Love - whether it emanates from heart or brain?

riyaa said:
Experiances and Age make differences..all has different views as I written Above
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Looks like you are youngest of jatland? It is only view that makes difference otherwise you can see lots of 5o+ matching your thinking i am not sure if someone can be found on Jatland too
 
Looks like you are youngest of jatland? It is only view that makes difference otherwise you can see lots of 5o+ matching your thinking i am not sure if someone can be found on Jatland too
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"Experiances and Age make differences in views" this is what i want to say.
 
True Love emanates from heart and affected love or forced love in which you don't initially start from love but end up in love emanates from brain.Like MOSTLY in arranged marriages,in which boy girl know nothing about each other,parents and child brain se kaam leke rishta fix karte hain,checks the status of other party and after taking care of many such things marriage finally happens and then the happily and intelligently(involving use of brain) married couple began to love each other.Whether they develop true love thereafter or not is another discussion but the start invloves thinking.
In true love,no thnking or brain exercise is involved,you just love the other person and that's the bottom line.
 
Saharan1628 said:
True Love emanates from heart and affected love or forced love in which you don't initially start from love but end up in love emanates from brain.Like MOSTLY in arranged marriages,in which boy girl know nothing about each other,parents and child brain se kaam leke rishta fix karte hain,checks the status of other party and after taking care of many such things marriage finally happens and then the happily and intelligently(involving use of brain) married couple began to love each other.Whether they develop true love thereafter or not is another discussion but the start invloves thinking.
In true love,no thnking or brain exercise is involved,you just love the other person and that's the bottom line.
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Oh I see......All Gays and Lesbians should be in true love then. Their thinking and brain doesn't work. They just love the other person.
 
akshaymalik84 said:
Oh I see......All Gays and Lesbians should be in true love then. Their thinking and brain doesn't work. They just love the other person.
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Sir Ji ..I know nothing about gays and lesbians..so instead of making a prejudiced reply i prefer to say nothing.I don't know about their hormonal aberration or whether they really have different feelings or not.Quote-"Their thinking and brain doesn't work."-Unquote...It hasn't been testified.So i can't concur with that view.

Ram RAm
 
riyaa said:
Yeah agree kabhi dil se pyar karo kisi ko, Itna ki uski badi se badi galti aapko apne pyar ke aage choti lage, aap agar chahe tou bas uski hasi..or uske liye aap woh sab kuch kare jo aap kar skte hai, Mere liye pyar ka matlab hamesha se care aur sath raha hai..ek baar dimaag se naa soch kar dil se socho aur pyar karo..yakin maniye aap iss duniya mai sabse khush rehnae wale bandae ban jaogae..agar atlast aapka partner aapke sath ho na ho par ek feeling hamesha rhaegi That I loved someone more than myself..Jo aapka hai woh aapko choad ke nhi jaayega aur jo aapka nhi hai lakh koshish kar lo woh nhi rukega..
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Riya,

Quite profound statement but can you be with your partner/lover/husband after he has told that he has slept with another woman.? Would you still keep on loving him as you claim - true etc love?




duhan said:
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For me, love brings out the best in a person - a person is willing to change himself/herself for the better.

Regards,

Urmila.
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Urmila, Later part is just opposite of earlier. Bringing best and changing oneself are poles part.



Love is father of illusion and child of delusion and if not true but surely being blind to the ugly side of the person.
 
malikdeepak1 said:
Suppose a girl and a boy love each other deeply. They are the first ones in each others life. Since their parents do not approve their marriage, they decided that we should not hurt reputation of our families by running away and marrying against thier wishes. They decided to marry as per their parents wishes.

Now, the person they marry will be "second" one in their life! And as per Uppu's Definition, are they "Charitraheen"?
I dont approve of it :)
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Deepak jee, ethics bind people in love. Loving as in (romantic love), teaches one to act ethically towards each other. Leaving your claimed love to be with someone else is lying and cheating. The reason does not matter i.e., social reason etc. Even in a non romantic setting, such as conducting business, if one goes back on a verbal contract it undermines the ethics of conducting business.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
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Samarkadian said:
Riya,





Urmila, Later part is just opposite of earlier. Bringing best and changing oneself are poles part.
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Samar jee,

Speaking from my personal experience, I became a better person after I was in love and through my love ordeals.

It taught me to communicate truthfully to myself about my own feelings (among other things) i.e.,
I learnt to care for my feelings, which earlier on, I was not good at.

