Fatah Singh Sahab,
Whenever we go for a picnic with family and friends, it is more enjoyable if we leave our official coats behind and try to mingle with people without having regard to official protocol. It makes the picnic more enjoyable. This Jatland Forum is a replica of that picnic party which provides opportunities to know each other and have good time. So, enjoy it without expectations of military-like salutes which nowadays is possible in a village panchayat only where even a “Havaldaar” is addressed as “Sahab” not to speak of a Brigadier or a Colonel. I don’t find any fault with our new generation as they have grown up in an atmosphere comparatively more liberal and; most of them are working in an environment characterized by equality, liberty and fraternity without having regard to honorifics, ranks, pay scales and seniority. I think we should not mind it. In the instant case, Mr. Goyat does not seem to be nurturing any ill intention to target you. He has respectfully addressed you as uncle and I do not think it connotes less respect. He has just expressed his opinion about civilian attitude vis-à-vis military personnel’s attitude without any implicit disregard or sarcasm. I am sorry, I agree with Goyat’s point of view. Moreover, respect is commanded and not demanded. Being elders (I include myself) than many of these dudes, it is expected of us to give our due affection to them and counsel them as a friend, not as a headmaster. Time has changed. I hope you would not misunderstand me. Regards