Safety of Women ???

[pragati]

It is said that women are the most beautiful creation of the Almighty. But every day we come to know about the cases of female infanticide, sexual harassment of both working and non-working females. At present, women and girls are not safe in office premises, public places, on roads and even behind the doors of their homes.
A significant proportion of the respondents in a public perception survey during the preparation of Human Development Report for Delhi showed that the streets of Delhi are becoming more and more unsafe for girls. Girls are facing fear of harassment, attack, assult, rape and murder. Crimes against women are also committed by close relatives within the walls.
Delhi NCR have a relatively high crime rate compared to other cites like Mumbai, Chennai, Bangalore etc. Recently a girl was sexually assaulted and one was raped in Nov, 2010 near Dhaula Kuan in Delhi.
This mishap brought many things in limelight as for the safety issues for females specially in Delhi NCR, bad service of police, quality of safety and service provided by the companies and last but not least the mind-set of today's well educated, high profile working guys because past records in Delhi NCR showed that 99 % crime reported by such educated, working boys.

 

[amitdabas22]

It is said that women are the most beautiful creation of the Almighty. But every day we come to know about the cases of female infanticide, sexual harassment of both working and non-working females. At present, women and girls are not safe in office premises, public places, on roads and even behind the doors of their homes.
A significant proportion of the respondents in a public perception survey during the preparation of Human Development Report for Delhi showed that the streets of Delhi are becoming more and more unsafe for girls. Girls are facing fear of harassment, attack, assult, rape and murder. Crimes against women are also committed by close relatives within the walls.
Delhi NCR have a relatively high crime rate compared to other cites like Mumbai, Chennai, Bangalore etc. Recently a girl was sexually assaulted and one was raped in Nov, 2010 near Dhaula Kuan in Delhi.
This mishap brought many things in limelight as for the safety issues for females specially in Delhi NCR, bad service of police, quality of safety and service provided by the companies and last but not least the mind-set of today's well educated, high profile working guys because past records in Delhi NCR showed that 99 % crime reported by such educated, working boys.

I agree with your observation which is as much a fact for anyone living in Delhi.
Also i have friends (girls) in all the metros and small towns who share the same views about Delhi. A girl can walk alone at the Marine Drive in Mumbai at Midnight but she dare not venture out alone even in the evening in Delhi.
Who is to be blamed for: Police ? Girls ? Guys ? Drinking ?
Police are the same everywhere, in everycity.
Girls are also the same everywhere and so is drinking habits of people.
Guys too.
too confused to discuss any other reasons ?

Might be the presence of too many outsiders as the Home Minister says!
or might be everybody has a Jugaad in Delhi and is connected to some politician in someway.
or may just be that Delhi lads just have too much of hormonal imbalance!!

Every Crime has a reason and there may be too many analyses.

 

[singhvp]

I agree with your observation which is as much a fact for anyone living in Delhi.
Also i have friends (girls) in all the metros and small towns who share the same views about Delhi. A girl can walk alone at the Marine Drive in Mumbai at Midnight but she dare not venture out alone even in the evening in Delhi.
Who is to be blamed for: Police ? Girls ? Guys ? Drinking ?
Police are the same everywhere, in everycity.
Girls are also the same everywhere and so is drinking habits of people.
Guys too.
too confused to discuss any other reasons ?

Might be the presence of too many outsiders as the Home Minister says!
or might be everybody has a Jugaad in Delhi and is connected to some politician in someway.
or may just be that Delhi lads just have too much of hormonal imbalance!!

Every Crime has a reason and there may be too many analyses.

A good and timely topic indeed.

Ironically, the incidence of sex related crime is much more than in the so-called open and 'perverted' societies. It is a matter of shame for a country which many people are not tired of proclaiming to be a spiritual leader with rich cultural heritage. "Wo kahan hain jinhe Hind par Naaz hai".

 

[tasvir7]

Muslim birth ma(c)hine...



July 18, 2007

Mewat (Haryana): A 40-year-old woman in Mewat district of Haryana gave birth to her 23rd child on Sunday. The baby was born to Bismillah (40) and Mohammad Ishaq (50) at the nearby Al-Afia Government Hospital in the district.

