There ain't anything personal in this , just that I do not want to stretch on that thread. I always respect people's opinion and the reason I said I would refrain from contributing on that thread because I am very sure , the people I would be addressing to would not budge because they do not have the capability to understand at all!
I have an iota of hope that you would understand at least that what I am trying to say!
The thread does not talk about being prudence about Jats! Infact I am very happy that in my first post I did mention that such issues are an perfect example of how to divulge away from the core issues.
No where I said I am not proud to be Jat , I just said this in one line : " There are better things to deal with ".
Can you please enlighten me on the idea of starting an uniform one liner to basically plead people to help ? Dont you think any genuine person would offer his/her help anyways ? And any ingenuine would not do so no amtter if you tell him/her your cast /gotra/village name and all sort of info! Think on this please!
So practically how much difference it will make ?
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And do you agree with people's ideology of helping only a JAT , taking help from only a JAT ? If JL is only about Jats , why do we discuss sports , finance , health , softwares etc here ?
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IF you go for an detailed analysis , the only weapon all these nonsense people have is to put forth their JAT-ish ness in front ! Because they dont have a second line of defence !
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Can you imagine the sanctity of an organisation whose meets discuss issues on how to take help from the fellow Jats who are high ranked ? I bet and I put all my money on this one bet that any GENUINE person would offer you help irrespective of caste , color , creed , religion or sex!
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Next coming to why I personally do not like so much of Jat-ish ness! I always talk in the most Haryanvi of tinge , I love villages , I have high regards for my people and that's probably the reason I am on JL as well and putting in my hours to manage communities on orkut! But I do not love my parents because they are Jat , I do not love my siblings because they are Jats , I do not like my critics because they are Jat , I do not respect my elders and teachers because they are Jats. They possess those qualitites to attract me and hold me!
I have been involved in ground work , ground realities and how people behave! There would be very few who can be sure of their cultural and traditional background and be progressive enough at the same time , but for people who just use Jat-ism as the propaganda , I vehemently oppose this practice! The message of hatredness , the message of arrogance and undue prudence that they give is nothing but derogatory!
And I find that hypocrite enough that they can be so prudent at the same time and then cry like lil children for small baits of reservation / benefits / recognition.
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That was just explaning myself , I apologise for any inconveneience! I do not know why people take me wrong , may be I am wrong but only I can prove myself wrong!
