Reason for less woman presence on Jatland.com.

urmiladuhan said:
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Following could be a few reasons:

1. They are traditionally very shy
2. They are not allowed by the family to mix-up so easily with outsiders/strangers
3. They are comparatively less computer savvy
4. Often they have to be occupied with household affairs like 'choolha-chowki' and 'gobar-buhari'
5. They do not have much interest in matters like politics, economics and social reforms etc. which form major part of discussion on social forums
5. Last but not the least - general tendency of our men-folk to misbehave with them
 
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vpsingh said:
Following could be a few reasons:

1. They are traditionally very shy
2. They are not allowed by the family to mix-up so easily with outsiders/strangers
3. They are comparatively less computer savvy
4. Often they have to be occupied with household affairs like 'choolha-chowki' and 'gobar-buhari'
5. They do not have much interest in matters like politics, economics and social reforms etc. which form major part of discussion on social forums
5. Last but not the least - general tendency of our men-folk to misbehave with them
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Bang....... spot ON ..
 
urmiladuhan said:
Please share your views.
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Indecent use of language could be one thing that could be shoo-ing away the women folks.

I have seen a lot of instances when people have used indecent, foul and vulgar words. I am not sure whether they use the same kind of words within their family.
 
vpsingh said:
'Often they have to be occupied with household affairs like choolha-chowki' and 'gobar-buhari'
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Singh saab....... I agree with you on all the points except No.4. today's women are not involved in "choolha-chowki' and 'gobar-buhari" that Days have gone when their almost day got passed in handling these types of jobs. Very rare and few perform these kinds of job. Yes old women who are illiterate do these kinds of jobs but "Gobar" work has been given up in villages, leave aside urban. These kinds of jobs were done when the whole time profession of our community used to be agriculture and rearing cattles. I see most of the women free most of the day. Now most of the cleaning work is performed by machines or servants. Here I am talking about majority and not particular cases.
 
I agree to the words said by Mr. V P singh ji.Women have less interest in politics,social life & other work around in the soceity.They are more inclined towards the house-hold work & now a days girls are more bothered about thier looks & beauty...............No doubt in that
 
Most of them are covered already but few more may the possible reasons.

1. One possible reason could be ego clash between women. It is very rare to see to women agree on one thing. So they prefer not to get in to it.
2. Second could be that they are unaware of the platform.
3. Some comments like "Love you Paa" made them avoid making posts.
4. They are most of the time indulged in making themselves look good.
 
Arvindc said:
Indecent use of language could be one thing that could be shoo-ing away the women folks.

I have seen a lot of instances when people have used indecent, foul and vulgar words. I am not sure whether they use the same kind of words within their family.
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And what does this say about our community?
 
vpsingh said:
Following could be a few reasons:

1. They are traditionally very shy
2. They are not allowed by the family to mix-up so easily with outsiders/strangers
3. They are comparatively less computer savvy
4. Often they have to be occupied with household affairs like 'choolha-chowki' and 'gobar-buhari'
5. They do not have much interest in matters like politics, economics and social reforms etc. which form major part of discussion on social forums
5. Last but not the least - general tendency of our men-folk to misbehave with them
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What does this say about our community?
 
well TO the member who commented on the thread today can see the reason,as well as answer in there own comment.
TOdays women is nt jst a material women or limited to chulha chowka only.
n if u compare in total jat gals r much intellegent n educated in real means and are not in need of demoralize others,
i know many SOCIAL WORKERS OVERHERE,who r jst in need of fame,a real social wrkrs is nt in need of name.ACTUAL FACE IS DIFFERENT
AISE KAM DIKHANE K LIYE NAHI APNE MAN KI KHUSHI K LIYE NISWARTH KIYE JATE HAI.
 
vpsingh said:
Following could be a few reasons:

1. They are traditionally very shy
2. They are not allowed by the family to mix-up so easily with outsiders/strangers
3. They are comparatively less computer savvy
4. Often they have to be occupied with household affairs like 'choolha-chowki' and 'gobar-buhari'
5. They do not have much interest in matters like politics, economics and social reforms etc. which form major part of discussion on social forums
5. Last but not the least - general tendency of our men-folk to misbehave with them
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विजय पाल सिंह जी आप ने बिलकुल सही कारण बताये हैं | मुझे लगता है इन मैं आखिर वाला कारण सब से ज्यादा
असरदायक है |कुछ और भी हो सकते हैं जैसे कम्पुटर/इन्टरनेट तक पहुँच | हमारे संस्कार, जहाँ even पढ़े लिखे परिवारों
को भी महिलाओं को बराबर की स्वतंत्रता देना स्वीकारिय नहीं है |
अब ये सही है या गलत ? ये एक अलग ही मुद्दा है जिस पर विचार आमंत्रित किये जा सकते हैं |
 
