Sachchi Mardanaggi

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Dear worthy members time and again many social issues which are destroying our society,Its ethos and the very fabric on which life is honorably lived are being discussed here and certainly an awareness is being spread in the environment[and some of us are doing their bit on ground as well to fight this monster but lot is yet to begin in that direction] but then in this fast moving world where people are busy meeting their two ends meet,there is hardly any time left to spare towards indulging in community work/solving these complex problems faced by us all.It is irony of fate that we watch our nears and dears suffer all around us and we find ourselves doing nothing.So sad a story indeed.


Many a times issues relating to women suffering in our society has been discussed here and very valuable inputs have poured in and myself in particular have benefited a great deal.Let me come to the point in focus.MARDANAGGI....this word figures on jatland prominently and invariably.Sometimes i am surprised that We the Jats slaughter our unborn girl child in womb with impunity and still shamelessly boast about ourselves to be MARRAD.We are scared that if a girl child is brought to the family she will be a problem all through,as a child,as an adolescent,at the time of marriage and after the marriage.And if she goes astray in young age she will bring dishonor to the khandan....Thats why we kill her to proclaim that we are real MARRAD.



For me Marrangi in this context will be: Feel proud if a female is born in the family,Do not discriminate between a boy and a girl child,Give her good diet and proper medical care,Groom her well,Educate her well,Let her dream..you feel her dream,Go with her dream,Let her grow as a beautiful human being and a lovely women,Protect her silently[where ever she needs] from the evil eyes,Give her good education,Love her like an angle and ask her at every stage as to what she wants to be happy in life.Let her bloom into a constructive and valuable citizen of this planet,Marry her as per her wish and support it with full might.Spread love in that family and stand like a rock with your daughter till you are there on this planet and die blessing her.



The above is my description of MARDANAGGI........whats yours?




This one sawaal...there are many more like this.
 
kaks we don't allow a gal to go any part of world for education/job so easily and there are so many things to differentiate....but you are an Ideal father no doubt:) manne aagley janam mai Papa bann kai miliyo:)
 
kaks we don't allow a gal to go any part of world for education/job so easily and there are so many things to differentiate....but you are an Ideal father no doubt:) manne aagley janam mai Papa bann kai miliyo:)



Bebey jo papa de sakke se ooo ibb le le kadde bi.........You make me emotional Sunita.
 
Sorry:) did it twice
kaka 1 ad yaad aagi. my bro studied frm hindu (DU), there was a campaign n sum sugar brand came up wid a marvellous piece of ad. brand name was shagun. ad was like:

"arre beti hui hai, muh (mouth) shagun karawo".

my bro narrated it 2 me d moment he stepped in home. just 1 line n all such a big message
 
Great thoughts

Dev Sahab, aapney is fourm ko mainey de deyea,

Bhaut sunder vichar hai, Hamarey bujurg kaha kartey hai jis ghar mein ladki
nahi hoti uskee dehli (door Step) kuanri reh jati hai. Bina kanyadan kiyea koi
bhee parivar samjik karj sey mukt nahi ho sakta. Mardangi key liyea yea karj utarna jaruri hai. Ladki maa-baap ko jo sukh 20-21 saal mean dei jaati hai
ladka wo sukh 80 saal mean bhee nahi de paata. Ladka aek parivaar ko taarta hai or ladki do pariwaroo ko tarti hai.

Regards
 
infact its d gals who need 2 hold d reigns...
staap blamin men..they r meek n malleable;)
Dear worthy members time and again many social issues which are destroying our society,Its ethos and the very fabric on which life is honorably lived are being discussed here and certainly an awareness is being spread in the environment[and some of us are doing their bit on ground as well to fight this monster but lot is yet to begin in that direction] but then in this fast moving world where people are busy meeting their two ends meet,there is hardly any time left to spare towards indulging in community work/solving these complex problems faced by us all.It is irony of fate that we watch our nears and dears suffer all around us and we find ourselves doing nothing.So sad a story indeed.


Many a times issues relating to women suffering in our society has been discussed here and very valuable inputs have poured in and myself in particular have benefited a great deal.Let me come to the point in focus.MARDANAGGI....this word figures on jatland prominently and invariably.Sometimes i am surprised that We the Jats slaughter our unborn girl child in womb with impunity and still shamelessly boast about ourselves to be MARRAD.We are scared that if a girl child is brought to the family she will be a problem all through,as a child,as an adolescent,at the time of marriage and after the marriage.And if she goes astray in young age she will bring dishonor to the khandan....Thats why we kill her to proclaim that we are real MARRAD.



For me Marrangi in this context will be: Feel proud if a female is born in the family,Do not discriminate between a boy and a girl child,Give her good diet and proper medical care,Groom her well,Educate her well,Let her dream..you feel her dream,Go with her dream,Let her grow as a beautiful human being and a lovely women,Protect her silently[where ever she needs] from the evil eyes,Give her good education,Love her like an angle and ask her at every stage as to what she wants to be happy in life.Let her bloom into a constructive and valuable citizen of this planet,Marry her as per her wish and support it with full might.Spread love in that family and stand like a rock with your daughter till you are there on this planet and die blessing her.



