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"Karmanevadikaraste maa falesu kadaa chainah" Karm karo phal ki echha mat rakho...here is where the baiscs of detachment are explained in very few words. Just do your duty without thinking of results...you will be able to concentrate better and perform better...donot let your energy get diverted. Subha Chandji has explained it very nicely.
 
anilkadian said:
Respected elders
Everything is worth learning and living.
But still one thing confuses me, even in Geeta, that how one can move up in Life and career without motivation. for everybody the motivation is controlled by physical factors like wealth, status and more importantly by Relations which define duties. I mean if i come out of attachment with family then i will be neglecting my duties. When such duties are motivational factor for someone to move up.....then is it okay to practice detachment from so called 'nashwar' relations?
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Dear Anil,

Vaisay shubha chandji nay kaafi aacha samajha diya hai.

And if you want to take it further know the FUNDAMENTALS otherwise these questions will only confuse more.

Anyway to point you in right direction..

Phele Jaano the words you are using what is the meaning and nature of those words, Karm, Kartyvya, Tyag, Vairgaya etc

1) Karm aur Kartyvya Kya Hai ?? Kitne Prakar kay etc etc

2) Tyag kya hai ?? Kis ka, Kyun aur Kaisay

3) Vairagya kya hai ?? Kisko chodna aur Kisko Pakadna hai

Without knowing what to deattach from, how can you achieve deattachment. So what is that you are deattaching from. Inquire into that.

Aur Anil bhai, Gita at this stage will not solve anything for you. You may feel satisfied superficially but to fully undertsand gita you should know the basics.

One cannot graduate without going to schoool/college first.

Its like someone reading a PHD litrature in nursery.

Deepak
 
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antil-sunpatiya said:
Dear Anil,

Vaisay shubha chandji nay kaafi aacha samajha diya hai.

And if you want to take it further know the FUNDAMENTALS otherwise these questions will only confuse more.

Anyway to point you in right direction..

Phele Jaano the words you are using what is the meaning and nature of those words, Karm, Kartyvya, Tyag, Vairgaya etc

1) Karm aur Kartyvya Kya Hai ?? Kitne Prakar kay etc etc

2) Tyag kya hai ?? Kis ka, Kyun aur Kaisay

3) Vairagya kya hai ?? Kisko chodna aur Kisko Pakadna hai

Without knowing what to deattach from, how can you achieve deattachment. So what is that you are deattaching from. Inquire into that.

Aur Anil bhai, Gita at this stage will not solve anything for you. You may feel satisfied superficially but to fully undertsand gita you should know the basics.

One cannot graduate without going to schoool/college first.

Its like someone reading a PHD litrature in nursery.

Deepak
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thats what I have felt about GEETA, but u gotta start it sometime, from somewhere.
U r true 'One cannot graduate without going to schoool/college first.'
so, what can i say nursery School for me (If Geeta is a college).
I have read more books on positive thinking and attitude building n i try to follow the given things.
But strange thing is that Every thing works fine only untill u loose energy.
Being myself i have a tendency to loose energy quite frequently. Thats why i started thread with the concept of NEGATIVE ENERGY, which seems to be around, not in me, and overtakes the real me whenever i am low.
It is something like that u are winning maximum points in a boxing competition but as soon as u loose energy, even for a moment..u are out of competition.
 
Dear Anil,

What you describe is typical behaviour of Mind. It will always resist any change. You are aware of it which is a good thing.

I can give you few tips, which I'm sure you know already :) .

Try them for a week and see the results !!

1) Time is precious...use it wisely. Lots of time is wasted in doing useless things. In short priortise.

2)Avoid Negative situations and people...if you cant avoid them then accept them they way they are and avoid discussing any contervorsial topics.

3) Eat Healthy...No Fatty / Fried stuff / Sugary etc etc...try to have wholesome food.

4) Increase positive influence by having good and positive friends and read positive litrature, which you are doing anyway.

5) Go for walks or do excercise every day.

Chinmaya Mission in Lodhi Road (You can get the details from their website) have excellent programs and workshops on these topics, They do regular camps for youths. They teach FUNDAMENTALS and beyond, If possible and go and meet them.

If you need anymore information send me a message and I will be glad to help.

All the best.

Deepak
 
Deepak Has given nice suggestions and I add a few if that can be useful.


!. Everyday sit for few minutes in the evening/nite and recall your days activities.

2. Now find out if you did something wrong with someone and if it was possible for you to avoid that. If you find that you did something wrong fell sorry to the almighty and make sure you donot repeat it. Everyone makes a mistake no one is saint but donot repeat that.

3. Now assess if you have to face any such negative energy and if so why? you will get the answer easily and solution also...only thing is to work on that.

4. Did you end up in something that troubled you just because of your inner ego or personal belief...try and think logically...avoid taking discussions too much personally...look upon them from universal realities.

5. Think how much you criticise others un-necessarily and tall yourself that tomorrow you will not repeat it and will look for positive things too.

6. Now think about the productive work you did...and reward yourself by making happy gesture.


7. Now think about where you helped someone fell happy about it and thank God that you were able to do something.


8. In the end sit in silence thanking God for what you are today because of His blessings.

( think about the positive things in the end and better do it at night before you sleep but make sure that you donot enter the whirlpool of thoughts and start justifying your actions.

The whole process should take only few minutes.

I may help you.

Shamsher
 
Thanks again.....thats all what i can write here.
Deepak, samsher bhai.....just by reading the steps given by u both i am feeling more relaxed. somewhat like as if i have got a solution, though have not tried yet.
I hope more jatland members are reading this thread and learning the way to live and conquering one's internal killer.
What i have realised that there is no physical existence of those so called problems, the problems doesn't exist at all but we create them in our mind because sometimes we are not happy with present state. To feel that there is no problem is the best solution for the 'so called Problems'. To feel that there is no 'Negative' seems to be the best way so ensure that there is really nothing 'Negative' around (as shamsher bahi has indicated).
I hope we(not only me) will implement the suggestions given by all worthy members.
Regards
 
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