Reason for less woman presence on Jatland.com.

great aman yaar. kya baat hai. sahi nabz pakri choriya ki. waise ek baat aur bi hai ki nowadays jats mein inferiority complex sabse jyada ho gaya hai. pehla ke hoya karta koi ulta bolya ni ke ek gussa ar uska jbra hila. eb we usually taught our children to be decent ( not like jats) well behaved n particularly speak in hindi only. haryanvi bolna is a sin for most of us. aisa kyuuuuuuuuuuu???? ek jat ko pata hota hai ki dusra admi jat hai par phir bhi hindi bolne ki nakam kosis karta hai. it isn't complex or a narrow mind. but i m proud of myself as being a jat. truly rules in every sphere of my life. n a jat rules over every heart. proud of u also buddy. aise jat ab kum hote ja rahe hai. just rule n be a jat always.
 
sahi kaha sir apne, jatnis thoda sa padte hi boy cut karati hai. only just to attain attraction n show themselves superior. sabse aam n sabse buri adat hai ye. ajib se nakre hote hai inke. god bless them so that they may come on right path n walk on land. my views r only for some ubri aur classy woman not for all.
 
kapdal said:
Urmilaji, in the spirit of scientific analysis (that I honestly believe you wish to champion), I don't think your assertion can be justified. Basically the facts of the case are:

1. Urmila is an educated, independent-minded Jat woman who speaks her mind.
2. The Jat males don't "like" Urmila's posts.

Now the 2 main inferences can be:
1. The Jat males don't like the contents of the posts
2. The Jat males don't like an independent-minded Jat woman.

We can't really do a PHD on a one data point item, that is nothing statistically significant can be inferred just from your example. But I can give some theoretical arguments which negate your assertion:

1. Do Jat females "like" your posts? If not, then isn't it probable that the content of the post is more of an issue rather than this being a gender+ego based issue?
2. Have there been other independent-minded Jat women on this forum whose posts have been liked? While the "like" button is a new development, I certainly know that some independent-minded Jat women were liked and applauded significantly on this forum.
3. Are there Jat males whose posts are never "liked" sufficiently? An affirmative answer to this would suggest that despite having the male gender, you may not be "liked" because of the content.

To conclude, correlation doesn't imply causation.
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I know this that I am not popular on this male dominated platform as evidenced from lot of facts. What's new?
 
I DO AGREE URMILAJI.
well here are such person,whos friend request is rejected by me,n i got personal message from some male members.They have taken as a question of ego.
n try to show that they are much superior,actually dats their illusion only.
MAIN THING IS THAT WHEN U LL COMMENT PERSONALLY NO BODY WILL TAKE IT.
N A DIGNIFIED WOMEN WILL DEFINITELY DEFEND.
sumtym women think rather not to comment or talk to such persons,so they prefer not to be here.
 
preetikhatri said:
I DO AGREE URMILAJI.
well here are such person,whos friend request is rejected by me,n i got personal message from some male members.They have taken as a question of ego.
n try to show that they are much superior,actually dats their illusion only.
MAIN THING IS THAT WHEN U LL COMMENT PERSONALLY NO BODY WILL TAKE IT.
N A DIGNIFIED WOMEN WILL DEFINITELY DEFEND.
sumtym women think rather not to comment or talk to such persons,so they prefer not to be here.
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Yes, in our community, it is difficult for women to come on a public platform - there is so much resistance - from the woman herself and from men too.
 
....other women on jatland must also be seeing ur post nd must agree wd every point of u..
...in fact u should be happy that ur everypost is replied..i mean ,u nd ur posts r not ignored...i hv seen ur all threads hv got appreciable responses...

like nd unlike d post are different..bt finally u r getting discussion...thats all...
 
annch said:
However, it is not fair to expect a woman to react, verbally or emotionally, in the same way as a man would to such a behaviour.
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I think that is an advantage. There is no benefit any man gets in reacting emotionally or verbally. It is good if women can keep their grace & poise in the heat of the moment.

annch said:
A man will have less chances to face harassment/crap that a woman has to go through from such people, on the open forum and in mails/messages.
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That's true. But it is not a JL specific phenomenon. It happens across the virtual world on various sites, chat rooms, etc. That doesn't justify anything, but it is what it is.

annch said:
I may not agree with Urmila Ji's post completely or support her reaction, but she did capture the gist of the general behavior of many male members if not the entire male population on Jatland.
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Well, then we are not really discussing "low participation of women on JL". My point is that % of active females on JL is not low because of bad behavior of males. Some females may have left JL in disgust- but so have men!

