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This thread is for girls/females.I would like to know as to which combination is most appealing to you:

1] A well built handsome boy....with average mind and ok job.
2] An average looking fellow with sharp mind but a low profile job
3] A very intelligent boy with skinny outlook with well paid job
4] A very rich[parental wealth],handsome,average intelligence but no qualification[professional]
5] A chap from poor family[has to support whole family atleast for next 7-8 years],Professionally brilliant,well paid,good health but Family village based and the girl to be married has to share the burdon of the family.




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devdahiya said:
This thread is for girls/females.I would like to know as to which combination is most appealing to you:

1] A well built handsome boy....with average mind and ok job.
2] An average looking fellow with sharp mind but a low profile job
3] A very intelligent boy with skinny outlook with well paid job
4] A very rich[parental wealth],handsome,average intelligence but no qualification[professional]
5] A chap from poor family[has to support whole family atleast for next 7-8 years],Professionally brilliant,well paid,good health but Family village based and the girl to be married has to share the burdon of the family.




PLEASE BE VERY HONEST IN YOUR REPLIES.
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5th honestly
 
devdahiya said:
This thread is for girls/females.I would like to know as to which combination is most appealing to you:

1] A well built handsome boy....with average mind and ok job.
2] An average looking fellow with sharp mind but a low profile job
3] A very intelligent boy with skinny outlook with well paid job
4] A very rich[parental wealth],handsome,average intelligence but no qualification[professional]
5] A chap from poor family[has to support whole family atleast for next 7-8 years],Professionally brilliant,well paid,good health but Family village based and the girl to be married has to share the burdon of the family.




PLEASE BE VERY HONEST IN YOUR REPLIES.
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Bade bhai jara ladkon ki "AGE" bhi to likh dete;)
 
devdahiya said:
This thread is for girls/females.I would like to know as to which combination is most appealing to you:

1] A well built handsome boy....with average mind and ok job.
2] An average looking fellow with sharp mind but a low profile job
3] A very intelligent boy with skinny outlook with well paid job
4] A very rich[parental wealth],handsome,average intelligence but no qualification[professional]
5] A chap from poor family[has to support whole family atleast for next 7-8 years],Professionally brilliant,well paid,good health but Family village based and the girl to be married has to share the burdon of the family.




PLEASE BE VERY HONEST IN YOUR REPLIES.
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Good Thread!!!
 
Confused...

Kaka ghanni tagdi tariyaan confuse kar diya 1 te perfect option de dete :D balab jalana padya se jab samajh ayya :D

Firstly my choice - 3rd
Confusion - between 2nd, 3rd & 5th

Why 2nd - Intelligent hai high paid bhi ho hi jaega :cool:
Why not 2nd - He isnt utilising GOD's gift (intelligence)

Why 5th - Intelligent , well settled
Why i didnt go for 5th - Village based family

Why 3rd - Intelligent, well settled. I dont go for looks, Really i dont think looks shud be given importance when u take a life tym desicion.

Why not a village based family - I never lived in a village but my most of the relatives are village based so i know lots of things.
What i dont like - Opara- paraya (black magic thing), Undesired interference of people n above all back bitching; pl pretend as well wishers but show that only khabar lene k liye ;)

No generalisations please. Sab ek jaise nahi hote, i accept with due respect. I tried to explain my all the points but if kuch wrong to I am sorry.

Kaka eeb aap ki baari batao agar aapne apnni beti tanhi sochnna hai te kaunnsa er kyon :D eeb bera patega aapne kitna confusing hai ye :D
 
brainspeak said:
only one female member has replied......
devji, lagta hai aapke options pasand nahin aaye ladkiyon ko!!...:)
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Na nothing like this Kuldeep :) Options are brainstorming but good.
I can say about myself only. I dont see threads n posts in "Mauj Masti" so late reply.
But u r right, i have seen this trend here female members are not very active , some do post things but their threads are also fixed i dnt know why :confused:
 
devdahiya said:
This thread is for girls/females.I would like to know as to which combination is most appealing to you:

1] A well built handsome boy....with average mind and ok job.
2] An average looking fellow with sharp mind but a low profile job
3] A very intelligent boy with skinny outlook with well paid job
4] A very rich[parental wealth],handsome,average intelligence but no qualification[professional]
5] A chap from poor family[has to support whole family atleast for next 7-8 years],Professionally brilliant,well paid,good health but Family village based and the girl to be married has to share the burdon of the family.




PLEASE BE VERY HONEST IN YOUR REPLIES.
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Sir your every option has some merit or demerit...may be more merits in some and some having more demertis but my honest reply regarding this is ....i really get confuse at deciding such things...so i always rely at my parents choice and i'm dead sure that that choice would be best suitable to me....and the one chosen by them would be most appealing to me.

I think 3rd option will be ok but Sir attitude is also important, as money comes and goes in our life according to our hardwork, knowledge and karma but if the guy has a good attitude then one can adjust with him and his family in any circumstances...baaki to kaisa bhi nature ho adjust karne mein hi acchai hai...time ke saath sab theek hota hai.
 
devdahiya said:
[chhoryan ki byah ki ummar ke ho sei]Wahe bhin ki bhin.
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Kaka JI ghanni galat baat kar di aapne :( jee dukha diya :(
This is a controversial statement. In 1 of ur thread " Gender Equality" u wrote there is nothing like gender inequality, only some female misguiding others. N here u r setting different parameters for males.
Sabki age hoti hai Kaka. Thats different ki normally husbands are elder than there wives so there is a difference of limit but boys too have a limit. After 27 yrs Chora byah te likda hi mana jya se. Koi apnni 24 te choti chori naa bhyave uske. And after 30 to completely out of consideration.

