What Jat boys say about Jat gals?

[choudharyneelam]

What Jat Boys Say/Feels About Jat Girls?

This is the title of the thread. Right na ?

As per the exchange of opinions is going on it feels the appropriate title must be like that.....What an individual jat boy say/feels about an individual jat girl? So important to discuss that way. Isn't it?

Jat ladke agar sahi mein samajhdar hain to kripya karke thoda sa jhuk kar dikhao aur thread ko sahi disha do. Nahin to bahas-baji mein ladke upar baithna hi pasand karte hain, yehi prove hoga conclusion mein (thought of girls will get stronger)...to kya karna hai ab?.....Posts related to topic or still the same arguments......??????

 

[sachinb]

Neelam Ji,,,here we are discussing what Jat Boys as a community think about Jat Girls as a community.

If I am not wrong I think DK started this thread keeping in mind the generic nature of jat girls to be discussed as observed by Jat boys, rather than discussing specific cases,,,

,,,,,offcourse i am open to specific discussion based on individual's experiences as well,,

I do agree with your concern about moving this thread in the right direction,,,chalo meri taraf se promise ki is thread mein main koyi bhi maskhari nahi karunga,,,,,will contribute very seriously,,,,,ek-aadhi baar haansi chhut jyaaa to maaf kar diyo:rock

What Jat Boys Say/Feels About Jat Girls?

This is the title of the thread. Right na ?

As per the exchange of opinions is going on it feels the appropriate title must be like that.....What an individual jat boy say/feels about an individual jat girl? So important to discuss that way. Isn't it?

Jat ladke agar sahi mein samajhdar hain to kripya karke thoda sa jhuk kar dikhao aur thread ko sahi disha do. Nahin to bahas-baji mein ladke upar baithna hi pasand karte hain, yehi prove hoga conclusion mein (thought of girls will get stronger)...to kya karna hai ab?.....Posts related to topic or still the same arguments......??????

 

[dkumars]

What Jat Boys Say/Feels About Jat Girls?

This is the title of the thread. Right na ?

As per the exchange of opinions is going on it feels the appropriate title must be like that.....What an individual jat boy say/feels about an individual jat girl? So important to discuss that way. Isn't it?

Jat ladke agar sahi mein samajhdar hain to kripya karke thoda sa jhuk kar dikhao aur thread ko sahi disha do. Nahin to bahas-baji mein ladke upar baithna hi pasand karte hain, yehi prove hoga conclusion mein (thought of girls will get stronger)...to kya karna hai ab?.....Posts related to topic or still the same arguments......??????

Refer to point no 2 in the following post.
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showpost.php?p=186764&postcount=46http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25800&page=4

Sar katta sakte hai magar sar jhuka sakte nahi. This proves that atleat mein samjhdarr nahi hoon and I am happy not to be samjhdarr and fortunate not to fall in such samjhdarr's category where gals do.

Gals my foot ... yeah i said my foot ... this is deliberatly written comment. Gals u r welcome to fight if someone felt offended esply the new comers who consider bond themselves. Whenever i shall get time I shall respond back in the same lang.

 

[nishantrathi82]

What Jat Boys Say/Feels About Jat Girls?

This is the title of the thread. Right na ?

As per the exchange of opinions is going on it feels the appropriate title must be like that.....What an individual jat boy say/feels about an individual jat girl? So important to discuss that way. Isn't it?

Jat ladke agar sahi mein samajhdar hain to kripya karke thoda sa jhuk kar dikhao aur thread ko sahi disha do. Nahin to bahas-baji mein ladke upar baithna hi pasand karte hain, yehi prove hoga conclusion mein (thought of girls will get stronger)...to kya karna hai ab?.....Posts related to topic or still the same arguments......??????

I think i have already given my opinion both in Negative and in positive ways. And don't want to b part of any unnecessary discussion.

 

[choudharyneelam]

I think i have already given my opinion both in Negative and in positive ways. And don't want to b part of any unnecessary discussion.

Ya, I observed and read your responses on the same.

I feel I asked something non-sense from guys (excluding people like you....not necessary to be named as everybody can calcualte on his/her own perception)....and as a result I got a great reply from Devender using high regards in it for girls. Just feeling sorry to other ladies.


I'm out of this discussion......Devender, enjoy the place and use any kind word or language you can.

 

[dkumars]

Ya, I observed and read your responses on the same.

I feel I asked something non-sense from guys (excluding people like you....not necessary to be named as everybody can calcualte on his/her own perception)....and as a result I got a great reply from Devender using high regards in it for girls. Just feeling sorry to other ladies.


