kusumdhochak
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What right does anyone have to harm some one who has not harmed anyone.
What good do these societies and panchayats do to people? over and above that they won't even let people live the way they want, the way that gives them happiness and fulfillment.
A person goes and marries someone he/she loves and is compatible with. If you don't like it, don't talk to them. But how can anyone justify making their and thier family's life difficult. It's outrightly criminal. Such people should in fact be given strict punishment. People have their roots, livelihood and so many other things connected to their birth/home place/village. How can someone order them to leave everything and displace them. This is violation of basic human rights. Who gives us the rights to play dons? how can we support such things.
If you hear the bbc program on link given by Atish, it says around 90% of such cases happen in Haryana, Punjab and Western UP. So many people are being murdered. All those of us who support such views are kind of partly responsible for these murders.
And one more thing, such things are not followed in rest of the India and I don't see that all those parts of India/ world are cultureless/insensitive or anything. In fact I find many other parts far more culturely rich, better family structures, better educated and disciplined. So what exactly have we gained by trying to stick at such things which are even leadind to criminal acts like murders and human right viloations.
Why don't our panchayats sit and take decisions on trying to save family structures, speading peace and love, saving our folk music and other heritage or trying better agricultral methods, doing something to save the environment, trying to better the horrible education system in government schools (which is depriving so many children from quality life) and the list is unending. I haven't seen any 52 panchayats meetings on such important issues..
Meaningless and criminal waste of time is all I feel about this whole thing...
What good do these societies and panchayats do to people? over and above that they won't even let people live the way they want, the way that gives them happiness and fulfillment.
A person goes and marries someone he/she loves and is compatible with. If you don't like it, don't talk to them. But how can anyone justify making their and thier family's life difficult. It's outrightly criminal. Such people should in fact be given strict punishment. People have their roots, livelihood and so many other things connected to their birth/home place/village. How can someone order them to leave everything and displace them. This is violation of basic human rights. Who gives us the rights to play dons? how can we support such things.
If you hear the bbc program on link given by Atish, it says around 90% of such cases happen in Haryana, Punjab and Western UP. So many people are being murdered. All those of us who support such views are kind of partly responsible for these murders.
And one more thing, such things are not followed in rest of the India and I don't see that all those parts of India/ world are cultureless/insensitive or anything. In fact I find many other parts far more culturely rich, better family structures, better educated and disciplined. So what exactly have we gained by trying to stick at such things which are even leadind to criminal acts like murders and human right viloations.
Why don't our panchayats sit and take decisions on trying to save family structures, speading peace and love, saving our folk music and other heritage or trying better agricultral methods, doing something to save the environment, trying to better the horrible education system in government schools (which is depriving so many children from quality life) and the list is unending. I haven't seen any 52 panchayats meetings on such important issues..
Meaningless and criminal waste of time is all I feel about this whole thing...
