Do we believe we respect our elders?

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renukadabas

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Hi Friends,

This is Renuka, I am new member of jatland. Yesterday I saw two extreme conditions at same place (doctor's clinic) which made me to ask this question at this forum:

Those extreme scenarios were:
Condition 1: The Clinic was full different age group of people, starting from 15 till 70 years . When I entered the clinic I saw one aged uncle(must be in his late 60s), was standing and looking for some place to sit , but nobody bothered to offer him a seat. That uncle got a chance to sit when someone left the seat on his turn to visit the doctor.

Condition 2: In the same clinic I saw one old lady (must be in her 80s) who was accompanied by her daughter/daughter-in-law(second generation w.r.t. old lady) and her grandson( third generation w.r.t. old lady) and I must say, second and third generation did everything to make her comfortable.

Friends , I just want to know , what we as younger generation should do to make sure to reduce % of condition 1 and increase that of condition 2.

Thanks in advance.

Renuka Dabas

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RenukaDabas said:
Hi Friends,

This is Renuka, I am new member of jatland. Yesterday I saw two extreme conditions at same place (doctor's clinic) which made me to ask this question at this forum:

Those extreme scenarios were:
Condition 1: The Clinic was full different age group of people, starting from 15 till 70 years . When I entered the clinic I saw one aged uncle(must be in his late 60s), was standing and looking for some place to sit , but nobody bothered to offer him a seat. That uncle got a chance to sit when someone left the seat on his turn to visit the doctor.

Condition 2: In the same clinic I saw one old lady (must be in her 80s) who was accompanied by her daughter/daughter-in-law(second generation w.r.t. old lady) and her grandson( third generation w.r.t. old lady) and I must say, second and third generation did everything to make her comfortable.

Friends , I just want to know , what we as younger generation should do to make sure to reduce % of condition 1 and increase that of condition 2.

Thanks in advance.

Renuka Dabas

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Agree with you completely... Times have changed and the younger generation take no pain to make their elders comfortable (except their family members in some cases). This was in Indian culture to respect and treat elders in the same level as that of God.
But since these days the professional lives make people so busy as well as the influence of western or modern culture is so prominent that people have been diverting from the said to be Indian values.

As indicated in your post above, we would hardly find much people offering a seat to the elders in public places or public transports.

What we can do is, as these moral values start from the family itself.... try to inculcate these habits in the younger generations at home.. by demonstrating what is desired from them.

Ppl pls add your comments........
 
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acha topic start kiya hai renuka. aap hospital ka keh rahe ho jahan koi seat reservation nahi hota patients ke liye.aap delhi se ho th aapko DTC BUS ke baare mein th pata hi hoga ki ek side ki seats ladies ke liye hoti hai aur wahan likha bhi hota hai ONLY FOR LADIES. lekin iss ke baad bhi agar koi gents baitha ho ladies seat pe aur koi lady aa jaye th wh besharmo ki tarah hi baitha rehta hai wahan pe.ye th apni apni soch hai ki koi kisi ko kis tarah se respect de sakta hai:rock
 
acha topic start kiya hai renuka. aap hospital ka keh rahe ho jahan koi seat reservation nahi hota patients ke liye.aap delhi se ho th aapko DTC BUS ke baare mein th pata hi hoga ki ek side ki seats ladies ke liye hoti hai aur wahan likha bhi hota hai ONLY FOR LADIES. lekin iss ke baad bhi agar koi gents baitha ho ladies seat pe aur koi lady aa jaye th wh besharmo ki tarah hi baitha rehta hai wahan pe.ye th apni apni soch hai ki koi kisi ko kis tarah se respect de sakta hai:rock
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achha bhai sirohi sahab kaun se route par travel karte ho aap??????? yaar dilli main to reserved seats par koi baitha bhi hota hai to use uthna padta hai............... if any lady commuter comes............
 
first of all try to improve or change your self, u'll find every thing to be changed. dusron ko sudharne ki baten karna bahut aasan hota hai lekin khud ko badalna thoda mushkil bt satisfactory n result oriented hota hai...................
dear jatlanders agar badlaw lana hai to better to start frm ourselves......
 
pawariya said:
first of all try to improve or change your self, u'll find every thing to be changed. dusron ko sudharne ki baten karna bahut aasan hota hai lekin khud ko badalna thoda mushkil bt satisfactory n result oriented hota hai...................
dear jatlanders agar badlaw lana hai to better to start frm ourselves......
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Are you changing yourself or asking us to change??
 
Are you changing yourself or asking us to change??
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hahahhaaaaaaaaaaa
na bhai main kisi ne na kehta badalne ki. main to khud ne dekhun hun ar improvement ki koshish karun hun..............
 
pawariya said:
bhai matlab to pehle bhi mera yahee tha bt koi na misunderstanding ho jati hai..........
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R bhai key khode padan lag re so

Renu when u see that old person standing their did u offer him seat?
& if u dont hav seat then u can ask someone to help him.

Bhai sirf khud badlan te kuch naa howe dusre ne bhi kahna padey bhot se aadmi tayyar baithe re se sirf ek start khatar.

Er rahi DTC busan ki baat Bhai aajkal ladies itni bhali kit rah ri se ek kisey aadmi ne baith jaan de lady seat pe, uski ghetti pe guthha nahi tek de we.

Ajay bhai tu kadey najf ki busaan me aaiye, balak aali er bhudhe (addmi ya aurat) ne seat jaroor mil ja se ladies nahi to gents pe bitha de se, tanne koye jeans aali khadi dekh li hogi.:rock:rock:rock
 
rajkphogat said:
R bhai key khode padan lag re so

Renu when u see that old person standing their did u offer him seat?
& if u dont hav seat then u can ask someone to help him.

