udarta -kindness

[ritu]

jab hum kisi dusre ke liye kuch accha kartae hai niswarth bhav se to usse udarta kaha jata hai.it does not have be a great deed,while driving letting the other person in the changing lane to come infront of u according to me is a great act of kindness.
and by doing so we r doing good to ourselves.the feeling u get when u know u have done something good for somebody is .......
so be kind........

 

[vivekdh]

agar sabko apne aage jane do to u will be in last, khabi manjil nahi milegi.udarta usse dhikani chaiye jise uski jaroratt ho,har kisi ko dhikayi to duniya hume kind person nahi person with no mind samejegi

 

[ssindhu]

jab hum kisi dusre ke liye kuch accha kartae hai niswarth bhav se to usse udarta kaha jata hai.it does not have be a great deed,while driving letting the other person in the changing lane to come infront of u according to me is a great act of kindness.
and by doing so we r doing good to ourselves.the feeling u get when u know u have done something good for somebody is .......
so be kind........

i m nt very conversant in literary hindi, but as u wrote what connotation i cn conjure up is leting d person overtake u while changing lane is no kindess. it's simply an act of basic etiquette. kindess is far a supreme thing than etiquettes. besides ur wrong notations of definitions, i must say u cnt b kind to all. sahll a woman who has been raped forgive the rapist as an act of kindness. dont exaggerate much on such booksih things.

 

[navingulia]

1. Shows how difficult it would be to sell udarta/kindness on Jatland.
2. Have to agree there are udar/kind people here too (else the udar ones maynot but some not so udar will definitely break my head)
3. every discussion shouldnot come down to examples of rape/murder. We cant be obsessed with these two in either way.

Udarta is giving way to other person. Udarta is also letting other person hold his opinion while you hold your own point of view.
Are we udar/kind?

 

[ritu]

what I wanted to convey is that even small gestures contribute to kindness .and this is my personal experience not from a book. .

i m nt very conversant in literary hindi, but as u wrote what connotation i cn conjure up is leting d person overtake u while changing lane is no kindess. it's simply an act of basic etiquette. kindess is far a supreme thing than etiquettes. besides ur wrong notations of definitions, i must say u cnt b kind to all. sahll a woman who has been raped forgive the rapist as an act of kindness. dont exaggerate much on such booksih things.

 

[ritu]

bilkul theek kaha bhai par ye baat kitno ki samjh me aati hai.be nice to each other according to me is also act of kindness.and some people on jatland really need to learn this.

1. Shows how difficult it would be to sell udarta/kindness on Jatland.
2. Have to agree there are udar/kind people here too (else the udar ones maynot but some not so udar will definitely break my head)
3. every discussion shouldnot come down to examples of rape/murder. We cant be obsessed with these two in either way.

Udarta is giving way to other person. Udarta is also letting other person hold his opinion while you hold your own point of view.
Are we udar/kind?

 

[chhavi]

As per the law of survival of the fittest, contribution to kindness is becoming difficult for most of the people. Even to share in any forum about the small step towards it is not being applauded.

But I must apperciate you for sustaining even a simple thought for kindness.

Still there is some hope left for the world from people like you.

Congratulations!

 

[ritu]

thanks chhavi.yaha america me meri ek neighbour ke dad abhi kuch din pahle gujar gaye.aur oski mom akelapan mehsoos karti hai to me oski mom jo ki theth sardarni hai aur mujhe onki poori bhasha nahi samjh nahi atti aur ghutno me dard ki wajah se vo itna dheere chalti hai onke saath walk pe jaati hu.but everytime after walk when she says thanks beta tane mera time pass karva deeta.that smile on her face ....i can not tell u .

 

[chhavi]

Its my pleasure Ritu!

Neil Armstrong said , Once small step for a man is one giant leap for the mankind!

After reading the above incident. believe it ! You are contributing to make this world a better place!

Cheers!

