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mr. Tomar.....why don't you go for experiment? Ek hi gene se hamesha ki tarah ek hi tarah ke jat janam latey rahenge. Jat - bharmin , baniya - brahmin, jat kisi bhi caste ke saath marriage karey.....koi farak nahi padta hai.

Insaan sab ek jaise hai, kahin agar koi difference hai to vo hai....culture ka, morales ka, values ka, traditions ka, language ka, thinking ka, background ka or priorities ka.

Agar kisi jat ko lagta hai ki kisi or religion ya caste ya community ke ladke ya ladki ke saath uski patri kha rahi hai to kisi ko koi issue nahi hona chahiye.....

Aap jat, baniya , brahmin, chamar, rajput ya koi bhi apne karm se hotey ho na ki apne family se. Jaato ke yahan bhi ek se ek gadhey hotey hai or chamaro mey bhi ek se ek honorable or respected personalities hotey hai.
निधि जी अलग जाती में की गई शादी चलती ही कितने साल है .
अगर अपनी जाती में शादी की जाए तो मन मुटाव होने पर अपने
समाज के लोग बीच में पड़कर मन मुटाव दूर करवा देते है .
ज्यादा बड़ी बात हो जाए तो पंचायत समझोता करवा देती है .
अलग जाती के मामले में कोई बीच में नही आता . और शादी
मिनटों में टूट जाती है . देखिये आपने कहा है सब . जाट राजपूत .बामण.
चमार .आदि सब अपने कर्मो से होते है . जाती का उन पर कोई परभाव
नही पड़ता . एसा नही है . जाती का परभाव सभी पर साफ़ झलकता है .
किसी सरकारी कार्यालय में जाइये और देखिये साफ़ समझ में आ जाएगा
की कोण सा ऑफिसर नीची जाती का है और कोण सा ऊँची जाती का .
दोनों का काम करने का तरीका और बात करने का तरीका अलग -अलग होगा.
और तो और बामण और जाट के तरीके में भी आपको फरक नज़र आएगा .
ये सही है की पहले इन्सान एक ही किस्म का हुआ होगा . पर जातियों में बटकर
उनका सब कुछ बदल गया . किसी भी सावर्जनिक जगह पर जाट छाती ठोककर चलता है .
और चमार डरा - डरा सा चलता है . दोनों के आत्म विस्वास में फरक मिलेगा .
 
Of course my answer is first one .....this character reflects the Jat Character.... .. 99% jat will do like this... Aur wo fir kisise aisa stupid question nahi puchhegi..aur jat se to bikul nahi... so problem solved for ever.

Sabhi log kisi na kisi jati se belong karte hain aur sub apni caste ke liye katter bhi hote hain....aisa nahi hai koi brahman apni jati ko prefrence nahi deta.. ..but third one jo hai panditon ka character hai .... agar usne aisa answer diya wo fir dubara se puchhegi kisi aur se.... problem still there...
aisa aapko 'lagta' hai 'hota' nahi hai !
ab sochiye ki koi aapko thapaad maar ke kuch samjhaaye to kya aap samajh jaoge ya fir uske prati nafrat aapke dil me aayegi ..... boliye :eek:

Jawaab saaf hai aap nahi samjhoge mujhe pata hai kyonki aap to shanti se kahi baat bhi nahi samajh paa rahe hain to ye thappad se kaise samjhenge :o..... aur koi bhi nahi samjhega to problem to wahin rahi ........ :confused:

Aise koi kuch samajhne lagta to har din log kuch naya seekh lete aur puraana bhool jaate :eek: .... schoolo ki jarurat bhi nahi rehti sochiye ..... parents bachhe ko do maarte aur seekha dete jab bhi chahte :D........ aap aise to nahi seekhe hain ;) ......

Maar dhaad ki bhasha na kabhi kisi ko samjha paayi hai na samjha paayegi ...
aur agar nahi maante to aaj hi kisi ko jor se maar kar usko kuch samjhaana, wo shayad aapse dar ke usko maan jaaye par kabhi bhi nahi samjhega aur agar pyar se keh ke dekhoge to shayad ek do baar wo galti repeat kar jaaye par jab samajh jaayega to hamesha ke liye samjh jaayega .... JATS temporary kaam nahi kiya karte :rock
 
