Can follow se pehle to bhai sawaal yeh ki Why follow these rules. Logic to koi tha nahin bas pravachan tha. I say, have a healthy disdain for any pravachan unless accompanied by some strong logic.
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Can follow se pehle to bhai sawaal yeh ki Why follow these rules. Logic to koi tha nahin bas pravachan tha. I say, have a healthy disdain for any pravachan unless accompanied by some strong logic.
prashantacmet
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Yes, sure, I have told may times here that since March, 1998 no living being in this world can claim that I have had physical relation with that or even made any vulgar signal towards anyone. Actually except some mischiefs in whole of my life no living being can claim of having physicals relations with me. But yes there are some mischiefs, I am repeating again. As far as psycho case is concerned then...
मुझे तो पता नहीं है कि मैं पागल हूं या नहीं, क्योंकि पागल अपने आप को कभी भी पागल नहीं कहता, ना ही मानता...लेकिन कोई और भी नहीं कह सकता कि मैंने पागलपन में किसी के कपड़े फाड़ दिए हों या उसके पीछे से आकर उसके सिर में पत्थर मार दिया हो...हा...हा...हा...
लेकिन अभी तो मैं कोई ख़ास इंसान भी नहीं हूं और मैं आने वाले समय के बारे में भी नहीं कह सकता कि मेरा क्या अंजाम होगा...लेकिन जो मैंने किया है और कर रहा हूं, वो मेरे जीवन की अभी तक की सबसे बड़ी पूंजी है...अभी तो मुझे अपने सफल होने की पूरी उम्मीद है, लेकिन आने वाले समय में यदि कभी मेरी बर्बादी तय हो गई तो उसके बारे में भी मैं पूरी ईमानदारी से बता दूंगा...मुझे ना तो यहां कोई प्रचारक बनना, ना ही मुझे किसी से कोई लालच है...केवल विचारों का आदान-प्रदान है....Thanks.
Uppee...There is a guy, named as "brij mohan sharma", lives in my vicinity. He almost looks like you . let me ask him today what he think about this marital guideline
Yes Uppu,
Appreciate that you believe in your philosophy deeply and remember all great men were called lunatics by lesser mortals at some stage.
upendersingh
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Uppee...There is a guy, named as "brij mohan sharma", lives in my vicinity. He almost looks like you . let me ask him today what he think about this marital guideline
अगर किसी दिन यह तय हो गया कि मेरा विवाह नहीं होगा तो उसी दिन से मेरी बर्बादी तय हो जाएगी...दरअसल एक लड़की भी ऐसा कर रही है, वे द्वारका, दिल्ली में रहती हैं...मैं केवल उनकी वजह से ही ऐसा कर पा रहा हूं...अब वे मुझे कभी मिलेंगी या नहीं...कुछ नहीं कहा जा सकता...जिस दिन वे मुझे मिल गईं, उस दिन से कुछ स्थितियां बदलनी चाहिए...उनके अपार्टमेंट के बाहर गार्ड रहते हैं....अंदर जाना मुश्किल है...इससे ज्यादा यहां मैं इस बारे में और कुछ नहीं बता सकता...
@ Vipin Jyani
Yeah...I know it...thanks a lot
Bhai as you said, Since 1998 you haven't had physical relation. To un baaton ko to 12 saal ho liye.. According to your mentioned rule, 6 saal takk bacho shadi se..aab to shaadi ka time aa gaya hai
upendersingh
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Bhai as you said, Since 1998 you haven't had physical relation. To un baaton ko to 12 saal ho liye.. According to your mentioned rule, 6 saal takk bacho shadi se..aab to shaadi ka time aa gaya hai
6 साल कम से कम लिखा था और यह भी लिखा था कि यह कोई विशेष या निश्चित संख्या नहीं है...
Vipin,
I join you in appreciating Uppu's simple and straightforward approach in expressing himself. On the face of it, his philosophy may sound outlandish in maintenance of healthy marital/pre-marital relations. But, theoretically, it may not be wrong. Remaining emotionally as well as physically celibate for longer durations may be salutary to health. It has been preached by some Yogis like Swami Dayanand Sarswati, Vivekananda, and the modern Yogic icon Ramdev. But Uppu has to relax the longevity of this self-imposed celibacy. He may replace years by weeks to make it practicable (6-10 years could be replaced by 6-10 weeks). If Uppu is ready for this change in time-table, there is no harm in experimenting this unique method, following in the footsteps of Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi.
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Not everything that a great man does is great. In fact, a great man gets away with a lot that an ordinary man won't be able to. I think mankind as such would be better off if the preachings of great men (prophets, saints, mahatmas, godmen, etc.) were evaluated on merit (like a scientist's findings are) and not faith. As much as I respect Gandhi for lots of qualities, I have no respect for him on his preachings on this issue. A couple of critical links (though I hope people don't use these to abuse Gandhi who was nevertheless a great soul):
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...rtured-young-women-worshipped-shared-bed.html
http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-e...the-truth-about-gandhis-sex-life-1937411.html
Waise, all lunatics are also called as lunatics..
