nishantrathi82
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Purpose of the thread solved or not?
Kadwa Sach !!
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Is there any thread here that is completed with a conclusion.......My first thread is still going on like Jammu tawi......
My 2 cents...
Folks,
First of all, I would like to say that Mr. Narwal has done an excellent job as a moderator. He was fair in his treatment of members and tried to work out issues in as amicable of a manner as possible. It is unfortunate that he has decided to leave this job despite all of us trying to convince him otherwise.
There are disputes in every household, and especially when it comes to the hot headed Jats, this is all the more true. Sometimes you can take the insults and sometimes you can't. I have had several such instances of my own where I felt like some people were ganging up on us, but fortunately, the drive to do something for the overall Jat community has always overruled any ideas of leaving the site! My service to this site needs no reward, no appreciation, no applause. Just the gratification of helping even one person finding their life partner is sufficient for me. What could be bigger reward than getting two souls together for life? Even if I had to listen to a few people cursing me or calling me names, is it not worth it to continue my mission? At least I think it is.
It is heart-warming to see so many people coming in to bat for Narwal ji, but in the end it was his decision to make and through several of his posts, he made it quite clear that he wants to be free from these shackles. Let us all respect his wishes. I want to thank him from the bottom of my heart for all the work he has done for us!
Lastly, as for other moderators, I am willing to accept anyone and everyone's resignation if they feel that they have lost the drive to continue. I will continue to work for the betterment of this platform even if left all alone.
-Satyeshwar
Folks,
First of all, I would like to say that Mr. Narwal has done an excellent job as a moderator. He was fair in his treatment of members and tried to work out issues in as amicable of a manner as possible. It is unfortunate that he has decided to leave this job despite all of us trying to convince him otherwise.
There are disputes in every household, and especially when it comes to the hot headed Jats, this is all the more true. Sometimes you can take the insults and sometimes you can't. I have had several such instances of my own where I felt like some people were ganging up on us, but fortunately, the drive to do something for the overall Jat community has always overruled any ideas of leaving the site! My service to this site needs no reward, no appreciation, no applause. Just the gratification of helping even one person finding their life partner is sufficient for me. What could be bigger reward than getting two souls together for life? Even if I had to listen to a few people cursing me or calling me names, is it not worth it to continue my mission? At least I think it is.
It is heart-warming to see so many people coming in to bat for Narwal ji, but in the end it was his decision to make and through several of his posts, he made it quite clear that he wants to be free from these shackles. Let us all respect his wishes. I want to thank him from the bottom of my heart for all the work he has done for us!
Lastly, as for other moderators, I am willing to accept anyone and everyone's resignation if they feel that they have lost the drive to continue. I will continue to work for the betterment of this platform even if left all alone.
-Satyeshwar
Let's GROW UP....
Dear All,
It is rather painful to see that history repeats itself on Jatland with such regularity. All of us should be ashamed, including me, for being responsible to cause hurt to another Jatlander. The youngsters have failed to prove that they are progressing in the real sense of the word and the elder ones are guilty of lack of leadership and maturity. How can we be so inhuman to each other? If this is our behavior with one another on a virtual medium, I wonder how some of us treat our near and dear ones in real life. I pity the condition of parents of some incorrigible members and the children of few elder members. With the kind of persona that we display, I am sure some of us are a real pain in the ass of others around us.
I can’t understand a simple fact as to how during a simple discussion two mature persons can start abusing each other. Also there are some who want to keep posting relentlessly. A sensible person should make a point and wait for others to comment and not start replying to each post. If there is a further clarification needed, do so again. I think that should be it.
Discussing families is the last thing that should be allowed on these forums. For that there is PM. Like someone said, all are ‘so called educated’ here. I have said it umpteen times that all JATS are related to one another in one form or the other. Why can’t we understand this simple fact? Then we say we lag behind other communities. With such mannerisms, we will.
Another point: A new member joins and starts posting as though he/she is an authority on everything in this world. No one takes the pains to go through the archives to at least understand what all topics have been discussed earlier or in the recent past.
My last request, with folded hands, to all members is to ‘GROW UP’. Don’t waste your time in trying to prove yourself better than the next person. Life is too short to have grudges or prove a point. There is no elder or younger here. We are all individuals with equal rights and all are free to have their opinions and liberty to express them. But please remember “Your liberty ends where my nose starts”.
I am sure the moderators are mature enough to consider or reconsider their decisions.
Best regards,
JS Malik
Dear All,
It is rather painful to see that history repeats itself on Jatland with such regularity. All of us should be ashamed, including me, for being responsible to cause hurt to another Jatlander. The youngsters have failed to prove that they are progressing in the real sense of the word and the elder ones are guilty of lack of leadership and maturity. How can we be so inhuman to each other? If this is our behavior with one another on a virtual medium, I wonder how some of us treat our near and dear ones in real life. I pity the condition of parents of some incorrigible members and the children of few elder members. With the kind of persona that we display, I am sure some of us are a real pain in the ass of others around us.
I can’t understand a simple fact as to how during a simple discussion two mature persons can start abusing each other. Also there are some who want to keep posting relentlessly. A sensible person should make a point and wait for others to comment and not start replying to each post. If there is a further clarification needed, do so again. I think that should be it.
Discussing families is the last thing that should be allowed on these forums. For that there is PM. Like someone said, all are ‘so called educated’ here. I have said it umpteen times that all JATS are related to one another in one form or the other. Why can’t we understand this simple fact? Then we say we lag behind other communities. With such mannerisms, we will.
Another point: A new member joins and starts posting as though he/she is an authority on everything in this world. No one takes the pains to go through the archives to at least understand what all topics have been discussed earlier or in the recent past.
My last request, with folded hands, to all members is to ‘GROW UP’. Don’t waste your time in trying to prove yourself better than the next person. Life is too short to have grudges or prove a point. There is no elder or younger here. We are all individuals with equal rights and all are free to have their opinions and liberty to express them. But please remember “Your liberty ends where my nose starts”.
I am sure the moderators are mature enough to consider or reconsider their decisions.
Best regards,
JS Malik
nishantrathi82
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Really saddened to learn the latest developments out here on JL.
from my end, Bhai ji a warm farewell from your responsibilities and i appreciate your stand as well, i hope you will keep on contributing here on JL as a senior member, afterall we have a learn't a lot from you here. your service to this forum can never be forgotten.
I wish other Mod's continue the good work they were doing
do not wish to divert the topic
Sir there is a huge difference between being educated and being literate, i hope you appreciate that and the other member who pointed this out.
It's not only about JL but i personally feel that this is the biggest problem educated young India faces. Our education system is focused towards scores and overall development of individuals is not a concern for both the educators and guardians. so why blame such repeated disappointments here, after all we all can deliver to our capacity only.
from my end, Bhai ji a warm farewell from your responsibilities and i appreciate your stand as well, i hope you will keep on contributing here on JL as a senior member, afterall we have a learn't a lot from you here. your service to this forum can never be forgotten.
I wish other Mod's continue the good work they were doing
do not wish to divert the topic
Sir there is a huge difference between being educated and being literate, i hope you appreciate that and the other member who pointed this out.
It's not only about JL but i personally feel that this is the biggest problem educated young India faces. Our education system is focused towards scores and overall development of individuals is not a concern for both the educators and guardians. so why blame such repeated disappointments here, after all we all can deliver to our capacity only.
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