udarta -kindness

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Wanting and desiring is a mad race enforced on us by our genes. We can never have enough.
When we learn to give we break free off that bondage.

I always give this example - Genghis Khan held the largest ever empire in human history. He also had the maximum offspring. (on an averae one out of 100 humans is his descendant.) After that he wanted to live forever and sent his messengers all over the world to find a cure of death. Ofcourse he didnt find it. He was a broken man frustrated with growing age. One day he fell from his horse and died.

You enter the corporate/working world and you see everyone lying, conspiring and running and you feel this is what is required and you jump in with both feet.

In life, you dont need to run to win.
 
navingulia said:
Wanting and desiring is a mad race enforced on us by our genes. We can never have enough.
When we learn to give we break free off that bondage.

I always give this example - Genghis Khan held the largest ever empire in human history. He also had the maximum offspring. (on an averae one out of 100 humans is his descendant.) After that he wanted to live forever and sent his messengers all over the world to find a cure of death. Ofcourse he didnt find it. He was a broken man frustrated with growing age. One day he fell from his horse and died.

You enter the corporate/working world and you see everyone lying, conspiring and running and you feel this is what is required and you jump in with both feet.

In life, you dont need to run to win.
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mera bhi kalyan kar do plzzzzzzzzzz. hw 2 win race withut running??? is it race or marathon? ha ha
 
ritu said:
what r u talking.... u can compensate for ur bad deeds by ur good deeds.i do not believe in this philosophy.i know a lot of people do it by donating to temples and charities.for me kindness is something u do even for a stranger without wanting anything back in return.apni apni soch.few yr back i was travelling in hryana roadways bus with my 1yr old son .i was the only person in the bus standing.
baki sab log bus me baithe aankh bacha kar dekh rahe the par kisi ne seat offer nahi ki.ek to itni garmi aur upar se ek haath me bachha aur ek hath me bag.tabhi ek sardar ladka uttha aur bola behen ji aap baith jao.os baat ko 9 saal ho gaye par mujhe aaj tak os ladke ka chehra yaad hai aur dil se ashishe nikalti hai oske liye.to me that was kindness.
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Ritu, you are absolutly right !

But what I said fit the bigger scene. In that bus full of people only one guy was willing to help you.

Who will have an approach for others who are good for nothing ? ME ! Thats right !

But I know what you mean. These small things makes a big difference and reflects values of our society. Which are generally missing.

I am sure you are bringing up your kids very well !

All the best to you ! we need more people like you
 
ritu said:
hahahaha baki sabke kya water pump karta hai.what u give ,u get it back if u give other disappointments .... .its like a circle .
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Look it came back to giving and taking !:D
Sometimes its important cant leave it forever because u r too kind
 
seemasindhu said:
gagan! do u believe in karma? i mean d cycles ritu is talking that do good, hav good; do bad, hav bad? i give it **** man. who has seen past life? who will relaise dis life in astral world? and if its so god is a b@@@@@r. y d hell he makes 1 suffer in next birth 4 wat one did in last birth? bidu afzal ne parliament per attack kiya hai to faansi bhi to issi janm mae chahdna mangta hai na...right bidu? 2 hell wid karma
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lol...Seema I really dont believe in that kind of karma. accha karam- bura karam , swarg-narak bla bla bla....

I believe in 'true karma' which is doing what I think is right !
 
gaganjat said:
Ritu, you are absolutly right !

But what I said fit the bigger scene. In that bus full of people only one guy was willing to help you.

Who will have an approach for others who are good for nothing ? ME ! Thats right !

But I know what you mean. These small things makes a big difference and reflects values of our society. Which are generally missing.

I am sure you are bringing up your kids very well !

All the best to you ! we need more people like you
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I am sure you are bringing up your kids very well !


hahahahahahahahahaha
 
gaganjat said:
lol...Seema I really dont believe in that kind of karma. accha karam- bura karam , swarg-narak bla bla bla....

