WHAT IS THE MERIT OF SUCCESSFUL MARRAIGE?

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Hi Everyone,

This is the question which follows me from a decade. I have few question in mind reagrding the successful marraige.

1. What the key factor deciding the success or failure of marriage.

2. Leaving togather for whole life, even hate each other? is it merit of successful marriage?

3. Bearing the cruelty of her husband whole life, just for the sake of society or for the sake of own children?

I an expeting few words from older member of this website, who have more life expereience than youger generation of the life.

Please drop a comment!!!!
 
I am surprised buddy that we are getting no guidance/response/outlooks from our elder folks on this issue. Bas aap, Indu jee aur mai.3 response.......bade log to aa hi nahi rahe hain is issue mein. :) ......just thinking of what can be the possible reasons for that :)
Vivek
 
This question does not have a universal answer simply because the word "successful" in very subjective. The term "successful" would mean different things to different people. Let me illustarte:

1. Many people marry simply for reproductive reasons. Once they get children - their marriage is successful.

2. Some people may marry for money, and they feel successful once they get money.

3. Many people (in villages) marry simply because it is something to be done (otherwise why would they get kids married in their teens), and they never wonder about the word "successful marriage".

4. In the West, many people marry just for companionship and they move on once they get bored with each other. Who can define successful marriage for them!

Now, you can define what would be a successful marriage for yourself.

Good Luck.
 
dheeraj ssab,
i dont know what type of ans u r looking for, but just to clarify there is difference between happy marriage and successful marriage.
 
Thank Budh Nashier ji for ur very good comment.
Anil bhai, "What is better Love Marraige or Arrange Marraige?" If this is put infront of the poeple most of the person say arrange marriage becuase they think that it is very less divorce rate in case arrange marriage and it is more stable.

My question lies in the above lines.

In i have seen many couple wo live togather, but never talk to each other. They keep on fighting to each other, and iwe count we will find that they most of part of thier marriage life spen just in fighting. yet they are living togather, just for the sake of society or for the sake of children/parent or any other reason. And you find many examples of this kind couple around you.

My question is that If a marriage will be consider successful if the couple live togather whole life even hate each other.
 
Ok boys and girls you want to hear from elderly people. Here, it is quite simple successful marriage is when two people can not live without each other. They fight, they argue but whenever one is away other one feels incomplete. As far as abusive relationship is concerned it is unfortunate fact that most of the times victims can not break away for what ever reason be it social,family or economical. No one should have to lead a life of fear and oppression. Marriage is a union and not a business contract but those who make it a contract are unlucky and miss out once in life time opportunity to love and be loved. Life without love could be quite dry.
 
Very beautiful answer by Shubha Chand Sheorayan ji and must say perfect answer. Hope every couple has this only and only this type of relationship where they cannot live without each other. It need patience, understanding and faith between each other.
 
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