true story
really it happens,
i know one of my friend has suffered and paid ultimate prize
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girl and guy both are jats. girl is from rajasthan (no offence for other rajasthanes) in a priem. insti.outside rajasthan
she proposed the guy saying that she want to marry him and bla-2. the guy told her that he is ready but before begining a relationship be sure if u can pull it off if not then leave it here otherwise it will spoil 4 lifes and 4 families. he said take ur time and decide. but she was adamant to marry him. even in front of god (mandir) she said all it and planned future life. as usual girls mother was a vilian she was keeping the girl in dark that she wil talk but nothing like that happenned . she wanted her money as they were in debts.
time passed bye both were happy but she was fluctuating, she say yes and no 15 times a day sometimes she say i will make my parents realise, aand cry in front of him , but when boy said lets get marry and give formal name to it , she refused giving thousand reasons, some from her some from mother. her mother did everything bad she can. still the guy wanted to marry her , as he wants her not the family.she could not think what was right.he tells her she doesnot know what does seperation means and her family will force her or she herself will say get me married to anybody after the boy was gone she said no , i will not marry anyone. family press. inc. .everyday he tried to make her feel what is hapening but she never wanted to feel doing everybad she can in the process. she couldnot feel relation means both are one, not individuals. , he even refused to marry other girl. he even broke his engagement 4 times for her and everytime he told her that he was doing this 4 both of them but the girl came forward. said u marry i will live alone, even she tried to sabotage him and his family. He even then tried to make her understand what does a marriage means .one fine day the boy got married without his will, as she was not ready his parents want marriage after the marriage . she went to common friends and cried what i did and never realised what it means.cried-2.
the boy also was broken to pieces .he could not live . t
he girl even used her in every possible way she can.
the boy never utterred a word to anybody about anything in her life, as for him that girls respect and image was most imp. in his life.
she say all lies to everybody about the marriage telling everybody , boy was not right and he betrayed her and so on , even she tried to blackmail him she will tel everything to everybody and as only girls voice is heard (thats our society aand system). she even did that
he never said anything bad about her even to her and his parents frieds were ofcourse out of question.
he valued her a lot as a person she never realise it
then one day she came and said that i was gaining experience from u in everytype of thing experience can be gained and now i m a xperinced person u never exist i my life , i love some body else.
the boy was broke to hell. he tried to handle the press. for 3 yrs but could not handle all those things more. that was the final nail in his coffin and he expired still thinking about her and his past (he didnot commit suicide his brains nerves blasted away), repenting about his life.
he was an exceptionally briliant guy stood first in every exam , college and even topped the university. also he was an allrounder briliant in sports and extr curricular activities
he cleared all the compititive exams he gave he was never a looser he face all the hardships of life taking all in his strides.
but that was a tragic end for his life . we came to all this at the very end of his life
the girl will realise her mistakes one day but again that will be too late
God bless her
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Hi! Gentle Folks,
Well, I’m just goin to start a thread based on true story & looking forward to get some valuable inputs on this serious topic, I also request u guys not to make fun of it.
Ppl, u must have heard a word 'FANAA' with punch line Destroyed in Luv, it reminds me of my couple of gud old Jat friends who're almost destroyed in luv, thus I often wonder why does ppl become mad in luv rather victim of luv and Why do it always said 'Fall in Luv' why not 'Rise in Luv' ???
Anyways, here I start the true tell of my friends, Well both guys r brilliant & been scholars thro'out their lives, both have completed their higher education from premier Institutes & even got prestigious scholarships too but all gone vain, as both guys have fallen in luv & surprisingly both gals r Jats but dont know why but here both gals
Parents become villains specially their moms!
I dont get what is the prob with their parents, as both of my friends belong to gud families & both r well stable but still there is big NO from their parents, I feel its just sheer obduracy!
But here comes the real prob, both gals r kinda timid in front of their parents n just cant talk openly n take any bold decisions and now the prob & my friends lives r gettin worsen as parents of both gals r started searchin matches for them...so my dear friends life gettin hell.
U know both guys got some rare opportunities to study abroad on full scholarships but they left it for their luv but these gals r just not able to take bold decisions & due to this adverse condition both guys career, health & life is gettin spoiled.
Well, both guys have met those gals parents in person but result is same, parents of gals've just refused & said whatever we wont marry our daughter to u.
All in all, they're spoiling their lives & gettin destroyed in luv! I find only one solution, those gals must come forward n take bold decisions and marry those guys as I believe if u make commitment to somebody u must fulfill it anyhow!
So I need some valuable pragmatic advices & gud inputs from nice sensible & intellectual Jats of Jatland 
waitin desperately....
Rock on...
Jit.
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