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rajeshrathee said:
Respected Tevatia ji

Can you elaborate whom you are pointing here as the defender? If you are saying about my post then please go through the thread once again. Mr. Dahiya has given a sober reply on which the lady has replied with the remarks (you can read it yourself).

Now if she just want to make a point of this to the moderator then she can do it the way I told her but if she want to take it an issue to all of us then even we are against this nuisance.

As you are an elder,a balanced and unbiased view is expected from you Sir.
You haven't said aything against a lot of people who has supported that person comment terming as his feelings.

baki aap bade ho kuch bhi keh sakte ho.
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Dear Mr. Rathi,
First of all my post is not pointing to any one person. I usually don't direct my post to one individual.
When I say defender that means people who are defending the person who sent that email/message to Ms. Sameeksha.

Secondly, let us encourage our girls to bring these issues for discussion. Why curb them by advising them to write a private message to the moderator.

If some one was stupid enough to write that message to this girl, let him be brave enough to stand up to his mistake and apologize to her.

In any case, such messages are needed to be monitored by the moderators. What best way to tell them to do so, by starting a thread for that. Let other members and guest readers know that we don't tolerate such messages on this site.

 
raj2rif said:
Why curb them by advising them to write a private message to the moderator.
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Sir Who am I to curb someone? But if they themself are asking that they want to just bring into the notice of moderators then its better to show them a better way to do it without any controversy.
 
Kamal Sir,

May be you are not enlightened enough to see anything bad in that message. And am sorry to say, the message was not merely expression, it was a whole lot of thought which was going in the brains of the respected member!

Regards,

Sam.



fool4love said:
y do u have to make it a public issue.. in the first place..??
i understand wht the guy (if its a girl..i'd be worried abt u)... was trying to prove.... but i don get... ur point of starting this thread!!
I don see anything bad in that msg... he just expressed..wht he felt for u. if u don like it.. tell em so!! dating site..?? ...i think u just need to take it easy!
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Poonam Maa'm,

Its not me who thinks this is a dating site!! I have been made to think about it.... One with the great member who has fallen in love with me!!! And two... with you people not finding anything bad in that...... This gives me jitters down the spine..... How very westernized have jats become......

I am sure the forming fathers of this site never wanted such sort of things happening on the PMs....

Don't you think Maa'm it was better to let visitors know about what they could face on this site...... And when you say NOT UNUSUAL..... I guess it makes it clear that girls have been getting such sort of messages every now and then!!! Is it being an unmarried and young girl's paradise to be banished:o

Regards,

Sam.



poonam said:
SO????

So now you think this is a dating site?

I know I might sound very very mean to some of you. But at times, its important to speak the truth no matter how bitter it is.

C'mon Sam, you gotta deal with this issue (not unusual) at your end ONLY. No sky has fallen on you.

Quoting you..."who am I to guide him to matrimonial section"......then I ask you, who are you to disgrace him publically like this.

Well, anyway, its your call. Do whatever you think is right. But since you started this thread, its implied you wanna "discuss" this, so couldn't resist sharing my opinion. No offence please!

(To be very honest, I was almost tempted to accuse you of AGT but then kinda reined myself considering it might be hard for you to take it.)
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Vinod Sir,

See..... I have made you feel at home ;) Yeah.... The connection with history is true... When Duryodhana could be a jat, as Jayadrata; his Jija is a proven jat (http://persian.packhum.org/persian/) And the world knows how so very mean was Duryodhana for females!!

An agressive jat leader in rajasthan seems to be a far aflung connection, may be yes! we need a strong jat leader all over who could give us some thought of a better tomorrow!!

Its not about grabbing sympathy from here sir, I am strong enough to ENJOY th blues of my life.

My point is that "S**T happenes", let me tell people and moderators what **** is happening here!!!!