We are discussing "Bad behavior of men towards women". In a perfect world, we'd have been discussing bad behavior of members to other members. There is a massive male majority on this forum, and hence the cases of men's bad behavior would obviously be more apparent. But even with their small population, examples from females too exist. Atleast I have seen cases where female members have made unncessarily provocative/hostile/mocking comments in the garb of being brave. Gender doesn't determine behavior.
 
rajneeshantil said:
aap bina dikhe he dara dete ho dahiya saab. kamal hai. jis din dikhe ga us din te bachi khuci bhi bhag jangi. reham kariyo yaar.
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Good Day Mr. Rajneesh Antil, I dont have an intention to take this discussion thread towards another direction, but i like to mention that there is a hell lot of difference between darna and avoid karna, you think that females are afraid of these net vocabularies, infact they are avoiding such stupid Quotes. please give a silent thought towards it that how many females have actually ran from his home after seeing him. I strongly belive that Dahiya sahab have very good and strong familly relation values with inhis home and village.
 
dahiyarocks said:
arre ki ne keh se???????
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With due respect Sumit Dahiya, i had just rplyied to Rajneesh Antil's Quote about you. Hope you liked my views and beliefs, have a nice day Sumit thank you and my request to you that please dont take this thread away from the main topic.
 
Sure said:
With due respect Sumit Dahiya, i had just rplyied to Rajneesh Antil's Quote about you. Hope you liked my views and beliefs, have a nice day Sumit thank you and my request to you that please dont take this thread away from the main topic.
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bhai topic te dur te 4 commenta bad apne aap chala ja se...........

ar moderator jwab ni dete kyaeka.....bta ke kare???????
 
sab aapni aapni soch rakhan hain Sumit, hamara kaam kisi mein khot na nikal kar oosko sahara dene ka banta hai kyunki hai toh yahan sab aapni comunity ke. Aur jawab agar nahi bhi milta hai toh dhoondne mein kya jata hai thoda bahut intjaar aur thodi bahut aur mehnat. impossible ko tod de te hain toh i m possible ban jata hai. aur fir hum jaat hain todne mein toh mahir hi hain. by the i like the way your contibutions are, very few can understand the sweetness of our harsh language, ye itni mithi goli nahi hai but still with full of nutrients. thanks.
 
खामखाँ की अल्बाद मैं ये महिला भी घाट कोन्या I छोरयाँ का घणा सा कसूर ना सै I कुछ महिलाओं को अवांछनीय, अप्रासंगिक और व्यक्तिगत टिप्पणियाँ करने में महारत हासिल होती है जिसके कुछ प्रमाण इस वेब-साईट पर भी उपलब्ध हैं जो उनकी inbuilt खीझ, संगदिली और तंग सोच को इंगित करते है I यह भी देखने में आया है कि कुछ महिलाएं कुछ अल्बादी छोकरों के साथ लामबंद होकर शरीफ आदमियों का यहाँ ठहरना दूभर करने की फ़िराक में रहती हैं (खास कर जब कोई उनके घिसे पिटे चुटकलों और बेकार के गोस्सिप में शरीक नहीं हो और उनकी weird पोस्ट्स को चुनौती दे डाले). मैं स्वयं महिलाओं के समान अधिकारों का पक्षधर रहा हूँ, पर जाटलैंड पर ज्यों ज्यों आगे बढ़ रहा हूँ, दृष्टिकोण में परिवर्तन सा होता जा रहा है I

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ibb sab bawala ki tariya mande rahve tae k kare
bhai.
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my dad is wid me wen i m rplying d thread on my laptop.
do u have any problem.
mind yr own business,i knw wht i m saying n to whom n wen.
my flngs r for my loved one.
u r nobody to comment lik dis on prsnl view.
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Sure said:
sab aapni aapni soch rakhan hain Sumit, hamara kaam kisi mein khot na nikal kar oosko sahara dene ka banta hai kyunki hai toh yahan sab aapni comunity ke. Aur jawab agar nahi bhi milta hai toh dhoondne mein kya jata hai thoda bahut intjaar aur thodi bahut aur mehnat. impossible ko tod de te hain toh i m possible ban jata hai. aur fir hum jaat hain todne mein toh mahir hi hain. by the i like the way your contibutions are, very few can understand the sweetness of our harsh language, ye itni mithi goli nahi hai but still with full of nutrients. thanks.
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bhai sahab admin roz aawe se ar comment bhi kare se...........

per meri batta ka jwab ni deta.........

ar jab dewega jab tai mein kitte samundrer mein hounga..........

btao ke fyada howega jab diye od jwab ka
 
vpsingh said:
खामखाँ की अल्बाद मैं ये महिला भी घाट कोन्या I छोरयाँ का घणा सा कसूर ना सै I कुछ महिलाओं को अवांछनीय, अप्रासंगिक और व्यक्तिगत टिप्पणियाँ करने में महारत हासिल होती है जिसके कुछ प्रमाण इस वेब-साईट पर भी उपलब्ध हैं जो उनकी inbuilt खीझ, संगदिली और तंग सोच को इंगित करते है I यह भी देखने में आया है कि कुछ महिलाएं कुछ अल्बादी छोकरों के साथ लामबंद होकर शरीफ आदमियों का यहाँ ठहरना दूभर करने की फ़िराक में रहती हैं (खास कर जब कोई उनके घिसे पिटे चुटकलों और बेकार के गोस्सिप में शरीक नहीं हो और उनकी weird पोस्ट्स को चुनौती दे डाले). मैं स्वयं महिलाओं के समान अधिकारों का पक्षधर रहा हूँ, पर जाटलैंड पर ज्यों ज्यों आगे बढ़ रहा हूँ, दृष्टिकोण में परिवर्तन सा होता जा रहा है I
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dekhiyo kde khud bhi badal jao
 
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