 

[shweta123]

thanks chhavi.yaha america me meri ek neighbour ke dad abhi kuch din pahle gujar gaye.aur oski mom akelapan mehsoos karti hai to me oski mom jo ki theth sardarni hai aur mujhe onki poori bhasha nahi samjh nahi atti aur ghutno me dard ki wajah se vo itna dheere chalti hai onke saath walk pe jaati hu.but everytime after walk when she says thanks beta tane mera time pass karva deeta.that smile on her face ....i can not tell u .

"jab hum kisi dusre ke liye kuch accha kartae hai niswarth bhav se to usse udarta kaha jata hai" bilkul thik kaha aapne Ritu ji, aur uska sukh jo hota hai, vo sab nahi mahsus kar paate hai! Its an amazing feeling worth cherishing. Though today's world is becoming a mad rush to come first, but still letting someone go before u, doesnt means that we are left behind, it just means we are going at our own speed, not trying to stop others even! Language of expression has been always been so vivid, it wraps in itself ocean of meanings, need id just to be able to experience silently this language of humans!

 

[ritu]

very well said

sabse ahem hai apni hi annkho me upar utthana ,dusro ke aage hum apne jhuthe ahem se kitna hi bada sabit kar le aapne aap ko but at the end of the day we know what we r.and u do not have to prove it to urself.

"jab hum kisi dusre ke liye kuch accha kartae hai niswarth bhav se to usse udarta kaha jata hai" bilkul thik kaha aapne Ritu ji, aur uska sukh jo hota hai, vo sab nahi mahsus kar paate hai! Its an amazing feeling worth cherishing. Though today's world is becoming a mad rush to come first, but still letting someone go before u, doesnt means that we are left behind, it just means we are going at our own speed, not trying to stop others even! Language of expression has been always been so vivid, it wraps in itself ocean of meanings, need id just to be able to experience silently this language of humans!

 

[gaganjat]

jab hum kisi dusre ke liye kuch accha kartae hai niswarth bhav se to usse udarta kaha jata hai.it does not have be a great deed,while driving letting the other person in the changing lane to come infront of u according to me is a great act of kindness.
and by doing so we r doing good to ourselves.the feeling u get when u know u have done something good for somebody is .......
so be kind........

We know what you mean !

'Help' is the more practical word in this world for 'Kindness' ('help' gives you credit which you can use later on if the person you have helped is not faceless)

But you should only perform this risky exercise if someone deserves it or if you want to compensate for the bad you have done to someone

Apart from philosophy or getting too practical. Kindness is good !

That 'kind' breed is about to extinct !

 

[gaganjat]

i m nt very conversant in literary hindi, but as u wrote what connotation i cn conjure up is leting d person overtake u while changing lane is no kindess. it's simply an act of basic etiquette. kindess is far a supreme thing than etiquettes. besides ur wrong notations of definitions, i must say u cnt b kind to all. sahll a woman who has been raped forgive the rapist as an act of kindness. dont exaggerate much on such booksih things.

By looking at what you wrote , I believe you are so kind and helpful but the the kind of people we have around us disappoints you.

Your blood pumps ! Thats like a Jat ! Gud !

 

[ritu]

what r u talking.... u can compensate for ur bad deeds by ur good deeds.i do not believe in this philosophy.i know a lot of people do it by donating to temples and charities.for me kindness is something u do even for a stranger without wanting anything back in return.apni apni soch.few yr back i was travelling in hryana roadways bus with my 1yr old son .i was the only person in the bus standing.
baki sab log bus me baithe aankh bacha kar dekh rahe the par kisi ne seat offer nahi ki.ek to itni garmi aur upar se ek haath me bachha aur ek hath me bag.tabhi ek sardar ladka uttha aur bola behen ji aap baith jao.os baat ko 9 saal ho gaye par mujhe aaj tak os ladke ka chehra yaad hai aur dil se ashishe nikalti hai oske liye.to me that was kindness.

We know what you mean !

