Principles of Jaat Samaj

[navingulia]

I have often raised this question. I feel this is an important question. Can the Jaat Society adopt certain principles which give us more reasons to be proud of ourself and also give a good name to our society. If i were to suggest some principles, they would be -
1. Avoid foul language. Abusive words shouldnt be used.
2. No dowry, honor killing or female feticide.
3. No extravagant marriage parties as show off of wealth. (we have picked this from punjabi culture. jat marriages used to be simple)
3. No alcoholism (atleast in public and as a nuisance)
4. We should work towards modern education for our children while keeping them aware, knowledgable to our roots of arya samaj and vedas.
5. Every Jaat should do something for his village and society.
6. Be firm on your stand and principles but dont indulge in cheap fighting, personal attacks and scene making.
7. Lot of Jaats feel proud to use rough language but if we see the jats who are educated or who are closer to arya samaj, they use soft language, so i personally would recomment soft spoken ness.
8. Always encourage, appreciate and motivate your children to do better, rather than ridiculing them.

These are my personal suggestions. People can differ.
Now the questions are -
1. Can we encourage a common code?
2. What all can be implemented in that code?

 

[navingulia]

ek adarsh samaj ka kya charitra hona chaahiye, ye to sabse pahla aur sabse mahatvapurna prashna hai. Aur ye prashna internet to duur, kisi bhi forum me discuss nahin hota.
agar ham apne aap ko ek jaat samaj maanta hain to is samaj ke adarsh kya hain? yadi hamare koi bhi adarsh nahin hain to fir ye samaj hi kya hai?
agar jaat samaj apne aapko ek samaj ki identity dena chaahta hai to uske kuchh adarsh/principles hone chaahiye.

 

[sunillore]

Yes!

I think if people come together from our community than its possible. We can make our reputation world over but i feel our jat samaj is going without any direction, without any aim. one/all should take initiative to grow us. Thanks and continue.

akele hi hoti hai har nai suruat!
shakti hai paas tumhare to jamana dega saath!!

 

[thukrela]

नवीन भईया
दिल की बात छेद दी आपने

मै एक बात और जोड़ना चाहूँगा इसमें - ड्रेस कोड

नंबर १ - सभी जाट भाई हाथो मे कड़े पहने, लोहे के गोल मरेल सस्ते से नही, ताम्बे के भरी भरकम एक जगह से खुले हुए
जैसे यहाँ चम्बल के राजपूत कानो मे बाली पहनते है, जो उनकी पहचान है

ताम्बे,चांदी या सोने के खुले हुए कड़े पहनने का वैज्ञानिक फायदा भी है, लिंक देखे
http://hinduismtheopensourcefaith.blogspot.com/2011/01/kada.html

नंबर २ - सभी जाट भाई जब भी किसी सम्मेलन मे जाये तोह एक ही रंग की पगड़ी पहन के जाये
केसरी रंग बोहोत जचेगा
और सब का पगड़ी बंधने का तरीका एक ही हो

नंबर ३ - धोती तोह न पहन सकते, पर सभी युवा भाई
jeans के ऊपर सभी एक ही रंग का कुरता पहने
ताकी जिस भी सम्मेलन मे जाट जाये, अलग ही दिखे
और इससे अपने भाइयो ने पहचानने मे भी आसानी होगी

आम दिनों मे कुरते व पगड़ी का रंग बदलते रहे

 

[thukrela]

खुला कड़ा कुछ इस प्रकार का होता है

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[tokas913]

whatever u said is good. But there is one thing that's a serious hindrance in our society i.e. ATTITUDE. we agree or not but just coz of "THIS" attitude that we have we cannot advance in any region. Sorry to say but "meine dekha hai 4 paise aatehi"
people's behavior change like ink in a water . we don't fight for each other but we fight among each other,
and the bad part is that there is no solution for this

 

[ashishsehrawat9]

Tokas bhai,i agree with ur point.This change is brought up due to the change in the enviroment of society & due to the influence of western culture.
Jaats of delhi especially have sold their land & now they have forgotten the basic aspects of life.They have forgotten their duties towrds the community & society.I think u must be from the munirka village if i am not wrong(tokas gotra )

This is not the case only with jaats.Gujjars & yadavs of delhi-NCR are also doing the same.Compensation paisa aate he ,vo us paisa vo achi jagha invest nahi karthe balki luxury cars,liquors & aur buri chijo mai sara paisa finish kar dete hai & after that they have nothing to do & they also havn't studied properly ,so they are also not able to go for any job...........
This is not the comment on any particular person ,i have written this as a general note that we are observing now a days.