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devdahiya said:
Neelam, why feel bad about it.If you feel it is okie to feel proud....its fine...no issues here.
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Sir, why to feel bad and what issues........!!!! It doesn't make any difference to me what and how people interpret a word, its their understanding, nor does it affect and change my understanding of concepts.
If I said no more discussion, that was for why to argue on this. jise jo theek lagta hai, wahi sahi.
 
anilsinghd said:
Ego is not a negative trait ( in psychology), although the perception of people is different!

Doctor , need some psychology theories here ;) please help.
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Anil, kya karen... individualistic approach ho gayi hain concepts ki bhi... ;).....theories kya help ker paayengi fir :).
 
1. Most of the members here at Jatland declare their pride on being Jat(s). Trust me they do... with all those Shank Nagaade and all. What's your say on that?
2. Could I safely say you are grossly mistaken with this concept?
sanjeev_balyan said:
1. Abhinav should feel only. There is a diff between both feeling and declaring.
2. Proud is negative emotion if it is shown by the same person.
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sumitsehrawat said:
1. Most of the members here at Jatland declare their pride on being Jat(s). Trust me they do... with all those Shank Nagaade and all. What's your say on that?
2. Could I safely say you are grossly mistaken with this concept?
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Sumit, Neelam Di and all other respected members on this thread
let me clear from my side first
1. I have never said that being proud on some thing, is wrong.
2. feeling proud on any acheivement by any body is way of celebration. it should be
3. topic of the thread is feeling proud only, but in some post it was said that i am proud of myself for so & so. so my view was that instead of declaring directly by the indl, it should be communicated in diff language by the indl. here i m giving an example , when India won the 1971 war, Indra said that Bangladesh is indipendent country now. meaning of this sentence is that we proud on ourself that we have won the war. Indira was the hero of that war and she could have said this sentence also.
4. we all r beating the same drum but from diff sides, however result is same. the same voice is coming.


I consider that many fellow members have been herted from my views in my prevoius posts. i m sorry for that and accept that there was mistake from my side also. i should not have used those words to convey my veiws. please exsuse me.
 
sumitsehrawat said:
1. Most of the members here at Jatland declare their pride on being Jat(s). Trust me they do... with all those Shank Nagaade and all. What's your say on that?
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Bang on! Would like to hear people's opinion on that !
 
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:confused::rolleyes::eek: ye bhi hona reh gaya tha :p

The author of the thread is precisely asking in clear words about why and when we feel proud and obviously he is asking about being proud in 'positive' sense!

Leave it apart, but its a very common statement that 'I am proud of my success in this & that " .. being proud about oneself is nowhere bad ! Indeed its natural and positive. If someone does something of magnitude then he is apt in saying that he is proud of that.

Its the thing which matters and not the word 'proud'. For example, 'I am proud of securing first position' and 'I am proud of killing my wife' are two different sentences but the first one is affirmative/positive and the second one is absolutely negative.

It is the thing we are talking about which matters and not the usage of the word 'proud'.
 
Feeling Proud of your self on some achievement is good. This need not be declared to others as it is very personal and you can be proud of even small achievements.
Most important thing is to tell the self that yes I am proud of myself.

In fact others around you should be proud of you. You should however express to your children, brother, sister, spouse and your parents whenever you feel that they have made you proud.
 
sanjeev_balyan said:
Sumit, Neelam Di and all other respected members on this thread
let me clear from my side first
I consider that many fellow members have been herted from my views in my prevoius posts. i m sorry for that and accept that there was mistake from my side also. i should not have used those words to convey my veiws. please exsuse me.
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It's okay sanjeev. :)
 
neels said:
btw...wats your opinion on this anil...;)
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Seems like you are bent on allowing people to have a go again on me ;)!

Anyways , I have no prudence on myself being a Jat. I am a human above all. A total egalitarian. And please see that i have very carefully chosen the word human for myself , so that i can use it when put in difficult situations :) ( I am conscious of a few coming ... ;) )

I am a strong believer in the law of averages so on average no caste , creed can excel the other , also i am of the individualistic approach , e ach person is unique and it is anything but wrong to categorise people and combining them with common traits. :)

That is precisely the reason I hate that continuing rhetoric of jats , jats and jats , there is life beyond that word too :)

Hope that helps!
 
Rmandaura said:
Most important thing is to tell the self that yes I am proud of myself.
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Though it might sound contradictory that i first wrote that prudence is something that i will not associate with me , and that is for precisely the reason that i am not comfortable talking about my achievements. A lil shy might be the right explanation.

But as the author quoted above has said , it is very important to keep telling yourslef of the achievements and acts that have put you in good shape.

