I really admire that there are still some nuetral people left who would rather concentrate on discussions than "enjoying" their so-called fun !
Let me start my actual post with again an reiteration that i am up to prevent the sactity of discussion and it is very important to keep the spirit good else there is hardly any need to discuss !
As one thing gets clear that there were some personal reasons behind some of the mud-slinging , i dont wish to delve into that matter , none of my busniness and concerns.
I just wish to ask Seema Ji , and people who wish to consider the existance of discussion , a few questions :
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Randomly written as they come to my mind , not associated with any priorities ) !
1. When i asked something in a very constructive approach , Seema ji chose not to comment on that but on my "hardtyped" signatures and my " kidult " psychology. Was it really required ?
2. Being deliberately rude to someone for personal reasons on an social platform is not the way to go ! Or is it ?
( what about the other audience who comes for the sake of some healthy discussion ? )
3. As Amit Sir poiinted out , discussion should be to listen and try and understand , investigate the difference , constuctively try to bridge the differences , or to have constructive differences of opinion.
But in this thread , i no where find any of that element.
If i look closely at the very first post , and i would request all to do the same ,
it is like :
fact ( quote of some text) ....opinion ..... point ......opinion .... reason......
( and punctuated by bullshit ( the referred article ) , is stupid ( the different view ), bloody ( NGOs ) )
And the situation got worse when :
*** to hell with society...first leran to think of individual freedom and well being...then society...
*** why don't people understand that nothing like society exists...if you believe, it's there, else it's not...
*** one grave problem with bloody ignorant indians is that they don't wish to exist as individuals...leran to worship your individuality and your prerogatives...and we will be a properous country
Again a bang bang bang opinion and the conclusion !
It is not hard to conclude that neither the author has thought enough on the topic , nor is she willing to listen any other thing than what she believes. Moreover , she is not at all in a situation where she has enough time to gather what she has in her mind.
( I know people have different styles of writing and organising skills but the above conclusions are obvious on a little examination ).
Here i am left with only one question : If you dont want a discussion , if you dont wish to listen to others , if you dont have time enough for the issue ! Why bother about it ?
Just dont write !!!
Its like robbing people of their time and energy !
As suggested by the author , be an individualist , hell the society , stop discussing when you really dont want to !
I apologise to Seema ji and all for being sarcastic in my very post, but the intentions were noble , i was upset about the fact that sensitive issues are put to the floor with no sense of responsibility and no regard for the discussion , thus degrading the very sanctity of such an platform.
Regards,
Anil