What Jat boys say about Jat gals?

[dkumars]

I am very disappointed to see that girls like Neelam are trying to justify girl's actions and behaviour which in the first place do not need any justification. Do guys justify themselves for the wrong things that their brethrens do? Why do such things crop up only in the case of girls? Its never considered wrong when a boy flirts with girls but a girl behaving that way is immediately stigmatised.A boy has got all the freedoms and there are no fears or constraints for him. He can roam around freely and society doesn't question him.But if a girl does so all hell breaks loose.Girls are said to be proud if they keep to themselves and loose if they are open.Comeon guys grow up!!!Your attitude is biased,realise it and do some introspection.A girl has to be very careful and thoughtful while living in this society where boys too live minus these considerations and restrictions.Try to live under the scrutiny of society like girls live all the time and then speak

Now...girls are as human as you boys are. They too have their own imperfections and qualities. Jaise ladke devata nahi hote vaise hi ladki bhi devi nahi hoti.There are all kinds of girls just as there are all kinds of boys. So do not be biased while judging them.

Thanks Poonam for participation and understanding and giving correct direction to the discussion.

Kindly make good use of this(link below) thread also

http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5413

 

[poonamchaudhary]

I think if Neelam Ji is making a meaningful contribution with unbiased approach then in my oppinion you should not have any problem.

Its not at all Boys vs Girls,,,,,,aim is to find the positive and negative aspects of personalities of the both sexes so that its helpful in better understanding:rock


I am very disappointed to see that girls like Neelam are trying to justify girl's actions and behaviour which in the first place do not need any justification. Do guys justify themselves for the wrong things that their brethrens do? Why do such things crop up only in the case of girls? Its never considered wrong when a boy flirts with girls but a girl behaving that way is immediately stigmatised.A boy has got all the freedoms and there are no fears or constraints for him. He can roam around freely and society doesn't question him.But if a girl does so all hell breaks loose.Girls are said to be proud if they keep to themselves and loose if they are open.Comeon guys grow up!!!Your attitude is biased,realise it and do some introspection.A girl has to be very careful and thoughtful while living in this society where boys too live minus these considerations and restrictions.Try to live under the scrutiny of society like girls live all the time and then speak.

Now...girls are as human as you boys are. They too have their own imperfections and qualities. Jaise ladke devata nahi hote vaise hi ladki bhi devi nahi hoti.There are all kinds of girls just as there are all kinds of boys. So do not be biased while judging them.

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No i never have any problem with unbiased approach...and i do not have any problem with Neelam...the problem is the mindset of men.Perhaps you have failed to understand the import of my post...please do not misunderstand or misinterpret it.My post conveys very clearly what i have problems with.
Its really good that its not boys vs girls...it should never be so. There should be peaceful coexistence...and please promote this "better understanding".

 

[sachinb]

I have a very balanced mindset,,,,,it leaves in a state of equilibrium,,,and dont get disturbed,,,


As far as Peaceful Coexistence is concerned,,,,,I am not only promoting rather i am Practising it in my daily life:rock

So in your oppinion, the girls dont have any attitude problem,,,,,and if they have that bad attitude,,,in that case it should be attributed to circumstances prevailing in the society,,,,, and its not their fault

If that is the case then everything is dictated by circumstances,,,,why blame Jat Boys:rock

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No i never have any problem with unbiased approach...and i do not have any problem with Neelam...the problem is the mindset of men.Perhaps you have failed to understand the import of my post...please do not misunderstand or misinterpret it.My post conveys very clearly what i have problems with.
Its really good that its not boys vs girls...it should never be so. There should be peaceful coexistence...and please promote this "better understanding".[/quote]

 

[poonamchaudhary]

If you have a balanced mindset its really good... and above all the fact that you are practising the peaceful coexistence in your daily life..i must say you are exemplary. But why do you "leave" state of equilibrium...why dont you "live" in it..that will be much better.