I'm out of this discussion......Devender, enjoy the place and use any kind word or language you can.

Madam, its good if we can stop this discussion here. I do not want to lose my temper and write something worse or I need a break from JL

 

[ssgoyat]

But that
1) does not mean that the guys mentioned were not humble , DK and Nishant are for sure humble ! bhai tanne to mera bhi naam na liyya...me roos gaya...;-(

2) Does not mean I say all Jat Guys are humble !

Of course both of us will appreciate that we are not talking about exceptions here or case by case , lets talk in general.

You prove to me this theory :
1) JAt ladke jitne padhe likhe hote hain , utne hi humble !
2) JAt ladkiyaan jitni padhi likhi , utni hi ghamandi , attitudish !

This to me sounds absurd.

==============================

I came in contact with a lot of Jat people when i entered this virtual world , starting with JAt World ( online orkut community ) ! ( Before that i did not interact much with any people , jats or non-jats ).

I have met so many people in person and have never found anyone to be attitudish.

Pooja , Seema ji , Ruchi , Garima , Jyoti , Parmesh , Rainu , Mansi , Sonya , Meenakshi , Shweta , Bhavna , Peruse ( just to name a few )!


Well let me put it this way , either I am lucky ( to always find those "exceptions" that defy your theory ) दूर के ढोल सुहावने ही लगते हैं, ya सावन के अंधे को सब हरा -भरा ही दीखता है....he he he (on a lighter note) or your theory is wrong ?

Well, bro pls also publish the list of well educated Jat boys, whom you did not find humble n respectful..
((Pls: no virtual examples))

My list of Jatlander's, whom i have met personally (both boys, n girls) is many a times bigger than your's.

I have met personally (not virtually) thosands of Jat ppls from all across of life...from farmers to well educated (IIT, NSIT, DCE, NIT, IIM's, AIIMS..etc), doctor's, lawyers, CA's etc.....i.e, ppls like you. (in various jat's meets, at various places)

but i would only share one of the nicest example, Mr. Nitin Dahiya (IIT/IIM alumini ,who took the initiative of JL platform)

During my 7 months of rural research based project i met thousands of jat farmer's as well (in the states of Haryana, Rajasthan, Madhya pradesh, Maharashtra (fortunately i find jat belts there too), Uttar pradesh, punjab (jatt)....

And find they are the most humble n respecting ppls. except some exceptional cases of UP & Haryana (rhtk, snpt, a bit of pnpt n jhajjhar)...but those ppls, though because of their accent (foul mouth, mollad kinda, not paying respect, my south indian frnd's perception perception), but otherwise very nice ppls by heart (I have more than 70 % of my jat friends share from rohtak n sonepat, but still what we all felt, i put down in why rohtak... thread, and many (among them) appriciated my observations.

Also we see some mollads (ill educated), who somehow/anyhow gain acess to JL/chaupal....and spoil the enviornment...may be for fun or whatever..or under influence of alcohol...but those numbers are very very few, and we all get united..we ask him politely, many a times....and when he do not understand, we ask all the girls move out from chaupal, and deal him in his way....isn't it..

Also jat's used to develop fake attitude, if they happen to have faaltooo pisse...but that's not in general.

......
Regarding girls

here also my list will be longer than your's....and here also (almost all active JL gls, except 1-2 very exceptional cases)...and here also i would refrain from putting their names, for the same reason.

But it took months to finally understand them, had stiff fights with them initially (because of their attitude, and finally to accept them as it is)

Also i would like to add few more points for them:
Jat girls are slight im-mature (generally)...and become mature at a later age, than usual.

They deal/act very pecularily to stranger's...may even shout (say in a bus.."dikhda koni keeee",'foot rahi sain ke", "mere uppar chhadjaa"..whereas others (non-jat, outsider state ppls, would feel, as if ki unko chhed diya gaya ho...he he he).....better see a TV serial (F.I.R, Miss Chautala..) this is only an example on lighter note...Pls..

They are extra bold cool

Shout a lot ( )

As stated earlier by some one, they are exceptionally good till they are with parents at home, & once they move out of their home town (for study/job), they tend to develop fake attitude, n are more prone to other evils..

They are difficuilt to understand......and making them to understand...

They are very "shakki"..."demanding"....in their love affairs...he he he
....

"""""You prove to me this theory :
1) JAt ladke jitne padhe likhe hote hain , utne hi humble !
2) JAt ladkiyaan jitni padhi likhi , utni hi ghamandi , attitudish !