Regards,

Urmila.
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Quite profound statement but can you be with your partner/lover/husband after he has told that he has slept with another woman.? Would you still keep on loving him as you claim
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yeah I will keep loving my partner/lover/husband as I claim.I don't think the person we love, we should keep there boundaries..Let them do what makes them happy..One day they will decide there own what is right and wrong for them..Mujhe gussa tou aayega par mere pyar se kam....its like i wrote in honour killing thread, body ke kisi part mai infection hou tou usae kata nhi jata...ilaaj kiya jata hai..
 
Samarkadian said:
Riya,

Love is father of illusion and child of delusion and if not true but surely being blind to the ugly side of the person.
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Samar jee, it is possible that the two people in love may not agree on every matter. What is important is that they give each other the space to be themselves, rather than fault finding i.e., saying you have an ugly side etc etc.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
upendersingh said:
वी. पी. सिंह जी,
जहां तक खुद को चरित्रवान घोषित करने की बात है तो सार्वजनिक रूप से ऐसा करना मायने रखेगा, क्योंकि उस घोषणा को कोई पड़ोसी भी पढ़ सकता है, कोई जानकार भी पढ़ सकता है और वो घोषणा फिर इंटरनेट से शायद ही कभी हटे. साथ ही भारी राशि का इनाम भी जुड़ा है. जो झूठ को पकड़ लेगा तो वो पूरी जिंदगी जलील तो करेगा. यदि यहां कोई खुद को झूठ-मूठ चरित्रवान घोषित कर देता है तो उसे उसका फायदा कुछ नहीं होने वाला, जबकि नुकसान बहुत ज्यादा हो जाएगा.
तो फिर आप भी कर रहे हो क्या कोई घोषणा...हा...हा...हा...
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हा हा हा हा हा हा ........उपेंदर भाई दिल पर मत लेना I यह चरित्रवान होने की घोषणा का मेरा इशारा किसी व्यक्ति विशेष की तरफ नहीं था और आपके बारे में तो मैं ऐसा सोच भी नहीं सकता I पर यह हकीकत है कि हमारे समाज में कुछ बनावटी चरित्र वाले लोग भी हैं जिनकी असली फितरत छुपी रहती है और नकली चेहरा सामने आता है I गाँधी इमानदार था थोड़ी बहोत बता ग्या, नहीं तो लोग सारे राज़ भीतर ले के मर ज्यां सें I इसीलिए तो ये brain-tumor के केस घणे होण लागगे I आपने पूछा कि मैं अपने बारे में क्या घोषणा करना चाहता हूँ I सो भाई के घोषणा करूँ, इतिहास के पन्ने पलटने का तो कोई फायदा नहीं है पर इब तो पिछले कुछ साल से (जब से होश संभाला है) मै आपनी जाण मैं कसूता चरित्रवान बन रह्या सूं I आर आगे भी इसा ऐ रहण का इरादा सै क्योकि किसी के चरित्र का हनन करना एक जघन्य अपराध है I
 
ye wo aag hai jo lgaye na lage,bujhaye na bujhe..
Love 1 baar ho jata hai to uske baad partner kuchh glat nikal jaye to isse gusa aayega but love kam nahi hota.
mujhe aaj bhi 1 yaad hai.1 frnd ki lover ne use kaha ki tum cheap ho,mad ho,aise ho waise ho.but usne koi reply nahi diya.hansta raha.
mene aise hi poochha ki usne tumhe itna bura kaha lekin tumne kuchh nahi kaha.uska answer tha ki pyar karta hu isse.
ye kya kahti hai,kya samjhti hai.isse dukh to hota hai par pyar kam nahi hota.iski ichchha hai jo kahle.
agar shadi ke baad bhi pta chale ki uska koi affair hai to divorce ho sakta hai.wo insaan ye to kahega ki glat insaan se love hua tha.but love tab bhi rahta hai.use nahi bhulaya jaa sakta.

Samarkadian said:
Riya,

Quite profound statement but can you be with your partner/lover/husband after he has told that he has slept with another woman.? Would you still keep on loving him as you claim - true etc love?






Urmila, Later part is just opposite of earlier. Bringing best and changing oneself are poles part.



Love is father of illusion and child of delusion and if not true but surely being blind to the ugly side of the person.
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May be the machine she was using for accessing her account was used by someone else also for accessing JL!!!:cool:

Je 2 dost ek laptop/PC te apne JL ke account access kar le to wo donu ban ho jaya kare! :tamatar


Baki moddey e bta sake se sachi baat to....
 
malikdeepak1 said:
May be the machine she was using for accessing her account was used by someone else also for accessing JL!!!:cool:

Je 2 dost ek laptop/PC te apne JL ke account access kar le to wo donu ban ho jaya kare! :tamatar


Baki moddey e bta sake se sachi baat to....
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Not so logical! agar aisa hai bhi to ye to koi valid criteria nahi hai kisi user ka account block karne ka!
 
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