Hota to ye hi aur hume ye feel bhi kiya hai...maine akskar dekha hai agar aap kisiko pyar se samjhao kisi ki smajh main aati hi nahi...abhi ki ek baat bataa hun kal main bank main gya tha kuchh kaam ke liye maine usse bahut request ki mujhe jaldi hai plz mera kaam pahle kar do...aur mujhe nye nye phade batne laga shayd koi sharma hi tha... lekin jab maine usse kuchh jatwali language main baat ki to ek min nahi lagi kaam karne main aur ab na hi aage se der mere kaam ko....to yahan to akshar dekhte hain ki Jat agar aram se kisis baat ko kahe koi nahi sunne wala aur agar ek baar dhamkake baat kare fir dubara kabhi problem nahi aati..
Agar samne wale ye pata chal jaye ki ye Jat hai to uska nature apne aap hi change hota hai. Wo isliye nahi ki aap usse pyar se samjhane wale hain wo isliye ki kahin gaal per ne lag jaye abhi...

Jara aap sochiye agar aapko koi molest karne ki kaushis kare kya karoge ... usse pyar se samjhaoge aur kya wo samajh jayega??? ya fir uski khopdi main lath maroge......
Ager usse pyar se samjhoge to jaton ka naam hi ganda karna hai aur na hi wo pyar se samjhega.....


aisa aapko 'lagta' hai 'hota' nahi hai !
ab sochiye ki koi aapko thapaad maar ke kuch samjhaaye to kya aap samajh jaoge ya fir uske prati nafrat aapke dil me aayegi ..... boliye :eek:

Jawaab saaf hai aap nahi samjhoge mujhe pata hai kyonki aap to shanti se kahi baat bhi nahi samajh paa rahe hain to ye thappad se kaise samjhenge :o..... aur koi bhi nahi samjhega to problem to wahin rahi ........ :confused:

Aise koi kuch samajhne lagta to har din log kuch naya seekh lete aur puraana bhool jaate :eek: .... schoolo ki jarurat bhi nahi rehti sochiye ..... parents bachhe ko do maarte aur seekha dete jab bhi chahte :D........ aap aise to nahi seekhe hain ;) ......

Maar dhaad ki bhasha na kabhi kisi ko samjha paayi hai na samjha paayegi ...
aur agar nahi maante to aaj hi kisi ko jor se maar kar usko kuch samjhaana, wo shayad aapse dar ke usko maan jaaye par kabhi bhi nahi samjhega aur agar pyar se keh ke dekhoge to shayad ek do baar wo galti repeat kar jaaye par jab samajh jaayega to hamesha ke liye samjh jaayega .... JATS temporary kaam nahi kiya karte :rock
 
1. Aapko jaldi hai to kaam jaldi ho jaaye?? hain?? aap aur thoda pehle pahuch sakte the...

2. kaash to aapka janam Saddam Hussain nagri me hua hota... fir dekhte aapke Jaatpane ko...

1. maine usse bahut request ki mujhe jaldi hai plz mera kaam pahle kar do... Jat agar aram se kisis baat ko kahe koi nahi sunne wala aur agar ek baar dhamkake baat kare fir dubara kabhi problem nahi aati..

2. Agar samne wale ye pata chal jaye ki ye Jat hai to uska nature apne aap hi change hota hai. Wo isliye nahi ki aap usse pyar se samjhane wale hain wo isliye ki kahin gaal per ne lag jaye abhi...

3. Ager usse pyar se samjhoge to jaton ka naam hi ganda karna hai aur na hi wo pyar se samjhega.....
 
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Hota to ye hi aur hume ye feel bhi kiya hai...maine akskar dekha hai agar aap kisiko pyar se samjhao kisi ki smajh main aati hi nahi...abhi ki ek baat bataa hun kal main bank main gya tha kuchh kaam ke liye maine usse bahut request ki mujhe jaldi hai plz mera kaam pahle kar do...aur mujhe nye nye phade batne laga shayd koi sharma hi tha... lekin jab maine usse kuchh jatwali language main baat ki to ek min nahi lagi kaam karne main aur ab na hi aage se der mere kaam ko....to yahan to akshar dekhte hain ki Jat agar aram se kisis baat ko kahe koi nahi sunne wala aur agar ek baar dhamkake baat kare fir dubara kabhi problem nahi aati..
Agar samne wale ye pata chal jaye ki ye Jat hai to uska nature apne aap hi change hota hai. Wo isliye nahi ki aap usse pyar se samjhane wale hain wo isliye ki kahin gaal per ne lag jaye abhi...