This to me sounds absurd."""""

le bhai
one more theory..(jo meri nahi hai...he he he)

अनपढ़ जाट , पढ़े बराबर
और पढ़ा लिखा जाट, खुदा बराबर

And even if you still have some doubts..better have a poll opinion for both questions...(even outside of JL)..with non-jat observators as well...

or better come down to India

 

[ssgoyat]

on a lighter note paleej....

कृपया छोरियों में अपने लम्बर बनाने के लिए कृपया किसी और के लम्बर न काटें, :thappad

अपने सच्चे विचार प्रकट करें, और डरें नही, में और डीके आपके हर कदम में आपके साथ हैं...:boxing


ये जानकारी , जनहित में जारी
धन्यवाद

 

[sachinb]

We were expecting a good contest here,,,,,lekin yahaan to palayan shuru ho gaya hai,,,,hence proving our points:rock

Ya, I observed and read your responses on the same.

I feel I asked something non-sense from guys (excluding people like you....not necessary to be named as everybody can calcualte on his/her own perception)....and as a result I got a great reply from Devender using high regards in it for girls. Just feeling sorry to other ladies.


I'm out of this discussion......Devender, enjoy the place and use any kind word or language you can.

 

[sunitahooda]

Laddkiyan muqabla acha kar leti hain....Neelam's positive attitude from the beginning and till the end is really appreciable. Now count how many boys posted here and how many gals....Neelam wrote wonderfully....hence it proves that boys need to come out of their fantasties and whims about girlsYani gals dont need a separate word like GALS as community....she expressed on behalf of girl's COMMUNITY

We were expecting a good contest here,,,,,lekin yahaan to palayan shuru ho gaya hai,,,,hence proving our points:rock

 

[jyotikohar]

tu rahan de goyat...............bhai madde kam vichar parkat karya kar na tae tanne intercast byah karna pad jaga............samjh gya

 

[sachinb]

thoda sa instigate karya tha sunita ji,,,,,2 to aagi

what i meant in my previous reply was Jat girls as a community,,,,aim was not to create some new thing rather to restrict the discussion to how Jat Boys think of Jat Girls,,,,,

post ke upar mat jao aap,,,,saare chhorre ghot-ghot ke peen laag rhe sein thread ne,,,,,kathe attack bolenge:rock

Laddkiyan muqabla acha kar leti hain....Neelam's positive attitude from the beginning and till the end is really appreciable. Now count how many boys posted here and how many gals....Neelam wrote wonderfully....hence it proves that boys need to come out of their fantasties and whims about girlsYani gals dont need a separate word like GALS as community....she expressed on behalf of girl's COMMUNITY

 

[jyotikohar]

kyun sachin.............mahabharat ki taiyari kar rahe ho...................kathe attack bolenge
?????????????matlab

 

[rlakra]

ab ya konsi theory aagi choriya khatar
"""""You prove to me this theory :
1) JAt ladke jitne padhe likhe hote hain , utne hi humble !
2) JAt ladkiyaan jitni padhi likhi , utni hi ghamandi , attitudish !

We are the best creation of god on this earth and being a girl I can proudly say this on behalf of every girl.
aur rahi bat attitude or ghamandi hone ki to ye gaye jamane ki bat lagti hai...........
In today's world girls has become more sensibile , suave and sophisticated . We appreciate and accept boys as they are ...........
rahi baki bat chora...... ki to wo kuch jyada humble na hove se
sab mein koot kooot kar attitude bhara pada se........
example to humne dekh hi liye.........

samajdara ne ishara hi kafi hota hai......:tamatar:tamatar

[
"""""You prove to me this theory :
1) JAt ladke jitne padhe likhe hote hain , utne hi humble !
2) JAt ladkiyaan jitni padhi likhi , utni hi ghamandi , attitudish !



quote=ssgoyat;187421]Well, bro pls also publish the list of well educated Jat boys, whom you did not find humble n respectful..
((Pls: no virtual examples))

My list of Jatlander's, whom i have met personally (both boys, n girls) is many a times bigger than your's.

I have met personally (not virtually) thosands of Jat ppls from all across of life...from farmers to well educated (IIT, NSIT, DCE, NIT, IIM's, AIIMS..etc), doctor's, lawyers, CA's etc.....i.e, ppls like you. (in various jat's meets, at various places)

but i would only share one of the nicest example, Mr. Nitin Dahiya (IIT/IIM alumini ,who took the initiative of JL platform)

During my 7 months of rural research based project i met thousands of jat farmer's as well (in the states of Haryana, Rajasthan, Madhya pradesh, Maharashtra (fortunately i find jat belts there too), Uttar pradesh, punjab (jatt)....