Mohammad Ishaq and Bismillah with their family of 23 at a village in Mewat, Haryana

The couple were married in 1976 and since then, Bismillah has given birth to 23 children, the latest addition being a female child who was born on Sunday and named Shabira.

God's gifts

Bismillah with her 23rd child, Shabira
Speaking to MiD DAY, a happy and delighted father, Mohammad Ishaq said, "Yeh though sab Allah ki den hai, agar hamara chaubiswa baccha agle sal hua though woh bhi hum Allah ki den samjhenge. (All this is Allah's gift. If we get a 24th child next year, we will welcome it too)"
Too many to recall
However, when MiD DAY asked him the names of his children, Ishaq had to take help from his son and neighbors. "I find it very difficult to remember their names as they all look the same," he said. Ishaq, builds thatched roofs in nearby villages and ferries goods for shops in the vicinity for a living.
Bismillah the mother of 23 children, hopes that her children will take care of her. "I feed my children chicken, mutton and chivda, with my daughters helping me in the cooking," she says.
लोग बच्चे पैदा करके भूल जाते हैं ,उनके नाम नहीं बता सकते . परवरिश करना तो दूर की बात है / यही बच्चे बाद में अशिक्षित . बेरोजगार होकर अपराध का रास्ता अपना लेते हैं / धोला कुआँ बलात्कार केस में भी इसी क्षेत्र के लड़के थे /

 

[pragati]

I agree with your observation which is as much a fact for anyone living in Delhi.
Also i have friends (girls) in all the metros and small towns who share the same views about Delhi. A girl can walk alone at the Marine Drive in Mumbai at Midnight but she dare not venture out alone even in the evening in Delhi.
Who is to be blamed for: Police ? Girls ? Guys ? Drinking ?
Police are the same everywhere, in everycity.
Girls are also the same everywhere and so is drinking habits of people.
Guys too.
too confused to discuss any other reasons ?

Might be the presence of too many outsiders as the Home Minister says!
or might be everybody has a Jugaad in Delhi and is connected to some politician in someway.
or may just be that Delhi lads just have too much of hormonal imbalance!!

Every Crime has a reason and there may be too many analyses.

yeah, that's true....i listen the statement of Honorable DPC regarding the Gang-rape in Delhi and he was revealing the faults of Delhi Police and also stated that companies must provide very tight security for their women employees. But the question stands that how long our administration will active ? Is the Government and administration thinking to lock females behind the doors ? Is this the example of representing as one of a fastest developing country ?
I have listen many stories by friends (girls) about the disgusting behaviour of so called educated, high profile working boys, who show themselves like gentlemen but have an animal inside. Such kind of people also portray themselves as a v nice person in their families. This is not to blame all male person, there are all kind of girls as well. i am not saying that all men are like that, there are people who are living with their culture and values, but what to do with that crowd who indulge themselves in such kind of activities ? They even don't know ki wo apni jindgi ko kaha le jana chahte hain......

 

[vikasjat]

Ye baat sahi kahi ki Delhi me girls ki safety bahut kam hai compare to other states like Chennai, Banglore and Pune.
Maine yaha Chennai me ye baat achi dekhi hai ki raat ko 12 baje bhi ek ladki akele road pe ja sakti hai kyuki yaha safety jyda hai as well as logo ki mentality bhi thek hai.

Lekin Delhi me Dhola Kuaa, Nehru place etc kuch aisi jagah hain jaha raat ko kya din me bhi safety nahi hai.
Delhi ka aisa haal isliye hai kyuki yaha backward states like Bihar k bahut hain jo educated to hote ni aur daily sham ko drink, drugs etc use karte hain aur fir unka dimag in ulte kaam me he jyda chalta hai.
Rahi baat educated peoples ki to aajkal vo bhi is ghatiya kaam me nahi sharmate kyuki har kisi ka kisi na kisi way me politicians ya police officers se links hote hain aur is vajah se vo kam darte hain.