preetikhatri said:
well TO the member who commented on the thread today can see the reason,as well as answer in there own comment.
TOdays women is nt jst a material women or limited to chulha chowka only.
n if u compare in total jat gals r much intellegent n educated in real means and are not in need of demoralize others,
i know many SOCIAL WORKERS OVERHERE,who r jst in need of fame,a real social wrkrs is nt in need of name.ACTUAL FACE IS DIFFERENT
AISE KAM DIKHANE K LIYE NAHI APNE MAN KI KHUSHI K LIYE NISWARTH KIYE JATE HAI.
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Lot of ambiguity in your post, would be nice if you come up with the clear idea.
You said some social workers, would you mind elaborating on this?

It would be really nice to know from you that how to improve the situation.
 
SPECIALLY TO
Mr. Prikshit CHILLAR
i used the words
LOVE U PAA.
u r no one to comment on others feelings,and i list bother about persons like.
on the same hand i dnt allow you to comment like dis.
WHEN YOU DNT KNOW ABT ANY PERSON U DNT HV RIGHT TO COMMENTS LIK DIS.
MAY BE OTHER PERSON IS MUCH MORE INTELLEGENT OR EDUCATED OR KNOW HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY.
be in yr limits.
ITS THE PRSON LIK U N LIKING YR COMMENTS,who dnt know how to respect a women,less female members are dere.
but i m here upto my wish
 
mr. prikshit mind yr own business,everone knows his limits,
i m nt GOD,or to demoralize anyone,its a general thought.
n reality of social workers n others.
i m nt here to answer yr curiosity and really not intersted in any kind of chit chat with person having mentality like you.
LIVE AND LET LIVE.
waste karne k liye tym nahi hai mere pas.
jaha kuch seekhne ko na mile,
jaha jokes nahi,vaha mera koi kaam nahi.
 
आड़े किबे हो, किसे हो के, किसे हो की गेला, किहे हो टैम पे जूत बाज ज्य़ा सैं... ज्य़ा तै!! :tamatar
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preetikhatri said:
SPECIALLY TO
Mr. Prikshit CHILLAR
i used the words
LOVE U PAA.
u r no one to comment on others feelings,and i list bother about persons like.
on the same hand i dnt allow you to comment like dis.
WHEN YOU DNT KNOW ABT ANY PERSON U DNT HV RIGHT TO COMMENTS LIK DIS.
MAY BE OTHER PERSON IS MUCH MORE INTELLEGENT OR EDUCATED OR KNOW HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY.
be in yr limits.
ITS THE PRSON LIK U N LIKING YR COMMENTS,who dnt know how to respect a women,less female members are dere.
but i m here upto my wish
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With all due respect I would like to say one thing please ponder over it.
You made the comments where you mentioned "Love you Paa" there is no harm and nothing bad about it.
Infact it is good to see such attachments with parents. But it was you who over reacted over it.
He has(kapil) asked it in very simple manner you could have answered it well.
I didn't see any thing offensive till that post, but you it was you who started.

See here is was more about common sense rather inteligency or human physchology.
If your reply would have been nice, I think no one will ever think to quote something like this.

Still if you felt bad from my side I can offer my sincere apologies to you. But please think over it before pouncing on others.
I mentioned it as I didn't see any of your post after that, it was not meant for any offense by any means.
 
listen again
i said mind yr own business,
kisi ko mujhse ya meri common sense se problem hai to vo mujhse personally bat kar skta hai,
who u r for advocacy.
tumahri na hi to utni age hai na hi common sense.
or i feel bad about my dear ones not for any stranger.
yaha post pe hi bol skte hai,
mere samne aaj tak himmat nahi hai kisiki itna bolne ki
N I M NT HERE TO LISTEN TO OR REPLY TO YOU.
STOP THIS CONVERSATION.
 
मेरे ख्याल में ते छोरियां/लुगाइयां का अनुपात कम से जनसंख्या में लोगाँ ने देखें ,ज्यां तें भी कम सें अर एक और कारण मेरी समझ में आया स अक इह साईट का नाम जाट लैंड स ते जाटनी न्यू सोचदी होंगी अक या साईट ते लोगाँ खातर स | जाटनी लैंड बन्ज्या ते उड़े निरी आज्यांगी फेर "चुगली करण "| हा हा हा ,बुरा ना मानियो कोए -------सद भावनाओं सहित |
 
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