Why do only gud ppl suffer??? ~ Jit

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Deepak Bhaisaab,
u got my point! agreed!
decent ppl likely to get suffer due to their decency.
this is wild & wicked world, so we all need to be bad with bad ppl & be gud to nice ppl and we must stand for our rights & justice. This world is still alive only coz still there're few gud ppl remaing.

thanks a lot!

Rock on
Jit


antil-sunpatiya said:
Hi Jit,

I think what you mean (and correct me if I'm wrong) that decent people get taken advantage of and consequently they suffer.

But nowhere it has said that we should not stand for our rights or use common sense when in a tricky situation.

If you come across someone who is being rude or taking advantage of your good nature then you should stand up and let them know how you feel.

I strongly beleive what goes around comes around sometimes the result is not instant but it does catch up with you eventually.

And happiness is not measured in how much money or power one has...that is the wrong preception...Happiness is a state of consciouness.


Deepak
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rahulkharb said:
i wuld second tht ...

gud ppl let others exploit them.... thy cant stand against it so thy jus sit n curse their luck. If thy wanna stop sufferin thn shld learn to say NO
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Wrong Mr. kharb,

God people don't let others exploit themselves but yes they just want to see at what extreme the bad people can go. They never curse their luck as they themselves have decided their fortune by being good and are always ready for the results, good or bad, who cares.

Its others openion that they are suffering.

Bad people think that good people are suffering and in the same way good people thinks that bad people are suffering.

Its human nature.
 
First let me share what I think are good and bad ppl. In my view everybody has some % of goodness and some % badness. Its just what facet of a particular person u see. Somebody could be good for me but for somebody else he/she might be the meanest human on earth. Its just a matter of perception.
In my opinion, everyone suffers, be it bad or good ppl. Its just that we dnt notice bad ppl suffering as we think they deserve it and never give it a second thought. Whereas we tend toremember if something untoward happens to good ppl.
 
Ab aaya Jit ke gyan.:) :cool:
Deepak bhai is absolutely right and he also got the point Jit wanted to make.

cooljat said:
Deepak Bhaisaab,
u got my point! agreed!
decent ppl likely to get suffer due to their decency.
this is wild & wicked world, so we all need to be bad with bad ppl & be gud to nice ppl and we must stand for our rights & justice. This world is still alive only coz still there're few gud ppl remaing.

thanks a lot!

Rock on
Jit
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see its not the matter tht good people suffer and bad people dont,,,everybody has there own share of good and bad deeds in the past,,,and tht is what they face,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,thts it
 
Suffering

I totally disagree. It is very important to face difficult times to enjoy good times. Why do we take it as negative? Why do we take it as suffering?
A person eats 5 star food everyday, goes to every popular eatery in the town and is fed up, he doesn’t enjoy his food, he is super fat 90kg 100kg or 150kg, he is not happy. Take on the other side a man who works as a labourer or farmer whole day in the sun and in the evening he sits down to have his simple food - if you have never worked hard you wont know what that food tastes - it is the best food in the whole world.
A person stays in AC drinks good drinks and mineral water - how will he know the pleasure of a glass of water on dry and thirsty lips.
A person who has luxury watches hometheatre with snacks I AC louses around is fed up at the end of the day. A person who works and tires out and gets fatigued will experience heaven when he gets to rest in the evening.
I have seen a beggar happy and a billionaire sad and depressed.
Salman khan drinks, fights, drinks and kills people by rash driving. Gets into fights with everyone, hunts animals. Fardeen khan (born with a golden spoon) gets into drugs, is caught by the police with big quantity of drugs. Sanjay dutt gets into drugs, buys ak47 rifle all that stuff. Sons of rich people visit every discothèque and d pub - go about shooting innocent people (Jessica lal case) or crushing innocent people under their luxury cars. Those who get everything easily don’t realise its importance. Those who don t have to face difficult times are the ones who suffer.
Why are we scared to face difficult times? Good times have their importance because of difficult times.
Life is important because of death. If no one was to die who would bother about living life fullest - life wouldn’t be important anymore. We value our dear ones because we know we can lose them. Light has importance because darkness is there. Happiness has importance because tragedies are there, difficult times are there.
I remember when I was tied up in a hospital bed for 4 months with traction weights drilled to my head, I used to think how wonderful it would be if I could turn to one side and go to sleep, how wonderful it would be if I could have a cold water bath or how wonderful it would be if I could scratch my head.
I have been lucky to have faced every difficult time in my life. I have discovered life during my difficult and challenging g times, I have enjoyed life during my difficult and challenging times. My destiny has been defined during my difficult and challenging times. Trust me - Your destiny will be defined during your difficult times and not during your easy and luxurious times.
Life would be no fun if difficult and challenging times weren’t there.
 