Jara aap sochiye agar aapko koi molest karne ki kaushis kare kya karoge ... usse pyar se samjhaoge aur kya wo samajh jayega??? ya fir uski khopdi main lath maroge......
Ager usse pyar se samjhoge to jaton ka naam hi ganda karna hai aur na hi wo pyar se samjhega.....

Koi kisi aur jaati ki ladki ko bhi molest karne ki koshish karega to wo bhi uski khopdi me lath hi maaregi ! Aap crimes ko kaha se le aaye .... pehle to aap baat baat pe marne mitne ki baat kar rahe the ..... kisi ne jara sa kuch keh diya to aap uske sirr pe lath baja rahe the aur yaha ab baat ko ghoomaane lage .... aap ched vedh aao kisi baahman ki ladki ko to aapko bhi lath padenge .... to ye is tarah ki aapraadh waali baate chod hi do aap

Aur baaki rahi jaatpane se kaam nikalvaane ki to aapne aisa kuch kyo nahi kiya ki us bank me aane waale har insaan ka kaam sahi se kiya jaata, aap to apna faayda nikalva ke nikal liye .... isme kaun si shaan ki baat hai, apna faayda to sab hi karte hain to fir aur jaatiyo me buraayi kyo nikaal rahe hain aap ?

Rehne dijiye koi jawaab dene ki jarurat nahi hai ..... maro maaro ... Jaatpana dikhao aur us din jis din aapko aisa kaam pad jaayega ussi aadmi se jisme jor nahi chal sakta sab samajh aa jaayega ki aapka dar kab tak kaam kar sakta hai ...... leave it now i guess its enough !
 
Kyon sumit mera janam kisi Prime miniter ke yahan kyon na hua hota..? maine teri konsi bhens khool li jo mujhe saddam hussain ki nagri main bhej raha hai...
Tumne pahle kyon na di thi ye salah pahle pahuchne ki???


1. Aapko jaldi hai to kaam jaldi ho jaaye?? hain?? aap aur thoda pehle pahuch sakte the...

2. kaash to aapka janam Saddam Hussain nagri me hua hota... fir dekhte aapke Jaatpane ko...
 
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Jaisi aapki murji...
lekin ek baat fir bhi kahunga.. ki ye intercaste marriage se JATLAND ke bhaviya ko bahaut khatra hai.....


Koi kisi aur jaati ki ladki ko bhi molest karne ki koshish karega to wo bhi uski khopdi me lath hi maaregi ! Aap crimes ko kaha se le aaye .... pehle to aap baat baat pe marne mitne ki baat kar rahe the ..... kisi ne jara sa kuch keh diya to aap uske sirr pe lath baja rahe the aur yaha ab baat ko ghoomaane lage .... aap ched vedh aao kisi baahman ki ladki ko to aapko bhi lath padenge .... to ye is tarah ki aapraadh waali baate chod hi do aap

Aur baaki rahi jaatpane se kaam nikalvaane ki to aapne aisa kuch kyo nahi kiya ki us bank me aane waale har insaan ka kaam sahi se kiya jaata, aap to apna faayda nikalva ke nikal liye .... isme kaun si shaan ki baat hai, apna faayda to sab hi karte hain to fir aur jaatiyo me buraayi kyo nikaal rahe hain aap ?

Rehne dijiye koi jawaab dene ki jarurat nahi hai ..... maro maaro ... Jaatpana dikhao aur us din jis din aapko aisa kaam pad jaayega ussi aadmi se jisme jor nahi chal sakta sab samajh aa jaayega ki aapka dar kab tak kaam kar sakta hai ...... leave it now i guess its enough !
 
Bislas ji ye kattarpana theek nahi hai,aap jat hain iska matlab ye nahi ki aap insaan nahi hai.insaan rehna zada important hai,insaaniyat rakhna zada important hai..."jaat rehne se kahi zada".
or is kattarpane/maar-peet ki language ko "jaat-hood" naam na de to accha hoga.Log kehte hain "jaaton ka dimag ghutne mein hota hai"....i hope aap jaise log hi examples na ban jaye is kahawat ke.

apne funde clear rakh dusre ke fundamental mat dekh kahin...kabhi kahte rah jao hum bhi kabhi jat the !!!!
 
