phoolkumar
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Under the dark shadows of recently held gang rape in national capital premises, everyone seems endlessly eager to express their sorrow, grievance, anger alongside reaction glued with suggestions. I would like to align them like this:
1) India’s is a male dominant society.
2) Woman is treated as a commodity here.
3) Why each time girls only to be lectured on what to wear and what not to (which shows that even in urban, girls are ordered or if to say (with an urban attitude on rural), families deliver fatwa on their daughters).
4) Media, T.V., Internet is displaying/broadcasting exposing and highly sensitive material to children over which there is no gauge or parents/family’s observation and control. (Which by chance if would had been uttered from the mouth of a rural for example Khap kind of body, everyone would have made a joke of it, putting a tag of being an outdated view on it).
5) Relating to third point, moral institutions are shrunken, diminished or dissolved.
6) Rapists are ill health, they need proper treatment.
7) Well needless to mention other already understood points like Police inability, administrative malfunctioning, judiciary’s tortoise like speed of tracking and delivering justice, lack of political will power, under gloves endorsement kind of assistance to criminals through every branch of legal system, (which we call sometime as corruption also) and etc.
My focus of discussion here would be 2 because all other points revolve/relate or contained around point 2 itself. I won’t be discussing point 7th because it is something everyone would have fed up of listening to.
So until when a woman will be treated/served as a commodity in our society, (no doubt in today’s context it is prevailing in urban as well as rural):
1) We need to write, execute and display our T.V., Internet and Media screens with scripts on gender equality. Apathy is that our community still provides highest T.R.P. to “Saas Bahu” type of serials and movies; more than 90% of bollywood (both small and big screen) is still ragging us on this line only.
2) We need to check our social and spiritual books, bodies and institutions:
i) Until when a Sita will be served to us as a Sati through Ramayana, which is nothing but whole proof to the fact that mentality of taking woman as a commodity comes from here only?
ii) Until when our “Dharmraja” will be an wicked like “Yudhishthara”, who sold his own wife in gamble and that too without “Draupdi” his wife’s consent?
iii) Until when the care taker of our “Heaven-Swarga” will be a rapist like “deity like Indra”, who not only raped “Ahilya” but was freed from any conviction for it?
iv) Until when a honor killer like “deity Parshurama” would be worshiped, who chucked off the neck of her own mother in the name of honor?
v) Until when women will not be allowed to enter the basement of temples in all conditions?
vi) Until when priests only be the solicitor of temples, why women are not in the scene here?
vii) Until when gimmicks like “Gwar, dhol, shudra, naari, ye sab taadan ke adhikari” will prevail basement of our morality?
viii) Incarnations of our God is like “Murga pahle ki anda” beside that fact that only a man is shown as creator of female single handedly, how come?
3) What to say about our caste system in fact caste system has become a valid reason for attacking/hating and molestation of the woman from other societies. I am referring to my 6th point here; its roots also go to ages old traditions under which some barbaric traditions like “Devdasi”, “Garbh Pooja of a girl at her first puberty by temple priest that too in the basement of temple itself”. Who can say it a religion if under the threats of religious and spiritual shins a woman of one society is treated like a pet commodity?
4) In modern day time, where these barrier would to be left behind they have been reshaped by none other than so called modern and advanced societies (I am referring here to my point 4). In a false competition of seen as most advanced and modern, people are riding lopsided, half baked social stunts and they often seen grouching the others as to defy themselves a special class. It results in nothing but a revenge kind of psychology in others and they grab any such opportunity to exhaust their hatred through attacking/raping innocent women. This is called as “Spreading the legs out of bedsheet”. Thanks God that this incident happened in urban area otherwise some rural social body would again have be targeted for this.
Dilemma: Once doctor Abdule A.P.J. Kalam Sahab preached that we Indians are developed if we could create a feel of self-esteem and self-reliance in ourselves, which only can come through amending our own deeds, duties and philosophies. Which no one is doing? We are just a copy-paste material and we are best known for it in world. But be remembered copy-paste can never claim for a copy-right, can never get a patent.
We copy cultures that too without knowing its pros and cons like blind faith. We copy ideas and our Bollywood is its biggest example starting from movies to T.V. serials like Big Boss and other similar talent hunting shows. What we have of our own culture in it (of course not the one I just criticized above). We copy technologies.
If a NRI does something good in foreign (Except those NRI's who have done something on India's cultural and social promotions, I exclude the personal achievements from it), which of course is never and no way benefitting the nation except a matter of joyous for corresponding belongings, they are launched as hero’s and our ideals, which further only promote the mentality of going to foreign and do something for them and your own nation fools will pat you for that. Hardly matter if their own talent somewhere in their own streets is starving of financial and social aids to prove his/her own ideas.
Truth is that we are still slaves, before 1947 we were physically slave, now we have promoted ourselves as cultural slaves. And that is why we will remain as copy-paste material for ages until and as per doctor Kalam’s preach, we don’t search our own self-esteem and self-reliance.
