Success and Failure

Success:What you want and you manage to get that thru your effort.

happiness:What you get without desire/required effort and you are happy with that.

success/failure definition can't be standardised, depends upon person to person interpretation.
 
by obama


making your mark on the world is hard.If it were easy,everybody would do it.But it's not.It takes patience,it takes commitment,and it comes with plenty of failure along the way.The real test is not whether you avoid this failure,because you won't.it's whether you harden or shame you into inaction,or whether you learn from it;whether you choose to persevere.​
 
urvashipawar said:
by obama


making your mark on the world is hard.If it were easy,everybody would do it.But it's not.It takes patience,it takes commitment,and it comes with plenty of failure along the way.The real test is not whether you avoid this failure,because you won't.it's whether you harden or shame you into inaction,or whether you learn from it;whether you choose to persevere.​
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Dunno it's of his own but whosoever's funda is this ... really nice ... loved reading.
 
dkumars said:
  1. What is success? Who decide success and failure: Is it you or your close ones or the society or anyone else?
  2. Which one is better: success or failure? Does success give you learning or just pleasure? Does failure mean disappointment or learning?
  3. Does success exist without failure and vice versa?
  4. Is failure important in life and how many of us want to see failure?
  5. Are Success and failure synonyms of Ups and Downs or do they carry some other strict and clear definition?
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dev, here's my reply to your quest...

anything that gives you a sense of satisfaction is success to me… be it related to your work or small little doings/chores of day-to-day life and the fun you derive from living such moments. life is a succession of such moments and to live each such moment with bliss… is to succeed. don't aim for success if you really want it… just do what you love and believe in, success will come naturally.

obviously its an individual himself who decides his success or failure. this quote best describes as to who decides the success or failure

“My will shall shape the future. Whether I fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. I am the force; I can clear any obstacle before me or I can be lost in the maze. My choice; my responsibility; win or lose, only I hold the key to my destiny”.

to me failure carries no meaning. if you don't succeed in your 1st attempt… try, and try again. if you still cannot succeed… then quit. there's no point in being a damn fool about it. failure is success if you can learn from it. if you don’t learn from your repeated failures… then, for sure you are a failure.

always remember if you think you can, you can. and if you think you can't, you're right… simple rules !
 
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... say for example

kisi ko brahm(it) karna is success to me. kisi ko brahm(it) kar-ke prakash(it) karna is even bigger success to me.
 
brahmtewatia said:
dev, here's my reply to your quest...

anything that gives you a sense of satisfaction is success to me… be it related to your work or small little doings/chores of day-to-day life and the fun you derive from living such moments. life is a succession of such moments and to live each such moment with bliss… is to succeed. don't aim for success if you really want it… just do what you love and believe in, success will come naturally.

obviously its an individual himself who decides his success or failure. this quote best describes as to who decides the success or failure

“My will shall shape the future. Whether I fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. I am the force; I can clear any obstacle before me or I can be lost in the maze. My choice; my responsibility; win or lose, only I hold the key to my destiny”.

to me failure carries no meaning. if you don't succeed in your 1st attempt… try, and try again. if you still cannot succeed… then quit. there's no point in being a damn fool about it. failure is success if you can learn from it. if you don’t learn from your repeated failures… then, for sure you are a failure.

always remember if you think you can, you can. and if you think you can't, you're right… simple rules !
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Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
Thomas Alva Edison
 
brahmtewatia said:
dev, here's my reply to your quest...

anything that gives you a sense of satisfaction is success to me… be it related to your work or small little doings/chores of day-to-day life and the fun you derive from living such moments. life is a succession of such moments and to live each such moment with bliss… is to succeed. don't aim for success if you really want it… just do what you love and believe in, success will come naturally.

obviously its an individual himself who decides his success or failure. this quote best describes as to who decides the success or failure

“My will shall shape the future. Whether I fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. I am the force; I can clear any obstacle before me or I can be lost in the maze. My choice; my responsibility; win or lose, only I hold the key to my destiny”.

to me failure carries no meaning. if you don't succeed in your 1st attempt… try, and try again. if you still cannot succeed… then quit. there's no point in being a damn fool about it. failure is success if you can learn from it. if you don’t learn from your repeated failures… then, for sure you are a failure.

always remember if you think you can, you can. and if you think you can't, you're right… simple rules !
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Nice post .... loved lines in Red, specifically :)
 
urvashipawar said:
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Thomas Alva Edison
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there is no parameter that can tell you as to how close you were to success... or is it ?

