Only three kind of grief

[sanjaymalik]

Only three people feel grief .Mothers feel grief when child die. Grandmother feel grief when grandchildren die.Men in love feel grief when women die. No body else feels grief when someone dies. Women do not feel grief when men die. Men do not feel grief when children die. Children do not feel grief when siblings, parents or grandparents die. Grandfathers do not feels grief when grandchildren die.Friends do not feel grief when friends die.

other people feels loneliness when someone dies.This negative effect mistakenly belived to be grief.Loneliness is triggered by the absence of affection. When some close to you die, you imagine the absence of their affection.Imagining that absence triggers loneliness.

This is very much true in this materailistic world, have some others view also on this discussion.

Regard
sanjay

 

[anilsinghd]

Only three people feel grief .Mothers feel grief when child die. Grandmother feel grief when grandchildren die.Men in love feel grief when women die. No body else feels grief when someone dies. Women do not feel grief when men die. Men do not feel grief when children die. Children do not feel grief when siblings, parents or grandparents die. Grandfathers do not feels grief when grandchildren die.Friends do not feel grief when friends die.

other people feels loneliness when someone dies.This negative effect mistakenly belived to be grief.Loneliness is triggered by the absence of affection. When some close to you die, you imagine the absence of their affection.Imagining that absence triggers loneliness.

This is very much true in this materailistic world, have some others view also on this discussion.

Regard
sanjay

Is that your personal thinking or some research/work somewhere else ? If yes then can you please substantiate with logic or examples on how and why of things you said.

Thanks,
anil

 

[sanjaymalik]

Is that your personal thinking or some research/work somewhere else ? If yes then can you please substantiate with logic or examples on how and why of things you said.

Thanks,
anil

Francally i was going thorugh a book named as The origin of Emotions by Mark Devon, i read this in that book and find some kind of practicality as far as concerns in todays sanrio. because relation are only for namesake.

Regards
Sanjay

 

[anilsinghd]

Francally i was going thorugh a book named as The origin of Emotions by Mark Devon, i read this in that book and find some kind of practicality as far as concerns in todays sanrio. because relation are only for namesake.

Regards
Sanjay

thanks for the reference.

Kabir saaid :


chale gaye so na mile , kisko poochoon baat
maat pita suta bandhwa jhootha sab sanghaat...


Not sure on the reality /truth/practicality of the thougts!

 

[vineetaenator]

Dear friend
If u r talking about this materialistic world then you would also agree that now a day’s mostly ppl also don’t understand meaning of love and happiness too. It’s not only question of grief. That’s true ppl feel loneliness when someone die even ppl get married too because to avoid loneliness and have family and friends to avoid loneliness.

There is big difference b/w loneliness and aloneness which normally ppl don’t understand that. Even we can’t say it’s their fault. it’s just demand of this world. This is materialistic world as u know and everyone is so busy in earning materialistic things to maintain their status and known as respectful person in society because it becomes a trained that money is most imp then anything. You will find very less percentage of ppl for them money is just a medium to fulfill daily needs. Even there are abundant spiritual ppl also lives in this world who have inclination to improve themselves in spiritual way.

Generally ppl have fear to lose their near and dears .I don’t know its due to love or loneliness but I also heard when someone dies we get afraid unconsciously that one day we will also die. As per few this is the main reason we get upset. I don’t know its true or not.
But if you see there is a only one common passion which everyone have…., guess what’s that??

have happiness,joy
Vineeta..

Only three people feel grief .Mothers feel grief when child die. Grandmother feel grief when grandchildren die.Men in love feel grief when women die. No body else feels grief when someone dies. Women do not feel grief when men die. Men do not feel grief when children die. Children do not feel grief when siblings, parents or grandparents die. Grandfathers do not feels grief when grandchildren die.Friends do not feel grief when friends die.

other people feels loneliness when someone dies.This negative effect mistakenly belived to be grief.Loneliness is triggered by the absence of affection. When some close to you die, you imagine the absence of their affection.Imagining that absence triggers loneliness.

This is very much true in this materailistic world, have some others view also on this discussion.

Regard
sanjay

 

[akshaymalik84]

Sometimes we human beings caught ourselves listening to the sounds of our own voices, We thougth that in others eye we will be accepted as a good stature.But as we attach ourselves to our friends, loved ones and others more and more closely to them, we heard strange voices which are our own insisting on the soul's incurable lonliness.Then we think this is the lonliness that we can not give ourself but the sometimes the fact is We are our own.

Death is one of the few things that people fear most. Whether it is his own death or his beloved ones. But we should understand that "Birth is an invitiation to Death". And Death never takes a wise man by surprise because he is always ready to go.

People worried about death but why??
If you dont know how to die, don't worry, nature will tell you what to do on the spot.She will do this job perfectly for you, don't bother your head about it.

 

[annch]

A quote from my favorite movie- The Shawshank Redemption.
Red,"Get busy living, or Get busy dying."

 

[sunillathwal]

सौ दर्द हैं, सौ राहतें....

 

[aryasatyadev]

Francally i was going thorugh a book named as The origin of Emotions by Mark Devon, i read this in that book and find some kind of practicality as far as concerns in todays sanrio. because relation are only for namesake.

Regards
Sanjay

While talking of emotions or other issues close to our heart we tends to refer to the books/views of western authors and this sometimes creates problem for the whole society.......
In our country and specially in our society the families are so close knit that forget about the family members, we feel grief when someone who is close to us or known to us dies...... look around yourself, talk to your elders and somebody from your neighbourhood, they will vouch for this

 

[akshaymalik84]

While talking of emotions or other issues close to our heart we tends to refer to the books/views of western authors and this sometimes creates problem for the whole society.......
In our country and specially in our society the families are so close knit that forget about the family members, we feel grief when someone who is close to us or known to us dies...... look around yourself, talk to your elders and somebody from your neighbourhood, they will vouch for this

What kind of grief/pain will be that when two souls seperates not die?

 

[aryasatyadev]

What kind of grief/pain will be that when two souls seperates not die?

Nobody had understood that grief although everybody is trying to do so since time immemorial...... and it is nameless, happens mostly to both members of species...... but alas no name...

 

[akshaymalik84]

Nobody had understood that grief although everybody is trying to do so since time immemorial...... and it is nameless, happens mostly to both members of species...... but alas no name...

Hmmm....there are some things in life which are beyond our Knowledge and thinking.......still to be understood......