And find they are the most humble n respecting ppls. except some exceptional cases of UP & Haryana (rhtk, snpt, a bit of pnpt n jhajjhar)...but those ppls, though because of their accent (foul mouth, mollad kinda, not paying respect, my south indian frnd's perception perception), but otherwise very nice ppls by heart (I have more than 70 % of my jat friends share from rohtak n sonepat, but still what we all felt, i put down in why rohtak... thread, and many (among them) appriciated my observations.

Also we see some mollads (ill educated), who somehow/anyhow gain acess to JL/chaupal....and spoil the enviornment...may be for fun or whatever..or under influence of alcohol...but those numbers are very very few, and we all get united..we ask him politely, many a times....and when he do not understand, we ask all the girls move out from chaupal, and deal him in his way....isn't it..

Also jat's used to develop fake attitude, if they happen to have faaltooo pisse...but that's not in general.

......
Regarding girls

here also my list will be longer than your's....and here also (almost all active JL gls, except 1-2 very exceptional cases)...and here also i would refrain from putting their names, for the same reason.

But it took months to finally understand them, had stiff fights with them initially (because of their attitude, and finally to accept them as it is)

Also i would like to add few more points for them:
Jat girls are slight im-mature (generally)...and become mature at a later age, than usual.

They deal/act very pecularily to stranger's...may even shout (say in a bus.."dikhda koni keeee",'foot rahi sain ke", "mere uppar chhadjaa"..whereas others (non-jat, outsider state ppls, would feel, as if ki unko chhed diya gaya ho...he he he).....better see a TV serial (F.I.R, Miss Chautala..) this is only an example on lighter note...Pls..

They are extra bold cool

Shout a lot ( )

As stated earlier by some one, they are exceptionally good till they are with parents at home, & once they move out of their home town (for study/job), they tend to develop fake attitude, n are more prone to other evils..

They are difficuilt to understand......and making them to understand...

They are very "shakki"..."demanding"....in their love affairs...he he he
....

"""""You prove to me this theory :
1) JAt ladke jitne padhe likhe hote hain , utne hi humble !
2) JAt ladkiyaan jitni padhi likhi , utni hi ghamandi , attitudish !

This to me sounds absurd."""""

le bhai
one more theory..(jo meri nahi hai...he he he)

अनपढ़ जाट , पढ़े बराबर
और पढ़ा लिखा जाट, खुदा बराबर

And even if you still have some doubts..better have a poll opinion for both questions...(even outside of JL)..with non-jat observators as well...

or better come down to India[/quote]

 

[sachinb]

Chalo ek baat to maani ki pahle jamane mein ghamandi hoti thi,,,,,,,,,ye change kab ayaa Ravin Ji,,,,,kitne din pahlya naya jamana shuru hoya se:rock

agli baat ke ya theory nahi se,,,,,ya to haqikat se,,,,,theory hoti to prove bi kar dete,,,

aur ab baat tod ki,,,,,,Rohtak ki ekta aur akhandata par hamla nahi sahan kiya jaayega,,,,,,hum puraane Rohtak jile aala ne koyi jeen dega ke nahi:rock

vaise achhi baat hai,,,,aap apne vicharo ko bahar aane do hum har parkar ke vicharo ka samman karte hain:boxing:rock

ab ya konsi theory aagi choriya khatar
"""""You prove to me this theory :
1) JAt ladke jitne padhe likhe hote hain , utne hi humble !
2) JAt ladkiyaan jitni padhi likhi , utni hi ghamandi , attitudish !

We are the best creation of god on this earth and being a girl I can proudly say this on behalf of every girl.
aur rahi bat attitude or ghamandi hone ki to ye gaye jamane ki bat lagti hai...........

[/quote]

 

[shweta123]

I can’t decipher what this whole scuffle is all about in precise terms.


But I thought to add my few cents here!

An age old topic! Battle of the sexes find its root somewhere when this whole mankind grew out of its seeds.

Is it of any use discussing what we opine about an ice-cream as compared to a milk shake? Or …. Fire Vs. Water? Can you boys live without any female in your life? I don’t think that this needs an answer ! And same applies to girls too.

[FONT=&quot]Jat Girls as well as Jat Boys:[/FONT]​

Behavioral traits can be broadly studied on following basis:

1-Basic nature of person
2-Peculiar gender-based characteristics
3-Hereditary factors
4-Communal influence (Jattism here !)
5-Environment and place of upbringing
6-Influence of people coming into contact like people from one’s school, office, neighbors etc
7-Extent of inputs drawn from the world of literature, virtual world etc.
8-Other factors


From the above I wish to stress that a person is just like a mirror which reflects images of all the aforementioned factors. Talking about ‘Jat girl’ or a ‘Jat Boy’ is incomplete in itself as we will overlook the other joined at the hip and inseparable factors in this case which make up a personality only if taken together!