1) India’s is a male dominant society.
2) Woman is treated as a commodity here.
3) Why each time girls only to be lectured on what to wear and what not to (which shows that even in urban, girls are ordered or if to say (with an urban attitude on rural), families deliver fatwa on their daughters).
4) Media, T.V., Internet is displaying/broadcasting exposing and highly sensitive material to children over which there is no gauge or parents/family’s observation and control. (Which by chance if would had been uttered from the mouth of a rural for example Khap kind of body, everyone would have made a joke of it, putting a tag of being an outdated view on it).
5) Relating to third point, moral institutions are shrunken, diminished or dissolved.
6) Rapists are ill health, they need proper treatment.
7) Well needless to mention other already understood points like Police inability, administrative malfunctioning, judiciary’s tortoise like speed of tracking and delivering justice, lack of political will power, under gloves endorsement kind of assistance to criminals through every branch of legal system, (which we call sometime as corruption also) and etc.
My focus of discussion here would be 2 because all other points revolve/relate or contained around point 2 itself. I won’t be discussing point 7th because it is something everyone would have fed up of listening to.
So until when a woman will be treated/served as a commodity in our society, (no doubt in today’s context it is prevailing in urban as well as rural):
1) We need to write, execute and display our T.V., Internet and Media screens with scripts on gender equality. Apathy is that our community still provides highest T.R.P. to “Saas Bahu” type of serials and movies; more than 90% of bollywood (both small and big screen) is still ragging us on this line only.
2) We need to check our social and spiritual books, bodies and institutions:
i) Until when a Sita will be served to us as a Sati through Ramayana, which is nothing but whole proof to the fact that mentality of taking woman as a commodity comes from here only?
ii) Until when our “Dharmraja” will be an wicked like “Yudhishthara”, who sold his own wife in gamble and that too without “Draupdi” his wife’s consent?
iii) Until when the care taker of our “Heaven-Swarga” will be a rapist like “deity like Indra”, who not only raped “Ahilya” but was freed from any conviction for it?
iv) Until when a honor killer like “deity Parshurama” would be worshiped, who chucked off the neck of her own mother in the name of honor?
v) Until when women will not be allowed to enter the basement of temples in all conditions?
vi) Until when priests only be the solicitor of temples, why women are not in the scene here?
vii) Until when gimmicks like “Gwar, dhol, shudra, naari, ye sab taadan ke adhikari” will prevail basement of our morality?
viii) Incarnations of our God is like “Murga pahle ki anda” beside that fact that only a man is shown as creator of female single handedly, how come?
3) What to say about our caste system in fact caste system has become a valid reason for attacking/hating and molestation of the woman from other societies. I am referring to my 6th point here; its roots also go to ages old traditions under which some barbaric traditions like “Devdasi”, “Garbh Pooja of a girl at her first puberty by temple priest that too in the basement of temple itself”. Who can say it a religion if under the threats of religious and spiritual shins a woman of one society is treated like a pet commodity?
4) In modern day time, where these barrier would to be left behind they have been reshaped by none other than so called modern and advanced societies (I am referring here to my point 4). In a false competition of seen as most advanced and modern, people are riding lopsided, half baked social stunts and they often seen grouching the others as to defy themselves a special class. It results in nothing but a revenge kind of psychology in others and they grab any such opportunity to exhaust their hatred through attacking/raping innocent women. This is called as “Spreading the legs out of bedsheet”. Thanks God that this incident happened in urban area otherwise some rural social body would again have be targeted for this.
Dilemma: Once doctor Abdule A.P.J. Kalam Sahab preached that we Indians are developed if we could create a feel of self-esteem and self-reliance in ourselves, which only can come through amending our own deeds, duties and philosophies. Which no one is doing? We are just a copy-paste material and we are best known for it in world. But be remembered copy-paste can never claim for a copy-right, can never get a patent.
We copy cultures that too without knowing its pros and cons like blind faith. We copy ideas and our Bollywood is its biggest example starting from movies to T.V. serials like Big Boss and other similar talent hunting shows. What we have of our own culture in it (of course not the one I just criticized above). We copy technologies.
If a NRI does something good in foreign (Except those NRI's who have done something on India's cultural and social promotions, I exclude the personal achievements from it), which of course is never and no way benefitting the nation except a matter of joyous for corresponding belongings, they are launched as hero’s and our ideals, which further only promote the mentality of going to foreign and do something for them and your own nation fools will pat you for that. Hardly matter if their own talent somewhere in their own streets is starving of financial and social aids to prove his/her own ideas.
Truth is that we are still slaves, before 1947 we were physically slave, now we have promoted ourselves as cultural slaves. And that is why we will remain as copy-paste material for ages until and as per doctor Kalam’s preach, we don’t search our own self-esteem and self-reliance.