Did i really say girls dont have any attitude problem...i think i said girls are as human and prone to imperfections as boys are.Please read what i said again and clearly before being judgemental.I never blamed jat boys specifically i think it was men in general.
[quote=sachinb;186931]I have a very balanced mindset,,,,,it leaves in a state of equilibrium,,,and dont get disturbed,,,


As far as Peaceful Coexistence is concerned,,,,,I am not only promoting rather i am Practising it in my daily life:rock

So in your oppinion, the girls dont have any attitude problem,,,,,and if they have that bad attitude,,,in that case it should be attributed to circumstances prevailing in the society,,,,, and its not their fault

If that is the case then everything is dictated by circumstances,,,,why blame Jat Boys:rock

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No i never have any problem with unbiased approach...and i do not have any problem with Neelam...the problem is the mindset of men.Perhaps you have failed to understand the import of my post...please do not misunderstand or misinterpret it.My post conveys very clearly what i have problems with.
Its really good that its not boys vs girls...it should never be so. There should be peaceful coexistence...and please promote this "better understanding".[/quote][/quote]

 

[anilsinghd]

जितना मुश्किल जात्नियों को समझ पाना है, उस से कहीं मुश्किल उन्हें समझा पाना है.....

Hence prooved...

(ये इतना सत्य कथन है कि इसे स्वीकारा नही गया, और पोस्ट को डिलीट करवा दिया गया.....)

मुद्दे से हट कर तथ्यों को तारोड़ मरोड़ कर पेश किया जा रहा है...

मुद्दा यह है की, जत्नियों में दो अक्षर पढ़ के (नौकरी पेशा) होकर घमंड व अभिमान आ जाता है....FAKE ATTITUDE...(Un-necessary)...जो बाकी की आम लड़कियों (non-jat) में नही आता..

जबकि इसके विपरीत जाट लड़का जितना पढता है ...utna hi Humble , (down to earth) , understanding...and अपनी जड़ों (संस्कृति) से जुड़ता है...

Satinder , Can you provide evidence in support of your statements and it would be great if you can do the same in the light of the law of equality. I mean assign the same standards while doing a similar analysis on guys.


Jat ladka jitna padha likha hota hai , utna hi humble???


I do not think any one following JL would concur with that!

 

[ssgoyat]

Jat ladka jitna padha likha hota hai , utna hi humble???

ha ha ha.

i also never thought that i would have to explain this little thing to you,...

अनपढ़ जाट, पढ़े बराबर
पढ़ा लिखा जाट खुदा बराबर...

Pls don't doubt yourself...

for girls, it would have been a futile attempt...but for you...!!!!???

 

[ssgoyat]

To sum up...



चार आन्ने की मुर्गी , बारह आन्ने का मसाला..............:boxing

:rock

 

[bhavnasingh20]

DK ne ladkon ke faults pooche hein na...
chalo lemme give some egs. frm JL only.......

thr is this guy on JL...lets call him Mr. X....so all hes interested in is sending PMs to girls n then askin for their ph nos. n snaps.....ab tum batao....isnt it justified to get angry n irritated???

then thr is another Mr. Y here....n he is married...many times when i was in chaupal he wud send me a PM n try to flirt....n again n again i asked him to talk in the main chaupal..but he jus wudnt listen...
finally irritate hoke maine usse reply karna hi chhod diya....to mujhe bola...ki tum mein to bahut attitude hai .,..wht do u think of urself...blah blah blah......

so now tell me...who was at fault here?? me or those 2 ppl...n these r my personal experiences.....

n yes this is our fault...tht coz of these exp. v generalize everybody n jo bechara ladka normally humse baat karna chahta hai hum usse bhi attitude dikha dete hein....atleast this is true in my case...i cant talk abt neone else.......
n tumne woh kahawat to suni hogi....ki gehu ke saath ghun bhi pis jata hai....

n wahi un decent n normal ladkon ke saath ho jata hai.....n i dun think nebody wud disagree wit me when i say tht these days thr r very few decent ppl left....which includes guys n gals both......

so v hav kinda limited choices.....

