a ques. again
i feel there is no harm in intercaste marriage...
kyunki jaati janam se nahi karam se hoti hai..
before our dear moderators react here

, i would like to ask you all a question....
i agree with the above statement of arvind....though i didn't read all the posts but whatever i read is agreeable, whether in favour or opposition.....and if talking about my personal feeling to main thori ulti hun....ya kuch bhi laga lo aap sab.....mujhe parents dusri community mein shaadi karne ke liye bolen to bhi mera mann nahin karta....saaf bolti hun unse....akeli rah jaaungi, wo theek [

]...and seriously, i stand by my words
now the question is that.....agar inter-caste system ko approval milta raha from every side..then.....
won't it add to the muslim community after few decades....
in the sense....just the child born from same mother can't marry each other, rest everybody can get marry with the person coming from any kind relationship.....don't you think so???????......its a ques. from my side to all.......maan liya ki ek pandit hai aur dusra baniya, to kiska gotra chhodenge.....now again their child can go into the third community....kaun bhai, kaun behan,.....ye kaise samjhenge????......aaj to hum mummy ke gotra waale kisi bhi insaan se milte hain to bhai-behan ka nata easily samajh jaate hain.....and this way a community stands tall
....waise to aajkal nuclear family ka jyada chalan hai to jab family group hi chhota hota jaa raha hai to no doubts ki iss tarah se to shayad community group bhi chhota ho sakta hai (this is all what i feel about).....that's why i don't prefer to settle abroad
so, first clear my above highlighted point (may be you find it very stupid but pls make it clear)
second thing, i don't hate muslims....they are the part of our society....but what if the same muslim like culture is being follwed everywhere that regarding marriage??????....think a little beyond your own marriage customs