I believe most things are self feeding , so if you can increase the passion for doing good , by telling yourself , Ok , that was nice ! :) , it is actually helpy!
 
vijay said:
Who is going to authenticate that if someone is 'declaring' then it is really a matter of feeling proud otherwise not.
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That entirely depend on u and i personally feel if the person doesn't have any idea about the work done by u i don't think that person will comment or appriaciate on that even if don't have enough knowledge on certain topic i don't make any comments on that, and importantly its u only who decides that this particular person's appreciation make me proud like in my office if my boss says that u did great work that makes me proud rather than my parents comments.

A common man have nothing to do with your personal achievements for which you dedicated your whole life and he is not going to declare anyone of your achievements as a thing to proud of. It's none of his business. While your close ones may always appreciate your every step and even may declare your every minute success as a thing to proud of. How can you distinguish the real thing to feel proud of between these declared and undeclared proud certificates.

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And u r talking about common man i think in this Olympics common people's love and their appreciation will really make our hero's proud. So its not like that common people doesn't have nothing to do, it depends on the kind of achivement.
 
nishantrathi82 said:
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That entirely depend on u and i personally feel if the person doesn't have any idea about the work done by u i don't think that person will comment or appriaciate on that even if don't have enough knowledge on certain topic i don't make any comments on that, and importantly its u only who decides that this particular person's appreciation make me proud like in my office if my boss says that u did great work that makes me proud rather than my parents comments.

A common man have nothing to do with your personal achievements for which you dedicated your whole life and he is not going to declare anyone of your achievements as a thing to proud of. It's none of his business. While your close ones may always appreciate your every step and even may declare your every minute success as a thing to proud of. How can you distinguish the real thing to feel proud of between these declared and undeclared proud certificates.

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And u r talking about common man i think in this Olympics common people's love and their appreciation will really make our hero's proud. So its not like that common people doesn't have nothing to do, it depends on the kind of achivement.[/quote]
Vijay is saying that a common man has nothing to do with the achievements of Nishant Rathi ! :p

Or do the public stop you on road and come in crowds just to say ...... Hey Nishant .... we are proud of you boy !! ;)

Your relatives, family, colleagues and friends are the only ones who can say something praising you, but the Indian public wont unless you do something really worth it na !

So, will you wait all your life to hear yourself making someone proud :o

Proud is a situational, everyday used word be it for your own self or others!
 
shwetadhaka said:
And u r talking about common man i think in this Olympics common people's love and their appreciation will really make our hero's proud. So its not like that common people doesn't have nothing to do, it depends on the kind of achivement.
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shwetadhaka said:
Vijay is saying that a common man has nothing to do with the achievements of Nishant Rathi ! :p
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Mam please read my last post again i mentioned there that for my work in office if my cleint or my boss appreciates me that it will be the proud feeling for me i think u got it.

shwetadhaka said:
Or do the public stop you on road and come in crowds just to say ...... Hey Nishant .... we are proud of you boy !! ;)
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And about the common man i illustrate the example of olympic winners and i m sure they are getting the appreciation for the common man so don't get confused. I m in my office and they r the olympic winners i think this time u got the words or it requires any other clarification.:cool:

 
nishantrathi82 said:
Mam please read my last post again i mentioned there that for my work in office if my cleint or my boss appreciates me that it will be the proud feeling for me i think u got it.




And about the common man i illustrate the example of olympic winners and i m sure they are getting the appreciation for the common man so don't get confused. I m in my office and they r the olympic winners i think this time u got the words or it requires any other clarification.:cool:
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I am not talking about any Olympic winner, I am talking about YOU !
 
I am proud of you my son's good qualities," says the father"..............POSITIVE

I am proud of myself,"said Ritesh to his friends"..........Negative



That is the only difference....rest do what ever you wish to do with this word please.
 
Vishwanathan Anand on winnng World Chess Champoinship told HT that I am Proud of winning the title, and he also said about victory in 2000 in Delhi - I am still proud of my victory in Delhi as it was first. And the media calls him the most modest of men.

What's negative about it.......I fail to understand????
 
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neels said:
Vishwanathan Anand on winnng World Chess Champoinship told HT that I am Proud of winning the title, and he also said about victory in 2000 in Delhi - I am still proud of my victory in Delhi as it was first. And the media calls him the most modest of men.

What's negative about it.......I fail to understand????
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The problem is hidden here Dr sahiba.
 
Why not!!

devdahiya said:
The problem is hidden here Dr sahiba.
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Hidden !! ??? where sir ?? I fail to find it can u help us find it .:)

With due respect, I fail to understand what's negative about being proud of oneself !! Should I not be proud my self :confused:..I wonder why??


I would be dead the day I would not be and not able to meet my own eyes!!:cool::rock
 
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