Gunny Baba, Agar aap kuch apne umda Vichaar prakat karen to ye thread manoranjak hone ke saath saath gyaanvardhak bhi ho jaayega !!
Goyat, vo mic jara Baba ko dena, aap log kripya shaanti banaye rakhen !
Well, I dont have much experience about Jat girls, never got a chance to interact much. I have a few female jat frnds and that too from JatLand. But I noticed many a times how they behave and how they look life and attitude towards things. My observation goes like this
DK bhai thread ka naam change kaardo aur naaya naam rakh do k Jat boys aur Jat girls me fight:thappad kaun jeetega?Devender Ji,
Its a relief to know that these are your personal opinions, otherwise it will be difficult for Jat girls to get respect in this world- personally and professionally.
You are looking for admissions and not justifications. It would have been great if it was a two way conversation atleast, with the accused having some say in the matter.... Dear Anu ji... Do u think till now it is one sided preaching. If yes then I guess u havent gone thru the whole thread.
However, must say that it is an interesting TP.
Regards
or maine puch liye ki uski koi chotti bahan ho to uss jaisi ....... bhai goyat in "path-bhramit" kanyaaon ko sahi maarg darshan karne mein chahe tu fanaa aho jaa , piche mat hatiye !
yeh tumhari "responsibility" hai ,....
mandyaa reh bhaai......:rock
jan kalyaan karne wale apne baare mein sochte bhaai
aaj main milla apne office me 1 ladki se wo mujse kaffi senior thi meeting ke baad lunch pe uske baaton se laaga ki wo punjaban hoggi usne pura naam bataya mere puchne pe to muje yakken nahi hua ki uska gotra jatton kaa tha fher manne sochi ki pakka bhya ke baad jat hoyi hoggi, naa to itni simple, itni down to earth wo bhi itni acchi position pe jat ladki sayad kisse kahani me hi hotti hai. maine puch liya ki apki shaddi love aali thi yaa ghar aala ne karri thi. fher wo sayad samaj gayi usne hanste hue bataya ghar walon ne ki thi jo ab love me badal gayi hai.
unse baat kerke muje bahut accha lagga or muje lagga ki abhi bhi umeed bakki hai
. Maa Baap nai jo toh diya must be OK for them .. as maa baap galat na sochte baalkan ke baare mai (Exceptions hain yahan bhi 
) .) .. छोरियाँ में सबते घनी दाढ़ी मूछ .........जाटनियां के पाई जाया करे........
पलीज: कृपया मजाक का बुरा न मानें व गलत न समझें ( अथवा साबित करने की कोशिश न करें), और वोटिंग करवा लें........बजाय बहस करने के.....
That summarizes the entire thing !Girls are girls and will remain so whether they are Jat or not. I am unable to understand how can you distinguish them as Jat and non Jat girls and hence their basic traits.
In early childhood they play with dolls, make homes, and talk so sweet just like all other girls. There maybe some outspoken, aggressive and intimidating girl kids but again it also implies to the girls of all other communities. They possess all the feminine traits, more or less, depending on the hereditary nature and personal growth in the respective environment they are growing up. Whatever might be the circumstances, most of the girls will like play with dolls and make homes unlike the boy kids who like to make gangs and break their homes for fun.
Youth is a fine mixture of ancestral characteristics and the family upbringing. Later the education provides a fine touch to their personal behavior. These traits vary from person to person, family to family but certainly not community specific. It seems unfair to discriminate them into the categories according to some people’s own personal experience or perceptions.
If a girl is looks or behave like a nice homely girl, people label her as backward and ganwar. On the other hand if she looks and behave like a typical city girl, people label her as “more then needed modern” and overconfident. If they intimidate guys they are labeled as aggressive, ill-mannered and rude while if they don’t react and try to avoid confrontation they are labeled as coward and scared.
When they are responsive to the guys they are classified as clever and chaalu (sorry for this word ... but people use it so often) city girl and if they don’t respond according to their expectations they are classified as cold hearted. Professionalism is taken as money mindedness while casual approach is taken as unprofessional behavior.
I came across almost all type of Jat girls (and from other communities also). Some of them were too intimidating while others so tentative. Some didn’t show any emotions even in the most difficult situations while some others were almost into tears by just thinking about any uncomfortable situation. Aggressive to delicate, flirts to cold hearted, homely to ultra modern and so on … But I find it impossible to generalize all Jat girls into some specific category.
So, instead of categorize or generalize them according to your experiences and perceptions consider them as individual females who possess some specific characteristics and nature.
Girls are girls, whether Jats or non Jats, and let them be like this only, caring, sensitive, supportive and very much feminine.
,,,,,,, suvaadu aage bhai,,,,,,,छोरियाँ में सबते घनी दाढ़ी मूछ .........जाटनियां के पाई जाया करे........
पलीज: कृपया मजाक का बुरा न मानें व गलत न समझें ( अथवा साबित करने की कोशिश न करें), और वोटिंग करवा लें........बजाय बहस करने के.....