What Makes People Happy

in lighter vein ....
कई लोगों को निंदा रस भी बहुत पसंद होता है.... दो लोग मिले नहीं कि तीसरे की बुराइयों के बखान पर विशेष सत्र शुरू.....आ .. हा॥ कितना स्वाद मिलता है जिव्हा को और मन को सकून .. बस पूछो मत... इसमें जितनी खुशी मिलती है उसका बखान असंभव है..... नहीं ...कभी भी आजमा के देख लो...
 
हा हा हा॥ कई दिन बाद आज जाटलेंड पर भ्रमण किया... वास्तव में इस धागे ने मुझे कुछ क्षणों के लिए हैप्पी कर दिया और विचार करने लगा कि यदि "What makes people happy" पर अगर 14, 34, 50 और 70 वर्षीय चार 4 जाटजमीनदारों (jatlander?)को निबंध लिखने को कहा जाय.... तो उनकी इस पर क्या क्या सोच परिलक्षित होगी??? और मन ही मन मुस्करा लिया......
 
हा हा हा॥ कई दिन बाद आज जाटलेंड पर भ्रमण किया... वास्तव में इस धागे ने मुझे कुछ क्षणों के लिए हैप्पी कर दिया और विचार करने लगा कि यदि "What makes people happy" पर अगर 14, 34, 50 और 70 वर्षीय चार 4 जाटजमीनदारों (jatlander?)को निबंध लिखने को कहा जाय.... तो उनकी इस पर क्या क्या सोच परिलक्षित होगी??? और मन ही मन मुस्करा लिया......


Aap ki mand mand muskaan hamein pasand aiye !!

Vaastava mein AAP aur anya sabhi mitaron ke chehre pe kaise sada muskan bani rahe, yahi dundhana to is thread ka maksad hai !!



N B : Ghane din site se dooor na raha karo bhai -- hum aap ke mazedar comments ka besabri se intzar karate hain.
 
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in lighter vein ....
कई लोगों को निंदा रस भी बहुत पसंद होता है.... दो लोग मिले नहीं कि तीसरे की बुराइयों के बखान पर विशेष सत्र शुरू.....आ .. हा॥ कितना स्वाद मिलता है जिव्हा को और मन को सकून .. बस पूछो मत... इसमें जितनी खुशी मिलती है उसका बखान असंभव है..... नहीं ...कभी भी आजमा के देख लो...

Aapka ajmaya hua vichar bhi satya ho sakta hai -- Ismein aajmaane ki kya jaroort hai !
 
हर व्यक्ति अपने अपने तरीके से खुश रह सकता है... यह लोगों पर निर्भर करता है |
पर खुशी की परिभाषा तो पहले बताएँ.... आखिर ये है क्या? क्या है इसके मापने का पैमाना?

Thoda kast aap bhi karo -- Chalo, Pribhashait karane ka kaam hum aap pe chhodte hain !

[in lighter vein........]
 
HAPPINESS

THERE ARE TWO TYPE OF HAPPINESS--TEMPORARY AND PERMANENT
Temporary-is individualistic and subjective, different things can make different people happy, but permanent happiness is same for all by same factors.
people are running for glamour and feel that glamour is equal to happiness, but it is not true.

How to create your own happiness
a] you have to decide whether you shall be happy or not.
b] when you get up in the morning you have two choice happy or unhappy
c] you can be happy if you want
d] always at every step think that life is good and I am happy
e]have a child like heart and mind child is always happy
f] love everything including yourself
g] our thoughts and attitude are inputs which produces happiness/unhappiness
h] take things as comes
i] have positive attitude
j] donot manufacture unhappiness when faced by some difficuties
k] donot think much and get worried on things not in your cotrol
l] donot repent on past and donot get worried on future, live in present
m] avoide negative thoughts, words, ill will, hate, fear, worry, jealousy, comparison, competition, enemity, thoughts of harming others etc
n] love every thing around you, appreciate things people around you
o] there is God where love is, there is love where is peace and there is happiness where is peace
p] live a simple life
q] expect little and give more
r] make others happy
s] laugh as much as you can.
t] have faith in self and supper power
u] look after your health
v] live according to nature
x] limit your desire, attachment, wrong/unauthorized/illegal deeds must be avoided
y] increase your knowledge
z] earn your livelihood by doing good work
aa] work hard do not bother about result
ab] finally be satisfied what ever god gives you and has given you
sir ji ek dum amrit vaani! wah wah!
 
