Parents or Love

If in between your love and your parents you can choose only one then you will choose

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ravinderjeet said:
boy : do u love me more thn ur family ?

gal : no

boy : why ?
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gal : okay listen dis..

when i started to walk i fell, u were not there to pick me up. bt my mom was.

when i went outside, u were not there to hold my finger. bt my dad was.

when i cried . .u didnt give me ur toys to play. .bt my brother n sister did.

my family iz more precious thn anythng else. !!.:)
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और सबसे बड़ी बात रविंदर जीत जी!
2 लाइनों में ही सब स्पष्ट हो जाता है कि
जिस प्यार के लिए कोई अपने परिवार को छोड़ने की बात करता है ..
वो प्यार करना भी किसने सिखाया?
माँ बाप ने....
बस सोच - सोच का फर्क है!
 
After spending much time on Jatland, I don't feel that I am spending quality time here.

Before we state anything, we should keep refresh our mind with references and definitions, what we are using in conversations. We can't make our definitions, but perspective.

On Love:

1. You can't have same kind of feelings for your partner and parents. So, you can't divide love in between these.
2. Its not necessary that you love your parents because you are staying with them.
3. Simple theory of love is, you have many kinds of love and these are unshareable and undividable, so keep your mind clear.
 
shivamchaudhary said:
After spending much time on Jatland, I don't feel that I am spending quality time here.

Before we state anything, we should keep refresh our mind with references and definitions, what we are using in conversations. We can't make our definitions, but perspective.

On Love:

1. You can't have same kind of feelings for your partner and parents. So, you can't divide love in between these.
2. Its not necessary that you love your parents because you are staying with them.
3. Simple theory of love is, you have many kinds of love and these are unshareable and undividable, so keep your mind clear.
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Shivan jee - या जाटलैंड.कॉम तह आपने घर की खेती स
- कोई भी टोपिक शुरू कर लो जिस मे भी आप का इंटेरेस्ट हो. I have found that sometimes the response that members give to a question is so much more insightful and interesting than anything else about the topic. For example look at your own response- it is soo good! - "keep your mind clear" as it brings quality in the discussion :) sooo true!

Regards,

Urmila.
 
riyaa said:
If in between your love and your parents you can choose only one then you will choose which one?
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Riya ji, isse "choose" karna nahi bolte isse ghar se bhagna bolte hain (in respectful families), n it looks so cheap if a girl is asking these things. But now if u have asked, someone should tell u strictly like a true well-wisher.

It is obvious that if u r asking than the boy will be from different cast (naaee ya kumhaar ya refugee punjabi milte hain jyadatar).

Believe me u will be in hell for whole life, your social life will be like animals, you will not be able to join any social function, any social gathering, u will not be able to talk confidently to new people also (kaheen inhe pataa na lagg jaaye).

your family will also be suffering all the above things.

your father will be in dipression for rest of his life.

You children would not be living a normal life, they will be "special" (downgrade) children. ("creamy" children in australia). They will be living like second citizens. (they must be).

And wat u r calling "love" will last just for 1.5 years (well known fact).

I am not telling all these things just by imagination, I have seen many girls from our community married to other cast "lovers". (few of them are on JL also, if u know them just ask them n see wat they say). They r just in hell. They die daily, they feel daily as they have lost eveything. (daily, hour by hour, minute by minute they feel this) (Believe me, I know them very well).

And do u know wat these "lover" boys will say after 2 years " u n ur family trapped me, ur father helped u in this". (Now u r gone from both side, maya milee na ram).
 