Aap isse mera personal mudda kyon bana rahe hain maine kab kah raha hun ki jat inshan nahi hote inshaniyat to jaton main hi hoti hai. main to ye kah raha hun ki jat galat baat bilkul bardast nahi karte aur unka virodh karne ka tarika dusron se alag hai... Jo jaton ke character hain wo to rahenge hi....haan agar hum isi tarah se intercaste marriage ko prosthan dete rahe to wo din dur nahi jab likhna padega Choudhary Ramphal Sharma Aggrawal... ....is tarah ki dharna se hum jaat aapni pahchan kho denge.... hoga ye kauwa chala huns ki chal apni bhi bhool gya.....
na pandit ban paye na jat rah paye..

Bislas ji ye kattarpana theek nahi hai,aap jat hain iska matlab ye nahi ki aap insaan nahi hai.insaan rehna zada important hai,insaaniyat rakhna zada important hai..."jaat rehne se kahi zada".
or is kattarpane/maar-peet ki language ko "jaat-hood" naam na de to accha hoga.Log kehte hain "jaaton ka dimag ghutne mein hota hai"....i hope aap jaise log hi examples na ban jaye is kahawat ke.
 
Cool Guys

Hi Dr. Sanjeev Kumar & Mrs. Sweta,

Please not make this issue as a personal issue. It is the point of view of each individual & each one has a right to project it. Don't take it as a prestige issue.

Cool on this issue. But in general, Mrs. Sweta seems to be on better side.

Take care.. bye
 
Inter caste marraige is okay. Everything depends on how much the guy and gal like each other, compatiblility, adjustment etc.
It is even okay to marry the girl of another race as long as the 2 people get along fine.
Sometimes one is in a location where one can rarely find jat girls, forget about jat families. Then what to do?
It is not written in sacred texts that one should only marry jat girls.

Would you marry a girl only because she is jat? or an Indian girl and to show and pretend to the World that you are carrying out some unwritten tradition and lie to yourself and he unhappy in marriage? When I meant ugly girl, I meant ugly from outside and Usually I have seen that girls who are not pretty are also uglier from inside and carry some sort of jealousy towards beautiful girls, even handsome guys and usually try to undermine them, spreading rumors against them etc. Devious, scheming, carrying some sort of complexes, some sort of defensive survival mechanisms as they know a woman's beauty is one thing that attracts men first in general and they know they don't have that.

Then after marriage, the ugly wife tries to hold on to her husband who is now in crisis mode as he may realize that the woman is ugly not only from outside but from inside too. Some of these guys soon have wandereing eyes and the ugly wife knows that. So she uses all her cunning ways to hold on to him. They have children and the husband is till in crisis mode because he doesn't know what to do now that they have children. He will still have wandering eyes and lives a life of lies.

It is not necessary to marry a jat girl. But if you find a good one, hold on to her be it a jat or a girl of another race. Because it is hard to find good people nowdays. May be it has always been like that. Good people are hard to find.
 
Inter caste marraige is okay. Everything depends on how much the guy and gal like each other, compatiblility, adjustment etc.
It is even okay to marry the girl of another race as long as the 2 people get along fine.
Sometimes one is in a location where one can rarely find jat girls, forget about jat families. Then what to do?
It is not written in sacred texts that one should only marry jat girls.

Would you marry a girl only because she is jat? or an Indian girl and to show and pretend to the World that you are carrying out some unwritten tradition and lie to yourself and he unhappy in marriage? When I meant ugly girl, I meant ugly from outside and Usually I have seen that girls who are not pretty are also uglier from inside and carry some sort of jealousy towards beautiful girls, even handsome guys and usually try to undermine them, spreading rumors against them etc. Devious, scheming, carrying some sort of complexes, some sort of defensive survival mechanisms as they know a woman's beauty is one thing that attracts men first in general and they know they don't have that.

Then after marriage, the ugly wife tries to hold on to her husband who is now in crisis mode as he may realize that the woman is ugly not only from outside but from inside too. Some of these guys soon have wandereing eyes and the ugly wife knows that. So she uses all her cunning ways to hold on to him. They have children and the husband is till in crisis mode because he doesn't know what to do now that they have children. He will still have wandering eyes and lives a life of lies.

It is not necessary to marry a jat girl. But if you find a good one, hold on to her be it a jat or a girl of another race. Because it is hard to find good people nowdays. May be it has always been like that. Good people are hard to find.

i don't agree with the above two lines...

being ugly from inside is a trait associated more with so called pretty womens..."jinke ram ne suthra rang, nain-naksh de diya, we apne aapne ghani hoor ki pari samjhan laag ja sai....aur isi ghamand v abhiman unhe ugly from inside bana deta hai...."