I believe in 'true karma' which is doing what I think is right !
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and believe in comfort karma. do watever is convenient...ha ha ha
 
ritu said:
:)jab hum kisi dusre ke liye kuch accha kartae hai niswarth bhav se to usse udarta kaha jata hai.it does not have be a great deed,while driving letting the other person in the changing lane to come infront of u according to me is a great act of kindness.
and by doing so we r doing good to ourselves.the feeling u get when u know u have done something good for somebody is .......:)
so be kind........:)
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bobbbo....bohat dino main deekhee.........aur sab theek-thaak to chal rya ne:):)
 
I am talking about giving company to a person whose husband recently died and in a foreign country she is feeling very lonely rt. now.ab kisi bhi baat ki taang tod marod ke osko kisi ko prove karna ho to koi nahi kuch kah sakta.
aur tum ye mat samjh lena ki jo tum yaha logo ki khilli uddati rahti ho oska juwab dena nahi atta.par kinhi karno se maine yaha par kisi se bhi bahas n akarne ka nirnay le rakha hai.par paani sar se uttar gaya na os deen.so stay away from me.i wisk ki jatland pe vo smiley hota ...ye do jode haath baksh de mereko.
samjhdar aapni samjhdaari me mar gaya bewkoof ne nu sochi merte dar gaya.
seemasindhu said:
u joking dude? ha ha. i know what i wrote is bit crude. but than i just can't manipulate. what is kindness? a lion is hungry to death, being a goat, shall i offer myself to help his hunger? i commute by train to my office, an aunty also comes from my palce upto station. she walks so snail pace. i gaveher company for few days but than i started reaching office late. than i just wish her good morning and kalti maar leti hoon...hahahahaha
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thanks gagan.god bless u .
gaganjat said:
Ritu, you are absolutly right !

But what I said fit the bigger scene. In that bus full of people only one guy was willing to help you.

Who will have an approach for others who are good for nothing ? ME ! Thats right !

But I know what you mean. These small things makes a big difference and reflects values of our society. Which are generally missing.

I am sure you are bringing up your kids very well !

All the best to you ! we need more people like you
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ritu said:
I am talking about giving company to a person whose husband recently died and in a foreign country she is feeling very lonely rt. now.ab kisi bhi baat ki taang tod marod ke osko kisi ko prove karna ho to koi nahi kuch kah sakta.
aur tum ye mat samjh lena ki jo tum yaha logo ki khilli uddati rahti ho oska juwab dena nahi atta.par kinhi karno se maine yaha par kisi se bhi bahas n akarne ka nirnay le rakha hai.par paani sar se uttar gaya na os deen.so stay away from me.i wisk ki jatland pe vo smiley hota ...ye do jode haath baksh de mereko.
samjhdar aapni samjhdaari me mar gaya bewkoof ne nu sochi merte dar gaya.
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ha ah tht was great. anywz i dnt mean 2 pull any1. i just poked sum fun 4 kicks. u took it on heart. yu uuuuuuuuuuu
 
ritu said:
:)jab hum kisi dusre ke liye kuch accha kartae hai niswarth bhav se to usse udarta kaha jata hai.it does not have be a great deed,while driving letting the other person in the changing lane to come infront of u according to me is a great act of kindness.
and by doing so we r doing good to ourselves.the feeling u get when u know u have done something good for somebody is .......:)
so be kind........:)
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Being kind and considerate will always pay you.Unfortunately we want quick results for every thing.No kindness goes waste ever. It gets back to you multiplied but it is an ornament of the people who don't want quick fixes.....We ought to do a kindness and forget about it...It is like an investment which is given back to you with compound interest by the GOD ALMIGHTY.......Unfortunately mortals don't understand this truth Ritu bebey.
 
of course i m living up2 life with this theory. else u know life is bloody bitch, if u dnt tame its wild ways, it will bitch u like hell. wats good or bad man? its all in mind. c my neigbor married a muslim guy...i told my muma wats d issue...its all ok. 1 shud step in wid times. (PS: bt inside i was telling mysylf tht its is all ok till it happens 2 neigbors, nt in my family. hahahahaha). So many a things worth depends on "frame-of-reference". lol
 
seemasindhu said:
of course i m living up2 life with this theory. else u know life is bloody bitch, if u dnt tame its wild ways, it will bitch u like hell. wats good or bad man? its all in mind. c my neigbor married a muslim guy...i told my muma wats d issue...its all ok. 1 shud step in wid times. (PS: bt inside i was telling mysylf tht its is all ok till it happens 2 neigbors, nt in my family. hahahahaha). So many a things worth depends on "frame-of-reference". lol
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Ke kehna chahwe se bebey eemaddi..............Merre kon palle paddi teri baat.Thoddi lalltinn aur jalla....bhakkadd baal ke samjhaiye laaddo...?
 
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