http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VPON6RHIjvc
I saw this video on someone's FB page today and it really made me think. How do we treat our women?and how do we bring up our buys?
Also can't help but see the guy in the bad pagri in the beginning as every tau or pitaji in Haryana or any Jat family. Maybe they don't literally sit you down and tell you this, but this exactly how we are 'taught' since we are young.
The son can stay out till late, daughter has to come back home the moment the tuition finishes.......the son can drive to college alone, the daughter has to be dropped by the brother or dad and the list goes on.
Of course the issue that how treat our women is a huge question, but just as much troubling is the fact that when ever I hear about honour killings or rapes or molestation my first thought is 'jat hoonge'.
I defend my heritage and community against an outsider with the ferocity of a pitbull, but recently I have the feeling that slowly there is less and less to defend.
I am not complaining, I am just hoping someone will restore some hope.....maybe even slap(only electronically) in me.
Need hope, please help
PS: Nothing against Taus and Pitajis, have great taujis and had a great father and love and respect all of them.