Matrimonial Websites

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Chhavi, gud topic to discuss.
Matrimonial sites, sections of Newspapers, magazines have both pro n cons... what I feel is more positive features than negatives.
Earlier social networking, person to person, used to be the only source for searching suitable match. Now in this todays world where social interaction n relations of individuals have almost become extinct,,,, Matrimonial sites, newspapers providing lots of information have become boon. It also widens the search prospect as one can always consider out of so many proposals. These means are bringing the information to your door without making much efforts.
But on the negative side, the question of authenticity prevails,,,, there is always scope of misleading information, false statements; so there's no point in believing them blindly on the face value.
The onus is that they provide you with variety of information, you can narrow down on few as per your requirements,,, but the most important is to verify all the given information, be it education, job, family background-which is very important, economis status(if its criteria for some) personally through reliable sources.
Seema is very right mentioning to confirm the job of the person by calling the office no. One can personally walk upto the office/co. also to confirm. But Seema, in marriage, there are many other very important aspects to be verified besides job n education, which no doubt are one of the most important ones.
So one should be careful enough to verify the facts before going ahead with the matter based on the given information on these various channels.
Dr Rathee!

Nice to hear from you and I apperciate your valuable wise words! I agree that every aspect has pros and cons!

The various sources for matrimony gives us an opportunity to search the best and it is upto an individual to judge the reality!

A profile can be misleading but not the personality! We as an educated people can easily differentiate between the truth and a lie but still we do sometime get trapped into false information.

I believe yes it needs an extra grey cells to reconginze a person in this smart world!

Best regards! Keep pouring your valuable words!
 
no one here talked of trustworthiness of the human in the role of groom/bride, all the discussion was about the material and physical information provided...

and so was my reply...

some people are in habit of blindly jumping on to mud slinging on the other person for setting some personal ego scores, unminding the credibility of the substance....my sincere pity to such creatures
 
A person who plants a bomb in an innocent crowd of thousands and a person who jumps into fire to bring out any stranger out of the fire – both are the two faces of humanity! Human beings are meant to be of all kinds, but when someone is at the receiving end, then he becomes overly conscious about what he is about to receive and what will be the effect of the things which he is about to receive. And coming to marriage, in Indian context, it is a lifelong irreversible deal! Then generally the people overlook what they are and what they deserve and they just get tempted to put their best foot forward so as to be able strike a highly profitable deal!! Exceptions are entangled with every walk of life and so is the case here too. There are people who are adamant to anything which amounts to picturing themselves as someone more better. Such people are principally against being postured as a hero when they are not, because they know it very well that marriage is not a deal, it’s a very special bonding that can be healthy and grows only when both the partners are at somewhat equal platform as regards to their way of thinking, their way of looking at things and their plans to move on in life together!Now, when it comes to credibility of such sites, I would say that everywhere there are human beings and wherever there are human beings, there is a possibility of their being good or bad. And, there is no clear cut way out to judge anyone precisely, there are all types of people so there has to be exercised a set of some procedures like preliminary interaction and which has to be followed by some general interrogations with an open mind, that’s inevitable !
Shweta Ji!

I am happy to learn some wonderful expalination with a real life example. Thanks for the valuable contributions!

I can not consider myself smart enough even if I posses an acdemic distinction. Because in real time in this high tech world of brilliant people, we need to get an X-factor in our personality to catch the truth!


Best wishes!
 
Dr Rathee!

Nice to hear from you and I apperciate your valuable wise words! I agree that every aspect has pros and cons!
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A profile can be misleading but not the personality! We as an educated people can easily differentiate between the truth and a lie but still we do sometime get trapped into false information.
I believe yes it needs an extra grey cells to reconginze a person in this smart world!
Best regards! Keep pouring your valuable words!

Thanks Chhavi.
Yeah profiles can be misleading....and we get trapped often in these just by going on the face value. So verification is a must, as one careless step here may have lifelong effects. And I agree that experience of age is more reliable at times.
 
no one here talked of trustworthiness of the human in the role of groom/bride, all the discussion was about the material and physical information provided...

Seema, One can never read the nature of a person,, its extremely complex. One can always act in those few initial meetings and never showing the real self. This is the biggest gamble. Few things can be assessed, at least one may get a broader idea whether wavelengths match wid the person or not... but I m afraid not much more than that. And in this issue, no website, no middle person can help. Perhaps middlemen if they are your reliable ones can be trusted,,, but at times they too hide such things or are not aware themselves.
 
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Seema, One can never read the nature of a person,, its extremely complex. One can always act in those few initial meetings and never showing the real self. This is the biggest gamble. Few things can be assessed, at least one may get a broader idea whether wavelengths match wid the person or not... but I m afraid not much more than that. And in this issue, no website, no middle person can help. Perhaps middlemen if they are your reliable ones can be trusted,,, but at times they too hide such things or are not aware themselves.
yup dids that's what i wrote...you missed on some castigating, fascist, hidden remark of someone here in whose respect i wrote it...read the heroic post of somebody immidiately above mines and you will know
 
bhai jab tum mile the tab jobless tha to baad maie job mil gai hogi.. jobless hone ka to kuch bi reason ho sakta hai, ho sakta ho usne khud ki company saru kar di ho, to khud ki company ka CEO to wehi hoga !!

Gud ! A new company got established within 3-4 days because there was no intention at that time except drinking and killing time anyhow. Well .... maybe a superman !

Anyways .... nice to hear that :)

No offence !
 
no one here talked of trustworthiness of the human in the role of groom/bride, all the discussion was about the material and physical information provided...