Guys loves beatutiful girls when they have to fall in love with.

But when it comes to marriage...they prefer any decent hearted (inside) women with presentable looks...

Anyways: Though I'm open to intercaste (if i find a presentable decent hearted women, and my parents or samaj get's agree....coz shadi unki mujhse hogi, par rehna isi samaj hoga, aur parents ke sath....but jat samaj me adjust karna dusari caste ki ladkiyon ke liye bahut mushkil hota hai.........otherwise they'll try to make abandon one's parents....isliye is option me dam nahi....;))

So only left option is jatni....:rolleyes:...:(.......;)...:boxing...:thappad.....and finally smile :)....if we see it in long term prospects...
 
I have seen many many jat women or Indian women who are not only ugly from outside but have black heart. Bhar se bhi badsoorat aur aandhar se bhi.
I used to think ugly women would have some beauty inside.
but I have seen that is not true but was just a thing I heard from other people.
But from experience I can say that there are many ugly women who have a good degree of complexes and may be those complexes just get bigger when they move to Western countries.
Those complexes come out eventually. Just like I mentioned, it is perhaps an inferiority complex and insecurity they feel due to their appearance.
And it is not true that most pretty girls are arrogant, and haughty from my experience.
That is my view and experience.
I would say it does not matter if she is jat or Indian or white.
 
I have seen many many jat women or Indian women who are not only ugly from outside but have black heart. Bhar se bhi badsoorat aur aandhar se bhi.
I used to think ugly women would have some beauty inside.
but I have seen that is not true but was just a thing I heard from other people.
But from experience I can say that there are many ugly women who have a good degree of complexes and may be those complexes just get bigger when they move to Western countries.
Those complexes come out eventually. Just like I mentioned, it is perhaps an inferiority complex and insecurity they feel due to their appearance.
And it is not true that most pretty girls are arrogant, and haughty from my experience.
That is my view and experience.
I would say it does not matter if she is jat or Indian or white.


i totally agrre wid u aman. i ve also experienced this. girls who r ugly from outside usually are ugly from inside also..thats true in 90% cases.

u r right. doesnt have to ba a jat or non jat, if two r compatible to each other and r a good human being, then there is no harm in intercaste mrg.
 
No lady is ugly...it is the circumstances which make a person ugly or beautiful.How can one even remotely feel that way.We all can be ugly or good in a particular situation.Ugliness has nothing to do with the face or appearances.This mindset about females must change and earlier the better.


As regards marrying inter cast.......No harm,if it suits the couple as all human beings across the globe are made up of same stuff.Yes if compatibility can be found with in own cast...nice else go places.
 
No lady is ugly...it is the circumstances which make a person ugly or beautiful.How can one even remotely feel that way.We all can be ugly or good in a particular situation.Ugliness has nothing to do with the face or appearances.This mindset about females must change and earlier the better.


As regards marrying inter cast.......No harm,if it suits the couple as all human beings across the globe are made up of same stuff.Yes if compatibility can be found with in own cast...nice else go places.

Physically beauty matters and girls that have it have a distinct advantage because that is the first thing a man sees and is attracted to. I would be a total hypocrite not to admit that.
There are many many jat ladies or Indian girls that are ugly from outside and even uglier from inside. They try to control their husbands who usually have wandering eyes. They even try to discourage other guys making negative casual remarks against pretty girls. May be that way they get feelings of power and control. Personally, I think they are patheic and miserable.
Sometimes I feel all ugly Indian girls have made US home.
Suppose I go out with a pretty white girl to a restaurant, Indian girls see me with her, I see distinct jealousy in their faces. If I could, I would make a copy of their image at that moment and give it as proof.
Not that that means all pretty girls are nice, many are arrogant too perhaps because of their beauty.
 
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Physically beauty matters and girls that have it have a distinct advantage because that is the first thing a man sees and is attracted to. I would be a total hypocrite not to admit that.
There are many many jat ladies or Indian girls that are ugly from outside and even uglier from inside. They try to control their husbands who usually have wandering eyes. They even try to discourage other guys making negative casual remarks against pretty girls. May be that way they get feelings of power and control. Personally, I think they are patheic and miserable.
Sometimes I feel all ugly Indian girls have made US home.
Suppose I go out with a pretty white girl to a restaurant, Indian girls see me with her, I see distinct jealousy in their faces. If I could, I would make a copy of their image at that moment and give it as proof.
Not that that means all pretty girls are nice, many are arrogant too perhaps because of their beauty.