Is tarah k crimes ko rokne k liye ek to government ko strict hona chahiye aur kuch logo ko apni mentality change karni chaiye.....unhe kuch bhi aise karne se p[ehle ye sochna chahiye ki is ladki ki jagah unki behan ho to bhi vo aise he karenge??????

 

[pragati]

unhe kuch bhi aise karne se pehle ye sochna chahiye ki is ladki ki jagah unki behan ho to bhi vo aise he karenge??????

V well said....

 

[vikasjat]

Pakistan me suna hai ki aise crime karne walo ko jaan se maar dete hain........ ye rule India me bhi hona chahiye.
India me agar aisi strictness ho jaye to koi bhi insaan aisa karne se pehle ye jarur sochega (jinki sifarish hai vo bhi) ki agar tu pakda gaya aur tere sabhi jugaad bhi kaam ni aaye to use apni jaan se hath dhona padega. fir vo kya pata ye crime na bhi kare kyuki sabhi ko apni jaan pyari hoti hai.

Lekin India me jo ye rules hain vo strict nahi hain ek to sajaye maut ni milti aur dusra koi pakda bhi jata hai to jyda se jyda 7 years ki jail ho jati hai. aur sun ne me aaya hai ki aajkal jail me facility itni jyda de rakhi hain jo insaan ko bahar mil k b ni milti... pehle wali jail me ni rahi aajkal to.

Delhi me jo ye jhopad-patti ka area hai inme sabse jyda crime hota hai.....waha se to akeli ladki raat ko kya din me bhi ni ja sakti, itna kharab mahol hai ki vo din me bhi drink kiye rehte hain aur duniya se itne faltu hote hain ki aise crime karne se ni darte.

Delhi Police Hamesha Aapke Sath hai... May I help you!

YE WORDS POLICE STATION AND POLICE BOOTH PE LIKHE HOTE HAIN lekin jab koi ladki akele inse help lene jaye to ye apni responsiblity bhul kar ye crime karte hain bina kisi dar k ,kyuki ye sochte hain ki tum he sab kuch ho koi tumhara kuch ni kar sakta.
Example Ruchika Kand
Aise aise bahut case police walo k khilaf mil jyenge fark itna hai ki koi case medai public k samne le aati hai to koi reh jata hai.

Ye crime agar kisi garib ladki k sath hota hai to unhe chup rehna padta hai kyuki vo ye sochte hain ki unki jaan bhi ja sakti hai aur muh khola to ladki ki shadi me problems aayengi, isliye vo chup he rehte hain......
isi majburi ka farda ye ghatiya log uthate hain, pehle garib ladkiyo ko apna sikar banate hain aur fir middle families ko.

Main baat hai ki logo me ab dar nahi raha, aur na vo dusro k bare me sochte ki unki is galti se kisi ki zindagi barbaad bhi hoti hai.

Likhne ko to bahut kuch hai aur kya kya likhu, I think we all known all these things.

 

[pragati]

Delhi Police Hamesha Aapke Sath hai... May I help you!

aajkal ye sentance sirf ek majak hai.....Sorry mama ji


Main baat hai ki logo me ab dar nahi raha, aur na vo dusro k bare me sochte ki unki is galti se kisi ki zindagi barbaad bhi hoti hai.

jo log aisa soche ki is se kisi ki puri life kharab hoti hai to wo aisa karenge kyu ?...aise log kuch nahi sochte...aise logo ke liye ladki ki koi respect nahi hoti.....

 

[rameshlakra]

The police along with judiciary is the major culprit

• The police strength is too low and to make it worst even those are too busy in VIP security/ Movement of dignitaries etc, thus effectively reducing strength to 1 per 100000 citizen - it should be increased to 1 policeman per 1000
  
• Callous attitude of police is another big reason - we all have been privy to seeing people just brazenly disregard traffic rules and the cop witnesses as mute helpless spectator.

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• The lesser said about our JUSTICE system, better it is. It is to defend people with power. It only shield criminal and instil no fear in them, instead the common man fears it and avoids it at any cost succumbing to the injustice being meted to him.
• No one is afraid of law - the fear and timely justice will go a long way is curtailing not only this problem but the larger pandemic "the corruption"

The President of the country has hanging cases for mercy pending for 10 years or 20 years - for god sake take some decision "yes" or "no" and stop sending wrong message to everyone down the line. The CBI is puppet in the hands of the Govt, the justice system is always too little too late, the bureaucrats still living in the British era, very few honest politician and un-deterred corruption at the highest places. God only knows how things are happening in this country.