 

[rakeshsehrawat]

Jat chahe chora ho ya chori ATTITUDE nahi to jat nahi
ar rahi baat choriya ki to bhai padhe likhe pache chori ye sochti hai ki naukri kare ya ye keh sakte ho ki azadi chahti hai galat bhi nahi hai saari umar ladke azad rehte hain ladkiya sochti hai padhne se unhe azadi mil jayegi. aaj bhi jat ki ladkiyo ki literacy rate kam hai 12wi pass karte hi baap saadi ke sochne lagte hain jyadatar biyah bhi di jati hain
jo chore choriyo ke itne gungan kar gaye ek baar ye batao jat ke alawa unhone kunsi isi chori dekh li jis mein attitude na ho
jat ke chore tein baaki chori nyu bhaje hain janu kutta eent ne dekh ke bhajta ho.
padhe likhe ar humble jat chore kit hain maane bhi milwaiyo dekha nahi aaj tahi to.
ye mere apne views hain meine kisi pe nisana nahi lagaya hai so aap logo se namar nivedan hai kripya karke dikde na chubhoye:tamatar

 

[nishantrathi82]

DK ne ladkon ke faults pooche hein na...
chalo lemme give some egs. frm JL only.......

thr is this guy on JL...lets call him Mr. X....so all hes interested in is sending PMs to girls n then askin for their ph nos. n snaps.....ab tum batao....isnt it justified to get angry n irritated???

then thr is another Mr. Y here....n he is married...many times when i was in chaupal he wud send me a PM n try to flirt....n again n again i asked him to talk in the main chaupal..but he jus wudnt listen...
finally irritate hoke maine usse reply karna hi chhod diya....to mujhe bola...ki tum mein to bahut attitude hai .,..wht do u think of urself...blah blah blah......

so now tell me...who was at fault here?? me or those 2 ppl...n these r my personal experiences.....

n yes this is our fault...tht coz of these exp. v generalize everybody n jo bechara ladka normally humse baat karna chahta hai hum usse bhi attitude dikha dete hein....atleast this is true in my case...i cant talk abt neone else.......
n tumne woh kahawat to suni hogi....ki gehu ke saath ghun bhi pis jata hai....

n wahi un decent n normal ladkon ke saath ho jata hai.....n i dun think nebody wud disagree wit me when i say tht these days thr r very few decent ppl left....which includes guys n gals both......

so v hav kinda limited choices.....

Mam first kind suggetion don't mess two threads in one there is another thread running named What Jat girls think abt Jat boys.
And another thing jaab woh thread isse pehle se chal rahe theee tab to apne kuch nahe likha aur jab kisssse ne kuch negative points baata diye girls k to aab aapko buuraaaaa laag gaya aur then u r start taking revenge but anyways u can write anytime but please put ur views in that thread.

 

[nishantrathi82]

Jat chahe chora ho ya chori ATTITUDE nahi to jat nahi
ar rahi baat choriya ki to bhai padhe likhe pache chori ye sochti hai ki naukri kare ya ye keh sakte ho ki azadi chahti hai galat bhi nahi hai saari umar ladke azad rehte hain ladkiya sochti hai padhne se unhe azadi mil jayegi. aaj bhi jat ki ladkiyo ki literacy rate kam hai 12wi pass karte hi baap saadi ke sochne lagte hain jyadatar biyah bhi di jati hain
jo chore choriyo ke itne gungan kar gaye ek baar ye batao jat ke alawa unhone kunsi isi chori dekh li jis mein attitude na ho
jat ke chore tein baaki chori nyu bhaje hain janu kutta eent ne dekh ke bhajta ho.
padhe likhe ar humble jat chore kit hain maane bhi milwaiyo dekha nahi aaj tahi to.
ye mere apne views hain meine kisi pe nisana nahi lagaya hai so aap logo se namar nivedan hai kripya karke dikde na chubhoye:tamatar

Rakesh bhai mai auro ka to nahe jaanta lekin bhai mai bahut saare Baniya ladkiyo aur punjabi ladki, pandit ladkiyo ko jaanta hun bhai maine itna Attitude na dekha unme this is my person point of view.

 

[anjusin]

nishant ji jat ladkion mai hi nhi jat ladkon mai bhi attitude hai.....aap ye kyo nhi sochte ki we belong to same community to similar traits honge...dossre community ke ladkon mai bhi itna attitude nhi jitna jat ladkon mai.........so where do u take this comparision to

 

[bhavnasingh20]

Mam first kind suggetion don't mess two threads in one there is another thread running named What Jat girls think abt Jat boys.
And another thing jaab woh thread isse pehle se chal rahe theee tab to apne kuch nahe likha aur jab kisssse ne kuch negative points baata diye girls k to aab aapko buuraaaaa laag gaya aur then u r start taking revenge but anyways u can write anytime but please put ur views in that thread.

i dun think u read my post carefully.....read it properly first n then post ur comments......

n revenge to kafi strong word ho gaya.....aisi bekar ki thinking atleast meri nahin hai....

n i did accept tht girls do hav attitude prob.....so does tht mean ki am takin revenge..??? n cud u also plz clarify wit whom m taking revenge...coz as far as i know....over here m supporting wht negative things guys said abt girls.....