Long-term celibacy, perhaps, causes lunacy. But a short-term celibacy (6-10 week's) once in a blue moon after marriage may solidify the marital relations. People may like to experiment. This code of conduct doesn't apply to the bachelors as they are perennial celibates, officially.
My comment has nothing to do with this debate on pros and cons of celibacy. What one wants to do in his/her personal life is entirely his/her personal choice. I couldn't care less about it and I think it is generally a good practise to keep your personal life off public forums.
Kapil,
Though it was in a lighter vein, I feel a reasonable degree of abstination is good for one's marital relations as well as sexual health. However, I do not agree to the time frame suggested by Upender. It all depends on one's body system, mental status and prevailing circumstances which determine the frequency and intervals. Gandhi has, perhaps, made these revelations in his book "My experiments with Truth". I happened to read some sensational excerpts of this book long ago. Thanks anyway for sharing the links which have refreshed my knowledge about Gandhi's sensuous experiments.
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akshaymalik84
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Hey Uppu......Chill bro......Yes, sure, I have told may times here that since March, 1998 no living being in this world can claim that I have had physical relation with that or even made any vulgar signal towards anyone. Actually except some mischiefs in whole of my life no living being can claim of having physicals relations with me. But yes there are some mischiefs, I am repeating again. As far as psycho case is concerned then...
मुझे तो पता नहीं है कि मैं पागल हूं या नहीं, क्योंकि पागल अपने आप को कभी भी पागल नहीं कहता, ना ही मानता...लेकिन कोई और भी नहीं कह सकता कि मैंने पागलपन में किसी के कपड़े फाड़ दिए हों या उसके पीछे से आकर उसके सिर में पत्थर मार दिया हो...हा...हा...हा...
लेकिन अभी तो मैं कोई ख़ास इंसान भी नहीं हूं और मैं आने वाले समय के बारे में भी नहीं कह सकता कि मेरा क्या अंजाम होगा...लेकिन जो मैंने किया है और कर रहा हूं, वो मेरे जीवन की अभी तक की सबसे बड़ी पूंजी है...अभी तो मुझे अपने सफल होने की पूरी उम्मीद है, लेकिन आने वाले समय में यदि कभी मेरी बर्बादी तय हो गई तो उसके बारे में भी मैं पूरी ईमानदारी से बता दूंगा...मुझे ना तो यहां कोई प्रचारक बनना, ना ही मुझे किसी से कोई लालच है...केवल विचारों का आदान-प्रदान है....Thanks.
You already know that sexual thing or preferences are based on individual. Nobody is brave enough in this world, everyone like to misbehave at desire age of her or his.
बाकी भाई पुण्य तो गाँधी ने भी न कमाए थे .....देश का बाबू बना बैठा से ..........बाकी भाई जब तक तन्ने उम्मीद से सबने से.......और अपने जवान आदमी थोडा मजाकिया किसम का से . .....मजाक करण का ते हक बने से ........बाकी लालच ते इन्सान की इछाये पैदा करती है ......हर एक इन्सान(इब्ब आतिश नुए पूछेगा .....इंसान मतलब आदमी या औरत) लालची हो से.......क्यूँ? ye jawab tereko dena hai!
If 'father of the nation' has shared such sensational and sensuous experiments with public, ordinary people are bound to get inspired. Upender seems to have got inspiration from 'Bapu' perhaps.
upendersingh
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I am no one to decide in this concern, sir. It can be taken as this that I had prescribed to have a walk of 6-10 km per morning, but you want to shorten it to 1-2 km per morning. Quite ok, no harm, it means less effort, but effort is effort. The main aim should be to take self-imposed pain. Other austerities may also be tried. Austerity gives peace of mind. And if no one does so then I am not going to worry and if all do so then I am going to gain nothing. But as all are brothers here so it was just a thought, a suggestion, not any preaching.
upendersingh
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I am fully chilled.
Yes quite right, Akshay bhai, but I was just answering the querries of fellow brothers.
No, I don't bother if someone makes fun in discussion.
Human being may be selfish, harassed, incomplete, but what he makes/creates that is quite perfect (i.e. buildings, vehicles, clothes, eatables and all the things, made by human being). Human being is great, who can do anything, just circumstances required.
upendersingh
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No, no sir, I didn't know that even Gandhi used to suggest so. I had given my own logics to do so. I also thank Kapil to bring it in my knowledge too.
Agreed Uppu..But eligibility to clear ho gayi rule ke according. Baaki bhai aise to poori umar nikal do apne rule ko aur extend karke. Rule ko kitna hi flexible bana lo..
Waise, all lunatics are also called as lunatics..
Yes, but there is a difference
Waise Lovers(majnu) and Poets(shayar) are also called lunatics. Majnu is widely used as synonym of deewana.
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