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[annch]

More power to you for accepting that!!!

Calling a woman insecure is not necessarily voluminous of any sort of reluctance or weakness or cowardice ..

she is insecure because she is more emotionally laden than men or is more defiant over something or quite ambitious or more possessive or loves her significant other too much with utmost dedication or may be more assertive .. so many things there could be that generalize women as insecure beings ...

 

[karan]

Sir,

With due respect to your worldwide experience, could your experience have been limited to a particular type of women for you to give a statement like women are insecure by nature?

Don't you think men can be just as insecure seeking confidence in their boastful conquests as a woman would be?

Approval, love, respect, appreciation, etc etc.......men desire it as much as women or children.....its a basic human nature.....why give it only a feminine flavor?

(PS: I am not a feminist and not at all a male ego-basher)

Regards

Anju Dear
Very valid question. Men are equally insecure but in different way. Historically speaking male insecurities are well documented, Men are very insecure when it comes to their performance prowess. My experience is not confined to one type of women it transcends all across. In general, all our human behavior is similar across racial lines and national boundaries. Here is an example of insecurity and its different perception, women dress up, put their make up on, take all the time in world to get ready to appease their men, make him look good among his peers that he has such hot wife or girlfriend--how does men react either he becomes abusive and berates her or accuse her that she is dressing herself to show herself to other men. As far as male conquest is concerned it is embedded in male reptilian brain. It is far more accepted than female adventures. I didn't make the rules just lived by them. Once I realized my folly of following tradition I refused to be part of tradition that leads to betrayal and humiliation.

Richi couldn't agree with you more. Very well said. Less said about Indian Hypocrisy the best. Most parents who have daughter and son will give more nutritious food to their son and deprive their daughter of it--so that their son will become taller, stronger get a good job all the while forgetting that its the girl who becomes mother, her stronger health will produce healthier progeny as a result most Indians are short and plump instead of more desirable Taller, Leaner, Meaner and Stronger. We Indians for most part are myopic in our outlook lacking foresight. A nation that doesn't provide health and welfare to her daughters is doomed and this has been proven many times in history. Look at western nations, until women were given top notch health, nutrition, education care they were no better than anyone else.

 

[richi]

naaah it came easy to me !!!

More power to you for accepting that!!!

 

[yudhvirmor]

Calling a woman insecure is not necessarily voluminous of any sort of reluctance or weakness or cowardice ..

she is insecure because she is more emotionally laden than men or is more defiant over something or quite ambitious or more possessive or loves her significant other too much with utmost dedication or may be more assertive .. so many things there could be that generalize women as insecure beings ...

I agree that women are passionate lovers and they try to judge things by words. on contrary, Men tend to judge things by actions.. I think Action speaks louder than words.. I think it may be very rationale to say that woman can be assertive and possessive in love though for man its always a sense of achievement.
No wonder most of the beautiful poetry were written to impress the woman because only way to enter in woman's heart is either through open bye pass surgery or some sugar coated words..

 

[rocker88]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to work.Its not always the financial reasons.
Just to show their hubby/in-laws etc. that they exist or just to escape from day-to-day house works .(yes these house works is a one of the major reason. )
its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag but can give 18 mins time to illiterate persons how to check your balance & validity in hutch/reliance etc.

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Women will always be insecure until she finds some man(Any women/girl are free to give some examples).
I dn't know how many many of you will agree with me.
its really fabulous to have your wife cooking/serving your food & speaking on various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie.

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs..

 

[rajkphogat]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to

its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Ha ha ha............. realy good one

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs

Unne inflation ka dar na hota bhai, na balka ki fees deni pade er na future khater jonde, par admiyan ne to yo sab karna pade se.

..

Tanne to 25-30 saal pahlyan hona tha bhai.

 

[shailendra]

...Gyaan khindao...

So Mr. Hooda
Do you like you know like read the message and understand or like you know like it went like totally like over your head like you know.

Hmmmmm...
Heh! Heh! okaaaay.....

...LIKE as in 'like I think I am having my mid-life crisis come on with a sudden vengeance like?...

...and like mebbe I may have likely chased women (dubious kinds ) across the world's backstreet alleys(?) and still wouldn't know anything about them even if it hit me on the head like a crashing coconut falling on the top nut(s) of some poor shipwrecked loser on a deserted Island with only his silly grandiose fairytales now* to keep him company LIKE???.....


*Pan like(ly) emptied out looong back!