Yeah... I don't have minds enough to mind!! I always welcome messages which make someone feel at home ;) even I have been missing intelligent posts;)

Regards,

Sam.




vinodks said:
Hadd kardi yaar aapne to Samu...
I feel so much at home with these kinds of meaningful posts... feels like I was missing it... I think we should discuss this properly with moderators and have a poll too... I am sure this kind of behavior by a Jat boy has something to do with Jat history and lack of aggressive Jat leader in Rajasthan... there got to be some connection...
Since you took me seriously against all my expectations let me say this...
We guys also sometime get these kinds of emails from girls... do we ever complain in public?... No... kyunki hamame dusron ka dard samajane ki aur chupchap sahane ki kshmata hai... I know how painful is it be bugged by emails by silly bleeding anguished hearts... its easy for girls to gather sympathy in such cases but it gets very hard for a guy because everyone thinks guy is to be lucky if he is target of unsolicited offers and expects him to behave the opposite... to feel like poor john you have to be poor john...

mind mat karna samu majaak kar raha hoon... (wase mind ho to beshak kar bhi lena:)... Jatland pe asse kisse sada se hote aayi hai aur ab to ye parmpara si ban gayi hai...

-vinod
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Sam bebey,in the fist place you should learn to ignore the vultures as they are available every where around us.there are no spotless places,no dirt free enviornments,no tailored made wears and no idealism on this planet.Human beings are very complex and strange creatures and there are no two people who think alike.We have all kinda people out here.some are meaningful and serious,some are casual visitors,some are spoil sports and some are here to say what has been said to you and some others.So please take what is best for you from this portal and omit what is worth sending into waste basket.I strongly condemn these unsolicited mails by members but at the same time request the members recieving such mails also to be little selective in their course of action.
 
Hmmmm

kisee bhee jagah, kisi bhee samya, koi bhee kam karte wakt aadmee ko apne deemak se kam lena chahiye......:mad: dusro ke deemak se kaam lene wale kabhee bhee safal nahi hote.:mad: ye mera experience hai........................

agar koi aapko purpose karta hai to use aap mana kar sakte hai to aap sahe hai agar aap usko sarvjanik karte hai pooree tarah karo addha adhura kam kyo. uska naam sabke saamne batao. nahi to seedhe sarpancho se bat karo
aisee useless thread likhne se mere khyal se koi fayada nahi hai.

redpected madam, koi bhee kam purpose kare bina nahi hota, chahe wo pyar ho ya job haa job ke liye bhee application farm bharna padta hai.. hai na:)
na hee iske bina shadi nahi hoteee............hamne bhee kiya tha......mana kar diya.....:D :D to kya usne hare goli mar dee ya thane me report karwa dee:D :D ......................



netra.......
 
vinodks said:
Hadd kardi yaar aapne to Samu...
I feel so much at home with these kinds of meaningful posts... feels like I was missing it... I think we should discuss this properly with moderators and have a poll too... I am sure this kind of behavior by a Jat boy has something to do with Jat history and lack of aggressive Jat leader in Rajasthan... there got to be some connection...
Since you took me seriously against all my expectations let me say this...
We guys also sometime get these kinds of emails from girls... do we ever complain in public?... No... kyunki hamame dusron ka dard samajane ki aur chupchap sahane ki kshmata hai... I know how painful is it be bugged by emails by silly bleeding anguished hearts... its easy for girls to gather sympathy in such cases but it gets very hard for a guy because everyone thinks guy is to be lucky if he is target of unsolicited offers and expects him to behave the opposite... to feel like poor john you have to be poor john...

mind mat karna samu majaak kar raha hoon... (wase mind ho to beshak kar bhi lena:)... Jatland pe asse kisse sada se hote aayi hai aur ab to ye parmpara si ban gayi hai...

-vinod
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hahahahahah aggressive jat leader for rajasthan bhoot jarooree hai bhai sahab or khoj jaree hai....:D :D maine bhee apply kar rakha hai...

netra...
 
Just ignore...why make it such a big deal:confused:

Internet is a virtual medium and when you put your picture and urself up then you run the risk of anyone from anywhere in the world being able to reach out to you. There are always going to be some negatives along with the million positives that sites like this one bring to the table.

From what i can read the post might be a little annoying to someone but it has no vulgar language and seems to be on the lighter side. I don't see the world coming to an end because of that post..just my 2 cents
 
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samranwa said:
Kamal Sir,

May be you are not enlightened enough to see anything bad in that message. And am sorry to say, the message was not merely expression, it was a whole lot of thought which was going in the brains of the respected member!