 

[choudharyneelam]

An age old topic! Battle of the sexes find its root somewhere when this whole mankind grew out of its seeds.

Is it of any use discussing what we opine about an ice-cream as compared to a milk shake? Or …. Fire Vs. Water? Can you boys live without any female in your life? I don’t think that this needs an answer ! And same applies to girls too.

[FONT=&quot]Jat Girls as well as Jat Boys:[/FONT]​

Behavioral traits can be broadly studied on following basis (in combination of all):

1-Basic nature of person
2-Peculiar gender-based characteristics
3-Hereditary factors
4-Communal influence (Jattism here !)
5-Environment and place of upbringing
6-Influence of people coming into contact like people from one’s school, office, neighbors etc
7-Extent of inputs drawn from the world of literature, virtual world etc.
8-Other factors

Sensible thought....but there is not harm if boys want to speak out what they feel about jat girls. Concern is about disrespect should not be shown if they have any personal grudges. Wo baatein personally deal honi chahiyen.

For all guys, I already told earlier....Ladies always walk in life with their high self-esteem. If boys cannot pay due regard to it then there is no sense in discussing what jat boys and girls feel about each other. Feeling and expressing the same is quite good but sometimes for particular things one need to think twice whether he/she is making a common thought for all due to one or two incident or coming out with some generally acceptable feelings.

Rest, I never like to keep any issue on fire. I respect every individual except the type I mentioned at thread "most difficult act to do". So, now please all guys sit back to discuss the thing started earlier. No girl is against you and all of them respect your different thoughts. Only difference is the understanding aur uske liye sabke paas right hai argument ka but with levels of decency, usse dukhi bhi nahin hona chahiye.

For Devender especially, if ever I put my argument or thought in opposition or with some strong words then don't take it as like I'm making you sit at the side corner. I pay equal respect to all. As I consider you all to be good friends, therefore I never feel hesitated to express my views. But ladkiyon ko pairon ki jutti batana....dil mein to kya shabdon mein bhi nahin lana chahiye. For this I feel strongly, though it might be true that its not really so with you.....but such things need not to be expressed. This is also a way to respect females and in return more of the same you get from us.

So, come back and share the good opinions (favour/against)

 

[dkumars]

I can’t decipher what this whole scuffle is all about in precise terms.


But I thought to add my few cents here!

An age old topic! Battle of the sexes find its root somewhere when this whole mankind grew out of its seeds.

Is it of any use discussing what we opine about an ice-cream as compared to a milk shake? Or …. Fire Vs. Water? Can you boys live without any female in your life? I don’t think that this needs an answer ! And same applies to girls too.

[FONT=&quot]Jat Girls as well as Jat Boys:[/FONT]​

Behavioral traits can be broadly studied on following basis:

1-Basic nature of person
2-Peculiar gender-based characteristics
3-Hereditary factors
4-Communal influence (Jattism here !)
5-Environment and place of upbringing
6-Influence of people coming into contact like people from one’s school, office, neighbors etc
7-Extent of inputs drawn from the world of literature, virtual world etc.
8-Other factors


From the above I wish to stress that a person is just like a mirror which reflects images of all the aforementioned factors. Talking about ‘Jat girl’ or a ‘Jat Boy’ is incomplete in itself as we will overlook the other joined at the hip and inseparable factors in this case which make up a personality only if taken together!

Did u gt what is the thread all abt ?

 

[anilsinghd]

Did u gt what is the thread all abt ?

And i was going to ask the same question ! :thappad

 

[dkumars]

For Girls especially


Juss tell me if few jat boys say that jat gals are worst in the world then will they be enforced(or executed) with ur(gals) views?

May be for other guys Jat gals are like goddesses but for me they are the worst one and I can repeat this 100 times and copy paste my existing(where i mentioned my points) post. This thread itself has proved that.

P.S. 1) I do not live for images neither I bother abt that. I try to be what I am. I had written same somewhere and felt to repeat that.

2) No one is my friend here except a few. They are simply unknown(kinda stranger) participants in the debate/discussion for me. I try to pay them respect if they deserve that otherwise Jai bajrang balli, todd dushmann ki nalli

3) I am not a saint.

4) I can not convince ppl who can not understand and dont listen to others.

5) I feel this is the best attitude one shud keep on JL. It sharpens our aggressive traits .. huhhhhh