Shakal,akal Yaa Daulat

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devdahiya said:
Bebey what i meant was the marriagable age for boys.......May be from 24 to 29........My idea about women empowerment/equality will never change and hence don't worry.....I coulad not have specified an age for marriage[like 24 flat]

Kaka yoh age ka parmeter dekha toh, jatland peh jaydtar overage ho rahe hain :D :D :D

chore bhi ar chori bhi, i think marrigable age depends upon personal comfort.
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yudhvirmor said:
devdahiya said:
Bebey what i meant was the marriagable age for boys.......May be from 24 to 29........My idea about women empowerment/equality will never change and hence don't worry.....I coulad not have specified an age for marriage[like 24 flat]

Kaka yoh age ka parmeter dekha toh, jatland peh jaydtar overage ho rahe hain :D :D :D

chore bhi ar chori bhi, i think marrigable age depends upon personal comfort.
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Thats what i precisely meant........Personal comfort....aur tabhi likha tha akk jis ko jo suit krre maann kar chalo...?
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devdahiya said:
Bebey what i meant was the marriagable age for boys.......May be from 24 to 29........My idea about women empowerment/equality will never change and hence don't worry.....I could not have specified an age for marriage[like 24 flat] as it could lead to many more questions.So the thing had to be non specific.
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Eeb theek se Kaka Ji :D Vaise i didnt ask u to mention age i was asking ur preference :)
Ye akal, shakal aur daulat ; akal, shakal, daulat aur umar ban gaya :D Sorry Kaka Ji my intention wasnt to change ur topic :)
Please Kaka bura manna maniyo, aap se to shikayat kar sakoon so naa ?! Cant say anything to those who try to impose their thoughts on others n think only they can be ryt :)
Kaka Ji eeb ki bariyan bata diyo apnni pasand :)
 
dndeswal said:
1) Wow, what a misunderstanding ! We were talking about the marriageable age in respect of boys. Dev ji said there is not strict rule about minimum marriageable age in case of boys.
2) I quoted figures about Non-resident Indian Jat boys, not "marriages in West".
3) And Vedic quotes are only for reference, not for strict obeyance in today's times, as I said.
4) It is so because life expectancy in earlier ages may have been more compared to today's times. 5) Point is that it is wrong to say that those who have achieved 27 years of age are almost out of consideration for marriage.
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1) Disagreement is not misunderstanding :D
2) NRIs are very much in the influence of western culture :)
3) We refer only when we agree :)
4) Life expectancy was more for females also :)
5) Personal view point :)
I dont want to discuss this further :) as this is not the topic of this thread.
I only believe in one think, we shoud not get judgemental in public :) We dont have any right to say someone that u are wrong.
 
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लो जी बच्चों के काका देव जी, अब देते रहो दिलासा सब को । चाहे यह विषय इस धागे का हो या ना हो, चाहे कोई 'agree' हो या 'disagree', बात तो चल ही पड़ी है ना (लड़कों की उम्र के बारे में)। तो वही जाट वाली बात (तेली से) - "चाहे जंचे या ना जंचे, बोझ तो मरैगा ही" !

एक और देसी कहावत :

यौवन लुगाई का बीस या तीस और बैल चलै नौ साल -
मरद और घौड़ा कदे हो ना बूढ़ा, जै मिलता रहवै माल (खुराक)
(Youth of a woman is 20 or 30 years, the ox remain active till 9 years, but man and horse, if given good diet, never get old).

(http://www.jatland.com/home/Haryanavi_Language_Idioms_and_Phrases)
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Kaku, essa ye thread ek ladko ke liye shuru diyo taki haam bhi kuchh likh de...
Ab ye sab sochne ka time bhi nikat aata ja raha hai... to advices helpful rahenge:-)))

-vinod

devdahiya said:
This thread is for girls/females.I would like to know as to which combination is most appealing to you:

1] A well built handsome boy....with average mind and ok job.
2] An average looking fellow with sharp mind but a low profile job
3] A very intelligent boy with skinny outlook with well paid job
4] A very rich[parental wealth],handsome,average intelligence but no qualification[professional]
5] A chap from poor family[has to support whole family atleast for next 7-8 years],Professionally brilliant,well paid,good health but Family village based and the girl to be married has to share the burdon of the family.




PLEASE BE VERY HONEST IN YOUR REPLIES.
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vinodks said:
Kaku, essa ye thread ek ladko ke liye shuru diyo taki

-vinod
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Sahi baat hai Vinod, Kaka toh equality main belive karte hain, Ek thread hamari preference ka bi hona chaiye....:D :D :D

Kaka choice dyan tah likheyo, Apna bera toh hai ada kisse kisse bethe hain
 
Differences in opinions

This thread is getting very Hot. Initially I didnt reply as I felt options were quite confusing. I found nothing strange in Mr. Deswal's both views. But sukarma I would like to say you are restricting the marriageable age in very narrow persepectives in todays broader scenario. In this age of professionalism, today girls are delaying the big day till 26-27. and you say boys pass the right age of marriage at 27. Yes you are right we shud not get judgemental in public, all may have different viewpoints, and no one is right or wrong. But then you shud also nt specify a particular marriageable age.
and I dont understand how you are mistaken that NRIs are very much influenced by western culture !
 
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neels said:
This thread is getting very Hot. Initially I didnt reply as I felt options were quite confusing. I found nothing strange in Mr. Deswal's both views. But sukarma I would like to say you are restricting the marriageable age in very narrow persepectives in todays broader scenario. In this age of professionalism, today girls are delaying the big day till 26-27. and you say boys pass the right age of marriage at 27. Yes you are right we shud not get judgemental in public, all may have different viewpoints, and no one is right or wrong. But then you shud also nt specify a particular marriageable age.
and I dont understand how you are mistaken that NRIs are very much influenced by western culture !
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Hi all

Yes this thread is becoming a bit hot.

My personal view are as follows.

1. Regarding the age difference between male and female, there is a biological reason also related to menopause (did I spell it correctly?)

2. My request to all IBI (Indian based Indians) that don't misunderstood NRI's CULTURE . How can you evaluate them without seeing their life and the fact as how they live or without being an NRI first.

3. The reason for unsuccesful married life in western countries is because of thier family structure and various other reasons I don't want to mention here just to avoid controversy. There are a lot of succesful marriages in the western countries also.

4. For marriage I think most important thing, after the boy's qualification and financial capacity, should be his nature (if you got a chance to know that?) or his family background.

5. Love can be anywhere between any age/ any race/ any community.

JISKO NAHI PATA USKO JAB HOGA (AGAR HUA TO) PATA CHAL JAYEGA.
 
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