Regards,

Sam.
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its just 2,434,876 days ................till I start caring what you think
 
ek baat to hai .. is site par advocate to bhoot hai...selha dene maie to dair bhi nahi lagate mere bhai.. ho jate hai suru yeh karna chaiye aur wo karna chaiye... ek taraf to yeh kehte ho ki jatland ek parivar ki tareh hai aur dusri aur gyan dolba lag jyawo......
 
Every one is entitled to his/her opinion but let us not ignore the bigger picture

:) Dear All,
It is true that every one has an opinion and they are free to express it provided it does not offend other members. In this case a member has offended another one and it borders on sexual harrashment. This kind of behaviour we can not and should not tolerate. The member in question has been warned and given infraction. Similar behaviour in future by this member will see him banned from Jatland. Instead of advising victims to forgive and forget we must encourage them to come forward whether publicly or privately that is their choice.Everyl members should feel that this is their virtual home and they are safe here. Bullying or harrashment will not be tolerated. Justice, Action, Truth are core Jat values which we should not compromise.:)
 
We should respect female members

I agree with Sheoranji that this kind of behaviour we can not and should not tolerate on this site. We have to behave within accepted norms. We believe in the traditions where woman has got high place in our society.

यस्य देशे नार्यस्तु पूज्यन्ते रमन्ते तत्र देवताः

And Jat is regarded as a Devta.

Regards,
 
poonam said:
SO????

So now you think this is a dating site?

I know I might sound very very mean to some of you. But at times, its important to speak the truth no matter how bitter it is.

C'mon Sam, you gotta deal with this issue (not unusual) at your end ONLY. No sky has fallen on you.

Quoting you..."who am I to guide him to matrimonial section"......then I ask you, who are you to disgrace him publically like this.

Well, anyway, its your call. Do whatever you think is right. But since you started this thread, its implied you wanna "discuss" this, so couldn't resist sharing my opinion. No offence please!

(To be very honest, I was almost tempted to accuse you of AGT but then kinda reined myself considering it might be hard for you to take it.)
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Fully Agreed with You in this .... Your Call Only ...
 
Proposing to a Jatni

Proposing to a Jatni requires guts at the best of times.
Proposing to a *Jatland Jatni*, however, is bordering on being suicidal.

For all the "Jat key chorre in love", attached is some motivation.
 
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Raj Rathee Sir,
Aapki uparli post padh kai meri gharaali boli "tu bhi mannai achchha laagai sai"
mannai kahee "ke baat, achchha laagun suun, meri ke sabji banaa kai khaawaigi"
 
Wrong Title

I came in the thread thinking there would be some 'Shayari' on love. Didn't know what was cooking here. Sam, at least name the thread/post properly. 'Love!!' is the most misleading title for it.

Although I must give some credit to the elders who have tried to steer the posts towards the title of the thread.:)
 
any solution yet?

sam came wid a very typical problem.....evry one was having point of views on this....but my question is did she got any solution or did our stie founder or moderators took any plan to curb such action for future.

opening a site easy..but managing it requires effort..........

this is not that has happend first time on jatland........do we have any concrete solution to this???????????

second i have doubt about the members verification...how do do we verify that s/he is jat only ...can our site founder throw some light on this.
 
kaye bhaiyo ne likha ke nothing wrong in msg its ways of expreesion of love.........some said there nothing 2 make big out of it and she should not make a issue out of it.........................................many more views for supporting this b u l l s h i t act.

For all of you i have say a very simple line just pass me on email ids or phone of your sister girl friend mother daughter in law sister in law and will write somthing which looks ok but will make you panic..............

I am serious about it if any one of you a little doubt about it they can try me.just pm me.
 
charitsheoran said:
kaye bhaiyo ne likha ke nothing wrong in msg its ways of expreesion of love.........some said there nothing 2 make big out of it and she should not make a issue out of it.........................................many more views for supporting this b u l l s h i t act.

For all of you i have say a very simple line just pass me on email ids or phone of your sister girl friend mother daughter in law sister in law and will write somthing which looks ok but will make you panic..............

I am serious about it if any one of you a little doubt about it they can try me.just pm me.
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Well, my hyper excited friend ... have you realized that anyone who wants to pass on the above information to you will have to take the permission of the concerned woman... tell me why would the woman in question give her personal information to her relative to pass on to you to receive bullsh*t from you.
 
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