malikpriya
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had hai aap kis community ki baat kar rahe ho madam jee ritu Di aap e samjhao inhe .....................koi sahi baat kah to ye langugae ne kosan mandh ja hain hahahaha
devar- bhabhi flirtations. Whether romanic in nature?
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nainsunil007
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Riya jee, dono ka agree hona bhi jaroori hai. agar ham jabardasti karenge to uska dushparinaam aaj nahi to kal saamne aayega. Kai baar dever ki already shaadi ho rakhi hoti hai, or agar phir bhi bade bhai ki wife ke saath uski marriage kar dete hain to dono dever jethani me bahut ladaai hoti hai
urmiladuhan
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urmila ji ye kahna chah rahi hai ki latta uddana humare samaj ki ek aisi kureeti hai jisse ki devar aur bhabhi ke rishte me romance ka scope ho gya hai.iss kurreti ki jadd ek widow hai jo ki married woman hi ho sakti hai.to moral of the story ladkio ko shaadi nahi karni chahiye.na bhabi banegi na devar hoga .er na ye tannte er yu thread hoga
malikpriya
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madam jee aducation te aapki bhi dikhan laag ri hai ar thinking bhi..........!!!
malikpriya
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To urmila jee is kureeti ki baat kar rahi hai ya dever bhabhi k romance ki ??????????
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malikpriya
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sunil jee aap sahi kah re hai par ye latta odhana ki reet dever k sath tab hoti hai jab wo unmarried ho ..............or ye ek majboori hoti hai koi fashion nhi hai .........
aisa nahi hai priya kai baar married hone p bhi udda diya jaata hai
malikpriya
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ok but Di ye to majboori me hota hai koi shonk k liye !!
problem urmila ji ko is remarriage ke scope se hai......shyad
urmiladuhan
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I am deleting posts 66 onwards in the interest of peace and well being of our beloved online community.
Regards,
Urmila.
Regards,
Urmila.
jispe gujarati hai usste poocho aade net p baith ke baat aarahi se.i have seen my two mausis gone through this hell.sisters turned into enemies.
yu thread hi behuda hai issne poore ne delete karo
nainsunil007
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Urmilla ji, ab to delete hi karna padega , kyonki ek cheez pe jab do ladies ladan laag jyan to uska koi solution nahi nikalta. hahahah. (Sorry don't take it to heart)
More than 110 posts in just two days shows the popularity of this romanticism. In their heart of hearts people like to relish such juicy duscussions but under the veneer of shyness. Anyway, if you want to delete the posts, it is your prerogative.
akshaymalik84
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Urmila Ji,
The marriage between Dever and Bhabhi is acceptable only when Bhai is dead. This does not conclude or becomes the reason that Devar and bhabhi could indulge in sexual relationship. No community approves of Devar bhabhi sexual relationship wether her husband is alive or dead unless she got married to that devar. If they do indulge in such relationship then community has nothing to do with it. Its their personal matter.
Rahi baat aapki saheli k case ki to baat isi hai......jab uske devar ne uske sath kuch kiya to usme us auratki sahmati bhi hogi....na te apne aadmi ne batawe e ki tera bhai mere sath nue nue kare hai....or agar husband bhi kuch na bolya te fer Legal help leti....ibb balak hoye piche k matlab....
urmiladuhan
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ha ha ha ha!!!!! The Chinese pictograph for “fighting” is the symbol of two women under one roof
Regards,
Urmila.
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ravinderpannu
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Urmila ji,
After reading all the comments and replies in the thread, there should be many things clear to you by now:
Let me try to summarize the points .
OLD times :
1. Widow remarriage was difficult and jat community came forward to improve the conditions for their bahu-betis.
2. Latta odhana( widow remarriage) was only performed when the husband died in early years of marriage. And it could be either devar or jeth ( in case no devars ). and if the lady had kids of considerable age (say 14-15 yrs) than there is very less chance of latta oodhana.
3. It is not by choice ,,it was and is a matter of fate.
That is why i believe there was some relaxation in the relation of devar and bhabi and jija-sali.
New Times:
1. It is still the same in new times too.
2. But now a days people are trying to sensationalize the relation of devar bhabi--jija sali..
3. If the widowed lady doesn''t want to marry his deceased husband's brother, and want to marry some else or want to spend life alone ,it is solely her wish,( conditions are different)
Now taking the part of flirtation, it is in the eye of beholder.
If both want a healthy relation there can be no flirtation only majak.
The case you discussed, i think they are some kind of illiterate fellows better call them animals.
And Polygamy/Polyandry is still practiced in some specific parts and areas ,so it can''t be generalised for all people.
If a boy girl in college time can have a very open friendship ( still they are not flirting) ,,why not devar-bhabi/jija-sali can have that kind of friendship...??
After reading all the comments and replies in the thread, there should be many things clear to you by now:
Let me try to summarize the points .
OLD times :
1. Widow remarriage was difficult and jat community came forward to improve the conditions for their bahu-betis.
2. Latta odhana( widow remarriage) was only performed when the husband died in early years of marriage. And it could be either devar or jeth ( in case no devars ). and if the lady had kids of considerable age (say 14-15 yrs) than there is very less chance of latta oodhana.
3. It is not by choice ,,it was and is a matter of fate.
That is why i believe there was some relaxation in the relation of devar and bhabi and jija-sali.
New Times:
1. It is still the same in new times too.
2. But now a days people are trying to sensationalize the relation of devar bhabi--jija sali..
3. If the widowed lady doesn''t want to marry his deceased husband's brother, and want to marry some else or want to spend life alone ,it is solely her wish,( conditions are different)
Now taking the part of flirtation, it is in the eye of beholder.
If both want a healthy relation there can be no flirtation only majak.
The case you discussed, i think they are some kind of illiterate fellows better call them animals.
And Polygamy/Polyandry is still practiced in some specific parts and areas ,so it can''t be generalised for all people.
If a boy girl in college time can have a very open friendship ( still they are not flirting) ,,why not devar-bhabi/jija-sali can have that kind of friendship...??
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