The above is my description of MARDANAGGI........whats yours?




This one sawaal...there are many more like this.
 
and many a times , ladies themselves are responsible for such acts ! :)

Not going far , but my mother tells me that she always ( at that time ) wanted "bete" and how happy was she when god bless her with two baby boys. :)

But now she regrets it somewhat ki meri jagah beti honi chahiye thi :p

Nothing to suggest that i am that bad :mad: !!! lol ! :D:p


m too good u know :o:o:o:p
 
Apney muh miyan mithoo:p arr meri Maa nyu keh sai akk tu Beta honi chahiye thi....nyu kare Anil...tu mere ghar chala jaa mai tere....Donuan ki Maa ki ichhayein poori hojangi;):D unn bi mere bhai ki death ke baad unne jarut sai betey ki:)
and many a times , ladies themselves are responsible for such acts ! :)

Not going far , but my mother tells me that she always ( at that time ) wanted "bete" and how happy was she when god bless her with two baby boys

But now she regrets it somewhat ki meri jagah beti honi chahiye thi :p

Nothing to suggest that i am that bad :mad: !!! lol ! :D:p


m too good u know:p
 
Apney muh miyan mithoo:p arr meri Maa nyu keh sai akk tu Beta honi chahiye thi....nyu kare Anil...tu mere ghar chala jaa mai tere....Donuan ki Maa ki ichhayein poori hojangi;):D unn bi mere bhai ki death ke baad unne jarut sai betey ki:)



Mannei maan le bebey jei Anil naat jya te.
 
So how we gonna implement these thoughts?

These are very good thoughts about girls you have Dev Ji. But the problem is to implement these thoughts...as the parents who do this PAAP, are not part of Jatland... They mostly live in villages, they don't have proper education, they dont have heathy food to eat, they have strong prejudices, etc etc and etc.

So in your view how one could over come these problems?
 
sachchi mardangi

In the last response it is said that the problem is of villages. Partially it can be agreed. The sex ratio amongst literate in Haryana is 617. I think our content of Education has a lot of gender bias.Of course our cultural gender biases are supreeme.With all things Devji has mentioned I suggest that her equal right in the property is a crucial point.

R.S.Dahiya
 
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Apney muh miyan mithoo:p arr meri Maa nyu keh sai akk tu Beta honi chahiye thi....nyu kare Anil...tu mere ghar chala jaa mai tere....Donuan ki Maa ki ichhayein poori hojangi;):D unn bi mere bhai ki death ke baad unne jarut sai betey ki:)

Mannei maan le bebey jei Anil naat jya te.


kar lo badla ! :)but meri maa ke yeh vichaar tab they jab bada bhaai tha ! ab to use main hi dikhta hun :)

in n e case satisfaction and content and happiness is greater than relations :)
 
i strongly disagree tht girl bias or female foeticide is prevalent only in rural areas...a chunk of ppl in cities dnt represent all d fabric of those cities...it happens in cities as well. we r still in nascent state of d change
 
These are very good thoughts about girls you have Dev Ji. But the problem is to implement these thoughts...as the parents who do this PAAP, are not part of Jatland... They mostly live in villages, they don't have proper education, they dont have heathy food to eat, they have strong prejudices, etc etc and etc.

So in your view how one could over come these problems?

Bhai sahab........ profile main london likh ke ghanne hi chaudde ho re deekho aap to:rolleyes:........ gaam main to healthy food na milta..........aapne 5-7 hind kesri pachhad raakhye deekhe burger kha ke.......:p

arrr sunn le bhai sahar ke bheem, gaam main jaake aaapni jott ke kissi kammen ke baalak ke hi gail 2 haath kar ke dekh liye ..jaat ke ne to tu chhod de......... aapne baarra paatt jyaaga eek helathy food aapne chah ek gaam aale ne....RROOOKKKAAAAAAAA@ sahar ka bheem..............
 
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Choorae maine UP kae kuch gawoon ke baat kar raha tha :)

For example, chirmolee, yonnnee, paith kera.. bwor kera, etc etc and etc. Prashant, I am from Bijwasan..... :) Jaaton kaa gaam hee hai choorae..

Bhai sahab........ profile main london likh ke ghanne hi chaudde ho re deekho aap to:rolleyes:........ gaam main to healthy food na milta..........aapne 5-7 hind kesri pachhad raakhye deekhe burger kha ke.......:p

arrr sunn le bhai sahar ke bheem, gaam main jaake aaapni jott ke kissi kammen ke baalak ke hi gail 2 haath kar ke dekh liye ..jaat ke ne to tu chhod de......... aapne baarra paatt jyaaga eek helathy food aapne chah ek gaam aale ne....RROOOKKKAAAAAAAA@ sahar ka bheem..............
 
People with High self Esteem always respect women and are "true Mardane"

I agree with the view that "true Mardaangi" is respecting not only your own women folks but every women and biggest cowards are are those who mistreat their women. A person of low self esteem will mistreat the women and that may be his wife, daughter, a work mate or astranger for the matter of fact.





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