What leads life???????????????

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Sometimes i brood what leads life, what comprise our attitude? Seeing is believing or believing is seeing? Our attitude govrens our life or our experiences shape up our attitude?

I have been pondering over it long...and being tormented over this stumper, would like to do some brain storming with you folks...
 
Hope/Desires/Expectations/Love/Success/Wishes/Urge to be independent/on going compromise leads life so far i can search within my heart. Its completely one's own perspective to see/feel/experience about life. Seeing can be believing but not always as we have mirages also hence, everything thats seen is not true and can be illusion too! same way most of the times we like to see things AS we believe. Attitude is not STANDARD and it also keeps changing with different phases of life based on the kinds of situation we go through. Attitude does govern our life but at times we have to set it ASIDE as LIFE forces us to do so. So i believe our attitude comprises of our upbringing/ethics and experiences and despite this fact some traits are by birth which we consequently learn to change....seems impossible though!:)Dont scratch your head so hard- TAKE N FACE LIFE AS IT COMES! Try havin an attitude that of a KID who is just not bothered about REST OF D WORLD:D more we take it seriously...more it kicks hard
seemasindhu said:
Sometimes i brood what leads life, what comprise our attitude? Seeing is believing or believing is seeing? Our attitude govrens our life or our experiences shape up our attitude?

I have been pondering over it long...and being tormented over this stumper, would like to do some brain storming with you folks...
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sunitahooda said:
Hope/Desires/Expectations/Love/Success/Wishes/Urge to be independent/on going compromise leads life so far i can search within my heart. Its completely one's own perspective to see/feel/experience about life. Seeing can be believing but not always as we have mirages also hence, everything thats seen is not true and can be illusion too! same way most of the times we like to see things AS we believe. Attitude is not STANDARD and it also keeps changing with different phases of life based on the kinds of situation we go through. Attitude does govern our life but at times we have to set it ASIDE as LIFE forces us to do so. So i believe our attitude comprises of our upbringing/ethics and experiences and despite this fact some traits are by birth which we consequently learn to change....seems impossible though!:)Dont scratch your head so hard- TAKE N FACE LIFE AS IT COMES! Try havin an attitude that of a KID who is just not bothered about REST OF D WORLD:D more we take it seriously...more it kicks hard
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That means suni our attitude dominates our life. but attitude is a menifestation of our experiences; and experiences r not voluntary or chosen. so covertly it means that we have nothing in hand much to help because attitude also is not much in control...2 persons might act different to same incident--1 might take it easy, d other might linger on, may be it's in genes. so is it that we are a puppet in hands of destiny?
 
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That means suni our attitude dominates our life. but attitude is a menifestation of our experiences; and experiences r not voluntary or chosen. so covertly it means that we have nothing in hand much to help because attitude also is not much in control...2 persons might act different to same incident--1 might take it easy, d other might linger on, may be it's in genes. so is it that we are a puppet in hands of destiny?
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No seema .... we also have something in out hands ... that is how to behave in a particular situation .... and this behaviour or facing any situation can change our life .... so it means that we have something in our hand that can change our life and we can frame it accordingly .... as Sunita have said that a particular situation behaviour is delivered by a person based on his learnings/ethics/upbringing environment(I think this all builds a persons attitude) ....etc etc .... and these are also in our hands (not ours than our parents) .... haan sometimes results can swing a bit due to situations that can lead us to difficulties where despite of our all efforts, what we want; doesnt happens ...
 
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No seema .... we also have something in out hands ... that is how to behave in a particular situation .... and this behaviour or facing any situation can change our life .... so it means that we have something in our hand that can change our life and we can frame it accordingly .... as Sunita have said that a particular situation behaviour is delivered by a person based on his learnings/ethics/upbringing environment(I think this all builds a persons attitude) ....etc etc .... and these are also in our hands (not ours than our parents) .... haan sometimes results can swing a bit due to situations that can lead us to difficulties where despite of our all efforts, what we want; doesnt happens ...
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but behaviour is more or less in-built and socially conditioned. that implies that not only life, we dance to tunes of so many others in our "OWN" life.
 
The basic nature of every individual is the mother of attitude and is governed by time and the type of moment in our life and thus acts as one of the factors behind our decisions that are already destined.

Accept the unacceptable and believe the unbelieveable and decide what our conscience allow that would lead us to a better life.

Finally!

Himmat-e-marda! Madad-e-Khuda!
 
Attitude leads Life

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.” - Charles R. Swindoll

Refrence :
http://thinkexist.com/quotes/like/the_longer_i_live-the_more_i_realize_the_impact/296740/2.html
 
sandeepmehla said:
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.” - Charles R. Swindoll

Refrence :
http://thinkexist.com/quotes/like/the_longer_i_live-the_more_i_realize_the_impact/296740/2.html
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u said 10% what happens 2 one and 90% is how one reacts to it. nw what happens 2 us is destinly (means our experience and incidents of life), how one reacts--depends on attitude. and since attitude is shaped up by our experiences (means destiny--wat cums across us), that 90% also depends on 10%. so bottomline is we r puppets in hands of destiny? we r helpless 2 control anything between our birth and death? now dnt examplify saying i cn control my anger, my temptations...i mean control of real things which contribute and shape our life like bigger happenings...
 
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