What love is?

urmiladuhan said:
How? You mean girls not wanting their brothers to kiss their girlfriends in public?
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Off course. Generally as a boy doesn't like his sister to be kissed on public places or elsewhere, in same way a girl also wants that if her brother wants her to be in limit then he will also have to be in limit. More can be told by you as you can explain the female mind more than me.
 
urmiladuhan said:
What is considered obscene by one may not be obscene to others. Why waste time in being judgemental and criticizing other people's way of expression - perhaps there is lot of free time with people or perhaps they have grown up in strict systems where they never were allowed to do what these kissing people are doing. I think people of progressive mindset - those who push the boundaries outwards - do so in all spheres of their life - for example how they carry out their work, how they deal with challenges, the type of risks they take etc etc. However, I do not support people who just want the sexual freedom without being of equally progressive outlook in other spheres of their life and are successful at it. Sexual freedom has to be earned too!
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I don't have any issue with such people. In fact if this whole world starts kissing each other on public places, even then I am not going to bother.
In my related post I just wrote that such people don't know what real love is and they defame love. If someone really loves his partner then he will not do such cheap behaviour with her openly as it may attract other people to comment upon her or react in even worse manner. True lovers are worried for each other.
 
ravinderpannu said:
Preeti ji,
Mera to seedha byah e ho gya,,, is pyar aale ''soude'' pehla koi experience ni...!!
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भाई रविन्द्र, ब्याह करवाण मैं जो बीच मैं थे (बिचौलिए/रिश्तेदार वगैरह), कधे-कधे उनकी भी सुध ले लो हो अक ना...:rolleyes:...उनका भी ठाडा अहसान है भाई...घर बसवा राख्या है...हा...हा...हा...:o
 
upendersingh said:
Indian Penal Code (IPC)
Section 294. Obscene acts and songs
294. Obscene acts and songs.—Whoever, to the annoyance of others—
(a) does any obscene act in any public place, or
(b) sings, recites or utters any obscene song, ballad or words, in or near any public place,
shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to three months, or with fine, or with both.]


CLASSIFICATION OF OFFENCE

Punishment—Imprisonment for 3 months, or fine, or both—Cognizable—Bailable—Triable by any Magistrate—Non-compoundable.
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This does not mention kissing in public as an offence.
 
urmiladuhan said:
I am against making public kissing an offence.
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Well, in principle I am also not against it but its acceptability in public places would always depend on how liberal a society is. Even in our metropolitan cities, it is still exercised as a taboo, let alone rural areas. In some European countries it is a common spectacle which, unfortunately, is not the case in India due to certain societal restrictions or potential blackmail by police. However, this is not to say that it doesn't exist in India at all. All damn things happen in India but under cover of darkness. Places like Nehru Park and Budha Jayanti Park in Delhi are the most popular sanctuaries for the love-birds which is a feast for eyes for the have-nots. Since we are born hypocrites, it becomes our moral duty to denounce such things on public forums. So I am a lso doing my duty by joining the band of hypocrites. In my heart of hearts I wish that these things were common. But the level of consciousness and the economic conditions deter a wider section of our society to rejoice such aesthetics. Acceptability of such things come with economic prosperity and spread of education. As majority of our population is grappling with economic problems, romance is not their first priority. In their collective consciousness, the acts like kissing or love making at public places will spoil their children who are going to be bread earners for them. Hence this detest for love and kissing etc. But in my assessment there would be hardly anyone who would not like to rejoice it - if opportunity comes their way.

Conclusion: Display of love at public place sounds cheap and indecent. It may cause an embarrassment to others and should, therefore, be avoided.
 
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Let me try to bring the thread back on track.

“What is Love”

Love is a sensation caused by some hormones, secretion of which is caused by the radio-magnetic rays emitted by some object or creature. The intensity of love depends on the colour, surface, mass and volume of that object/creature.

Example: The intensity of love for a young, fair-complexioned, slim and sleek girl will be more than that of an elderly auntie with a wider waist and bigger body mass.
 
Arvindc said:
Any constitutional law that dictates social behavior is against the natural law of evolution. It is quite unfortunate that India has these laws.
The social behavior can be better managed by local rules and guidelines on civic sense.

To all who are not happy with these laws:- Be a change agent, join IAC. :)
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vpsingh said:
Let me try to bring the thread back on track.

“What is Love”

Love is a sensation caused by some hormones, secretion of which is caused by the radio-magnetic rays emitted by some object or creature. The intensity of love depends on the colour, surface, mass and volume of that object/creature.

Example: The intensity of love for a young, fair-complexioned, slim and sleek girl will be more than that of an elderly auntie with a wider waist and bigger body mass.
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VP ji you are so biased. We should see everyone with EK NAZAR.
 
What is Love? It is a song....Look for jim kerry in the video its hilarious...

What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Oh, baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Yeah
Oh, I don't know why you're not there
I give you my love, but you don't care
So what is right and what is wrong
Gimme a sign
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Oh, I don't know, what can I do
What else can I say, it's up to you
I know we're one, just me and you
I can't go on
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
Whoa whoa whoa, oooh oooh
What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh
What is love, oooh, oooh, oooh
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
Don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
I want no other, no other lover
This is your life, our time
When we are together, I need you forever
Is it love
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more
What is love
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me no more (oooh, oooh)
What is love?
 
urmiladuhan said:
The material in the links cannot be produced in a court of law. Thay are useless blabberings.
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[h=1]Court orders Gere's arrest over 'obscene' kiss[/h]

26 Apr 2007.
An Indian court issued an arrest warrant for Richard Gere today, accusing the Hollywood actor of kissing Shilpa Shetty, the Bollywood actress, in a manner that "transgressed all limits of vulgarity".
Judge Dinesh Gupta issued warrants for the arrest of Gere and Shetty after a resident in the northwestern city of Jaipur filed a complaint charging that the public display of affection -which he called an "an obscene act" - offended local sensibilities, court officials said.

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upendersingh said:
[h=1]Court orders Gere's arrest over 'obscene' kiss[/h]

26 Apr 2007.
An Indian court issued an arrest warrant for Richard Gere today, accusing the Hollywood actor of kissing Shilpa Shetty, the Bollywood actress, in a manner that "transgressed all limits of vulgarity".
Judge Dinesh Gupta issued warrants for the arrest of Gere and Shetty after a resident in the northwestern city of Jaipur filed a complaint charging that the public display of affection -which he called an "an obscene act" - offended local sensibilities, court officials said.

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Richard Gere, a foreigner, come to India with good feelings - for some buddhist pupose. It is easy to target a foreigner, especially a well known figure, who does not want to create a controversy. He must be wondering what sort of kangaroo courts this country has after viewing some of the so called popular bollywood movies where all and everything is acceptable. I am convinced. he did not want to create a controversy and instead humbly apologised for his gesture. What sort of vulgar dress a saree is where most of the waist and belly of a woman is bare! - walking in public?
 
urmiladuhan said:
Richard Gere, a foreigner, come to India with good feelings - for some buddhist pupose. It is easy to target a foreigner, especially a well known figure, who does not want to create a controversy. He must be wondering what sort of kangaroo courts this country has after viewing some of the so called popular bollywood movies where all and everything is acceptable. I am convinced. he did not want to create a controversy and instead humbly apologised for his gesture. What sort of vulgar dress a saree is where most of the waist and belly of a woman is bare! - walking in public?
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Indian society has lot of double stands especially in what they show of themselves in public and how they are in private. At least, American Society is more honest about who they are in public as well.
 
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