How fast a forward woman should be?

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Thats the way it should be...does not mean that it has to be....from a relationship perspective
kapil.dalal said:
That meaning is not from relationship perspective. This is what is. The other bit is just explanation of the connection.

: : The OED also uses the version associated with what we may call rude courtship, which became literary with Dorothy Parker:
: : "b. colloq. (orig. U.S.). An amorous or sexual advance. Also fig. Chiefly in to make a pass at.
: : 1925 D. PARKER in World (N.Y.) 16 Aug. 3E/1 News Item... Men seldom make passes At girls who wear glasses...."
: : I think I see the connections that made this use possible, once you accept that a lunge and an effort have been encompassed by this word for a long time.
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What does the original author mean by "pass?"

It is a very vague and broad term.

If a woman told me that I look nice today, I would take it as a complement and that would be the end of the story.

If a woman said anything that was more sexual in nature, I would expect her to clarify her statement. There is really no point in making a big deal out of it even if the woman was being overtly sexual. I would try to find a common ground between us and try to maintain a strong social relationship among us, considering the fact that my feeling towards the woman are neutral.

Overall, in my opinion, there is nothing wrong about a woman who is very open about her feelings. I would take it positively as I admire candidness.

I hope this adds to a civil discussion
 
anjoo said:
Kalkhande ji,
So, you would agree that we can make a choice whether to be classy or cheap in the way we express through language?
Regards
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Absolutely. Language is very important. Feelings are like goods which need to be packaged properly with attractive, soothing language/ gesture.

RK^2
 
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Kapil, Sumit and others,
The intention of the thread was not "What is considered a pass"...
I already wrote my perspective on a "pass". If that is not acceptable, then please go by your own experiences or interpretations.
 
...In sabb nae maar-maar...

anjoo said:
Kapil, Sumit and others,
The intention of the thread was not "What is considered a pass"...
I already wrote my perspective on a "pass". If that is not acceptable, then please go by your own experiences or interpretations.
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LOL! :D ..... man! Too many iff's and but's....
"Rae chhori, aer nukae baaki ka saara bhi tu kimmae khudae kyun nae bharr dae???"... ;)
 
anjoo said:
Kapil, Sumit and others,
The intention of the thread was not "What is considered a pass"...
I already wrote my perspective on a "pass". If that is not acceptable, then please go by your own experiences or interpretations.
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Don't worry, I was just indulging in ruckus...:). Your perspective was clarified. Don't see anything wrong with that.
 
I must say your have expressed the right act in such beautiful words that i really admire you for it....Golden and meaningful words :)...well i also think that a girl should make a pass(if thats not a weird version as told my Kapil Dalal)...if guy is worth it he may hesitate initially(as its kind of unusual) but will understand you once he knows you well....those who are not worth it will talk sh*t and i guess in that case girl shouldn't give a sh*t about him becuse guy is not anything more than a pile of sh*t himself....so the mind made of rotten stuff will actually think of rotten things,because man with such brain is helpless :D



kusumdhochak said:
It shouldn't matter what the man thinks about it, you like someone, you tell him. Anyways if the man is going to judge her from that one action of hers and and not even sensible enough to try and know more about the girl/woman before making a judgement about her good or bad character, then its his problem. Also most of us have grown up hearing that a woman doing such a thing is bad, it sticks somewhere at the back of our minds and we need to make conscious effort to think and change those defaults settings of our minds.
And for that, it becomes even more important for girls to go ahead and express their feelings. some day things have to change...
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So you mean if guys approaches a girls it means that guys are impatient/desperate?....if views about a person's character and lifestyle changes with his/her sex than i guess there's something wrong with the views and not the person and his/her acts....such hipocrites guys are :mad:


brainspeak said:
in my opinion she would be>> impatient/desperate...:)

i wud always prefer a guy making a pass at a woman...(thts how i feel!!)
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Anju, here's one for the 'Make a Pass'!!!...

...I had been racking my brains as to where the thread could be heading and where best my input; and then of course on top of that the whole"To...or NOT TO make a pass" debate obviously having taken a whole bunch of people's fancy:

SO dear Watson, then decided how about I shared this little joke (had heard it long back!) about this whole - making a 'Pass' for this creative thread... and better still how about it shown in the form of a comic strip complete with speech balloons and such (I initially had thought of doing the usual one frame cartoon-punch... but wouldn't have worked for this; the expressions were hugely important)...

So here it is in the form of a funny little comic strip; Jatland's very own comic strip!... and while the whole conversation is highly stylized and a bit exaggerated, over the top; it has a surreal likeness to real-life incidents...

Does it make for a good pass, or a bad one... a creative one, or a cheesy one... well, you DECIDE!!! :)

Read, laugh and enjoy!... ;)
Cheers!!!
 
shailendra said:
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Does it make for a good pass, or a bad one... a creative one, or a cheesy one... well, you DECIDE!!! :)

Read, laugh and enjoy!... ;)
Cheers!!!
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Hahahahaha...there you go..:D:D:D:D:D Too good Shail...so the lesson learnt is ....."Molladd-a tae door rehna chahiye let alone making a pass"...:p;)
 
poonam said:
Hahahahaha...there you go..:D:D:D:D:D Too good Shail...so the lesson learnt is ....."Molladd-a tae door rehna chahiye let alone making a pass"...:p;)
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Thanks Poonam,
...and yup... isae bhi hein; es tarah kae 'ishtyle' kae kati 'aas-pass' bhi na ana chaiyeh!... :D
 
excellent cartoon :):):):):):)
shailendra said:
...I had been racking my brains as to where the thread could be heading and where best my input; and then of course on top of that the whole"To...or NOT TO make a pass" debate obviously having taken a whole bunch of people's fancy:

SO dear Watson, then decided how about I shared this little joke (had heard it long back!) about this whole - making a 'Pass' for this creative thread... and better still how about it shown in the form of a comic strip complete with speech balloons and such (I initially had thought of doing the usual one frame cartoon-punch... but wouldn't have worked for this; the expressions were hugely important)...

So here it is in the form of a funny little comic strip; Jatland's very own comic strip!... and while the whole conversation is highly stylized and a bit exaggerated, over the top; it has a surreal likeness to real-life incidents...

Does it make for a good pass, or a bad one... a creative one, or a cheesy one... well, you DECIDE!!! :)

Read, laugh and enjoy!... ;)
Cheers!!!
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Appreciate the cartoon, thank you Holmes....:)...a good one..
How about something on a pass by a woman?
shailendra said:
...Does it make for a good pass, or a bad one... a creative one, or a cheesy one... well, you DECIDE!!! :)

Read, laugh and enjoy!... ;)
Cheers!!!
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I was mistaken in thinking that every girl/woman would have gone through this atleast once in their life. You have been lucky. Glad that you understood it now...:)
poonamchaudhary said:
It has hilariously surpassed all other attempts of understanding this great 'mystery of making a pass'
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