Bhai sirf khud badlan te kuch naa howe dusre ne bhi kahna padey bhot se aadmi tayyar baithe re se sirf ek start khatar.

Er rahi DTC busan ki baat Bhai aajkal ladies itni bhali kit rah ri se ek kisey aadmi ne baith jaan de lady seat pe, uski ghetti pe guthha nahi tek de we.

Ajay bhai tu kadey najf ki busaan me aaiye, balak aali er bhudhe (addmi ya aurat) ne seat jaroor mil ja se ladies nahi to gents pe bitha de se, tanne koye jeans aali khadi dekh li hogi.:rock:rock:rock
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Dear Raj,

I also belong to the same area... though havent travelled much in buses for a last few years.
Pehle it used to b a problem but agar ab aisa nahi hota to..... its great!! And pls note ..... most of indiscipline is created by Biharis... as many Biharis have migrated to the western Delhi.

Hahahhaha ........ jeans aali ne to main e seat de deta.. na to kisse aur ne tha deta ( this is a joke ....... now dont start a new thread on this!!!)
 
ajaysinghkundu said:
Dear Raj,

I also belong to the same area... though havent travelled much in buses for a last few years.
Pehle it used to b a problem but agar ab aisa nahi hota to..... its great!! And pls note ..... most of indiscipline is created by Biharis... as many Biharis have migrated to the western Delhi.

Hahahhaha ........ jeans aali ne to main e seat de deta.. na to kisse aur ne tha deta ( this is a joke ....... now dont start a new thread on this!!!)
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Bhai ajay it means u hav not travelled much in buses

Biharia ne te aaj bhi koye seat pe na baithenan deta, we k indicipline karenge.

er joke marna se to humor me jaa, Haadey serious baat karan dey samaj sudhar ki.
 
ajaysinghkundu said:
Dear Raj,

I also belong to the same area... though havent travelled much in buses for a last few years.
Pehle it used to b a problem but agar ab aisa nahi hota to..... its great!! And pls note ..... most of indiscipline is created by Biharis... as many Biharis have migrated to the western Delhi.

Hahahhaha ........ jeans aali ne to main e seat de deta.. na to kisse aur ne tha deta ( this is a joke ....... now dont start a new thread on this!!!)
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Bihariyan ne naa kharaab kar rakha discipline ... saara discipline local gaam aala ne kharab kar rakha sei.
Jawaan ladkon te ghana 40-60 saal aale middle age type ke gaam aala log sabte battammez aadmi ho sei - chahe woh jaat ho ya yadav,gujjar - woh apne aap ne chief minister samjhe sei.

To the original poster - what kind of answer are you expecting - if you can offer your seat ... go ahead and do it otherwise don't worry about it.
What do you mean by more comfortable .. was there some competition going on?
What kind of lame thread is this ... I am sorry but I had to say it.
 
RenukaDabas said:
Hi Friends,

This is Renuka, I am new member of jatland. Yesterday I saw two extreme conditions at same place (doctor's clinic) which made me to ask this question at this forum:
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Also, the doctor needs to get buy more furniture and start an appoinment system ... so that people who are incapable of waiting can book an appointment in advance.
Konsa khairati doctor se yo?
Desi doctor bhikhari pane te upar nahi uthegaa .... kamata hoga laakhon rapiya.
 
rajkphogat said:
Bhai ajay it means u hav not travelled much in buses

Biharia ne te aaj bhi koye seat pe na baithenan deta, we k indicipline karenge.

er joke marna se to humor me jaa, Haadey serious baat karan dey samaj sudhar ki.
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Sudhar le bhai samaaj...... no further posts from me on this subject..
 
ever been to a gov hospital ? the mad rush of population will make you forget all etiquette nd sanskaar's. try going to apolo or any other prestigious hospital. the situation is getting same over there nd in few years its going to worsen. all resources will finish, if this population does not come under control. more than the issue of etiquette/sanskaar, its the lack of resources or over-utilization of resources nd the fast life to which we are now being exposed. also as sid pointed, the docs nd the system needs to get professional now... 'appointments in advance'

apologies for digressing frm the subject, but i again see the same vicious circle going round nd round. less population... more education... with education comes etiquette nd sanskar. but hw will education come... it wont come, cos of politicians. pick up politicians - education - lack of resources - infrastructure - corruption - bla - bla bla - nd bla bla bla. make a flow diagram nd keep ghooming in tht same vicious circle.

as of me, i've never done tht in my life nd will never do tht in my remaining life. i'm also confident tht my next generation will follow on my footsteps. elders are elders... its a normal courtesy to offer a bit of help which surely you can.
 
Frnds thanks for your active participation, from Clinic's example , I wanted to site one of condition which might helped us know two side of same coin. And by elaborating examples of scenarios like DTC , sarkari hospital etc if we feel this thread is not useful to evaluate if we respect elders or not that means we believe, we/our younger generation are and will not be a contributor of any disrespect to our elders then I believe we are on right track.:)
 
I have to agree with SidChhikkara no this one. This was indeed a lame topic of discussion.
Ms Renuka
How do you know other people (young ones) who were sitting were not sick or had some medical problem.
Secondly as Sid said, a desi doctor is always and still is a bottom feeder in most cases wherever he goes. I have no faith in them, never go to desi doctor, their skill level, professionalism is lacking in every aspect of medicine.
Let me ask you this, did this doctor even have a drinking water facility, any magazine to keep people busy and make them comfortable, did he, as Sid asked, has an appointment system or numbering system?

There is no need to make something a generational conflict when none exist.:rolleyes:
 
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