Pooja, Anusha, deepshi
Take a chill pill, drink a smoothie, or do something that will calm your egos. I agree with Col Malik there is no competition in marriage. Marriage is a complement it took me long time to understand western perspective of gender equality (was single all that time) spent alot of time with live in relationships checking all physical elements like Frequency, wavelength, same page, similar likes, dislikes, hobbies, interest, sports etc. In the end none of that mattered, all it mattered was love that makes you accept your partners flaws, removes arrogance and fake machismo from your personality, instills acceptance, patience, respect and someone who can advise you when you need one, stand by you when you are down, comforts you when you are alone and hurt.
All my single years I was chasing some other woman, someone better than what I had in pan and not just in USA, India but Middle East, Europe inclusive.
In the end all that mattered was what I have said earlier.
For those single men here and especially Jat Male, understand this, woman are very insecure by nature regardless of what they say. They all desire few things from their man, security, respect, love, appreciation. Women like to be complimented for their work, they want recognition for their accomplishments, hard work. Great Sex is just icing on the cake no slam bam thank you ma'am kinda crap.
Women will forgive men for almost everything except if you cheat on them aka don't pull tiger woods on them, no cruelty toward children or anyone else.