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vijay said:
Wrong Mr. kharb,

God people don't let others exploit themselves but yes they just want to see at what extreme the bad people can go. They never curse their luck as they themselves have decided their fortune by being good and are always ready for the results, good or bad, who cares.

Its others openion that they are suffering.

Bad people think that good people are suffering and in the same way good people thinks that bad people are suffering.

Its human nature.
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Well this is ur point of view n i respect it, wat i said was wat i see happenin arnd myslf. In college gud students often get exploited by not so bright students. Thy ( gud students) do all the hard wrk but someone else take away the credit. this wuldnt happen if thy werent tht gud/nice to others, at some point one has to b selfish.
 
because they r choosen one......

nyway what is ur defination of good people...


cooljat said:
Hey! All,

Can anybody justify Why do only gud ppl suffer while evil ppl have all the luck??? I know most of them will disagree but this is what I've observed till now....I've seen a lot nice ppl always havin tough times while bad guys r havin time of their lives.

Now most of u will pour some philosophy that all the bad guys have to pay for their sin one day here only or nice ppl will get the heaven, but still its quite frustrating....why nice ppl always get pain n agony!?

Although, exceptions r everywhere like me Who's gud for nothing but still has hard luck all the time :) :) but No Regrets whatsoever :) ;)

But again Im curious to know how many of u agree to the fact most of time n in majority only the gud ppl suffer, Hey I don’t need any clarification I just wanna know do u agree it with or not!?!

Thank u all for ur nice time!

Rock on
Jit
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arre oo jiteeeeeeee.........

aarre bhai jitee.......... tu ek te aapna photu badal le isme tu YAWA.. sa lagge sai... anyway dont mind it.............. thing is that as i think.... everyone on this earth is good........... but u can say big BUTttttttt......... everyone is not good for everyone... but still they are good for someone.... hope u know the cycling.... LION eats bear n .... and bear eats grass.... n... this cycle goes on.... tune ye sab school me padha hoga.......... so every single living thing on earth is good but not for everyone but for someone...........in same way human being SOMEONE never be good for everyone..... if somone is good for everyone... i say he/she is GOD/GODESS............. aur rahi baat HEAVEN KI so who knows.. where n who goes in heaven........ i rather say that HEAVEN is here in ur hands.......... n ur thinkings........ if u think thats oo life is going good ... if u loss in something n than if u hold ur head n keep thinking ooo i loss that much wat i do now.. bla bla... than these kind of things make u sad n u seems to be in hell... or rather if think that oo i had loss that goes now... i cant get that back .. but y i m wasting time n taking tension for past.. it passed so FORGET IT.... n keep going.. its life....... we always have to see UPS N DOWN..... in life........ NAHI TO KISSI SHAYAR NE KAHA HAI..... wo jindgi bhi kya jindgi jo paani si bahi.... so.. keep fighting.......... n be happy..........dont bother abt anything if u loss or u loose........... ...keep smiling n keep urself busy among friends... n with ur work......... kissi bhi kaam ko mann lagga kar karogey to interst banega.. ... agar mann lagakar nahi karoge to wahi kaam tum bojh banega.........

well i think i wrote lots.......... if someone dont agree or dont like tahts fine........ but i dont mind n really dont care much....... i like advise.... but i do what i feel to do......

with regards....

Ram
 
ram6april said:
aarre bhai jitee.......... tu ek te aapna photu badal le isme tu YAWA.. sa lagge sai... anyway dont mind it............
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well i think i wrote lots.......... if someone dont agree or dont like tahts fine........ but i dont mind n really dont care much....... i like advise.... but i do what i feel to do......

Ram
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hahahahahaha agree ke bhai hodde katti fully agreeeee....tu jama katti sahi baat khawe se lekin agar teri baat kisse ke samjh na aayi te pher ke karega..........hahahhahaahhahahhahhahahah bakki tanne saari baat word to word sahi keh raakhi sein...............killkkiiiiiiii pe killkkiiiiiiii
 
bhaisaab
u didnt read my thread properly!
Im not suffered at all, though ups & downs to chalte rehte hein but as I said no regrets whatsoever...I believe in ROCK ON...

although I still feel gud ppl ka bad luck thoda jyada hi acha hota hai!

but here I say Im Rockin hard in this free world, so muje dukhi samja ke bhai koi dukhi na hoiye!

Rock on
Jit

navingulia said:
bhai Jite,
Young man, Yamaha 350 pai kaache kaatan laag rya sai jaipur main ar baat karai sai suffering ki. :-) :)
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Oh! Common u intellectual Jats, u cant be so ignorant & dumb, just ask urself what is the diffrence between gud n bad, u'll get answer!

