Are women better communicators than men???

Well, I completely agree with Rajpal Singh Ji, that it would not be right to generalize communicative skill. Even men these days are more talkative than women .Though It is a prenotion that it is women who are more verbose. It is no where mentioned that verbose are poor at listening or understanding skills. It is just a way of expressing things, some get into minute details and some give an overview . Effective Communication primarily depends on the content , presentation skills , Delivery and listening skills . If it is meaningful and relevant it will definitely leave an impact on the listener.
Don't you feel Verbosity is a sign of lack of confidence or it is a way to circumlocution?
 
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I am not sure if a particular gender influences your expertise at communication. But one thing is for sure in the corporate world - women excel (or at least are present in majority) in the jobs requiring public speaking and a high emphasis on communication. Roles like HR, corporate trainers, teaching etc that survive on communicating your thoughts verbally are predominantly filled with women. Women are able to convey empathy much better than men and maybe that helps in communication.

But is empathy all that is required in communication? I don't know and we probably need more research in this area.
Would it be wrong to say to an extent that its the opposite sex which influences the roles n job profiles you have mentioned?
 
" Men have traditionally played the role of foragers, being used to their quiet hunting periods, whereas women as nurturers, being prone to initiate communication "

If Above mentioned stuff is based on research .........
Lo ji ho gaya topic conclude .......Men job was to hunt thus they were quiet kind ( itna choon.....chaan karenge toh donkey ....monkey sab bhag jayenge ) & Women job is of nuturing .....bina bole bache language kaise seekhenge ( to learn any language most important part is listening ) isliye mother tongue kehte hai na ki father tongue .
Thus if Men & Women switch their jobs then research would say otherwise .

So Communication Skills not dependent of X or Y Chromosome ( IMO )

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Yeah agree to you in totallity. Current thread shows women participation, which portrays that if topic of their interest is there they are not hesitant to participate
 
Don't you feel Verbosity is a sign of lack of confidence or it is a way to circumlocation?

Verbosity is not necessarily lack of confidence. Some of us just are more talkative.
Doesn’t mean they lack confidence or want to divert form the actual topic !

Women talk more. May be yes! But the discussion is on who is better communicator.
If more words means more sense and better understanding. what’s the harm J
 
Would it be wrong to say to an extent that its the opposite sex which influences the roles n job profiles you have mentioned?

Could be. That's the same argument as saying manufacturing and operations jobs have more men because men are suited to those roles, or because the ones hiring for those roles (men themselves) are biased towards their own gender. Both could be true.
 
Verbosity is not necessarily lack of confidence. Some of us just are more talkative.
Doesn’t mean they lack confidence or want to divert form the actual topic !

Women talk more. May be yes! But the discussion is on who is better communicator.
If more words means more sense and better understanding. what’s the harm J
Well I didn't generalize verbosity, but my point was when it comes to communication most of the time it is good when it is terse and precise or a good communicator is one who conveys in short n efficient manner.

Lack of confidence I mentioned as people tend to use more words to explain when they themselves are not sure that the other person has got them right.

Women talk more does that make them better communicator?

Ofcourse their is harm in talking more, the more one talks probability of making mistakes increases.
 
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Could be. That's the same argument as saying manufacturing and operations jobs have more men because men are suited to those roles, or because the ones hiring for those roles (men themselves) are biased towards their own gender. Both could be true.
I think the nature of jobs you mentioned previously is different from the one you just mentioned. :)
 
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Well I didn't generalize verbosity, but my point was when it comes to communication most of the time it is good when it is terse and precise or a good communicator is one who conveys in short n efficient manner.

Lack of confidence I mentioned as people tend to use more words to explain when they themselves are not sure that the other person has got them right.

Women talk more does that make them better communicator?

Ofcourse their is harm in talking more, the more one talks probability of making mistakes increases.

Women talk more does that make them better communicator?
Not always. But that does not either make them a bad one.

“Of course their is harm in talking more, the more one talks probability of making mistakes increases”
Agree 110% however this is nature of women. Not to make mistakes but talk more.
They use more words then men. They have more language protein (Foxp2) as compared to men as per various researches. There is a good explanation in “Men are from mars and women from Venus”
I disagree that people who talk more are not sure of what are they talking about!
I see the opposite angle. If someone can talk on a topic more also means he/she is very confidence of what are they talking about. Using one liner may mean you wonna escape from explanation.
But we are getting diverted from the actual topic here.
As I said previously better communicators are people who have a lot of empathy for their audience, and can deliver what their audience needs. It can be verbal /non verbal/emotional/by talking more/less etc. J
 
Women talk more does that make them better communicator?
Not always. But that does not either make them a bad one.

“Of course their is harm in talking more, the more one talks probability of making mistakes increases”
Agree 110% however this is nature of women. Not to make mistakes but talk more.
They use more words then men. They have more language protein (Foxp2) as compared to men as per various researches. There is a good explanation in “Men are from mars and women from Venus”
I disagree that people who talk more are not sure of what are they talking about!
I see the opposite angle. If someone can talk on a topic more also means he/she is very confidence of what are they talking about. Using one liner may mean you wonna escape from explanation.
But we are getting diverted from the actual topic here.
As I said previously better communicators are people who have a lot of empathy for their audience, and can deliver what their audience needs. It can be verbal /non verbal/emotional/by talking more/less etc. J
So to conclude can we say it is not wise to generalize, and its empathy which is important ?
More content can lead to boredom and ambiguity, short and precise things are preferable as a listener.
 
Well ! Yes Emphaty is one of the most important part of communication.
In my opinion definitely down to individual.
 
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Agreed. Some talk on some topics means that have the knowledge & confidence. A person without confidence will always try to skip talk. In case talking on a topic without any knowledge creates a lot of issue.

Women talk more does that make them better communicator?
Not always. But that does not either make them a bad one.

“Of course their is harm in talking more, the more one talks probability of making mistakes increases”
Agree 110% however this is nature of women. Not to make mistakes but talk more.
They use more words then men. They have more language protein (Foxp2) as compared to men as per various researches. There is a good explanation in “Men are from mars and women from Venus”
I disagree that people who talk more are not sure of what are they talking about!
I see the opposite angle. If someone can talk on a topic more also means he/she is very confidence of what are they talking about. Using one liner may mean you wonna escape from explanation.
But we are getting diverted from the actual topic here.
As I said previously better communicators are people who have a lot of empathy for their audience, and can deliver what their audience needs. It can be verbal /non verbal/emotional/by talking more/less etc. J
 
Agreed. Some talk on some topics means that have the knowledge & confidence. A person without confidence will always try to skip talk. In case talking on a topic without any knowledge creates a lot of issue.

open your mouth when you are confident that your words will be better than your silence. good listening ability is also equally important as speaking for a good communicator.
 
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