What is the most cherished asset of your life
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Please read some thoughts of Chanakya the great Indian thinker.
One should study philosophy because it is the light that illuminates all sciences, it provides the techniques of all actions and it is a pillar that supports all right actions. Samkhya, Yoga and atheistic materialism are the three schools of Indian philosophy. Philosophy helps one to distinguish between good and evil in the study of the Vedas, between material gain and loss in economics and between good policies and bad policies in politics. Above all it teaches between the good and bad use of force. When the other three sciences ( Vedas, economics and politics) are studied by the light of philosophy, people benefit because their minds are kept steady in adversity and prosperity and they become proficient in thought, speech and action,
A trained intellect is the result of learning, from intellect ensures successful application or yoga from successful application comes self possession. This is what is meant by efficiency in acquiring knowledge. Self control which is the basis of knowledge and discipline is acquired by giving up lust, anger, greed, conceit, arrogance and foolhardiness. Living according to principles or shastras means avoiding over indulgence in all pleasures of the five senses i.e. hearing, touch, sight, taste and smell. A person who over indulges will soon perish even if he is the king of the four corners of the world.
One should study philosophy because it is the light that illuminates all sciences, it provides the techniques of all actions and it is a pillar that supports all right actions. Samkhya, Yoga and atheistic materialism are the three schools of Indian philosophy. Philosophy helps one to distinguish between good and evil in the study of the Vedas, between material gain and loss in economics and between good policies and bad policies in politics. Above all it teaches between the good and bad use of force. When the other three sciences ( Vedas, economics and politics) are studied by the light of philosophy, people benefit because their minds are kept steady in adversity and prosperity and they become proficient in thought, speech and action,
A trained intellect is the result of learning, from intellect ensures successful application or yoga from successful application comes self possession. This is what is meant by efficiency in acquiring knowledge. Self control which is the basis of knowledge and discipline is acquired by giving up lust, anger, greed, conceit, arrogance and foolhardiness. Living according to principles or shastras means avoiding over indulgence in all pleasures of the five senses i.e. hearing, touch, sight, taste and smell. A person who over indulges will soon perish even if he is the king of the four corners of the world.
narendra81
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The most cherished assets of my life are my dreams and then the memories.
Dreams motivate me to keep on going further for next goal one after another.
And memories feed the need of joy and happiness along with a lot of experience which help in fulfilling the dreams.
Dreams motivate me to keep on going further for next goal one after another.
And memories feed the need of joy and happiness along with a lot of experience which help in fulfilling the dreams.
upendersingh
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There are a lot of cherished assets in my life and in fact I feel myself among the richest of this world, though I earn just some thousands Rs. per month.
One of my assets is my parents. I remember some years back my mother had paralysis attack. When she was in hospital I saw the polythenes she used to store in kitchen as wrapper for my lunch for office and I couldn't stop bursting into tears thinking that now no one would be storing the polythenes for me. People were saying that she would never be able to speak or walk now, I earned billions dollar when she recovered upto 95%. She speaks, she walks. Thanks to the system of this world.
Last year I again earned billions of dollars. My father's heartbeat had dipped to as low as to 25 per minute. When in hospital, doctors treated my father and after 3-4 days they suggested that pacemaker would be required and they referred him to another hospital. My father was in DP and he never took bribe and never took liquor. My father didn't have medical card and thus pacemaker's expense (around 1 lac) would have to be borne totally by us, but just before the angiography test, machine failed and I said to my father that if the heartbeat is almost normal then why not to wait and watch. We got wishfully discharged and about 9 months have passed, my father is quite normal. We have also got CGHS card now. I don't know how long I will be lucky to have my parents, but at present I am among the richests in this concern. I remember the Deewar movie's dialogue 'Mere paas maan hai', but I am richer than that character of that movie as I have both mother and father.
