gajendersingh
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Over 250 juvenile crimes were reported in Gurgaon this year. Do you blame poor parenting for this?
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Is this poor parenting...??
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anilsangwan
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May be... to some extent.
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Over 250 juvenile crimes were reported in Gurgaon this year. Do you blame poor parenting for this?
dahiyavijay7
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Yes, Of course it is poor parenting. It has been proved by the psychologists that decline of joint families have contributed to the rise of crimes among youths of Middle class. In the name of modernity, today, the parents have failed to discharge their duties properly. They concede to wrong and unjustified demands of their children. I have seen in many families that they first allow their children for all those activities, which could draw them towards wrong. Due to unreasonable liberty given to children, they go astray.
Poor parenting, but Kids too don't listen...
आज कल ही क्यों, हर युग मैं बच्चे parents की ही जिम्मेवारी रहे हैं, चाहे वो अच्छे काम करें या बुरे I तीसरी कक्षा मैं शायद वह कहानी पढ़ी थी जब एक बेटा कारावास में उस से मिलने आई अपनी माँ के कान काट देता है क्योंकि जब उसने पहली बार चोरी की थी तब उसकी माँ ने उसे नहीं रोका थाI आज कल तो बच्चों को सही दिशा दिखाना सचमुच मैं एक ऐसी चुनोती है जिसको बहुत कम parents निभा पायें, और अगर माँ बाप दोनों नौकरी करते हो तब तो शायद भगवन भी सही रास्ता नहीं दिखा पता I दादा दादी या तो साथ रहते नहीं या उनको साथ रखने में शर्म आती है I बच्चों को तो servants पाल रहे हैं I अब एक नई चीज़ शुरू हो गयी है और वो है की कुछ parents अपने flats में CCTV लगवा रहे हैं ताकि वो नौकरों पर नज़र रख सकें I पता नहीं ये modernity हमें कहाँ ले जा कर छोड़ कर आएगी I इसी पर एक बात याद आई, वैसे यह मैं पहले भी लिख चूका हूँ I
कहत कबीर सुनो भाई साधो,
ऐसे वक़्त भी आएगा I
Love होगा कंप्यूटर पर,
और बच्चा Fax से आएगा I
Jokes apart, the fact is that parenting is not a joke in these times. Children have stopped listening too. There is infirmation boom and 'rat race is ON'. Career has become more important than spending time with chiuldren. Children see parents arriving home past midnight and entering even the toilet with a Blackberry. All these 'modern tools of slavery' have devastated parenting. As much as parents say "don't do this baby", the baby ensures that whatever has been refused has to become No 1 item on the to do list. A rebellious attitude seems to be the 'IN thing'.
My advice to all 'would be parnets' is to please decide with a cool mind whether you can handle a child, especially if both are working. And if you decide to have a child, give TIME to the child.
Best regards,
JS Malik
आज कल ही क्यों, हर युग मैं बच्चे parents की ही जिम्मेवारी रहे हैं, चाहे वो अच्छे काम करें या बुरे I तीसरी कक्षा मैं शायद वह कहानी पढ़ी थी जब एक बेटा कारावास में उस से मिलने आई अपनी माँ के कान काट देता है क्योंकि जब उसने पहली बार चोरी की थी तब उसकी माँ ने उसे नहीं रोका थाI आज कल तो बच्चों को सही दिशा दिखाना सचमुच मैं एक ऐसी चुनोती है जिसको बहुत कम parents निभा पायें, और अगर माँ बाप दोनों नौकरी करते हो तब तो शायद भगवन भी सही रास्ता नहीं दिखा पता I दादा दादी या तो साथ रहते नहीं या उनको साथ रखने में शर्म आती है I बच्चों को तो servants पाल रहे हैं I अब एक नई चीज़ शुरू हो गयी है और वो है की कुछ parents अपने flats में CCTV लगवा रहे हैं ताकि वो नौकरों पर नज़र रख सकें I पता नहीं ये modernity हमें कहाँ ले जा कर छोड़ कर आएगी I इसी पर एक बात याद आई, वैसे यह मैं पहले भी लिख चूका हूँ I
कहत कबीर सुनो भाई साधो,
ऐसे वक़्त भी आएगा I
Love होगा कंप्यूटर पर,
और बच्चा Fax से आएगा I
Jokes apart, the fact is that parenting is not a joke in these times. Children have stopped listening too. There is infirmation boom and 'rat race is ON'. Career has become more important than spending time with chiuldren. Children see parents arriving home past midnight and entering even the toilet with a Blackberry. All these 'modern tools of slavery' have devastated parenting. As much as parents say "don't do this baby", the baby ensures that whatever has been refused has to become No 1 item on the to do list. A rebellious attitude seems to be the 'IN thing'.
My advice to all 'would be parnets' is to please decide with a cool mind whether you can handle a child, especially if both are working. And if you decide to have a child, give TIME to the child.
Best regards,
JS Malik
For sure, children can not be blamed. A child comes with a blank mind, it gets filled by what he/she observes (sees, hears) in the home, society, etc.
For the rise in crime, I think the main reasons could be that the living environment is getting more and more insecure.
Also, marketing has become highly immoral these days. Ads are getting targeted to lure juvenile.
Also, unfiltered adoption of wester cultures has resulted in a confused society. We should note that in western countries there is very high support system which is totally missing in India. Parents and schools should make children aware about these differences.
For the rise in crime, I think the main reasons could be that the living environment is getting more and more insecure.
Also, marketing has become highly immoral these days. Ads are getting targeted to lure juvenile.
Also, unfiltered adoption of wester cultures has resulted in a confused society. We should note that in western countries there is very high support system which is totally missing in India. Parents and schools should make children aware about these differences.