I wonder if you are going to ask him to show his salary slip or bank statement or photo copies of his academic and professional degrees ..... Just kidding ... take it easy :)

It's not that easy Seema... people can create a deceptive empire to show themselves as a King.
Here we are just asking and the verbal statements and/or call at office desk ( in ur view ) can prove that person.
Don't you see everyday so many frauds where the govt. agencies and private companies authenticates their every docment from the respective institutes itself and still they face frauds.

And a person faking about his/her material/physical information can never be a trustworthy bride/groom. :)
 
Thank you every one who are pouring their precious words and valuable time for this thread!

My best wishes to all and a humble request to be the one who dare to accept oneself and show the reality!

TRUTH IS GOD and let me be the one who walk with him as I respect his existence and his decisions for my life!

Regards
 
A person who plants a bomb in an innocent crowd of thousands and a person who jumps into fire to bring out any stranger out of the fire – both are the two faces of humanity! Human beings are meant to be of all kinds, but when someone is at the receiving end, then he becomes overly conscious about what he is about to receive and what will be the effect of the things which he is about to receive. And coming to marriage, in Indian context, it is a lifelong irreversible deal! Then generally the people overlook what they are and what they deserve and they just get tempted to put their best foot forward so as to be able strike a highly profitable deal!! Exceptions are entangled with every walk of life and so is the case here too. There are people who are adamant to anything which amounts to picturing themselves as someone more better. Such people are principally against being postured as a hero when they are not, because they know it very well that marriage is not a deal, it’s a very special bonding that can be healthy and grows only when both the partners are at somewhat equal platform as regards to their way of thinking, their way of looking at things and their plans to move on in life together!Now, when it comes to credibility of such sites, I would say that everywhere there are human beings and wherever there are human beings, there is a possibility of their being good or bad. And, there is no clear cut way out to judge anyone precisely, there are all types of people so there has to be exercised a set of some procedures like preliminary interaction and which has to be followed by some general interrogations with an open mind, that’s inevitable !

well said !! :) Kya tha yeh wesye :confused::confused:
 
well said !! :) Kya tha yeh wesye :confused::confused:


bhai bera na keke likh de hai... mere bhi ya grey cell(khopadiya) ki kami sei... kemme bhi palle na pada ke baat kar rahe hai...

narrey yai raandye hai ye jo bhi likhei hai aade mere kese... hahaha
par nu sie time sa paas ho jaa sei ek reading la keh nei... arr bhai mere tei majjak sujhe se saare post padh kei ne... par ke karu log rolla kardein se ... makka chup baithan mein hi bhaalayi hai...

arr samjha manya kar kimme bhi... yaday koi gyaan na bata bhai... saach kahu hu chaahe koi bura mane ya bhala... sab ND sei... bass ek reading maar liya kar roz... angrezi si tej ho ja gi thodi... mein tei nuve karu soon... hahaha


par bahi ya chhori sei na chavvi... sudhi bohat si... and i appreciate her calmness... chavvi bebe bahut badhiya apni iss trait ko banaye rekhna...
aur agar bade kuch gussa bhi kar jaatein hai thoda bahut toh sehen kar jao... bahut achhi aadat hai ye.
 
Well, Vijay!

I dont know whom ur talking about & how true is that!?! :rolleyes:

But I remember one quote frm a movie, Mind it! :) -

'जिनके घर शीशे के होते हैं उनको दूसरों के घर पत्थर नहीं फेंकने चाहिए!!!'

One more thing, When you point your finger on someone, Remember remaining 3 fingers point back on you!!

I dont know why you took it so serious ... many of members here try their luck on JL matri. just for FUN !!! So dont stress your brain & just take it easy!!


Rock on
Jit
Yes, you are right at this point.

Last year i met a person who is an active Jatland member. When i met him he was jobless since last six months or so. Few days later i came across his profile at Jatland Matrimonials. Wud you believe that his designation was shown as CEO of a company in Gurgaon with a huge salary package.

On that day i removed my profile from Jatland Matrimonials. :)
 
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Well, Vijay!

I dont know whom ur talking about & how true is that!?! :rolleyes:

But I remember one quote frm a movie, Mind it! :) -

'जिनके घर शीशे के होते हैं उनको दूसरों के घर पत्थर नहीं फेंकने चाहिए!!!'

One more thing, When you point your finger on someone, Remember remaining 3 fingers point back on you!!

I dont know why you took it so serious ... many of members here try their luck on JL matri. just for FUN !!! So dont stress your brain & just take it easy!!


Rock on
Jit
i agree...untill one meets the apt type, it's all fun and nothing much

plz pay heed to the bold...usually i am taken for a wrong because of partial interpretation
 
I dont know whom ur talking about & how true is that!?! :rolleyes:

Then why you posted this :) ..... there are thousands of other members at jatland.


Enjoy now ..... i won't post anything else to embrass people.
 
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Well, Choice is urs, I didnt invite u before either!! :p:rolleyes::p
Its a free forum, u see!!:)

mera to Funda hai - 'मौज करो और रोज़ करो नहीं पावे तो खोज करो!!':cool:


Rock on
Jit


Then why you posted this :) ..... there are thousands of other members at jatland.


Enjoy now ..... i won't post anything else to embrass people.
 
Well, Chhavi,

I remember one more quote frm Client Eastwood -

"Marriages are made in Heaven, so are Thunders & Lightnings!" :p


Waise, I wonder aaj bhi harischandra baste hein kya yahan??....so what u expect be it virtual or real world!?!?! You'll get misleading info everywhere, its upto you how you verify that!! :)

Arrange Marriage is like a Gamble, It either make ur life Heaven or Hell!! :rolleyes: So its up to you ... if ur willing to take this RISK! ;)


Its wicked world, u hardly n rarely find geniunely gud ppl, so in the end its ur Destiny that playes the crusial role, it decides what u gonna get...


Rock on
Jit
 
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