My another asset is my education. I remember, when I passed 10th class, my father forced me to have science side, as he wanted me to become a doctor or engineer, but I was interested in commerce. As I had been in Hindi medium, so I failed in XI class. I failed because of not knowing English. Then I changed my side to commerce and started working hard to learn English. That was my first experience as to how one can achieve something by working hard. I remember, once there was only one student passed in English in term exams, and that was Upender Singh. By getting inspired of that success, I also worked hard in exercising and I am very pleased of my physique. Though I am not any body builder and just have 68-70 kg weight, but thanks to my that decision of exercising. So far I don't have any ailment, though I am not sure how long I can be proud of my this asset.
My most important asset is my ladylove. I have worked hard in love as well. I tried a lot to impress some girls, but that was the different era in 90s in Delhi. I live in a colony in Rohini. I tried to make some girl my friend for about 8 years but to no avail. My that struggle bore fruit when I was in Aptech in 1998. A girl (Preeti) came in my life and my life changed for ever. Because of her I have performed excellently. Since 11.03.98 no human being can claim of having any kind of physical relations with me and no girl/woman can claim that I have made any vulgar signal towards them. If someone claims with proof or evidence then I can give Rs. 1,00,000 to her/him. It's a Jat's promise. In my overall life as well, no human being can claim so though there were some eve-teasings and some other mischiefs on 6-7 occasions. If I take over this whole world and have my parents with me as well for whole of my life, but not my ladylove, then it will be very tough for me to live, but if I have her and not this world and my parents, they I can live with her even in a hut. so she is like a life for me right now. Since last 12+ years she is also in her house. Her family members say that these love like things are filmy stuffs and with the passing time all forget about love. But I love her truly and I am determined to get her some day. I didn't want to write in this thread as I have not succeeded now and I am afraid of media, which may disturb my performance, but finally I decided to write. If any mediaman comes to me, then I will not co-operate him as I have not achieved my goal right now and I am not sure that I am really going to succeed. I am not forgetting this fact that no one has won the battle of love so far in this world.
Moreover, being Jat, being Hindu, being Indian are also my assets.
Thanks
With best regards.
One of my assets is my parents. I remember some years back my mother had paralysis attack. When she was in hospital I saw the polythenes she used to store in kitchen as wrapper for my lunch for office and I couldn't stop bursting into tears thinking that now no one would be storing the polythenes for me. People were saying that she would never be able to speak or walk now, I earned billions dollar when she recovered upto 95%. She speaks, she walks. Thanks to the system of this world.
Last year I again earned billions of dollars. My father's heartbeat had dipped to as low as to 25 per minute. When in hospital, doctors treated my father and after 3-4 days they suggested that pacemaker would be required and they referred him to another hospital. My father was in DP and he never took bribe and never took liquor. My father didn't have medical card and thus pacemaker's expense (around 1 lac) would have to be borne totally by us, but just before the angiography test, machine failed and I said to my father that if the heartbeat is almost normal then why not to wait and watch. We got wishfully discharged and about 9 months have passed, my father is quite normal. We have also got CGHS card now. I don't know how long I will be lucky to have my parents, but at present I am among the richests in this concern. I remember the Deewar movie's dialogue 'Mere paas maan hai', but I am richer than that character of that movie as I have both mother and father.
My another asset is my education. I remember, when I passed 10th class, my father forced me to have science side, as he wanted me to become a doctor or engineer, but I was interested in commerce. As I had been in Hindi medium, so I failed in XI class. I failed because of not knowing English. Then I changed my side to commerce and started working hard to learn English. That was my first experience as to how one can achieve something by working hard. I remember, once there was only one student passed in English in term exams, and that was Upender Singh. By getting inspired of that success, I also worked hard in exercising and I am very pleased of my physique. Though I am not any body builder and just have 68-70 kg weight, but thanks to my that decision of exercising. So far I don't have any ailment, though I am not sure how long I can be proud of my this asset.
