The Key is Motivation...
Dear All,
The solution is simpler than expected. The question is NOT whether JATS are intelligent or not intelligent, but whether we (Parents & Children) are aware of the fact that we are being left behind everyday by other communities in most parameters of development. That is the key. And if one thinks that we are progressing as per our potential, we are living in a fool's paradise.
We could only have more in the IAS cadre only when parents are ready to sacrifice their pleasures and children motivated enough to achieve the impossible. It is not the question of IQ. The other factors are hardwork, environment, access and affordability of study material, finances to take tutorials and a satisfactory family atmosphere. Believe you me, if parents are ready to sacrifice, nothing is impossible. "Manne peesay bhej diye bhai chhore dhore" is not enough. One also has to go and see whether the 'Chhora' is using that money for a useful purpose or going to a ladies bar!
Being a father of a son who is pursuing a dream that is at least 1000 times more difficult, if not more, I can tell you with first hand experience that if you support your child in pursuing his/her dream, they would never disappoint you. But sacrifices will have to be made by the whole family to chase that dream. There are no short cuts to success and the harder you work, luckier one gets. How many of us are ready to go to that extent is another story.
So DREAM and PURSUE it with all your might.
Regards,
JS Malik
Dear All,
The solution is simpler than expected. The question is NOT whether JATS are intelligent or not intelligent, but whether we (Parents & Children) are aware of the fact that we are being left behind everyday by other communities in most parameters of development. That is the key. And if one thinks that we are progressing as per our potential, we are living in a fool's paradise.
We could only have more in the IAS cadre only when parents are ready to sacrifice their pleasures and children motivated enough to achieve the impossible. It is not the question of IQ. The other factors are hardwork, environment, access and affordability of study material, finances to take tutorials and a satisfactory family atmosphere. Believe you me, if parents are ready to sacrifice, nothing is impossible. "Manne peesay bhej diye bhai chhore dhore" is not enough. One also has to go and see whether the 'Chhora' is using that money for a useful purpose or going to a ladies bar!
Being a father of a son who is pursuing a dream that is at least 1000 times more difficult, if not more, I can tell you with first hand experience that if you support your child in pursuing his/her dream, they would never disappoint you. But sacrifices will have to be made by the whole family to chase that dream. There are no short cuts to success and the harder you work, luckier one gets. How many of us are ready to go to that extent is another story.
So DREAM and PURSUE it with all your might.
Regards,
JS Malik