 

[anjusin]

bhavnaa ji bilkul sahi jawab :rock

 

[rakeshsehrawat]

Rakesh bhai mai auro ka to nahe jaanta lekin bhai mai bahut saare Baniya ladkiyo aur punjabi ladki, pandit ladkiyo ko jaanta hun bhai maine itna Attitude na dekha unme this is my person point of view.

I know a few jat girls who are well educated and very humble.
sabki apni apni quality hoti hain yahan jatland pe hi kuch jat dekhe hain jo chori dekhte hi ise sudhe ho jya hain janu isa bhola aadmi to duniya ke takhte pe nahi hai.
sab dhal ke aadmi ho hain yo thread likhna bahut galat hai aade aan ka sabka hak hai aade log apas me apne aache vichar ek doosre ke liye dene aate hain jato ko ek platform mila hai aachi cheeze jan-ne ka ek doosre ko samajhne ka ek doosre se dosti karne ka. Mere khyal se aise thread us bhai chare aur dosti ke liye aache nahi hain.

 

[vivekdh]

ke baat karre hai rakesh tu mere te,panne te urr apne jisse choran te nahi milla ke aaj tai appa ne kad kisse chori ke dalle marre bata ?

padhe likhe ar humble jat chore kit hain maane bhi milwaiyo dekha nahi aaj tahi to.
ye mere apne views hain meine kisi pe nisana nahi lagaya hai so aap logo se namar nivedan hai kripya karke dikde na chubhoye:tamatar

 

[nishantrathi82]

i dun think u read my post carefully.....read it properly first n then post ur comments......

n revenge to kafi strong word ho gaya.....aisi bekar ki thinking atleast meri nahin hai....

n i did accept tht girls do hav attitude prob.....so does tht mean ki am takin revenge..??? n cud u also plz clarify wit whom m taking revenge...coz as far as i know....over here m supporting wht negative things guys said abt girls.....

Bhavna g aap kisse se revenge naahe le rahe but apne pehle kyo nahe likha tha jab kisse ne girls k baare me likha taab apne likha anyways apke maarzi mai ye nahe keh raha k boys galat nahe hoote bilkul hoote haar caste me sab tarha k loog hote hain. But iss thread me general preception poocha tha. Aur mam again boys k liye 1 alaag thread hai aap waaha likh sakte hai baake apke maarzi.

I know a few jat girls who are well educated and very humble.
sabki apni apni quality hoti hain yahan jatland pe hi kuch jat dekhe hain jo chori dekhte hi ise sudhe ho jya hain janu isa bhola aadmi to duniya ke takhte pe nahi hai.
sab dhal ke aadmi ho hain yo thread likhna bahut galat hai aade aan ka sabka hak hai aade log apas me apne aache vichar ek doosre ke liye dene aate hain jato ko ek platform mila hai aachi cheeze jan-ne ka ek doosre ko samajhne ka ek doosre se dosti karne ka. Mere khyal se aise thread us bhai chare aur dosti ke liye aache nahi hain.

Bilkul bhai sab jagha sab tarha k loog hoote hai Acche bhi bekaar bhi

 

[ssgoyat]

n yes this is our fault...tht coz of these exp. v generalize everybody n jo bechara ladka normally humse baat karna chahta hai hum usse bhi attitude dikha dete hein....atleast this is true in my case...i cant talk abt neone else.......
n tumne woh kahawat to suni hogi....ki gehu ke saath ghun bhi pis jata hai....

n wahi un decent n normal ladkon ke saath ho jata hai.....n i dun think nebody wud disagree wit me when i say tht these days thr r very few decent ppl left....which includes guys n gals both......

so v hav kinda limited choices..........) (this line itself speaks thousands of words)

Agreed...