only a fool will give up if he knew how close he was to success. this is just a bookish connotation and carries no practical meaning. you'll find 100,000 such quotes in a flick.

warren buffet says...
"you only have to do a very few things right in your life so long as you don't do too many things wrong".

i dont want to carry on with my wrongs, instead i would rather do few things right... learning from your failures is one such thing. remember... there are no failures, only feedback ! if your senses cannot take that feedback, then you are a failure.

i never said that you give up at your 1st failure. instead, i said...

brahmtewatia said:
to me failure carries no meaning. if you don't succeed in your 1st attempt… try, and try again. if you still cannot succeed… then quit. there's no point in being a damn fool about it. failure is success if you can learn from it. if you don’t learn from your repeated failures… then, for sure you are a failure.

always remember if you think you can, you can. and if you think you can't, you're right… simple rules !
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dkumars said:
Nice post .... loved lines in Red, specifically :)
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thanks dev :-)

success doesn't lies in dictionary or in quotes.

a quote says... "i tried 999 times nd in my 1000th attempt i succeeded. i took those 999 attempts as my stepping stone"

i say... he was a fool who tried for 999 attempts. i changed my course after my 3rd unsuccessful attempt (<<< read the word success here, i could have written failure instead). if i write failure here... it implies only "failure". instead, i read success in the word unsuccessful.

see, the difference lies in how you perceive things.
 
atishmohan said:
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K baat Atish kise doosre thread ki post likh di thi k aade.....:D....Is DK ne or Urvashi ne JL ka bhul bhuliya bana rakhya hai.....Luck, success,unsuccess, failure,unfailure,happy,unhappy,matribhumi, ma, hard work, smart work :confused:

Ram in ne bahut kam de....1 min. bhi thalli na baithan de.
 
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Brahm, katti solah aanne aali baat...rephrased as-
Thomas Alva Edisons' discovery of 999 ways that won't work!!!.......:)
brahmtewatia said:
a quote says... "i tried 999 times nd in my 1000th attempt i succeeded. i took those 999 attempts as my stepping stone"

see, the difference lies in how you perceive things.[/COLOR][/FONT]
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akshaymalik84 said:
K baat Atish kise doosre thread ki post likh di thi k aade.....:D....Is DK ne or Urvashi ne JL ka bhul bhuliya bana rakhya hai.....Luck, success,unsuccess, failure,unfailure,happy,unhappy,matribhumi, ma, hard work, smart work :confused:

Ram in ne bahut kam de....1 min. bhi thalli na baithan de.
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hahaha...kaal munnai aade success failure pai likha tha kimme..itne mai bhai nai ek aur thread shuru kar diya..pherr mai confuse ho gaya ke ibb ya post koon se thread main honi chahiye thi.jyaan tai munnai to delete e kar diya aade te..hahahaha
 
akshaymalik84 said:
K baat Atish kise doosre thread ki post likh di thi k aade.....:D....Is DK ne or Urvashi ne JL ka bhul bhuliya bana rakhya hai.....Luck, success,unsuccess, failure,unfailure,happy,unhappy,matribhumi, ma, hard work, smart work :confused:

Ram in ne bahut kam de....1 min. bhi thalli na baithan de.
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hahhahhaahahahaha..katii theek kah se bhai, par inme 1 naam or add karna hai. Rabander jeet singh balhara. uske kissyaaa ne ar baasi chutaklyaa ne golla latthi kar di katii JL pe :D
 
akshaymalik84 said:
K baat Atish kise doosre thread ki post likh di thi k aade.....:D....Is DK ne or Urvashi ne JL ka bhul bhuliya bana rakhya hai.....Luck, success,unsuccess, failure,unfailure,happy,unhappy,matribhumi, ma, hard work, smart work :confused:

Ram in ne bahut kam de....1 min. bhi thalli na baithan de.
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atishmohan said:
hahaha...kaal munnai aade success failure pai likha tha kimme..itne mai bhai nai ek aur thread shuru kar diya..pherr mai confuse ho gaya ke ibb ya post koon se thread main honi chahiye thi.jyaan tai munnai to delete e kar diya aade te..hahahaha
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Bete, katti ND comment maare hai donua ne ... huhhhh
ibb ke balak ka pholkar taar ke maanoge ? ;)
 
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