HAPPINESS
THERE ARE TWO TYPE OF HAPPINESS--TEMPORARY AND PERMANENT
Temporary-is individualistic and subjective, different things can make different people happy, but permanent happiness is same for all by same factors.
people are running for glamour and feel that glamour is equal to happiness, but it is not true.
How to create your own happiness
a] you have to decide whether you shall be happy or not.
b] when you get up in the morning you have two choice happy or unhappy
c] you can be happy if you want
d] always at every step think that life is good and I am happy
e]have a child like heart and mind child is always happy
f] love everything including yourself
g] our thoughts and attitude are inputs which produces happiness/unhappiness
h] take things as comes
i] have positive attitude
j] donot manufacture unhappiness when faced by some difficuties
k] donot think much and get worried on things not in your cotrol
l] donot repent on past and donot get worried on future, live in present
m] avoide negative thoughts, words, ill will, hate, fear, worry, jealousy, comparison, competition, enemity, thoughts of harming others etc
n] love every thing around you, appreciate things people around you
o] there is God where love is, there is love where is peace and there is happiness where is peace
p] live a simple life
q] expect little and give more
r] make others happy
s] laugh as much as you can.
t] have faith in self and supper power
u] look after your health
v] live according to nature
x] limit your desire, attachment, wrong/unauthorized/illegal deeds must be avoided
y] increase your knowledge
z] earn your livelihood by doing good work
aa] work hard do not bother about result
ab] finally be satisfied what ever god gives you and has given you