The meesage that you have entered is too short...(happy now..ten words are over..)

 

[dkumars]

DK ne ladkon ke faults pooche hein na...
chalo lemme give some egs. frm JL only.......

thr is this guy on JL...lets call him Mr. X....so all hes interested in is sending PMs to girls n then askin for their ph nos. n snaps.....ab tum batao....isnt it justified to get angry n irritated???

then thr is another Mr. Y here....n he is married...many times when i was in chaupal he wud send me a PM n try to flirt....n again n again i asked him to talk in the main chaupal..but he jus wudnt listen...
finally irritate hoke maine usse reply karna hi chhod diya....to mujhe bola...ki tum mein to bahut attitude hai .,..wht do u think of urself...blah blah blah......

so now tell me...who was at fault here?? me or those 2 ppl...n these r my personal experiences.....

n yes this is our fault...tht coz of these exp. v generalize everybody n jo bechara ladka normally humse baat karna chahta hai hum usse bhi attitude dikha dete hein....atleast this is true in my case...i cant talk abt neone else.......
n tumne woh kahawat to suni hogi....ki gehu ke saath ghun bhi pis jata hai....

n wahi un decent n normal ladkon ke saath ho jata hai.....n i dun think nebody wud disagree wit me when i say tht these days thr r very few decent ppl left....which includes guys n gals both......

so v hav kinda limited choices.....

Dear Bhavna,

I agree with you here. I do accept that there are ppl like that but quoting 2 examples of such kind do not conclude anything. Well you tried to justify your point which is kinda forcing me to write and justify my side but that will lead to a long unnecessary, futile debate. So, let me take my step back. And beleive me I have good points to prove my side. I may quote myself(starting with me only ...hw many gals get PM frm me or I ever asked for a phone no. Tell me if there is a single one) there are a big no of such ppl, right here on the thread. I do not want to count the names.

And dear Gehun ke saath ghun pista hai ... ye kahawat yaha fitt nahi hoti ... kyunki Gehun aur ghun mein gehun kaam ka hota hai aur ghunn bekaar... yaha gehun wajani(good) hai aur ghun jo kaam kaa nahi hai aur thotha hai... so the analogy is just opposite... so kahavat toh modify ho gayi ki ghun se saath gehun bhi pista hai. I mean peesna toh gun ko chahte the par thodde se ghunn ke liye gehun ko bhi pees diya.

Bhawna ... Lets not divert the topic. This thread was to share boys views on gals not to debate/quarrel/fight/counter-attacks. We all are derailed from the core subject. Let us we all leave this debate here and proceed with better understanding and valid points.

Mam first kind suggetion don't mess two threads in one there is another thread running named What Jat girls think abt Jat boys.
And another thing jaab woh thread isse pehle se chal rahe theee tab to apne kuch nahe likha aur jab kisssse ne kuch negative points baata diye girls k to aab aapko buuraaaaa laag gaya aur then u r start taking revenge but anyways u can write anytime but please put ur views in that thread.

@Nishant: Revenge is litlle offending here but I agree that if they have any complains then shud choose another thread for sharing their views otherwise this thread will lose its meaning/importance/direction.

nishant ji jat ladkion mai hi nhi jat ladkon mai bhi attitude hai.....aap ye kyo nhi sochte ki we belong to same community to similar traits honge...dossre community ke ladkon mai bhi itna attitude nhi jitna jat ladkon mai.........so where do u take this comparision to

@Anju ji : I agree with you and found you are correct

i dun think u read my post carefully.....read it properly first n then post ur comments......

n revenge to kafi strong word ho gaya.....aisi bekar ki thinking atleast meri nahin hai....

n i did accept tht girls do hav attitude prob.....so does tht mean ki am takin revenge..??? n cud u also plz clarify wit whom m taking revenge...coz as far as i know....over here m supporting wht negative things guys said abt girls.....

@Bhavna, Nishant, Anju : Lets get back to the topic again. Please allow others also to share their views. This way no one is going to write anything good on this thread.

 

[sumitsehrawat]

Nothing! Jat girls and non-Jat girls are the same. All girls like all boys and like all "those-types" are different.

Thanks and Regards,
A Jat boy!

What Jat boys say about Jat gals?