Dear worthy members time and again many social issues which are destroying our society,Its ethos and the very fabric on which life is honorably lived are being discussed here and certainly an awareness is being spread in the environment[and some of us are doing their bit on ground as well to fight this monster but lot is yet to begin in that direction] but then in this fast moving world where people are busy meeting their two ends meet,there is hardly any time left to spare towards indulging in community work/solving these complex problems faced by us all.It is irony of fate that we watch our nears and dears suffer all around us and we find ourselves doing nothing.So sad a story indeed.
Many a times issues relating to women suffering in our society has been discussed here and very valuable inputs have poured in and myself in particular have benefited a great deal.Let me come to the point in focus.MARDANAGGI....this word figures on jatland prominently and invariably.Sometimes i am surprised that We the Jats slaughter our unborn girl child in womb with impunity and still shamelessly boast about ourselves to be MARRAD.We are scared that if a girl child is brought to the family she will be a problem all through,as a child,as an adolescent,at the time of marriage and after the marriage.And if she goes astray in young age she will bring dishonor to the khandan....Thats why we kill her to proclaim that we are real MARRAD.
For me Marrangi in this context will be: Feel proud if a female is born in the family,Do not discriminate between a boy and a girl child,Give her good diet and proper medical care,Groom her well,Educate her well,Let her dream..you feel her dream,Go with her dream,Let her grow as a beautiful human being and a lovely women,Protect her silently[where ever she needs] from the evil eyes,Give her good education,Love her like an angle and ask her at every stage as to what she wants to be happy in life.Let her bloom into a constructive and valuable citizen of this planet,Marry her as per her wish and support it with full might.Spread love in that family and stand like a rock with your daughter till you are there on this planet and die blessing her.
The above is my description of MARDANAGGI........whats yours?
This one sawaal...there are many more like this.
Many a times issues relating to women suffering in our society has been discussed here and very valuable inputs have poured in and myself in particular have benefited a great deal.Let me come to the point in focus.MARDANAGGI....this word figures on jatland prominently and invariably.Sometimes i am surprised that We the Jats slaughter our unborn girl child in womb with impunity and still shamelessly boast about ourselves to be MARRAD.We are scared that if a girl child is brought to the family she will be a problem all through,as a child,as an adolescent,at the time of marriage and after the marriage.And if she goes astray in young age she will bring dishonor to the khandan....Thats why we kill her to proclaim that we are real MARRAD.
For me Marrangi in this context will be: Feel proud if a female is born in the family,Do not discriminate between a boy and a girl child,Give her good diet and proper medical care,Groom her well,Educate her well,Let her dream..you feel her dream,Go with her dream,Let her grow as a beautiful human being and a lovely women,Protect her silently[where ever she needs] from the evil eyes,Give her good education,Love her like an angle and ask her at every stage as to what she wants to be happy in life.Let her bloom into a constructive and valuable citizen of this planet,Marry her as per her wish and support it with full might.Spread love in that family and stand like a rock with your daughter till you are there on this planet and die blessing her.
The above is my description of MARDANAGGI........whats yours?
This one sawaal...there are many more like this.