Does happiness means writing n number of posts in one thread increasing the post count. Winning some virtual brownies.

My happiness is to see Mr. Fateh writing a to z (26) plus 2 = 28 in one single post.
 
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My happiness is to see Mr. Fateh writing a to z (26) plus 2 = 28 in one single post.


Happy to note that you are also happy to read something on the thread !!!

Thanks to Kharb Sahib for making people happy by presenting impressive input.


The usefulness of the thread is gradually picking up - kindly keep sharing your views on the topic to spread happiness among the right thinking people !
 
Happiness is said to be a state of mind, so keep your mind free from envy/jealousy/worry of any kind.


Be happy and thus help in spreading happiness among the people !

This will ultimately percolate in spread of happiness all around !
 
Science tells us what happiness is
It's about the chemicals
But don't draw any conclusions
The shortcuts you imagine are flawed
Happiness doesn't tolerate cheaters

Economists tell us what happiness is
They have a scoring system
The more you have the better you are
But Marx added
The more you live the less you have

Society tells us what happiness is
It is fitting in, being normal
Ignore who you are and pretend
Can't you see how happy everyone is?
Give in to the collective, we have cookies

The government tells us happiness is it
It is written in the Constitution
It's being self-sufficient
Looking out for yourself
Taking what you can

Religion tells us what happiness is
Follow the rules, it's that simple
Life may be hard now
But happiness comes to the obedient
Take our word on it

Hallmark tells us what happiness is
You can give it and receive it
They sell it at reasonable prices
But it doesn't last
There's a subscription you must pay

Music and books tell us what happiness is
It is what happens in the end
They help us imagine the fantastic
They establish a standard
Compared to which our happiness looks pale


I tell myself what happiness is
It is the journey, the pursuit
And sometimes it is joyous
But it's dangerous to think
What if I get it, what if I can't

I tell myself what happiness is
It is the basics
Someone to love, someone who loves me
Security and a job worth doing
Can't be happy until these are in place

I tell myself what happiness is
It is being myself
Nothing fake
No compromising what is important
But compromise is always necessary

I tell myself what happiness is
It is impossible
Happiness comes at a cost
When you want to pay
Is what you have to decide

I tell myself what happiness is
It is measured by what I do for others
Do me a favour and accept
My kindness comes with no strings
Except I do it to please myself
 
Here is my take on the subject;

Tajjub hota hai mujhe, unhe muflasi me bhi hansta dekh kar
eik hum hain ki umar bhar dukhi rahe, khushi ki talash me

1. First tip to be happy and free of all causes of unhappiness : Remind yourself at least once a day that you are going to leave this world. This single thought will help you to overcome many causes of unhappiness.

2. Second tip: You have control only on present. Don't do anything for which you have to regret in future. Do something so that it brings to sweet and happy memories in future.

If you have mastered just these two tips, you can be assured of happiness at least 95% of the time.

RK^2
 
एक पुरआणि*कहावत है के*
पहल*सुख निरोगी काया , दूजा .. पास में हो माया*
तीजा सुख सुलखना नारी , चौथा * .. पुत्र हो आज्ञाकारी.
पांचवां सुख सव्देश में वास , छटा ... राज में पासा ...
 
एक पुरआणि*कहावत है के*
पहल*सुख निरोगी काया , दूजा .. पास में हो माया*
तीजा सुख सुलखना नारी , चौथा * .. पुत्र हो आज्ञाकारी.
पांचवां सुख सव्देश में वास , छटा ... राज में पासा ...

Bahut Badhia Vichar, Dhanyavad !!
 
Here is my take on the subject;

Tajjub hota hai mujhe, unhe muflasi me bhi hansta dekh kar
eik hum hain ki umar bhar dukhi rahe, khushi ki talash me

1. First tip to be happy and free of all causes of unhappiness : Remind yourself at least once a day that you are going to leave this world. This single thought will help you to overcome many causes of unhappiness.

2. Second tip: You have control only on present. Don't do anything for which you have to regret in future. Do something so that it brings to sweet and happy memories in future.

If you have mastered just these two tips, you can be assured of happiness at least 95% of the time.

RK^2

Ati Uttam !!!
 
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