My most important asset is my ladylove. I have worked hard in love as well. I tried a lot to impress some girls, but that was the different era in 90s in Delhi. I live in a colony in Rohini. I tried to make some girl my friend for about 8 years but to no avail. My that struggle bore fruit when I was in Aptech in 1998. A girl (Preeti) came in my life and my life changed for ever. Because of her I have performed excellently. Since 11.03.98 no human being can claim of having any kind of physical relations with me and no girl/woman can claim that I have made any vulgar signal towards them. If someone claims with proof or evidence then I can give Rs. 1,00,000 to her/him. It's a Jat's promise. In my overall life as well, no human being can claim so though there were some eve-teasings and some other mischiefs on 6-7 occasions. If I take over this whole world and have my parents with me as well for whole of my life, but not my ladylove, then it will be very tough for me to live, but if I have her and not this world and my parents, they I can live with her even in a hut. so she is like a life for me right now. Since last 12+ years she is also in her house. Her family members say that these love like things are filmy stuffs and with the passing time all forget about love. But I love her truly and I am determined to get her some day. I didn't want to write in this thread as I have not succeeded now and I am afraid of media, which may disturb my performance, but finally I decided to write. If any mediaman comes to me, then I will not co-operate him as I have not achieved my goal right now and I am not sure that I am really going to succeed. I am not forgetting this fact that no one has won the battle of love so far in this world.
Moreover, being Jat, being Hindu, being Indian are also my assets.
Thanks
With best regards.
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brahmtewatia
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nice autobiography upen. i liked yr honesty when you spoke of yourself... true JAT - simple/honest nd also stupid. i hope nd pray that you enjoy the warmth of yr parental love up to the fullest... period !!!
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however, i fail to understand the relationship of yr performance vis-a-vis media ? imo, performance depends on so many other factors, but never heard of its dependence on media.
my best wishes that you do well in yr future performance and succeed. remember love only succeeds when yr performance is good... amen !
upendersingh
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Thanks Brahm Ji. Just to share views, thoughts, achievements and merits/demerits with the communtiy brothers here. Nothing to impress anybody.
Well, as far as my performance's relationship with the media is concerned, I would like to say that it is highly related with the media like things. Suppose I tell about myself to some journalist and next day I come to know that I have been disqualified, I will be ashamed as to why I told about myself in media without having succeeded. I have been performing like this to make my life happy, but if some big calamity falls upon me next day, then I will be in deep mental stress as I have told in media about myself that I am this and I am that, but some calamity has fallen upon me which means my doctrines are also not effective. I will feel very sad then. If I overcome this battle of love with the help of media, then I will be ashamed for whole of my life. I couldn't have succeeded, it was media which made me succeed. No, no, I can't bear it. Moreover, I can't write all things here. Though no body cares for such things, but if any person wants to meet me, wants to enquire about me personally, then one is most welcome.
brahmtewatia
Active member
good that you took my post (2nd part) in affirmative. if you had read btwn the lines, you would have extracted a different meaning, which actually was a satire to chaff you... though in good humor.
urvashipawar
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My memories still make me laugh and live
My most cherished asset are my memories.I am 24 year old and these years of my life were full of confusion,mistakes,perfection but i still remember them because i can never have that fear.....that happiness.........that sadness ever again out of those small small things.We grow old to become wise and stop doing mistakes coz now we think before even stepping out.
My most cherished asset are my memories.I am 24 year old and these years of my life were full of confusion,mistakes,perfection but i still remember them because i can never have that fear.....that happiness.........that sadness ever again out of those small small things.We grow old to become wise and stop doing mistakes coz now we think before even stepping out.
Apart from parents, brother and whole family The mistakes I did and the learning I carry with me.
Also, mhaare khet, mhaari jhotii, kholla, kaatade, baachde, mhara tactar, mhaari koladhi, buggi, cultivator, heirro, mhara gaam aala bitoda, boonga, johd ki maati jo tandurra aale le jaya kare, kandwaale ke khetaa aala jaaman ka pedda ... aur bhi nrre asset sai ... koi audd naa se cherishable asset ki ... arr saara ke saare gail ek ek quintal memories judd rahi sai ...
arr haan woh maati kaa gharghulla bhi jo mhaare polli mein se
Also, mhaare khet, mhaari jhotii, kholla, kaatade, baachde, mhara tactar, mhaari koladhi, buggi, cultivator, heirro, mhara gaam aala bitoda, boonga, johd ki maati jo tandurra aale le jaya kare, kandwaale ke khetaa aala jaaman ka pedda ... aur bhi nrre asset sai ... koi audd naa se cherishable asset ki ... arr saara ke saare gail ek ek quintal memories judd rahi sai ...