 

[sidchhikara]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to work.Its not always the financial reasons.
Just to show their hubby/in-laws etc. that they exist or just to escape from day-to-day house works .(yes these house works is a one of the major reason. )
its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag but can give 18 mins time to illiterate persons how to check your balance & validity in hutch/reliance etc.

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Women will always be insecure until she finds some man(Any women/girl are free to give some examples).
I dn't know how many many of you will agree with me.
its really fabulous to have your wife cooking/serving your food & speaking on various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie.

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs..

Tu kaam aali laa le ... kyun itna dukhi ho rhya se. 200-400 rupaiye extra de dega te tanne "various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie." bhi bata degi.
Kasuti fantasy bana rhya sei bhai ... tera byah ho liya??

 

[rocker88]

Its amazing you dn't know the difference between "kaam-wali" & "wife".I cannot explain/put in words what the DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WIFE'S MADE ROTI & "KAAM-WALI"'S ROTI.
Its not the roti thing,its love,care/respect,willingness,scarifice towards your family...Its much more than these inadequate sentences/words.

Tu kaam aali laa le ... kyun itna dukhi ho rhya se. 200-400 rupaiye extra de dega te tanne "various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie." bhi bata degi.
Kasuti fantasy bana rhya sei bhai ... tera byah ho liya??

 

[karan]

Hmmmmm...
Heh! Heh! okaaaay.....

...LIKE as in 'like I think I am having my mid-life crisis come on with a sudden vengeance like?...

...and like mebbe I may have likely chased women (dubious kinds ) across the world's backstreet alleys(?) and still wouldn't know anything about them even if it hit me on the head like a crashing coconut falling on the top nut(s) of some poor shipwrecked loser on a deserted Island with only his silly grandiose fairytales now* to keep him company LIKE???.....


*Pan like(ly) emptied out looong back!

Hahahaha.........No vengeance here...what made you think that. Sarcasm is not vengeance. No Backstreet alleys here brother. Blessed enough to turn the room dark.
No Mid Life crisis here either...when I will get there, I am sure I will have your company to share experience......hahahahahahahaa

 

[shailendra]

Hahahaha.........No vengeance here...what made you think that. Sarcasm is not vengeance. No Backstreet alleys here brother. Blessed enough to turn the room dark.
No Mid Life crisis here either...when I will get there, I am sure I will have your company to share experience......hahahahahahahaa

Ha! Ha!....Ok, fair Enuf, Karan!

Who knows, will probably get mine advertised (by default) to all and sundry with likely a flashing red Lamborghini sitting on the front porch....! Heh!

ps. ....and oh btw no Dostana-2 please, no having my company and/or turning the room dark n' stuff, bud.....I would then rather prefer ...ahem, ...a woman to share my experiences with!!! ......Heheheh! J/K (No pun intended!)

 

[prashantacmet]

In most cases of working woman/girl its funny to see why they wanted to work.Its not always the financial reasons.
Just to show their hubby/in-laws etc. that they exist or just to escape from day-to-day house works .(yes these house works is a one of the major reason. )
its nonsense that they can't make roti/saag but can give 18 mins time to illiterate persons how to check your balance & validity in hutch/reliance etc.

These women can say "YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR","YES SIR" whole long day/night but their NANI(moms mother) dies in saying "YES Mummy Ji" once.

Women will always be insecure until she finds some man(Any women/girl are free to give some examples).
I dn't know how many many of you will agree with me.
its really fabulous to have your wife cooking/serving your food & speaking on various daily things while you wait for each hot rottie.

Man & woman are made for each other..Woman always look better if they give preference to their family first.If you think this is man made rule then you are wrong,please open your eyes & learn from the nature & animals where tiger hunts & tigress raises the cubs..

And...Most of the time, they are also overwhelmed by fantasy talks of the callers..but it is really hard for a caller to get the lady sparking like damp firewood......what a patience!!. Anyway, I am curious to know why the time was 18 mins not 10 or 20?????

On topic now!..Do u really think that the men who are intimidated by their bosses in the offices and always keep their tails folded at work place, are always so gentle at home or just the women are polite at workplace and fatal at home.

 

[karan]

Ha! Ha!....Ok, fair Enuf, Karan!

Who knows, will probably get mine advertised (by default) to all and sundry with likely a flashing red Lamborghini sitting on the front porch....! Heh!

ps. ....and oh btw no Dostana-2 please, no having my company and/or turning the room dark n' stuff, bud.....I would then rather prefer ...ahem, ...a woman to share my experiences with!!! ......Heheheh! J/K (No pun intended!)

Shailendra
hahahahahahahahaha....Fair Enough Brother. Good to know you have sense of humor.