You have right to your opinion Aman.
 
Hope you know what ugly means !!

i totally agrre wid u aman. i ve also experienced this. girls who r ugly from outside usually are ugly from inside also..thats true in 90% cases.

u r right. doesnt have to ba a jat or non jat, if two r compatible to each other and r a good human being, then there is no harm in intercaste mrg.
Oh !! we have so many theory makers here :rolleyes:;) and too terrific and accurate theories :D:p

Arvind, kindly explain the sample set you took for your well-formulated(:D) theory, the random variables taken and the statistical tool (:tamatar) you used to arrive at this wonderful (:o) theory ????

And yes .... the journal in which it got published and its date and when & where it got certified ? :cool: And in case you arent able to do that then ask yourself 'Who is ugly???' :D;)
 
I have seen many many jat women or Indian women who are not only ugly from outside but have black heart. Bhar se bhi badsoorat aur aandhar se bhi.
I used to think ugly women would have some beauty inside.
but I have seen that is not true but was just a thing I heard from other people.
But from experience I can say that there are many ugly women who have a good degree of complexes and may be those complexes just get bigger when they move to Western countries.
Those complexes come out eventually. Just like I mentioned, it is perhaps an inferiority complex and insecurity they feel due to their appearance.
And it is not true that most pretty girls are arrogant, and haughty from my experience.
That is my view and experience.
I would say it does not matter if she is jat or Indian or white.

You are talking about all this based on your experience - right? But my experience says that this applies in case of ugly men and not at all in case of women ! Now what?

You will say that you are right and m wrong ! :p

hahahaaaaa :rock

Aman actually these are self made theories based on personal experiences which rest on a limited sample set which YOU must have come across and cant be generalized so easily !

Now, quite possible that you must have come across many many girls (;)).... oops.... i meant to say ugly girls .... and you were fortunate enough to know what they have in their hearts - are they black or white :D

But I dont think you must have come across even 1% of the female population !! Or have you :D

Better dont formulate funny theories :o ..... we cant afford to burst out in laughter too often :rock
 
Shweta, being guy, I don't think about guys in that respect. Therefore I didn't make my observation known.
But it is true that ugly people in general are also ugly inside, be it a guy or a girl.
My theory based on observation is still the same. Most Ugly women are also ugly inside too. Specially when they come to Western countries, their insecurities and jealousies comes out fully. These ugly women try to hold on to their husbands.
Now what kind of men would marry an ugly woman?
My observation:(let us assume it is a jat man)
1. This jat's may have been married before to a pretty woman. And somehow he got divorced or his wife ran away with someone else. With busy life in the West, I have seen that happen in a case. To simplify let us say now this jat guy is divorced.
With some negativity associated with the label of a divorcee this jat guy has hard time finding a pretty jat woman.
So his options are limited.
Therefore he only manages to find an ugly jat woman whose family wants her to get married to a divorced guy because they want her to live a good life in the West.
This jat guy can't get over the fact that his first wife was pretty and the present wife is ugly.
then after marriage!!! he finds out that his ugly wife is also ugly from inside!!
The ugly wife knows the facts very soon.
To hold on to him she tries manipulating him in different ways like downplaying the importance of beauty, passing negative discouraging remarks against pretty women.
Slowly the ugly woman also tries to expands her boundaries of control by trying to discourage other young unmarried men making negative remarks against other pretty women, or in many different other ways.
This guy is basically messesd up now mentally.
If he divorces this one, who is he going to marry?
Now he is clever at hiding this from people who don't know him fully.
He is misreable, pathetic and wants others to feel that too.
For him there is nowhere to go!!!


2. This jat guy would be say less educated with less earning power, he may be handsome though. He may marry an ugly woman because she is far more educated then him and has more earning power. So basically he would marry her for her abilities to earn money!!
But he will soon realize that the ugly woman is uglier inside and that she demands complete control of family affairs. of course she will feel insecurity because of her poor looks and will try to discourage her husband's roving eyes. The husband may realize that he got a bad deal and now he can't get out of it!!! So they both live a life of lies.

Now suppose men in both examples have children with their ugly women. They have basically no way out of their misreable lifes.
Therefore my observation is that most ugly women are ugly from inside too and they not only make lives of their husbands miserable but other people too.
 
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