Vaise i didnt ask about the age thing :D Dilli me aake hawa lag gi dilli ki, aap bhi fast hoge ;) Meri post pher padho shanti te... Q pata chalega ke tha :D
 
parity said:
Kaka JI ghanni galat baat kar di aapne :( jee dukha diya ????:(
This is a controversial statement. In 1 of ur thread " Gender Equality" u wrote there is nothing like gender inequality, only some female misguiding others. N here u r setting different parameters for males.
Sabki age hoti hai Kaka. Thats different ki normally husbands are elder than there wives so there is a difference of limit but boys too have a limit. After 27 yrs Chora byah te likda hi mana jya se. Koi apnni 24 te choti chori naa bhyave uske. And after 30 to completely out of consideration.

Vaise i didnt ask about the age thing :D Dilli me aake hawa lag gi dilli ki, aap bhi fast hoge ;) Meri post pher padho shanti te... Q pata chalega ke tha :D
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Here, you are mistaken, Sukarma. The principle of “gender equality” is not applicable here. These “different parameters” have been set by nature, not by society. Though the evil of early marriage still persists in rural areas of India, it has practically vanished among educated elite.

Jatland Matrimonial is the proof. As on today, there is a total of 19 matrimonials for Non-Resident Indian Jat boys. Only 5 of them are 25-26 years, rest in the range of 27-34. The higher the educational qualifications, the higher would be the marriage age.

Surprisingly, those from India too, range between 25-30 (except very few of 23-24 years).

For Vedic definition of marriage age, read Chapter 4 of Satyarthprakash. English version on the following page:

http://aryasamajjamnagar.org/chapterfour.htm#4

It is clearly stated that “The best time for marriage, for a girl, is from the sixteenth to the twenty-fourth year of her life and for a man, from the twenty-fifth to the forty-eighth year.”

It is a different matter that this Vedic definition may not be strictly enforceable in today’s times.
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Fully disagree

dndeswal said:
1) These “different parameters” have been set by nature, not by society.

2) As on today, there is a total of 19 matrimonials for Non-Resident Indian Jat boys. Only 5 of them are 25-26 years, rest in the range of 27-34.

3) Surprisingly, those from India too, range between 25-30 (except very few of 23-24 years).

4) "It is clearly stated that “The best time for marriage, for a girl, is from the sixteenth to the twenty-fourth year of her life and for a man, from the twenty-fifth to the forty-eighth year.”

5) It is a different matter that this Vedic definition may not be strictly enforceable in today’s times.
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Ur 1st point- I was talking about ideal marrigeable age n not the ability 2 increase population.

2nd point - All of us know, what is the success rate of marriage is in west.

3rd point- Because Indians still value their family n emotions (worldwide accepted )

4th point - Would u marry ur 24 yrs old daughter to a 48 yrs old man ?? ( as u agree to this )

5th point - We have grown up, now we can think rationally so following only logical norms.

I can imagine a scene, result of this late marriage thing : An 70 yr old man blessing her 30 yr old daughter, on her marriage, from his hospital bed :rolleyes:
 
parity said:
Ur 1st point- I was talking about ideal marrigeable age n not the ability 2 increase population.

2nd point - All of us know, what is the success rate of marriage is in west.

3rd point- Because Indians still value their family n emotions (worldwide accepted )

4th point - Would u marry ur 24 yrs old daughter to a 48 yrs old man ?? ( as u agree to this )

5th point - We have grown up, now we can think rationally so following only logical norms.

I can imagine a scene, result of this late marriage thing : An 70 yr old man blessing her 30 yr old daughter, on her marriage, from his hospital bed :rolleyes:
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Wow, what a misunderstanding ! We were talking about the marriageable age in respect of boys. Dev ji said there is not strict rule about minimum marriageable age in case of boys. I quoted figures about Non-resident Indian Jat boys, not "marriages in West". And Vedic quotes are only for reference, not for strict obeyance in today's times, as I said. It is so because life expectancy in earlier ages may have been more compared to today's times. Point is that it is wrong to say that those who have achieved 27 years of age are almost out of consideration for marriage.
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parity said:

Kaka JI ghanni galat baat kar di aapne :( jee dukha diya :(
This is a controversial statement. In 1 of ur thread " Gender Equality" u wrote there is nothing like gender inequality, only some female misguiding others. N here u r setting different parameters for males.
Sabki age hoti hai Kaka. Thats different ki normally husbands are elder than there wives so there is a difference of limit but boys too have a limit. After 27 yrs Chora byah te likda hi mana jya se. Koi apnni 24 te choti chori naa bhyave uske. And after 30 to completely out of consideration.

Vaise i didnt ask about the age thing :D Dilli me aake hawa lag gi dilli ki, aap bhi fast hoge ;) Meri post pher padho shanti te... Q pata chalega ke tha :D
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Bebey what i meant was the marriagable age for boys.......May be from 24 to 29........My idea about women empowerment/equality will never change and hence don't worry.....I could not have specified an age for marriage[like 24 flat] as it could lead to many more questions.So the thing had to be non specific.
 
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