Riya ji, isse "choose" karna nahi bolte isse ghar se bhagna bolte hain (in respectful families), n it looks so cheap if a girl is asking these things.
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मैंने ऐसा क्या पूछा जो तेने घटिया लगा?? तेने पता है आड़े घटिया के है थारी सोच, तू मन्ने सिखान लग रे से के respected families के करती है, भाई जा पहल्ला सिख के आ के पब्लिक forums पर लिखा केसे जावे है,

It is obvious that if u r asking than the boy will be from different cast (naaee ya kumhaar ya refugee punjabi milte hain jyadatar).
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मन्ने उअडे लिखा की यह मेरी प्रॉब्लम है, थारे हिसाब से कल को कोई लिखता है की एड्स का इलाज संभव है तो उसको ऐसा ही होगा है ना..yo मेरी अपनी पर्सनल ना है..

your father will be in dipression for rest of his life.
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I lost my father 7 years ago..dipression nhi depression hota
hai..
I am not telling all these things just by imagination,
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फिर के पंडित बता गया मारे बारे mai तन्ने

I have seen many girls from our community married to other cast "lovers". (few of them are on JL also, if u know them just ask them n see wat they say). They r just in hell. They die daily, they feel daily as they have lost eveything. (daily, hour by hour, minute by minute they feel this) (Believe me, I know them very well).
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And do u know wat these "lover" boys will say after 2 years " u n ur family trapped me, ur father helped u in this". (Now u r gone from both side, maya milee na ram).
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I know this already, mr mann bina kisi ko jaane apni राय dena मुर्खता कहलाता है..
aapne अपनी राय दी बिना मेरी पोस्ट पड़े, सारे पोस्ट पढ़ लिओ दोबारा, फिर लिखियो
मुझे गलत लगा aapka समझाना और समझाने का तरीका
इसलिए जिस tone मे सवाल किये उसी tone mai maine जवाब दिया उम्मीद है पढ़कर खुशी होगी ..
 
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thodde din saans le lo n tum ...saare taria ke lova ki issi tissi kar di.katti dimak ki dahi bilo di....isse ant shant sawal pooch ke.reality me aisi options exist nahi karti hai riya ji.yu jeevan se movie koni.
riyaa said:
If in between your love and your parents you can choose only one then you will choose which one?
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2.Others wrote books to save their history , JATs wrote their in the DNA.
जाट दुनिया से अलग ना है

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thodde din saans le lo n tum ...saare taria ke lova ki issi tissi kar di.katti dimak ki dahi bilo di....isse ant shant sawal pooch ke.reality me aisi options exist nahi karti hai riya ji.yu jeevan se movie koni.
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Ritu ji maine toh bas samaj ki problems discuss ki hai ab us par sabko reaction ho tou kya karun..
 
ritu said:
thodde din saans le lo n tum ...saare taria ke lova ki issi tissi kar di.katti dimak ki dahi bilo di....isse ant shant sawal pooch ke.reality me aisi options exist nahi karti hai riya ji.yu jeevan se movie koni.
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भाभी ने सारी बाता का तोड़ कर दिया
 
riyaa said:
मैंने ऐसा क्या पूछा जो तेने घटिया लगा?? तेने पता है आड़े घटिया के है थारी सोच, तू मन्ने सिखान लग रे से के respected families के करती है, भाई जा पहल्ला सिख के आ के पब्लिक forums पर लिखा केसे जावे है,

मन्ने उअडे लिखा की यह मेरी प्रॉब्लम है, थारे हिसाब से कल को कोई लिखता है की एड्स का इलाज संभव है तो उसको ऐसा ही होगा है ना..yo मेरी अपनी पर्सनल ना है..

I lost my father 7 years ago..dipression nhi depression hota
hai..

फिर के पंडित बता गया मारे बारे mai तन्ने

I know this already, mr mann bina kisi ko jaane apni राय dena मुर्खता कहलाता है..
aapne अपनी राय दी बिना मेरी पोस्ट पड़े, सारे पोस्ट पढ़ लिओ दोबारा, फिर लिखियो
मुझे गलत लगा aapka समझाना और समझाने का तरीका
इसलिए जिस tone मे सवाल किये उसी tone mai maine जवाब दिया उम्मीद है पढ़कर खुशी होगी ..
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Riya tum to punjabi likhti thi..kisi thread pe abhi kuch din pehle tumne kaha tha ki tum haryanvi nahi samjhti..yeh haryanvi ekdum se likhne bhi lagi.???.yeh kaisa chamatkaar??
 
