Sujata (Feb 13, 2004 02:59 p.m.):
Ravi:
a) However, let me repeat no, it was not an established social custom, not legally or morally, yet an accepted/imposed phenomenon. At least the Jat villages on the outskirts of New Delhi:
Did not accept the Brahmins as superiors but yes, a few outrageous prevalent customs were entertained without questions. The one I most hatefully remember was the hand washing practice by Brahmins.
2) No, no one carried the firewood and water for them and their households, as part of the acknowledged duties of lower caste status.
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Please forgive me, I am not that familiar with rural life.
Your No 2, answers my question.
You could have provided different data , than you have provided - that they carried water/firewood for the Brahmins, a spart of the caste duties. That would create a different perspective.
My knowledge of rural life is limited to Western UP, my fathers and my mothers village, and my wife's village and a few other villages.
I have not come across this custom there.
None of my relatives, mother, wife, aunt have mentioned such a custom?
Without going into the rest of your usual informative writing, could you clarify, if it is not an imposition on your time or sensibilities
The existence of the custom puzzles me.
Either it was the norm or it was not?
Either the Jats were carrying water for the Brahmin family or they were not ?
If they were carrying it, why were they doing so?
Did they do it every day ?
When did it start ?
How widespread was this custom ?
or is custom of the "washing of hands of a Jat" by a Brahmin family member, something, that was done on other occasions too.?
If you or another reader can help I will be grateful?
Ravi