Well, till now only Deepak bhaisaab got my point, all other respected ppl's contribution is also admireable but it was kinda philosphical!

Well, fact is fact gud ppl suffer coz of their goodness & coz they're men of principles & its really struggling path in this wicked world but I also believe almighty god always keep on testin these gud ppl by givin them hard luck!

WEll, I've heaps of examples how they do suffer & will give u in my next post then I'll see what u say :)

Rock on
Jit

prashantacmet said:
JIt..... u can call me a fool........ but I am not able to differentiate among Good & bad ppls...........
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bhai,
I 100% agree with u
lekin when going gets tough, tough gets going :) :)
good people r warriors, they never say die,
no matter how adverse the situation are!

but I agree!!

Regards
Kiran
 
personal opinion

i guess people should not try to force their opinion on others and better not call their opinions as facts. It hasnt been researched hence cant be called as fact. I have seen tons of good people who did struggle ( struggling is not suffering) but in the long run they are happier than bad people. I guess you should define what you mean by good and bad. It differs from person to person.

chill

Monika
( do good things and good things will happen to you :) )
cooljat said:
Oh! Common u intellectual Jats, u cant be so ignorant & dumb, just ask urself what is the diffrence between gud n bad, u'll get answer!

Well, till now only Deepak bhaisaab got my point, all other respected ppl's contribution is also admireable but it was kinda philosphical!

Well, fact is fact gud ppl suffer coz of their goodness & coz they're men of principles & its really struggling path in this wicked world but I also believe almighty god always keep on testin these gud ppl by givin them hard luck!

WEll, I've heaps of examples how they do suffer & will give u in my next post then I'll see what u say :)

Rock on
Jit
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sau baato ki ek baat he ki achha kaun bura kaun ye hum kon he tharane wale.suffering ka achhe bure se koi lena dena nahi he.
chote chote bachhe suffer kate he jinhe good aur bad ki spelling tak nahi ati.destiny nam ki ye jo superpower he iske agge sab barabar he.
baki kuch log bina karm kare phaltu ke logic bana lete he unka kuch nahi ho sakta he.ye life he aur kisne kaha he ki sirf fool milege.katte bhi he sbko chubte he kuch jyada hai hai machate kuch haske sah lete he.
 
oohho bebe yaa baat te aaj bera paati.....badde kaam ki baat batai tanne ya te.......meri te aankh khull gi ...........
dhanya hai yeh dharti jispe tere karkalam padde.....
dhanya hai woh maa jisne tu jyaami.....
dhanya hai woh insaan jiske tu bhyayi gayi......
dhanya hai woh aulaad jo tere jyaami.....
dhanya hai woh insaan jisne yeh tere prawachan paddhe....

balki mein to yun kehta hun dhanya hai yeh JATLAND jiski hawaon mein teri khusbbu hai.............
dhanya...dhanya...dhanya hain sabhi yahan iss site ke paapi aur praani..........;)

ooohhhoo mein bhi dhanya ho gaya jisne itna kuch likh diya.....:D:D:D:p:p:p




ritu said:
sau baato ki ek baat he ki achha kaun bura kaun ye hum kon he tharane wale.suffering ka achhe bure se koi lena dena nahi he.
chote chote bachhe suffer kate he jinhe good aur bad ki spelling tak nahi ati.destiny nam ki ye jo superpower he iske agge sab barabar he.
baki kuch log bina karm kare phaltu ke logic bana lete he unka kuch nahi ho sakta he.ye life he aur kisne kaha he ki sirf fool milege.katte bhi he sbko chubte he kuch jyada hai hai machate kuch haske sah lete he.
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thanks keshav
itni badai me to dhanay ho gayee:)





keshavdahiya said:
oohho bebe yaa baat te aaj bera paati.....badde kaam ki baat batai tanne ya te.......meri te aankh khull gi ...........
dhanya hai yeh dharti jispe tere karkalam padde.....
dhanya hai woh maa jisne tu jyaami.....
dhanya hai woh insaan jiske tu bhyayi gayi......
dhanya hai woh aulaad jo tere jyaami.....
dhanya hai woh insaan jisne yeh tere prawachan paddhe....

balki mein to yun kehta hun dhanya hai yeh JATLAND jiski hawaon mein teri khusbbu hai.............
dhanya...dhanya...dhanya hain sabhi yahan iss site ke paapi aur praani..........;)

ooohhhoo mein bhi dhanya ho gaya jisne itna kuch likh diya.....:D:D:D:p:p:p
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