who are extra cleaver are fasing problems specially in this subject.
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Chahal Ji!

Misleading information and misguiding is a very serious issue which is growing each day! This is so very unfortunate for our socitey creating an insecurity among relationships and alliances!

Jhoot ki buiyaad par , Sapnon ka mahal
Aise rishtey par , Shuk har pal

Din-b din, aisa rishta rusvaaiyaan layega
Khud ke bune jaal main, fansta chala jayega

Best wishes
 
chhavi said:
can you be sure of the information middleman as in traditional channels provide?

I can not be sure of course even for the middleman OR any other source!

in my case i don't find any problem seeking one through matrimony channels, since all i am concerned is education and his profile...and that i can make out merely talking to the fella and calling him on his desk no. in the company

I must congratulate you for the capabilities of digging the truth out! On the other hand people are quite smart and clever in this world!

I hope I have read now, if incorrect than my apologies for not reading properly!

Cheers!
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i don't have as much of scorn as you ahve spitted here unnecessarily...in a milder manner:

I can not be sure of course even for the middleman OR any other source!

as far as i have seen middleman also provide informations like education, package, properties etc...

I must congratulate you for the capabilities of digging the truth out! On the other hand people are quite smart and clever in this world!

everybody has the smallest chunk of brain can get to see the badge one is wearing in neck...it's not easier to get a fake swap card of any company...and from the designation or the company one works with, you can make out how much and from where he could hav got the degrees...

it needs no extra gray cells genteel lady
 
chhavi said:
There are plenty of matrimonial sites available on the internet to search a life partner with whom you can spend rest of your life.

I hope some of the couples would be lucky to get into holy-matrimony through these websites but I wonder about the Trustworthiness and Authenticity of these internet matrimony and the information a person share in his / her profile.

I believe the words written above in bold plays an important role for the a health of matrimonial relationships.

I invite my friends on Jatland to have their say on this issue and may share their experience as well!
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Chhavi, gud topic to discuss.
Matrimonial sites, sections of Newspapers, magazines have both pro n cons... what I feel is more positive features than negatives.
Earlier social networking, person to person, used to be the only source for searching suitable match. Now in this todays world where social interaction n relations of individuals have almost become extinct,,,, Matrimonial sites, newspapers providing lots of information have become boon. It also widens the search prospect as one can always consider out of so many proposals. These means are bringing the information to your door without making much efforts.
But on the negative side, the question of authenticity prevails,,,, there is always scope of misleading information, false statements; so there's no point in believing them blindly on the face value.
The onus is that they provide you with variety of information, you can narrow down on few as per your requirements,,, but the most important is to verify all the given information, be it education, job, family background-which is very important, economis status(if its criteria for some) personally through reliable sources.
Seema is very right mentioning to confirm the job of the person by calling the office no. One can personally walk upto the office/co. also to confirm. But Seema, in marriage, there are many other very important aspects to be verified besides job n education, which no doubt are one of the most important ones.
So one should be careful enough to verify the facts before going ahead with the matter based on the given information on these various channels.
 
seemasindhu said:
i don't have as much of scorn as you ahve spitted here unnecessarily...in a milder manner:

I can not be sure of course even for the middleman OR any other source!

as far as i have seen middleman also provide informations like education, package, properties etc...

I must congratulate you for the capabilities of digging the truth out! On the other hand people are quite smart and clever in this world!

everybody has the smallest chunk of brain can get to see the badge one is wearing in neck...it's not easier to get a fake swap card of any company...and from the designation or the company one works with, you can make out how much and from where he could hav got the degrees...

it needs no extra gray cells genteel lady
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Thanks for you wonderful contribution and I salute your words!

cheers!
 
A person who plants a bomb in an innocent crowd of thousands and a person who jumps into fire to bring out any stranger out of the fire – both are the two faces of humanity! Human beings are meant to be of all kinds, but when someone is at the receiving end, then he becomes overly conscious about what he is about to receive and what will be the effect of the things which he is about to receive. And coming to marriage, in Indian context, it is a lifelong irreversible deal! Then generally the people overlook what they are and what they deserve and they just get tempted to put their best foot forward so as to be able strike a highly profitable deal!! Exceptions are entangled with every walk of life and so is the case here too. There are people who are adamant to anything which amounts to picturing themselves as someone more better. Such people are principally against being postured as a hero when they are not, because they know it very well that marriage is not a deal, it’s a very special bonding that can be healthy and grows only when both the partners are at somewhat equal platform as regards to their way of thinking, their way of looking at things and their plans to move on in life together!Now, when it comes to credibility of such sites, I would say that everywhere there are human beings and wherever there are human beings, there is a possibility of their being good or bad. And, there is no clear cut way out to judge anyone precisely, there are all types of people so there has to be exercised a set of some procedures like preliminary interaction and which has to be followed by some general interrogations with an open mind, that’s inevitable !
 
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