'Help' is the more practical word in this world for 'Kindness' ('help' gives you credit which you can use later on if the person you have helped is not faceless)

But you should only perform this risky exercise if someone deserves it or if you want to compensate for the bad you have done to someone

Apart from philosophy or getting too practical. Kindness is good !

That 'kind' breed is about to extinct !

 

[ritu]

hahahaha baki sabke kya water pump karta hai.what u give ,u get it back if u give other disappointments .... .its like a circle .

By looking at what you wrote , I believe you are so kind and helpful but the the kind of people we have around us disappoints you.

Your blood pumps ! Thats like a Jat ! Gud !

 

[ssindhu]

u joking dude? ha ha. i know what i wrote is bit crude. but than i just can't manipulate. what is kindness? a lion is hungry to death, being a goat, shall i offer myself to help his hunger? i commute by train to my office, an aunty also comes from my palce upto station. she walks so snail pace. i gaveher company for few days but than i started reaching office late. than i just wish her good morning and kalti maar leti hoon...hahahahaha

 

[skarmveer]

Kindness is the matter of heart

Kindness dil kee soch hai dimag kee nahi. Jab bhee hum dil kee baat suntey hai to lagta hai koi dukhi hai to uskee help karnee chahiyea parantoo dimag hai jo kahta hamey kaya matlab.

Hum jab bhee kesi musibat may hotey hai sochtey koi hamari help kare or koi hamey help karkey musibat sey nikal deta fir hum bhul jatey hai ke kabhi kese ne hamari help kee thee yeah galat hai (its wrong). Jaisey hamey help kee jarurat hoti hai usee tarah dusrey logo ko bhee hamai help kee jarurat hai.

Jab bhee ho sakey hamey jaruratmand logo kee madad(help) karnee chahiyea.

"Hamey samaj say bhut kuchh milta hai isleay humey kuchh to jarur lotana (Return) chahiyea. Its loan on us it must have to repay otherwise
we will be died with this loan. If we repay the loan got from the society then After that kindness starts otherwise its our respnsciblity to do something for the society.

With Regards
chaheyea

 

[ssindhu]

hahahaha baki sabke kya water pump karta hai.what u give ,u get it back if u give other disappointments .... .its like a circle .

gagan! do u believe in karma? i mean d cycles ritu is talking that do good, hav good; do bad, hav bad? i give it **** man. who has seen past life? who will relaise dis life in astral world? and if its so god is a b@@@@@r. y d hell he makes 1 suffer in next birth 4 wat one did in last birth? bidu afzal ne parliament per attack kiya hai to faansi bhi to issi janm mae chahdna mangta hai na...right bidu? 2 hell wid karma

 

[skarmveer]

Not required to put yourself to save goat.

If possible save the goat and yourself both and put some eatables for lion, know its upto lion wheather he like to eat something other then meat or died.

For aunty you propose her, please starts little early from the house be cause i like your companey I will be late if starts on same time. If you like to do something there is so maney ways and if like kalti marna its up to you.

Sorry if not find fit.

Regards

u joking dude? ha ha. i know what i wrote is bit crude. but than i just can't manipulate. what is kindness? a lion is hungry to death, being a goat, shall i offer myself to help his hunger? i commute by train to my office, an aunty also comes from my palce upto station. she walks so snail pace. i gaveher company for few days but than i started reaching office late. than i just wish her good morning and kalti maar leti hoon...hahahahaha

 

[ssindhu]

If possible save the goat and yourself both and put some eatables for lion, know its upto lion wheather he like to eat something other then meat or died.

For aunty you propose her, please starts little early from the house be cause i like your companey I will be late if starts on same time. If you like to do something there is so maney ways and if like kalti marna its up to you.

Sorry if not find fit.

Regards

ha ha sir, thn i also hav 2 start early frm home na? daily...oops don't hav tht much time in wrking days. bt yes on off i cn do tht charity. ha ha