 

[ashwaniranasaro]

Its a very big concern for the safety of womens in Delhi.Its all because of the all rubbish rules in India regarding sex related crimes on which government not acting actually than other crimes.Its also the fault of us to select corrupted politicians in Delhi and all over India.Womens are real power of Country for its development and all others thing.

So pls help Womens for their Safety in the Capital Of India.

 

[vikasjat]

Its a very big concern for the safety of womens in Delhi.Its all because of the all rubbish rules in India regarding sex related crimes on which government not acting actually than other crimes.Its also the fault of us to select corrupted politicians in Delhi and all over India.Womens are real power of Country for its development and all others thing.

So pls help Womens for their Safety in the Capital Of India.

Yes you are right "Its also the fault of us to select corrupted politicians in Delhi and all over India."

lekin bhai jo bhi politics me aata hai vo sare he aise hote hain to aapko unme se kisko vote karoge.........
agar elections me 30 members hain to sare aise he hain koi bhi saaf character ka nahi hota. aur jo elections me unke aage piche ghumte hain vo sirf isliye ghumte hain taki kuch power unhe bhi mil jaye.

Aaj k time me kisi aam insaan ki itni himmat ni hoti ki vo politics me jaye aur agar koi jata hai to ye use vaise goli ya accident me marva dete hain.

women safety ka ek he rasta hai ki courts aur Cbi ko politics se dur rakhna chahiye, taki vo apne kaam me koi pressure na mane. Lekin India me ye bhi ni ho sakta, kyuki agar koi case chalta bhi hai to logo k marne k baad he result aata hai.

 

[ritu]

i read about the incident happened recently with a call centre girl.call centres owe responsibility of protection to these girls.i think timing of the shifts should be scheduled that way that shift should start before particular time in night and end after dawn.most of these incidences occur late in night.i will suggest to girls who has to work in these settings ..they should learn karrate,get fit.always keep pepper spray and even after that ther do not feel safe get a revolver and training to use it.

 

[pragati]

Shayad India me hi halaat jayada kharab hain....I visited manila (Philippines) last year officially, i got an indian couple there, they are also working in same office branch there n residing near to the place where i was stayed there. Everyday, they called me at there home for dinner and after few days it became a routine for me to go to their place after office. Everyday, they both came to drop me at hotel after dinner because i clearly told them that i never went out at night even in India and i can come only if you people drop me back. One day, it was late at their home when some get-together of their indian friends there and because of my love about cooking, i took the responsibility to cook several Indian dishes for the guests. That day when that couple came to drop me at mid-night, i saw only girls and women on road and in road side open restra's, i was wondering, then they told me that yaha ladko ke liye raat ko bahar darr hai but ladkiya ekdum safe hai....aur rape bhi ladko ka hi hota hai..they told the reason as well but that's not good to write here...kaash India me bhi aisa hi kuch hota, then we girls can also taste icecream at india-gate midnite

 

[ritu]

pragati psychopaths are everywhere,though incidenes are less and partial reason is rate of population. fear of severe punishment and effective police system also stops perverts in western countries from doing these henious crimes.

Shayad India me hi halaat jayada kharab hain....I visited manila (Philippines) last year officially, i got a indian couple there, they are also working in same office brach there n residing near to the place where i was stayed there. Everyday, they called me at there home for dinner and after few days it became a routine for me to go to their place after office. Everyday, they both came to drop me at hotel after dinner because i clearly told them that i never went out even in India and i can come only if you people drop me back. One day, it was late at their home when some get-together of their indian friends there and because of my love about cooking, i took the responsibility to cook several Indian dishes for the guests. That day when that couple came to drop me at mid-night, i saw only girls and women on road and in road side open restra's, i was wondering, then they told me that yaha ladko ke liye raat ko bahar darr hai but ladkiya ekdum safe hai....aur rape bhi ladko ka hi hota hai..they told the reason as well but that's not good to write here...kaash India me bhi aisa hi kuch hota, then we girls can also taste icecream at india-gate midnite