चमत्कार तो घने ए हो रहे हैं पर के करा जा मोड्डे आँख बंद करे पड़े हैं !
 
Riya tum to punjabi likhti thi..kisi thread pe abhi kuch din pehle tumne kaha tha ki tum haryanvi nahi samjhti..yeh haryanvi ekdum se likhne bhi lagi.???.yeh kaisa chamatkaar??
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jo jaisi language samajhta ho usko mai usi mai samjhana shi samjah ti hun..meri language se jyada meri bato par dhyan dae..

चमत्कार तो घने ए हो रहे हैं पर के करा जा मोड्डे आँख बंद करे पड़े हैं !
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shi kaha tabhi tou aap ya abhi bhi majood hai..
 
This could be a case study in this thread. Title of the news article says- A real life veer zara in jatland
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ROHTAK: A young girl of a Pakistani Hindu family living in Bahu Akbarpur village in Rothak district got married to a local youth despite opposition from her parents even as the villagers are in favour of their relationship.

Mukhtiyari Rani, 19, daughter of Pakistani national Meer Chand had been living in the village for about last five years. The family, hailing from Laiya in Multan of Pakistan, had come to India along with scores of other Pak Hindu families who alleged that they were being ill-treated due to their religion.

She fell in love with a local youth Virender Balhara, 25, about two and a half years back. The couple fled from their houses to tie the nuptial knot in an Arya Samaj temple in Delhi on February 6. The newly-weds who approached the police for security have been lodged in the protection home in Rohtak.

The girl's family however has lodged a complaint with the police against the youth alleging that he had lured their daughter. Though the police expressed helpless to take any action as the girl is over 18.

Rani told The Times of India, "Entire village including our families have been aware of our affair. When I expressed my desire to marry Virender, my parents objected to my affair and denied permission. We had no option, but to elope."

Her family comprising parents and three younger brothers are living in the village for last five years. While her husband, Virender, a middle school dropout, maintained that his family had no problems with their relationship. In fact other villagers too had granted permission for the wedding. "Rani's family has been against our marriage even as entire village was supportive. My family is happy and even came to meet us and also provided us homemade food in the protection home," he stated.

His father, Jai Singh, said they are keen to welcome the couple, but girl's family was still adamant. "I have been trying to persuade the family and hope that they too will approve the marriage"

Rohtak SSP however informed that the couple had been put in the protection home and cops have been provided to them for security. "Though girl's father has lodged a complaint against the youth, the girl has stated that she took the decision to marry the youth out of her own free will," SSP said


http://articles.timesofindia.indiat...546533_1_protection-home-entire-village-youth
 
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जब कोई प्रेम के पथ पर होता है
तब उसकी संसार की ज़रूरत ख़तम हो जाती है
प्रेमी अपने आप में ही एक संसार बना लेते है
अगर आप एक प्रेमी युगल के घर जायेंगे तोह वे आपसे बात करने में ज्यादा रूचि न लेंगे


जब भी किसी को प्रेम होता है तोह माँ बाप, दोस्त, समाज सब घबरा जाते है
उन्हें उनकी प्रत्मिकता जाती दिखती है
सब समझाने लग जायेंगे
ये किस चक्कर में पड गए
पागल हो क्या ?
आदि इत्यादि


बड़े मज़े की बात है की लड़का जिस भी लड़की को पसंद कर लाये
वो अची लड़की कभी होती ही नहीं
 
riyaa said:
If in between your love and your parents you can choose only one then you will choose which one?
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If they cannot/wouldnot/justnot/want not to live with each other, I would divide my time between the two. Meeri firkee toh ban ja gee but what else to do - they both are important to me :)
 
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