arr haan woh maati kaa gharghulla bhi jo mhaare polli mein se
Sir ji, wo yadein hi mera b jivan h, wo cheez dobara nahin mil sakti, wo gaon ka jiwan, sham hote ne kheton pe jana, wo tubewell par dand pelna, mhens ki dhaar kadhna, gehun ka lokk uthana, apne patthya k gela nehar pe jake niri bakwad me lage rehna,mhari do mhens jada me byaye karti ar ek garmiyan me, mhens byane pe kili banaye karti dadi meri aur ghar me khushi ka sa mahaul ho jaya karta, buddho k pas baithkar unki baatein sunna, ye sab amulya dhrohar h jo sirf yaadein bankar reh gayi h, wo sab wapas nahi aa sakta,
Jaunga to me gam me hi, kuch 10 ek sal aur kama leya, maera jivan wahin k liye h,mann nahi lagta in metro cities me par ke kare rehna pad rehya h, ek bat aur h gaon aajkal pehle jise na rahe, ude b bhundi rajneeti chal ri h, kise ne nu bera pat jya ak phalane ka chhora itne rupaiye mahine k kamawe se, usne dekh k sare phuke jaa hain aur usne phasan ki koshish kare h,
KAASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Upender bhai, maine ek do bar aapki love life k bare me ek do bar yahan JL pe padha h, salute to your sacrifice and true love for the lady,
Bahut kuch karne ka kehne ka man karta hai tumse,par pata nahi bhai apki apni life h, isliye kuch nahi kehta kahin bura man ja. anyways i hope k aap apne maksad me sucess ho aur jab ho to hume jarur batana, i will be delghted that day.
Thanks
Ravinder Singh
urmiladuhan
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urmiladuhan
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urmiladuhan
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where is it? kindly post the link.
upendersingh
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You are a genuine person! Very few people are like that
Very few??????????????
No one, Urmila Ji...
Sorry to say, but it is true that if we succeed then we will be the first one to do so and then I will deserve to say proudly 'There is no one like me, no one was and no one will be'...
Believe it or not...some invisible power is in between us...
preetikhatri
Member
mine is confidence and self dependance.
everyone can leave u in adverse situation
bt believe to make urself alive
n happy is the happiness inside u.
so jst realize yr strengh
n u can get whatever u want.
everyone can leave u in adverse situation
bt believe to make urself alive
n happy is the happiness inside u.
so jst realize yr strengh
n u can get whatever u want.
urmiladuhan
New member
Very few??????????????
No one, Urmila Ji...
Sorry to say, but it is true that if we succeed then we will be the first one to do so and then I will deserve to say proudly 'There is no one like me, no one was and no one will be'...
Believe it or not...some invisible power is in between us...
Thank you for providing the link.
I respect your feelings and your perseverance! It is in adverse situation that one becomes strong. I wish you all the best.
Regards,
Urmila.
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urmiladuhan
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Very few??????????????
No one, Urmila Ji...
Sorry to say, but it is true that if we succeed then we will be the first one to do so and then I will deserve to say proudly 'There is no one like me, no one was and no one will be'...
Believe it or not...some invisible power is in between us...
Here is a nice story. (from newspaper)
Love Story:
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others including Love. One day it was announced to all the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left. Love wanted to persevere till the last possible moment. When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, “Richness, can you take me with you?” Richness answered, “No, I can’t. There is lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place for you.” Love decided to ask Vanity who was passing by in a beautiful vessel: “Vanity, please help me!” “I can’t help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat” – answered Vanity. Sadness was close by. So love asked for help : “Sadness, let me go with you.” “Oh… Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!” Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her! Suddenly there was a voice, “ Come Love, I will take you.” It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived at a dry island, the elder went his own way. Love, realising how much he owed the elder, asked Knowledge – another elder, “Who helped me?” “It was Time”, knowledge answered. “Time?” asked Love. “But why did Time help me?” Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, “Because, only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is.”