 

[akshaymalik84]

Shayad India me hi halaat jayada kharab hain....I visited manila (Philippines) last year officially, i got an indian couple there, they are also working in same office branch there n residing near to the place where i was stayed there. Everyday, they called me at there home for dinner and after few days it became a routine for me to go to their place after office. Everyday, they both came to drop me at hotel after dinner because i clearly told them that i never went out at night even in India and i can come only if you people drop me back. One day, it was late at their home when some get-together of their indian friends there and because of my love about cooking, i took the responsibility to cook several Indian dishes for the guests. That day when that couple came to drop me at mid-night, i saw only girls and women on road and in road side open restra's, i was wondering, then they told me that yaha ladko ke liye raat ko bahar darr hai but ladkiya ekdum safe hai....aur rape bhi ladko ka hi hota hai..they told the reason as well but that's not good to write here...kaash India me bhi aisa hi kuch hota, then we girls can also taste icecream at india-gate midnite

Would you like to encourage prostitution just for the sake of Icecream at midnight?

 

[deependra]

pragati psychopaths are everywhere,though incidenes are less and partial reason is rate of population. fear of severe punishment and effective police system also stops perverts in western countries from doing these henious crimes.

pragati psychopaths are everywhere,though incidenes are less and partial reason is rate of population. fear of severe punishment and effective police system also stops perverts in western countries from doing these henious crimes.

I agree with you. The people will refrain themselves from doing such kind of shameful act if they have fear of severe punishment . People know that nothing is going to happen to them even if they committ the same crime multiple times which provokes them to repeat it many times. In the recent incindent of rape with the East Indian girl, one person was on bail(He had already committed the same crime earlier). I strongly believe that the culprits should be given severe punishment. There are few other factors also like-
- Girls should be more careful during night shifts and should avoid them as far as possible.
- Due to the impact of western culture the tendency of most of the boys is to enjoy the life and they can go any far and it doesn't matter to them destroying someone's life.
- Moral values are going down day by day as people are turning towards materealstic life. Not sure what happened to our country. This is the same country where Manu had declared-
यत्र नार्यस्तु पूज्यन्ते, रमन्ते तत्र देवता.
जहाँ नारियों की पूजा होती है वहां देवता निवास करते हैं.
- As pointed out by others here the law and system needs to be revisited to nail down this kind of incidents.

 

[singhvp]

That day when that couple came to drop me at mid-night, i saw only girls and women on road and in road side open restra's, i was wondering, then they told me that yaha ladko ke liye raat ko bahar darr hai but ladkiya ekdum safe hai....aur rape bhi ladko ka hi hota hai..they told the reason as well but that's not good to write here...kaash India me bhi aisa hi kuch hota, then we girls can also taste icecream at india-gate midnite

The same is true about most of the European countries too. I got the same warning in Brussels (Belgium) where I used to go for jogging in a nearby park late in the evening after office hours. I used to encounter many young girls/ladies jogging in the park and lake-side in the dense woods. The other day I asked one of my local lady colleagues how safe they are in a lonely place at odd hours. She told me that here it is you who should watch out. Girls/women were quite safe. We never heard/read even a single incident of molestation/rape or indecency during our stay of about 3 and half year.

 

[pragati]

Would you like to encourage prostitution just for the sake of Icecream at midnight?

I think everybody wants to stop prostitution rather than encourage it...
I meant to say only about the safety even at mid-night so that the girls can also walk out like boys......how would prostitution be encouraged by having icecream by girls at midnight at india-gate, sorry but i don't understand.....

 

[singhvp]

I think everybody wants to stop prostitution rather than encourage it...
I meant to say only about the safety even at mid-night so that the girls can also walk out like boys......how would prostitution be encouraged by having icecream by girls at midnight at india-gate, sorry but i don't understand.....

Pragati ji in India you can expect to relish your ice-cream in open air at India Gate, only at the age of 60+ peacefully. I know it is a long wait but it looks like as the things stand now.